Nearly every girl i dated made the first move and thank goodness they did cos i'd have missed out on some great people otherwise cos i hear i'm really quite thick at picking up signals about when a girl fancies you.

I would never think her cheap or anything of the sort. Fact is i'd thank her for having the balls that i should have had. If you would play with her and not take her serious, you'd do it whether she made the first move or not.

I am a guy. I likes what i likes

@ Moyola. shez not a guy o, he's a guy o. I swing only one way o before you start casting aspersions on my carefully cultivated masculinity and drawing unwanted attention to me abeg.

I'm not entirely sure where i stand on this hair thing. I do know i can't stand armpit hair, plz no. No bia bia or moustache either (i guess a slight fuzz never hurt any one). I do like a bush though, take that over a bald patch anyday. I even like a bit of nice fuzzy hair on the tummy.

Knew a girl with a few strands on her nipples, wasn't a complete turn off i must admit. And another with really hairy arms and legs, i think i was turned on by it. Ok, i think i know where i stand now. I do like body hair in the right places.

I need to qualify this slightly though. If the hair is the hard like kernel type then, no thanks. Nice fuzz is the idea.

Boy ure in TROUBLE! Your wife's not saying anything? You better be on your way to those vigils man cos she's either planning something to get back at you or someday when the storm breaks, i no envy you o.

BEG, CRY, THREATEN TO KILL YOURSELF, ACTUALLY HAVE A BAD ACCIDENT, do whatever it takes to get her to talk about it and see if she can forgive you. If she can't, nobody can help you o. If she can just love her like crazy.

@Sistawoman. On point. Why did you tell him? I'm a bloke and i have cheated and been cheated on. The stupidest thing i ever did was confess, the worst thing a woman's ever done was confess. She was feeling so righteous about coming clean, i hated her for what she'd done and more for telling me about it.
You can't tell that he will stop cheating but you can't tell that he won't stop either. My bet is he'll be cheating for a long while to come. If you've got a lot of forgiveness, stay, if not, pick your life up and walk.

For real though, this thread's probably the most boring here so here's goodbye. Let it be said that there're no plus sized women in London who would want to hook up on Nairaland. I'm going to go find a thread where women are saying, "i hate it when a guy approaches me on the street, hate it when they ask their mates for my phone number, hate it when they bother me at the club, certainly hate it when they try to date me through a website or something, " Where in heck should i try to date you then?

Bored with it jare, bye.

Erm by the way, my email's rletooane@yahoo.co.uk in case someone wants to get at me (What? I had to try one last time )

Guys, i did say i wasn't looking for either a sugar mommy or money so leave it.

Come on ladies, get at me, i'm not looking for a sugar mommy or someone's money,

For real? Just wait till the vultures start descending.

Very new on here and just testing the waters. I've read a lot of the threads and i'm nearly petrified at the kinds of comments i'll be getting. Don't hate. If its not your thing, just walk on pls.

I'm really into plus sized women. Any Naija women looking for something discrete with a shy male. Its what it is ok, no drama, no long thing,