hey fellas i wanna knw wats up should a gal make the first move o is it wrong but to me i feel the gal will look cheap nd loosed so let me know wats up fellas

Nigerian girls better wake up and start approaching guys. You outnumber guys by a factor of 4:1
No big deal there. If you like a guy, approach him. Approaching him doesn't mean you have to sleep with him. If he likes you, you will know. A lot of "girls" claim guys will just look at them as being cheap or they will sleep with them and dump them, My answer is that you are responsible for whoever you let cheat/sleep with you!!!
You females better start waking up. You crave for equality and never practice it.
Start toasting guys immediately!!!!!!!
The number of unmarried women above 30 in nigeria has quadrupuled in recent years, wake up, there's nothing wrong with a woman making the first move

I see no problem with it, i do so sometimes

A-town:

Nigerian girls better wake up and start approaching guys. You outnumber guys by a factor of 4:1
No big deal there. If you like a guy, approach him. Approaching him doesn't mean you have to sleep with him. If he likes you, you will know. A lot of "girls" claim guys will just look at them as being cheap or they will sleep with them and dump them, My answer is that you are responsible for whoever you let cheat/sleep with you!!!
You females better start waking up. You crave for equality and never practice it.
Start toasting guys immediately!!!!!!!
The number of unmarried women above 30 in nigeria has quadrupuled in recent years, wake up, there's nothing wrong with a woman making the first move

What is this one rambling about 

Maybe girls wouldnt 'think' you guys will think they are cheap when they come after you if you don't actually act like it 

As much as I'm not against the idea of ladies asking guys out, I don't think it's any any practice of equality. And what the heck has the statistics of unmarried women got to do with this  Like a woman asking a guy out is going to change the figure!!

If you guys werent so wrapped up in your ego, this wouldnt be an issues at all 

@ Post . . . there's nothing wrong with a girl making the first move, but unfortunately, the ego of Nigerina men just can't handle it  Somehow they have this twisted impression that a girl coming after them is juts deperate to date them . . .  and they tend to get bloated over that idea!

jassie:

maybe thats how u feel @ujujoan

Most babes I've dated made the first move and I don't think ill of them. . . I think it's inferiority complex ladies got. . .

Love and be Loved, simple!

Jassie s'up? Longest time

@topic
I refuse

Depends on the lady I guess, but me personally, lai lai

If she likes him, nothing wrong in making the first move. But I think most naija men might abuse it.

kemisuga:

If she likes him, nothing wrong in making the first move. But I think most naija men might abuse it.

[size=2pt]I agree [/size]

there is nothing wrong in a girl making the first moves, i have actually done so.

dellynash:

there is nothing wrong in a girl making the first moves, i have actually done so.

what was the guys reaction? @ujujoan, you are right, some naija guys can't really handle a
girl making the first move.

i see no wrong thing in that. but depends on how you call yourself before the guy hmn!!!!!

Ain;t nothing wrong with it. . . You like him . . .you tell him

***_{everyone here beleives nothing's wrong}***_{I'm fed up}*****


I wonder where Sauron is

personally i see nowt wrong with a lady taking the first move, but lets be more realistic. in the society we live in, ppl wudnt take her seriously when she makes the first move. she might become a topic for silly gossip, but the fact remains that she spoke how she felt about the guy,and thats wat counts to me.

but fellas wat will u think of a gal dat come 2 meet u nd tel u she is in luv with u, wount you tink she is cheap or lossed?

i have told a guy that and i still eat his money over 200k

Its no big deal for a girl to make the first move since two can play the game. Girls are more into the game now than guys just that they just want the guys to stress themselves first.

i have 7chics as my hot friends, and about 5 made the first move, guess what , i have come to even love them the more, it shows self confidence in their personality, the once that dont make any move may just be there dying in emotional pride

"GOOD GIRLS DONT GET GOOD BOYS, SMART GIRLS DO" read the e- book

If you need something then go get it, you might never have the second chance to make the first move, like they say opportunity comes but once. We are in a civilize era, dont die in silence.

Nearly every girl i dated made the first move and thank goodness they did cos i'd have missed out on some great people otherwise cos i hear i'm really quite thick at picking up signals about when a girl fancies you.

I would never think her cheap or anything of the sort. Fact is i'd thank her for having the balls that i should have had. If you would play with her and not take her serious, you'd do it whether she made the first move or not.

I don't advise ladies to verbally do it. some nigerian men including me might not deal with it well o. even if i would not hurt d girl. i would still have this feeling of "hey she is d one chasing'

@poster

You are right, girls should make the first move, it makes our job easier

Girl who does that is a LovePeddler for life. They need to beat her please!!!

Thank God i did, for today i am blissfully married.

Seriously though, be careful when you do, it really depends on the vibes you are getting from the man( I mean a responsible Man). also right timing and location really matters. At the end of it all, u will realize it is all about taking risks, it may or may not pay off but at least u tried. if doesn't work out , chuck it up to experiencing life and move on.

and if it does work out, u will be happily married to him with kids like moi, lol

To b sincere,iv NEVER dated any girl by approachng her!!! All d chicks iv dated since i was 13yrs broke d ice nd i neva treatd them insolently.infct d relationshp lastd 4 2 to 3 yrs b4 thy muvd on.so thr's nothng rung wit dat at all.!

I dont think i can do it but i dont see anything wrong in doing it

Sincerely its no big deal. we all equally so either of the Sex could make the first move but we men's got attitude for taken such ladies for granted but if the ladies could step up their games verywell by not cheaping themselves , I really dont see a big deal to it anyway

@bacterium

eve toasted adam first with an apple, can you beat dat

why did this die so quick? naija women wont do it or what?