@ lilrukevwe, And the church said Amen. That is right move on. Life is so much better when you move on. Everything is better just trust God.

Amen, I touch and agree with your postive outreach prayer may god bless everyone and i also hope that new people will be one to christ like never before in "07" choice blessing to each person's life!!

Hello, How are you doing? I'm sorry to hear of your stressful situation we all make mistakes in life. The devil will always dress things up to look good and feel good. But when you marry someone. The bible verse states let no man come asunder. Sorry if i did quote perfectly but that means no one come in between if so it is the devil a plot. I pray that you repent and ask for forgivness and mean it god loves you and will forgove you! God bless

Sure, I would like to do nothing better than get along. I have not been rude to anyone or impolite. I still stick to what my definition of love is cause that is my right. I say this with humbleness. @ Radiant, I have not been slapped in the face. Unfortunately God and his son has been. Cause we can't even give it up to them just a little bit. But the lord says in his word every knee shall bow and confess he is lord jesus christ. He is love. Sorry i have nothing more to say on this topic. I'm starting to feel as though after a while i'll be wearing a crown of thorns. But i decided that i would when i took up my cross and love for him. I hope the scales will fall off all eyes in jesus name i pray. Amen!

God did say that we would be persacuted for his name sake. I did not put your family in anything. It seems as though you want to pick at me. As if i am speaking about something cruel. I have read some post on this site that have been mean and very painful. I get beat down for speaking on this. Lord have mercy. For some people do not know.

Dear, Radiant be very very careful with the things you says. Think before speaking. I am not being rude just helping you really. I do not joke about God at all, and i dont like to come across as knowing everything cause i dont. This message board asked what was each person opinon or definition of love this is mine. I have the right to express what i feel the realiest of love is. Just because it is not tangible does not make it not love. God is never blown out of proportion. His arms were stretched wide and he was hung high for you and me. Now that is some proportion for you. God bless you and your family. PS. i dont like to debate about this. We each have our opinions but god he is undebatable.

I will apologize for if i came across were you guys could not understand. But i will not apologize for gods unwavering love for each and everyone on this earth. I did define L.O.V.E. Maybe it is hard for some individuals to accept. I don't know why. God put his sacrafice his son for us. That defines love beyond explanation. To the peson who said it was blown out of portion. Well god bless you, Keep living this life and you will realize just how much his love is everything, he is love he is life. This is a message board, sorry i could not give you what you wanted to hear. But i gave you the truth!

My boyfriend is right at 30 yrs old. He dresses nicely so i would hate to get him more clothes/ I may just get something of centimental value. But never the less thanks for your ideas.

Greeting, Everyone
Good morning,mid-day, and evening to all. I know we each live in different continents and parts of this world. The lord has brought to my attention that each one of us not neccessarily but we tend to forget the Greatest love story of all. That is his unwavering love for each of us. When everyone walks out on you even if they don't mean it he's there. When the Doctor comes in the room and diagnosis is Cancer, Heart failure that little voice that whispers and says cling to me. I am here, I love you. You ask yourself is this voice possible real. He says yes i am very real. When your husband or wife says goodbye for no reason or all the reasons you feel like your life has ended. He says i am the beginning and the end. Come to me my child, you shall thirst or hunger no more. You are a movie star, everyone tells you're beautiful, surrounded and rub shoulders with the best people in the business your succes is unbelievable you seem to have it all. No one know you are so so lonely and hurting deeply inside. Turn to God and say father i need you your love. You have been dumped by so many people in your life every relationship always fail. You always find yourself saying God why me? You call your mom she won't pick up she's at the store. Your sister is with friends or her kids, Your father is at work he'll call you right back. WHAT GOD is saying to us is he is always here and YES we do know this. But this is our problem we know this. So we take it for granted. He is such a treasure, more beautiful than the prettiest peace of jewlery in the world. More gorgeous than the biggest fully furnished 18 karat gold house. He is so precious words can described him. His definition goes out into infinity his love is endless and so is his love for us. I am speaking to myself very much so as well. We have to learn how to love him endless out into infinity the way he loves us. No his love is unmatchable but we take him for granted i know i have many time. Today i am saying lord forgive me. For walking pass your open arms many days. When i think of how many people walked out,betrayed,decieved and plotted but god was there every every every single time to say babygirl. I'll help you pick up the pieces or how about this he said i'll put it together for you. You just sit there and meditate on my love for you and draw nearer to me. Thirst for me more. His frewill for us is so beautiful so calming. Just as calming as Jesus voice is, just as strong and powerful is my father's presence. On this day let's begin to tell someone of how we received our Victory. Yes the victory is great. But the spirit. The Holy Spirit that held you through the storm. Well that is priceless. Godbless, Narriated by God's Daughter. The Greatest love story never told! God is the most romantic story i have ever had. I am not just saying that I used to say it, i use to treat him so bad. But when i realised how much he loved me in all my nastiness well I just shout in him is every everything i and the world you will ever need!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry, Guys i forgot that on this thread we have to send out perfect messages just kidding but really. For women what would you get your guy for christmas and for men who want to contribute ideas what would you like for christmas? Thank you. I hope this more specific.

Hello, just searching for opinions. What do you guys think is a great gift for her boyfriend. He is a very sweet person and he always gives me things, but more importantly his time and love is genuine. Just wondering what are some of the people getting their boyfriends for christmas?

Hello, i'm sorry to hear what happen to you. You have to get a way from the thought of thinking about how pretty your are. Dont get me wrong being beautiful is nice and good. But you want someone to love you wholeheatily really love you not for materials or beauty because these things fade away. I hope that he was not using you. If so you have learned a valuable lesson we all have been hurt one way or the other but you still have God and you have yourself. Pick your head up stand tall and ask your self. What do i want out of this life? What are my goals? Where do i want to go? Soar pass this god will send the right person. That is the least of your worries. Godbless!

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Hi, wills i don't like to judge but i have to say you are playing with fire and you shall be burned. I like to start with the foundation/my father always to me if a foundation is build unsturdy it is sure to fall. Will the way you started out was with Big sister/Then you started to like lil sister, i feel i'm just speculating you may say i'm wrong but i believe i'm RIGHT you can not have your cake and eat it to. I hope neither of the sisters let you talk to them because it is not right. I can answer you question Big sis is mad because you initially started with her That's why/ Hope i did not hurt your feeling. But afterall the TRUTH HURTS!

HELLO, ALL
One example of love that i do know is Jesus dying on the cross for all of us sacraficing for us, My mothers undying unconditional love, and my love for my sister and brother and father.

I hope to one day know love from my Husband and children if godswilling!

Dear, rosy in life none of us are perfect, But when you realise you are wrong STOP! Don't keep doing wrong, We all sin even at our best times we'll never be better than our master. What you did was wrong and painful. But god is a mericful and forgiving god i am not here to judge you. I know that you are probably a young lady but i want you to know i do not feel it is right to tell other users on this site who she is that is messy, its saying that you are broadcasting it. I thought you were sorry? I would like if you get a chance to read Psalms 37 all of it. Let me tell you for you get mad sweety i'm not perfect i've sin and still do. But if i can help the world be a better place i will> God bless you and keep you.

@Somegirl, I know this is hard and painful and i hate to see anyone go through this. Heartache is always hard. I think if there is anything left of you guys relationship you may have to back up a little give him room, to run or stay. I had to learn my self i am 30 yrs old still trying to learn how to let someone go. The truth is you can not keep the person, if they dont want to stay. Think YOU now only YOU. Always remeber that you are the prize. You are special you know how i know, because you took time to ask forum about what they think! I hope that it works but if it does not you always have GOD and your self hang in there god bless you!

Hello, everyone if i had a choice of two places i would like to be visible for sure. The first pick i would like to be is in heaven with GOD eating my favorite foods and walking those streets of gold. My second place would be to be with my unborn children and to be future husband and all my family. That would be my fantasy!

It's cool Lexi You's my people!

@ Whitelexi, I thought you always maintained honesty!

@Whitelexi, I am so sorry if i offended you. I was merely kidding,it nice to hear that you are a person that wants to maintain honesty. There is not many individuals as yourself. I was simply stating what i felt mattered in life, being that this is a message board i feel that should be okay to do. I would hope individuals would think or at least consider some of things that i wrote. By the way no i am not a nigerian woman i'm african american/ But i feel there is no difference we are all human beings and god did create us. T'care.

@Whitelexi, Sure you say it is not about you, when i think that it is. Why do you need others opions on if you should or should not date someone? Why is a girl status as for as her having all these degrees and making xx amount of money important. We never ask the questions that mean something. Does she have a heart? Money and social status are just what makes the world like you. But grace and humbleness go along way.

@ WHITELEXI! No whitelexi, I have never went through anything at all like this. I am also not taking it personal at all. What i am stating is what is in the BIBLE. God says you marry to death do part. He did not say cheat because you get bored or your wife did not fix your favorite meal. So i would appreciate you not turning my words around. I would also like to say this discussion was not about when who cheat it is about men, You said so yourself that men leave because of various women or cheat. But if women cheat what i stated regarding the bible also applies. Have a wonderful day Love!

@Whitelexi, I disagree very much so with a man that would say it is because of a woman that he cheats. I feel that it is horrible that a woman would lay up and have 4 and 5 children from some sorry  man and then they say they gon cheat because she was not good enough. What the real deal is that the woman was to good for him from the jump and he could not see it. The truth of it is, is this you can cheat get all the sex you want, they have many women that can do it in different positions, different ways the works. But when you decide to leave your home, with your[color=#990000][/color] family you will get your payback it aint even about karma it is about GOD!

I just want to say that i was so moved and compelled by this beautiful passage. This passage has so many things that i wish i would have done and looked out for in life. This passage really helps us as human being put things into perspective. It's funny how the things that we think are the really big things that matter, They really don't. I wish that everyone in the world could read this and that it could stick. Godbless you curiousnja!

Sorry i mispelled profit-meaning what will you gain.

Hi, i love your topic and i was blown away to see a man bring this up. It is a great question that i've ask myself for years? A pastor just helped me with revelation of it last week. Everyone is tempted to do various things. Men do stray more often. They can be married to a beautiful woman but yet can't resist another. What keeps you rooted and grounded is being feeled with the "holy spirit'. I know you guys say well preachers cheat it is in the genes true all these things. But god gives us the weapons to fight temptation. A man has to choose to activate his holy spirt. "What does it prophet a man to gain the world but lose his soul"?

I know it's weird what he said, but i guess my questions is what do you guys think he meant by he'll see me at the altar?

YES sweetie, true love does exsist. It is the very fiber and reason of our exsistence GOD.He is love. I feel like you i still believe in love even though i been beat down, talked about, called out my name, felt unloved and uncared for. All these things are how we made jesus felt we he came and then we hung him. But guess what he still LOVES us. When i'm down and out and my world is just gone.I rememeber his unsubsiding love for me. He says "I will never leave nor for sake you". I'm sorry right now i know i did not answer your question directly but for as a man or woman loving us yes they can. But real love is someone sold out for god because then they can sale out for you! God loves you always!

HEY, ER body whats'up Got another infamous question?
Suppose you all were dating a guy and you guys broke up and you guys had not talked for month and sundays. and you called him and told him you were taking a series of test to see if you had a disease. At the end of the conversation. I t was kind of weird he paused. So i said okay bye/and he said later. Then something struck in me i became so upset beacause i thought of all the evil he has done to me and i told him you know you will see me again and god don't like ugly. He said yea, i know i will se you agian at the altar. I just hung up. But what do you guys take from this. I know yall will eat this up. But try not spit me out for the sharks

Hi, you guys i was so elated to sign on and see how much luv i received. This is for you busta(yes i did call the nu. back that he called me from that is how i knew it was him. I also so put two and two together it was across from his job and the girl that answered the phones knows him.
This is for you lauryn i do except your apology no probs., But let me tell you something no i am not a perfect speller my grammar can also be horrible. I also know that some of you all on here are laughing and that cool. I would like all of you to remember something one day each of us have to go through heartaches and pain. It is not a lot of fun to be kicked down at this time. It kind of reminds me of how people beat jesus as he walked to the cross. I am in no form him but i see us blacks still pull each other down. Why not help me with my grammar. Anyway thanx for the comments God bless all of you!