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donsimo:
Bobo, see girl matter na wahala, she go dey lie on every small matter, she go dey fams your friends, anything can happen, she fit to seize your stuff, next thing when you ask she go talk say she loss am.

She go dey test you, 1k today, 3 k tomorrow. E.tc.
And if she borrow money from you.forget it.

Sex sef na wahala, she go dey do like say she did you a favour, if she see other girls for your side, serious wahala.

well, bro I have never had problem with girls and attitude sha because am a jovial and mean guy combined. And I hardly notice anything to get me jealous
My only heart attack is the stress.

Last year I was at a strip club in lere and I had a girl dig me for 15k. Quite much but I didn't blink before deciding to do it.

The difference is I didn't stress it but a gf will just stress someone mercilessly and I begin to even get angry hahahaha. It's draining me and I am stressed

donsimo:
Girls drama and stress is too much, I remember when I started dating the girl, my account was still floated,
I spend like 1k card on calls a month, sometimes 500 sef, but wen the girl enter, my expenses just became something else.
My money finish sef.

No time for game, no time for reading.
To be sincere ,when sex doll become more alive I will quit relationship completely

Sex doll ke. Oga relax oh no go yern watin you no mean oh.

Jennifer15:
... Don't live in pains, make it clear to her that you are still trying to fix ur life. U better do that before she renders u useless. Date a girl that has something doing abi u wan chop her beauty or na u be papa ni? No insult abeg.

Lol see attack Hahahahahaha.
she's not my gf yet but crush although she's not different from my other ex gfs which is why am complaining even before entering the relationship proper.
Your advise is well noted and am amazed this is coming from a NL girl.

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donsimo:
Look if a girl like you, she won't ask you for a dime, in fact she will cook for you, give you money.

My girlfriend hands over her entire salary to me.
She sends me card sef.

you are a lucky person.
I need to learn how to get attracted to girls that work and earn for themselves. Am not bad mouthing but am tired of spending on a girl while trying to invest and focus on my future.
Besides, family and friends are there too. It's tiring

donsimo:
Well if you prefer the alternative of spending the money you should use to develop yourself by spending on a girl.
Pls do.

sarcasm.
Nice one thank you man. I just needed to know if what I feel is normal.
First things first. Always

KevinDein:
I've always known that relationship is too much hard work. Not worth it.

Relationship is financially, mentally, emotionally and physically draining.

if we consider it hard work now how do we consider it if we get married in the future?

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adetoroamos:
forget the babe don't love you, if a girl fall for you. u urself won't even be asking her to come over.

I wouldn't be so sure bro. But thanks nice point.

Womanpleaser:
Aside the hair, she zz pretty.

Xo I can date her.

good luck with that bruh

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Jupxter:
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I hate it more than you, and i run from relationships cos of it, if you snap, the relationship go blow oh, carry the cross, the earlier you learn to cope the better for you.

thanks for your words of encouragement I appreciate.

Jupxter:
If you love the chick,you'll do it naah, carry your cross bro

I don't think you understand. Not everyone likes stress.

johnbuck81:
To all day bachelor's out there please don't date Broke Girls if u r still trying to fix up ur life... dating or having demanding girl friends will only pull u back.

please don't do it.

bro, as in I will be back from work and stressed and just want to video call my crush and booom my mb is low is the next thing I'll see from her.
And I'll now be having another head ache just to get mb for someone.
Emotionally it's too demanding. You get to spend every time you meet. How do people cope is beyond imagining.

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donsimo:
You don't, make it clear that your a broke but rich boy, only spend on your self and diss the girl, she will always think you have more money and she needs to dig deeper to get it.

But if you spend on a girl note I said spend not invest as you cannot invest in a woman, she will just use you and go,
Your not the first she has used and your not the last.

Bro invest in yourself. Ladies are complications, especially when your just starting up your life.

Lol dude are you saying I should lie to her always. Like give her excuses every time?
That sounds like yahoo yahoo

To date girls these days is like hard labour especially when you are trying to put your life together as a bachelor.

The major problem I have with a crush now is that she is broke, the second time we met she told me she had no transport on her. Am now wondering for how long will I be doing this kind of thing. As in am trying to put myself together and sometimes giving out as little as 5k to a girl would seem like heaven wants to fall.

The relationship just got started and am feeling discouraged already even though she's very pretty and I like her much I don't want t start what I can't finish.

Guys please how do you cope with demanding and broke girls?

All these for what? So someone can ride the latest cars? Build houses, marry a pretty girl and have kids? What else. Nawaoo

Chikita66:
Years kwa, say the babe Na god, sha you don't want to move on.

You prefer being stuck on someone that is loving another man now.

my dear it's not as simple as ABC honestly. She's not God but am just not comfortable at loving anymore because I have heard all that can be said.

Thanks though

Chikita66:
Just give it few weeks you will get over her, nobody can't be gotten over just so you know.

it's been years. Guess I have been looking and acting the wrong way. Thank you for the advice.

Daniel2289:
I hope u are not trying to advertise yourself here

Be that as it may.....I vividly believe that You’ll get over it. Time heals everything. You may feel like the world’s collapsing on you right now. But trust me, it will all pass..

trying to advertise myself? Where did you get that from? Anyways, thanks I only hope so. Am only scared because I have tried a lot but am too damaged.
Thanks

Why are people more concerned about typo error rather than contributing meaningfully? Though I have a means to modify I would rather not.

Mistakes are normal. Wrong section?

comradespade:
Stop steering at her profile pic on facebook

what are you saying ?

Oxster:
Ah mean this

Oh kid

chizaramprudy:
Don't force yourself to love, focus on your job first. Believe me, someday you will meet who will complement you perfectly.

thanks.

Though it's not easy honestly. I can only post this online but real life I act like all is OK. So the need to get gf even if I don't love them

Chikita66:
Stop entering rebound relationship and give yourself time.


Just 4weeks is what I give you and you will get over heartbreak if you are serious about it, always bear it in mind that nobody is indispensable, you fall in love and you fall out of love.

thanks for the advise. Am just bitter

DrinkLimca:
You are like a child crying over spilled milk...

You are only doing more harm to yourself, by not letting go..

for you to move forward in life, you have to let go of the past, for the sake of your own happiness and sanity..

Often times we look too long at the close door, that we don't see the one that have been open for us..

You have to clear your mind, stay clear of relationship for now and focus on your self and job..

Time will heal you..

are you saying i shouldn't have any relationship? That will be hard na given the fact that am an adult.
I have emotional needs. Thanksq

Wiziman:
You think Correct grammer pays? Then you're still growing.

I didn't vet what I wrote without posting sef. Besides am a bit tipsy on alcohol as I type.

Don't mind that guy.

Oxster:
By pulling out the BRAKE PEDAL

what/do you mean pls?

marunga:
time will heal you my brother.

it's taking time. Need to get serious. Am not that a kid you know

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Ferdinandu:
Who gave you 180k Job with this your BRAKING heart

na only that one you see? Smh

Many years ago I loved a girl so much but she broke my heart because she finished school before me and she moved on fast. Till this day I still get angry thinking about that because that's the only genuine love I ever had for a girl. Though she wants us back but I can't do it.

Today God blessed me with a job. I earn over 180k as a 25yrs old with a big company but I can't seem to love again. Any girl I date I get tired and am always bitter about love issue. I dump ed my last 2 girl friends for a flimsy excuse.

I can't continue like this. She's gone and I need to move on but I can't but I am so bothered.

What do I do? Anyone ever been in suct situation?