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Crystalqueen:
Applaud For what?? What he did wad irrational and uncivilized

. I cant blame you, cause you are birds of a feather . The guy has done wish is best for his future seek. Do you know how much the guy will have spend on her, way back? He actually waited fot the day to tell her how stupid she was.

I just called the number now, and
The Idiot Man still claiming to be a bank worker,imagine. 09036210054

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Omoge87:
I don’t understand this? Please clarify. A woman has a son who she gave birth to. Met a guy and the guy expects her to abandon her son once she is married to him.

I am sorry but her son comes first before a stranger. Any man that cannot love and accept her son as his own should please park and leave the women and her son alone. Her son is used to having his mum alone to himself - now he has to get used to this new man who is a stranger. He has to adjust- he is only six years old and it will take him a while. For a long time it has been only this six year old and his mum.

The guy is being so ridiculous and unrealistic. Do people actually dump their children away because they are getting married to someone that is not the child’s father? What a foolish request for him to make. It shouldn’t even cause fight. The lady should have walked away as soon as he made the foolish request. When he met her he knew she had a child so ....

I understand your point, you actually talk like a lady,cos men wont have talk the way you do. And again, most men avoid single parent cos of this kind of dispute. Sincerly speaking , i will have walked away if its should be me cause relationship should strictly be between two individual and without third party. I already advise him to walk away and search for simeone without a baggage .

shege45:
nonsense jealousy
Dats her son for Christ sake
If you dnt like it u can walk away
Rubbish thread.
So who the person dey follow do competition

Must you respond, fool?

anthonyuncle:
l don't see da boy as a threat to their relationship.
he is still a kid, with time he will be weaned.
if he marries da girl, when she gives birth for him, her attention will automatically shift.
he should accept da boy as his own and show him love, datz something da boy will never forget

You are just too much , mr. Noted.

Biglittlelois:
I don't understand, does your friend expect her to neglect and abandon her son cos of him? Didn't he know she has a son before he started the relationship If a mother can shun and not love her child that she gave birth to, then that means she will be a terrible wife and mother to his kids if he eventually marry her, tell your friend that a.k.a. you.

You be mumu,for saying a.k.a. you. Senseless fellow.

friend of mine is in a relationship with a lady 23years old, who has a child, a boy of 6 years old. The lady claim to love the guy but almost every secons of their time the lady always attend to her son and this is getting my friend sad and he is planning on walking away from the relationship. The lady was even saying that, she will take her son with her after marriage, and the guy declined, since then they have been having serious issues ,infact the lady sisters are all saying that the boy will definately follow her mon when my friend went to report to them,this lady used her son pictures on face book, whatsup, even as her phone screen saver ,respectively and my guy is alway not happy with that. Hardly is anytime she is going out to the guy place, the boy will be sad and beg her mom by saying mom dont go,etc

Guy, your post was exactly what happened with me back then.... As a matter of fact, i doubt if he's is up to mine back then. But the truth is that there is no how you will tell him that he will understsnd,infact he after telling him, he wont be coming to your place again cos he was only coming because of the privacy he was getting from you and once thats not there again, he will see no point coming. But bro, you have to be a man and sit him down ,tell him what you want, period. Exactly what i did back then.

ChangeIsCostant:
The Nigerian army has been accused of invading the residence of the Secretary to Akuku-Toru local government council in Rivers state, Hon. Tobins Honourable of Obonoma Community and allegedly took him away.

It was gathered that in the wee hours of Saturday, soldiers under Major General Jamil Sharham, GOC 6th Division of the Nigerian army, allegedly shot at and abducted the PDP Chieftain and Secretary, Akuku-Toru Local Government Area.

As at the time of this post, the whereabouts of Hon. Tobins , who was whisked away early this morning - is still unknown.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/02/hon-tobins-honourable-allegedly-shot-and-abducted-by-soldiers-in-rivers.html

Am not a politician, but a Nigerian. Therefore I will be frank with this uncompleted information you gave above. And my question is that, was he the only PDP officials in Rivers State? And can you equally arrest and shot an innocent person for no reasons? I expect you to have gotten your ans in my comment. Nigerians are not stupid or dump, we are aware of possible cause that can lead to the above. Thanks anyway.

zoba88:
A young man identified as Thywill was allegedly shot dead today by army in Rivers State. Below is what Chijioke wrote....


'Army kills One In Rivers State!

This is the picture of the young man that was shot this morning by the military.
PDP agent Thywill Datotubo of Ward 10 Akulga gunned down by Nigerian Army working with APC stalwarts Christian Pedro, Chief. Fenibo M. M. Jack, Onimim Kalabari (aka Ido) and their thugs

This occurred this morning even while the elections are yet to start'.

cc; Lalasticlala,mynd44

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/02/soldiers-shoot-pdp-agent-dead-in-rivers.html

can you please stop spreeding fake news. He was a ballots snatcher. God bless Nigeria army.

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I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.

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Bironke:
Long post but please i really need the advice. Please.

Background.
I started dating my now ex-boyfriend when i was 17. We met when i was in 100lvl but started dating in 200lvl.
He's 6years older than me.
It has always been long distance. 9-10hours apart but that wasn't a problem for either of us.
He was my first boyfriend and i thought, hoped and prayed would be the last. I've always wanted just a guy in my life. He did his masters in kaduna while i served in minna. He chose it so we could be closer together. All through my service year, i was the one doing the visiting because he later started working in abj around that time which kept him busy and tired.
So, i thought it was only proper for me to be visiting.
We ended up having sex on one of the visits and that was 3 years down the relationship.

He's a very good guy, doesn't pressurize me, loves me, not promiscious, but he has a bad habit of not picking up hints and he doesn't know how to talk also.

Whenever i travelled, i went with foodstuffs, utensils and appliances he might need. So, it left me broke as a corper at times. At times, i randomly say I'm broke to him and he buys data when offline. My problem with that is i wish he payed more attention.
All through almost 4 years now, i never asked for a dime and he never gave me.

I once had a boi seminar in abj and of course i used the opportunity to see the love of my life. Nysc orientation camp was given as accommodation. So, there was this day i saw some clothes i liked and wished to buy. So, while chatting, i told him i saw some nice clothes i liked. I expected him to say something like let me add something for you but he merely said ehn ehn. Ended up buying all myself which he later saw too. This is just one instance. I honestly cant remember others. I don't keep tabs on things like this.

Before you castigate me, what I'm saying is i just want to feel special. All through the time i went to abj, he never for once took me out. We were always inside on weekends and i was always alone weekdays since i belonged to ministry of no work lol (served at local govt secretariat). I didn't hate it as i don't really like being around people.

I'm from a richer family than him which makes me have more money than him. I sort him out with little whenever he didn't have enough on him. I'm not comparing us now but even if i have, i just want him to be my man and make me feel loved by doing even little for me.

I'm very easy to please, very simple and i definitely love hard. Just writing me a note, buying me a book, basically little gestures can make me smile. I'm light hearted.

Trust was never an issue between us.

There were however days i wanted to break up with him because of his bad manners. (doesn't know how to talk and since I'm a words person, it gets to me a lot) He knows that but isn't willing to compromise on that little for me. This is our biggest problem. I'm quick to say sorry, thank you, i forgive you but him, he wouldn't talk to me for days till after so much teasing and cajoling from me..

Honestly, aside this, we are perfect for each other based on our mutual likes for stuffs but love is never enough.

THE FIGHT.
I told him i was broke. He wanted to purchase a shirt on aliexpress. i always do that for him and he sent 6k extra.
I knew the extra was for me but i just wanted him to say it. He got pissed. Didn't say but i knew and told me to ask anyone about the money situation. That is why he sent extra. That was the first time ever he decided to send me money so, i was surprised because there were several times he could have but didn't.
I told him the next day asking anyone wasn't necessary but i had something to say. I kind of let it all out. Not angrily, just said my mind. He was angry of course but i didn't think he would take it so serious. He compared me to his exs, said i have pride and don't appreciate stuffs. I was pissed he would say that to me cos it's not true.
What followed was "kindly send my money back"
Didn't expect it and it came as a shock. I really felt disgusted by that statement so i sent it to him.
Then he said kindly get yourself another boyfriend.
Ah ah, biggest shocked of my life and blocked me on whatsapp.

Reached him via text but he didn't reply. So, i gave him a break.
Later sent him a mail which he replied. We talked and seemed like we were having it back together and i merely asked him to apologize for he said to me and he said he wouldn't. All i wanted was i'm sorry for my harsh words.
I decided not to beg him this time. Each time we have issues which mostly he's wrong, i apologize. I really can't bear him not talking to him. I don't keep friends, i tell him everything like everything, my world basically evolves around him. My first bf, i don't believe in multi. He has been saying we should get married but i just don't have it together yet. So, i was already saying team 2020 lol.

I have never imagined myself with any other guy but why can't he just say something as little as I'm sorry.
I'm sorry to me can make me forgive anyone for anything they've done for me.

I don't always have to do the begging. What if we get married. I'd get tired of begging him.
There were times i wanted to break up with him but i always find a lot of reasons to stay and he'd beg me not to say it again but now its reversed and he can't even find a reason to stay. Really painful.

No calls, no messages. I'm going crazy.

Now that it seems like we've broken up, i can barely eat, sleep(always waking up with a swollen eyes from crying. My sisters already said i have apollo sef). I can't think straight, I'm slow etc
There are so many guys asking me out but i can't bring myself to go on dates.
It feels weird that it's not with him.

I basically don't know where to start from. It has just been one guy for almost 4 years. 17-21yrs.

How do i move on or forget him? is there an easy way?

This is just a brief summary. I can occupy the entire front page if were to go in details.

You can ask me questions.

Am sorry for all you wrote above. Well at times we our plans are different from GOD plans for Us. I will appreciate if you can chat me up via what'sapp on 08030651947. I believe we have lots to discuss. Thanks olugbenga.

[quote author=Bironke post=75579943]Long post but please i really need the advice. Please.

Background.
I started dating my now ex-boyfriend when i was 17. We met when i was in 100lvl but started dating in 200lvl.
He's 6years older than me.
It has always been long distance. 9-10hours apart but that wasn't a problem for either of us.
He was my first boyfriend and i thought, hoped and prayed would be the last. I've always wanted just a guy in my life. He did his masters in kaduna while i served in minna. He chose it so we could be closer together. All through my service year, i was the one doing the visiting because he later started working in abj around that time which kept him busy and tired.
So, i thought it was only proper for me to be visiting.
We ended up having sex on one of the visits and that was 3 years down the relationship.

He's a very good guy, doesn't pressurize me, loves me, not promiscious, but he has a bad habit of not picking up hints and he doesn't know how to talk also.

Whenever i travelled, i went with foodstuffs, utensils and appliances he might need. So, it left me broke as a corper at times. At times, i randomly say I'm broke to him and he buys data when offline. My problem with that is i wish he payed more attention.
All through almost 4 years now, i never asked for a dime and he never gave me.

I once had a boi seminar in abj and of course i used the opportunity to see the love of my life. Nysc orientation camp was given as accommodation. So, there was this day i saw some clothes i liked and wished to buy. So, while chatting, i told him i saw some nice clothes i liked. I expected him to say something like let me add something for you but he merely said ehn ehn. Ended up buying all myself which he later saw too. This is just one instance. I honestly cant remember others. I don't keep tabs on things like this.

Before you castigate me, what I'm saying is i just want to feel special. All through the time i went to abj, he never for once took me out. We were always inside on weekends and i was always alone weekdays since i belonged to ministry of no work lol (served at local govt secretariat). I didn't hate it as i don't really like being around people.

I'm from a richer family than him which makes me have more money than him. I sort him out with little whenever he didn't have enough on him. I'm not comparing us now but even if i have, i just want him to be my man and make me feel loved by doing even little for me.

I'm very easy to please, very simple and i definitely love hard. Just writing me a note, buying me a book, basically little gestures can make me smile. I'm light hearted.

Trust was never an issue between us.

There were however days i wanted to break up with him because of his bad manners. (doesn't know how to talk and since I'm a words person, it gets to me a lot) He knows that but isn't willing to compromise on that little for me. This is our biggest problem. I'm quick to say sorry, thank you, i forgive you but him, he wouldn't talk to me for days till after so much teasing and cajoling from me..

Honestly, aside this, we are perfect for each other based on our mutual likes for stuffs but love is never enough.

THE FIGHT.
I told him i was broke. He wanted to purchase a shirt on aliexpress. i always do that for him and he sent 6k extra.
I knew the extra was for me but i just wanted him to say it. He got pissed. Didn't say but i knew and told me to ask anyone about the money situation. That is why he sent extra. That was the first time ever he decided to send me money so, i was surprised because there were several times he could have but didn't.
I told him the next day asking anyone wasn't necessary but i had something to say. I kind of let it all out. Not angrily, just said my mind. He was angry of course but i didn't think he would take it so serious. He compared me to his exs, said i have pride and don't appreciate stuffs. I was pissed he would say that to me cos it's not true.
What followed was "kindly send my money back"
Didn't expect it and it came as a shock. I really felt disgusted by that statement so i sent it to him.
Then he said kindly get yourself another boyfriend.
Ah ah, biggest shocked of my life and blocked me on whatsapp.

Reached him via text but he didn't reply. So, i gave him a break.
Later sent him a mail which he replied. We talked and seemed like we were having it back together and i merely asked him to apologize for he said to me and he said he wouldn't. All i wanted was i'm sorry for my harsh words.
I decided not to beg him this time. Each time we have issues which mostly he's wrong, i apologize. I really can't bear him not talking to him. I don't keep friends, i tell him everything like everything, my world basically evolves around him. My first bf, i don't believe in multi. He has been saying we should get married but i just don't have it together yet. So, i was already saying team 2020 lol.

I have never imagined myself with any other guy but why can't he just say something as little as I'm sorry.
I'm sorry to me can make me forgive anyone for anything they've done for me.

I don't always have to do the begging. What if we get married. I'd get tired of begging him.
There were times i wanted to break up with him but i always find a lot of reasons to stay and he'd beg me not to say it again but now its reversed and he can't even find a reason to stay. Really painful.

No calls, no messages. I'm going crazy.

Now that it seems like we've broken up, i can barely eat, sleep(always waking up with a swollen eyes from crying. My sisters already said i have apollo sef). I can't think straight, I'm slow etc
There are so many guys asking me out but i can't bring myself to go on dates.
It feels weird that it's not with him.

I basically don't know where to start from. It has just been one guy for almost 4 years. 17-21yrs.

How do i move on or forget him? is there an easy way?

This is just a brief summary. I can occupy the entire front page if were to go in details.

You can ask me questions.




Am sorry for all you wrote above. Well at times we our plans are different from GOD plans for Us. I will appreciate if you can chat me up via what'sapp on 08030651947. I believe we have lots to discuss. Thanks olugbenga.

Onyi22:
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What else does a woman wants DAT Davido doesn't have?
Spending a nite Wit him alone will change my life for good!!!! , Not all these frustrated, poor,broke ass nairaland guys that keeps sending me gmail..,.
I love you DAVIDO.

You are a funny bitch. Who is your father? At least, he is equally a man,and name his achevement in life, You are born poor but calling guys poor, why not work harder to become someone then been dependent.

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BornnAgainChild:
Whats the name of the blue film u watched this usual thing from cos

Moreso nothing spectacular in what she did... na usual thing my brother

Really? I think I will like to meet you

Genesis 38:11-30

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@ heart bender, you need not to pick offence with him . But the guy was only trying to be nice and also an attention seeker. Thanks for dropping the number, but I don't even like such, rather the interested should indicate and not middle man.