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one of this days I'm going to talk abt my journey all d way from naija to US OF A.may be it will help those who want to relocate to US or otherwise

lewislewis1900@yahoo.com
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Can i get your email. I want to have a word with you. Thanks[/quote]

you damn right it's happening here in America too

BolaAdeyemo:
This is not the first Time i am hearing this from Nigerian guys residing in Other African Countries

they(the girls) feel Nigerians are Rich and they do not waste Time in demanding Money and Other Goodies from Nigerian Guys but do not do Same to their own Country Men

i was chatting with a brother who is resident in one of the French speaking West-African countries then he complained bitterly how Every girl he toasted will demand Money the Next Day without shame

contact me on lewislewis1900@yahoo.com I may be of help,mind you I live here in US too and i dont ask nobody for a dime

quote author=meskezzy post=59419407]I got married to a guy at ikeja registry before leaving the country for America about 4 years ago . I have heard a lot about the guys doing back in Nigeria like taking so many girls out, he squanders the money I always send to him to help me keep, I also recently got some of the pictures of his initiation as the cult leader of a particular fraternity. This Last and his constant threat to my life is making so scared and I with the support of my parents have decided to file a divorce. The issue now is I am too scared to come to Nigeria because I been warned not to, that coupled with his constant threat too. My mom is all our wedding documents in Nigeria. (1) Is there any way my mom can assist me file for the divorce in Nigeria while I am in America? (2) what would be my strongest excuse (3) how sure is my chances of winning because I really need to cute ties with him (4) how long will it take?...
Kindly advise[/quote]

man of you have the money you berra quickly fly enter CA .me wey be say na SS3. Certificate I get I dey recieve over one Miller per month here in IS.

Ephetar:
Hi nairalanders please I am currently about taking a decision regarding my future. I am a 26 years old single guy. I currently work in a company where I earn between 400-500k monthly( salary, allowance and personal hustling)... Now the issue is that I am contemplating on travelling to Canada to study pharmacy with the intention of staying there permanently after school or do a professional MBA here in Nigeria with the aim of growing through the ranks in the pharmaceutical industry. Please I need your contributions...

NB; cost of obtaining a pharmacy degree in Canada is about 10M...Should I invest the money in a business?

only foolish guys will tell you all this,

SirJeffry:
Everything I'm about to write down here is based on a family feud currently going on between a young man and his new wife here.

This young man has no steady job, lives a flamboyant life and post all kind of pictures on social media where he met the wife. I'm pained because the wife in question happens to be my town's girl and after hearing her side of the story, I was mad at her. Well, this is not the topic for today but let me give our sisters some advice here.
These are questions to ask before someone brings you here to suffer unnecessarily;

WHAT DO YOU DO ABROAD? Let him tell you where he works and possibly show you his work ID. If he tells you he's a biz man, watch him closely, that could be a red flag. I know there are genuine bizmen but most unserious and unemployable guys abroad pose as bizmen.

WHAT'S YOUR DEBT PROFILE? Generally in America, if you don't have some debts especially credit cards, you don't qualify for certain things but that doesn't mean one should live on credit.

IS THAT YOUR FLASHY CAR OWNED OR FINANCED? This may lead to you driving today and trekking tomorrow. Without a steady job, car financing coys may take back their car anytime there's a default in payment.

DO YOU LIVE ALONE? This is self explanatory.

WHAT'S YOUR TOTAL SAVINGS AMOUNT? I know this sounds odd but try to get an extimate by calculating the amount he saves monthly. Ask him jokingly if he saves for his future family. He should be more family oriented than friends oriented. "Too much sending my guys money at home" is a no no.

Lastly, if he doesn't personally come down for your wedding except with a very cogent reason maybe life threatening, he probably isn't a legal resident ie no green card or citizenship. In this case, you may likely stay longer in Nigeria until he gets his papers before you join him. Refuse such union because sometimes, he may be tangled with a lady here already for papers, a union he may not easily come out from.

If ladies do this simple research before accepting marriage proposals from obodo oyibo husbands, rate of domestic violence among Nigerians in the States will be at its minimum.

Yankee marriage is favourable to ladies who their husbands already made the ground running. They come to consolidate on their husband's achievements and prosper it more.

ademega:
If they give me American visa now fear go dey catch me. Mad man on the throne

on point nothing day stable here again o

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Benjamite01:
Bro how are u doing? I live in Chicago Illinois, I will like to ask u some personal questions about Tennesses. Hope u can live me your contact, in the email. Thanks

could you drop your contact? let me call you

jesicajonna:
apparently he got no choice tho, we just want somewhere secured and safe.thanks so much for your concern..God bless u.however, I will need you to send me the address details and phone number to call..

address is Memphis Tennessee and I think he should drop his number for me to call.and also Nigerians are not many here o

Which State are you or your broda coming to? if it's Newyork let me know may be my friend in Queen can be of help but if you don't mind any state,i got where to stay for you in Memphis TN

patriotic9jaboy:
AU sef dey form pro-activeness. I prefer an unstable yankee over this poverty stricken African continent

America no be am o killing every day here.what you suffered for in 10yes here can be taking away from you in 10days Black life no marra to Black and African life no marra to African American.

Onila2:
Just finished school, hoping to get my certificate next year so that I can put things in perspective. thanks though.

that's a very good idea don't hurry yourself get your certificate and make your plan.i can give you any helping info you needed abt coming over.from start to finish

Onila2:
Hi all,pls am trying to move to America and would need help in terms of info. Little details about me: am a female,29,single,self employed, a very good cake and event decorator and will graduate this year.

I would like to work with my cake making and event planning skills not with my certificate.

Pls what are my chances and how do i go about it?

na ur cetificate go help you here my dear,forget cake stuff.tell me more about your plan I may be of help

how much are you talking about let me know

NetBizguy:
Please fellow Nairalanders I want to know the maximum amount of cash USD allowed to travel out of Nigeria

9k USD per trip

I'm in US I can suply you new and used ones just tell me d type you want

the throne of Oonirisa is too big for a small boy to handle,so whatever happened blame aregbe for it .....out

Originalsly:
The caller said he was a lawyer...and you believed. If you are charged so would she so forget about that one. Your pay is great...doesn't she know that?....why would she allow your babe to get between her and your paycheck? You should move back on your own before she gets pregnant. .. divorce you.... and have you in child support court. She has already broken you down.... washing her ehmmm.... fineries. ...and heaven knows how she shouts at you at home and in public. If push comes to shove...you prefer to live like this than return to your homeland? Bro... gather your balls together ...move out and be a man....let the chips fall where they may.

bros no doubt am I e dey happen here like that if I get chance i go bring story

Seeeeeeee:
Guy now you're talking sense... Only age?

thank you sir but not only age

in need of a good and reliable Nigerian girl or lady between 28 and 38 who is ready to settle down here in US or ready to relocate

i need a Nigeria lady here in US

ss501:
Still available

what's d mileage

@op this country is a land of milk and honey,you better find your way here if you can,look I just tire for you now you have d opportunity and you still dey there dey ask question abt US

dante300:
Dating her for 5years now..contemplating marrying her..currently doing her phd..she's just 32yrs ,am 35 .I love her so much....no longer sure if all this will work out....she schools in a neighboring state and every God given evening her cell is swicthed off.

Wenever I ask why, we end up quarelling. I don't know how long all this will end. Almost thinking of joining that school of thought where I will just have children and forget marriage. I haven't made up my mind though. Just thinking.

Trust issue is choking me. I don't care if people think am insecure but I have bought her 3 different phones, powerbank etc just so I can get her on atleast one of her 4lines....all switched off....maybe I am crazy....I don't know I need advice....castigate me or abuse me nairalanders I don't care...coz trolls nogo do me anything....n my relationship matter to me now but I know better people go answer me wisely...sorry for the typing error...I dey vex.

P.s_ I am using a friends nairaland acc in my quaters...call me....nanle.

men you don enter one chance,pls look for another girl and move on with your life,im telling you from my experience.visit her uninform make sure you hang around till late night before showing up to her.

jboy73:
Yessss..... Yes.... Yes....
Yeeeeeessss. It happened in the land of the red roofs Yellow bar long headed Juju people. Not surprised.


I wasn't disappointed....

which one be Yoruba inside na Edo state we dey talk about now

meisterkitan:
Yes , so I was told at the bank on friday

thanks so much

pls I need info on this too can the grab MasterCard work in US?