₦airaland Forum

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation.

Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well.

Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for.

She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores, clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her.

I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues, stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for.

The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment.

Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for.

Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

This is very simple...... Now that you have enjoyed the free continuous sex, you are now tired of the sex........ 🤣😂

Get a letter of eviction from you landlord, start packing your things out of the house (tell her you would be squatting with friends)....... 😜

adeolaspecial:
I do not have a water meter installed. Averagely, I could say we spend less than 8-10mins in the shower (though madam spends a little bit above that as per women). And we're very moderate in water usage in the kitchen. We never leave the tap running.

There are no leaks whatsoever. This bill is just way too high.

If you're friendly with your neighbours, try comparing water bills.........

adeolaspecial:
Hi, this evening while reviewing my finances and bills, i happen to go over my water bill again. Last year 2023/2024, my annual water bill was 657.71, this year 2024/2025 my bill went up to 830.63. We're a family of 3. Myself, My wife and a 1yr child. How we pay this much still baffles me. I live in a 2bedroom. Isn't this too much of a bill for water ?

Do you have a water meter installed........

What are your water usage habits, do you love long showers(nothing wrong with having long showers)....😁

When you wash plates in the kitchen, do you keep the tap running constantly or you turn on & off intermittently......😂

What you need to do, review your usage or check for leaks........💰

AKALAMAGBO:
Baba Lexus… That toogodtogo na correct 👍🏻 app…

Just came back from picking a healthy food for just £2.33…. A food that costed me £14 last week somewhere else..

I received the bag from the lady at the counter, I asked her if that was mine or someone else’s 😹😹😅 … It felt as if they were cheated 😹😹😹

Nah so o ...... You would almost feel like you're legally shoplifting......😜😁

Cyberknight:
All you Tories, self.
There is no way a major economy as financialised as the UK's economy can be run without European levels of tax o.

We go all pay this tax together....... 😜😁

missjekyll:
Tax rises were smackdab right in the centre of the manifesto. He only committed to not raising NI ,VAT and income tax.

Not many people are surprised by this. I m going about my business jejely.

So all they have done so far, was also clearly stated in their manifesto........ 😁🙄

The water ahead, looks very choppy....... 💦😂

sachidistudios:
Obaseki doing the most recently

Election is around the corner........😂

Taal17:
Hahaha
Even juniors suppose don become seniors by now.

Nah egg. go turn to cock...... 🥚🐓🤣

I hope we're all ready for Keir's speech today, informing us of tax rises....... 😁😊

I always said, I remained hopeful, but not delusional about this regime change....... 😜

JapaGeneral:
Oga Lexus, Your UK number still dey work, e no dey even ring. That matter don enter the final stage, just as you predict am.

My Wife and I don conclude am say you either be oracle, traditionalist or babalawo.

No vex Oga, I no get money to pay EE £4.21 per call roaming charges....... We just stretch leg enter Cape Verde...... Reach me via WhatsApp........ 😁

Holluwhakemmy:
She will do another one

Wahala...... 😁🤣

If he decides to comeback nko....... 😁🤣

Makamatic:
Good morning sir ... This phone they my eye , e must leave you today . 160k baba , E joor 🙏🏼

Tinubu don destroy forex market............🤣😂

2027 is a done deal....... 😁

I would buy the properties and pay via PayPal....... 😁😂

KOVIC19COVID20:
@ALL
Hello my country people...
Can someone suggest a great, tested and truted vpn for me to use on my firestick, please? I dont mind if its paid for, but hopefully cheap. But if there are any tested and trusted ones, please holla at me.

I no wan miss premiership and champions league biko.
CC: Justwise, Lexusgs430, Viruses, tshoboy

I use vpnify(modded)..... So it's FREE...... 😁😂

victorazy:
Ademola Adetokumbo crescent.

I am a mainland boy, I leave that for Ikoyi boys.......😁😜

adeolaspecial:
Okay boss. Will start the process asap

If e-visa is not available for Nigerian passport holders, I don't think you have enough time, for your visa application.......

Still try ......👍

I wonder why he is running..........😜😁

When he becomes president, he would require 1 million aides........

This here, is why Nigeria is retrogressing........ We would remain underdeveloped, for a very long time.....

Bourne007:
e-visas since when LOL .. . They don comot am for naija sinceeee .. . Na for visit embassy now http://www.visa.gov.tr

Only for 9ja passport holders ....... This is discrimination, we need to go picket them o .....😂

Are you sure.......

adeolaspecial:
Oh... please, how long does the visa take to come out ?

If you apply for an e-visa, you should get it within days...... But if you want sticker visas, it takes weeks.......

Best to apply ASAP (for e-visa)........

adeolaspecial:
Good day beautiful people. I've got a 2wks leave in September and i look to visit Antalya, Turkey with my family, do i need a visa to visit turkey or is it visa on arrival ? Thanks

You need to apply for a visa online (assuming you are a Nigerian passport holder).........

Kokoro wey dey chop efo...... E dey the body of the efo....... The damage the Dangote family done do to Nigeria, e plenty pass their good deeds. ..........

NNPCL loves Nigerian's so much......🤣❤️💜

Biodun556:
I tire o

At the expense of very hungry Nigerian's...... The political class spend billions on themselves, but offer the poor bags of rice...... The poor would still be supporting this very crazy & greedy politicians.........

Biodun556:
Who knows

They said the old one was faulty and it is up for sale

As scrap or what..... 🤣😁


Tinubu simply wanted another jet, by fire or force......

Funkyswagzz:
This is where the presidency is transparent but when they bought the jet and parked it in France we have no knowledge of it including the actual cost

They would never tell you the cost, this government is shrouded in secrecy......

Biodun556:
The has nothing to do with finance.

It's got all to do with finance...... When every state is just signing crazy contracts, in varying languages everywhere...... One government comes in, without due process, just cancels what the previous government signed...... A reason exists why contracts are drawn, so when a breach occurs, people/government must be held accountable......

Nah to stand for wuse 2 junction remain...... 😭🤣

It just goes to show that the Nigerian state, is in a much bigger mess financially.... Than they are all willing to admit.......

Sijo01:
Na who dey receive salary and other entitlement be Edo Deputy Governor

The matter don red..... Both of them fit dey collect salary so ....... What our political class cannot do, does not exist....... 🤣😂