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dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

dettolgel:
Only when you are able to answer this simple question will you be allowed to continue to the next stage.

is it now "stage" that you want?

I thought it was "process" and one step at a time" you wanted?

is this not the "one step at a time" and process you said should be trusted?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

AngelicBeing:
what kind of Oha soup 🍲 with Fufu question is this? Not again in this 2025, like seriously 😳, asking Nkwobi and goat meat peppersoup question, Huh

what kind of Oha soup 🍲 with Fufu question is this? Not again in this 2025, like seriously 😳, asking Nkwobi and goat meat peppersoup question, Huh

dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?


Only when you are able to answer this simple question will you be allowed to continue to the next stage.

is it now "stage" that you want?

I thought it was "process" and one step at a time" you wanted?

is this not the "one step at a time" and process you said should be trusted?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend

is google your enemy?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

cassyrooy:
This is the mysterious thing about them.

its not a mystery. if a woman respects you, she cant cheat on you

dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?


Only when you are able to answer this simple question will you be allowed to continue to the next stage.

is this not the "one step at a time" and process you said should be trusted?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

cassyrooy:
No. Someone may respect you but still cheat, and may also be faithful but still have zero respect for you.

Both aren't quite the same.

how can a woman who respects you cheat on you?

AntiZikist:
Kanu's legal team sought a separate high court ruling challenging his rendition back to Nigeria as being illegal without recourse to international procedures and laws.

The FG appealled up to the supreme court which decided that Kanu should continue his trial .


No court had acquitted and discharged Kanu.

what are the charges?

dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?


Only when you are able to answer this simple question will you be allowed to continue to the next stage. I want to be sure that you have the prerequisite knowledge to engage. I don't have time to waste.

I thought you said we should trust the process of "one step at a time"?

is the process now too difficult for you to follow?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?


Only when you are able to answer this simple question will you be allowed to continue to the next stage. I want to be sure that you have the prerequisite knowledge to engage. I don't have time to waste

are you saying that you dont have the prerequisite knowledge to go "one step at a time" as earlier demanded by you?

dont you trust the process which you recommended?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

do you no longer want "one step at a time"?

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

Passing sentence, Judge Michael Auty described the attack as 'despicable and vile' and behaviour 'beyond rational understanding'.

He told Olatunji: "You took it upon yourself to rape her in the most brutal, sadistic and cruel way imaginable."

after speaking all this big grammar, the judge ended up giving him a mild sentence. very soon, he will be out to continue from where he stopped. are these people alright at all?

Thirty-five-year-old Olatunji was arrested a short time later. He was charged and later pleaded guilty to three counts of rape. Olatunji was jailed for 10 years when he appeared at Nottingham Crown Court for sentencing on Wednesday (15 January).

but how does someone travel all the way from nigeria to UK to go and rape?

dettolgel:
So I repeat again:

1. What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

There is no wrong or right answer don't be afraid

dettolgel:
One step at a time. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

cassyrooy:
This ideal model only works for Conservative people, so for me;

Faithful (300)
Respectful (300)
Good Cook (200)
Beautiful (200)

if a woman is respectful, will she not be faithful?

Felimax:
You are contradicting yourself.
If that is what 1k will do then that is what i will get.
How can a woman be godly and not respectful, can you make me understand please?

that is a question you need to ask yourself.

Felimax:
Beauty
Godly
Respectful
Good cook

If a woman is godly will she not be respectful and vice versa?

dettolgel:
One step at a time and you wrote epistle. Do you really understand what one step at a time means?

What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

Once you clear that and we both agree that we are on the same page. Then we will move to the assumptions. You can't move to it without agreeing on the basic.

Trust the process

Step1: I hope you can defend the claims you are still making?

Steo2: What is the meaning of "one step at a time"?

Step3: Can you show me the epistle you are referring to?

Step4: Can you address you claims?

Step5: you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

Step 6: if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

Step 7: The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

Step8: if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

Step 9: like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.

Step10: What assumption are you expecting me to make?

Step11: What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
One step at a time:

What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

If I may ask what do you do for a living?

exactly. one step at a time. can you address you claims?

you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.
What assumption are you expecting me to make?

What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
Baby step one step at a time no rush we will get through all your questions.

So let start from the top:

What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality? Once we sort it out we move to the next. I am a patient man

exactly. lets start from the top which are the claims you made.

you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.
What assumption are you expecting me to make?

What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
I have answered all your questions in previous posts multiple times but it seems we are not getting anywhere.

I am going to use a baby step approach one step at a time:

What is the difference between celibacy and asexuality?

you claimed that

dettolgel:
You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.
What assumption are you expecting me to make?

What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

dettolgel:
If the analogy that bothers on denial ie using hunger isn't sufficient, can you give example of analogy that fits well?

You asked what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting, and I said "denial" are you unable to understand the relationship?


If you understand that my example is "about yielding to sexual desires" how is it difficult for you to understand the contrast?

Doesn't using an example to explain a concept brings more clarity to the subject matter?

So while in school/writing when you explain a concept you don't give an example to indicate to your examiner/reader that you understand the concept?

where did I ask you "what was the relationship between celibacy and the fasting"?

if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?

The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?

Not sure if I asked for an example.
What assumption are you expecting me to make?

What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

Jagaban2012:
In terms of influence, Nigerian Yoruba pastors are the only ones visible to the rest of the world.
True Christian practice is best demonstrated by Yoruba great men of God...I would not be surprised if Papa Adeboye joins the list...for the inauguration


Yoruba people are blessed

how has that reduced sin and made nigeria a better place?

EmperorCaesar:


OP, thanks for the bolded sections of your article. It made the whole task easier for us all. We could see at a glance, what could have taken us 50mins of thorough search.


Congrats to them and they should keep the flag flying.


To the most important part of the message, lets discuss the ethnic origin of the aforementioned individuals on that list.

There seem to be recurrent names of people from a particular region, Why would half of the entire list be concentrated in just one region of the country?

How biased can Biden be? Whats with the Yorubanization of even a random list of excellent Nigerians that was collated 10000 miles away from the country?

why is your name not on the list?

or are you not yoruba?

Mervingreat:
Ask Google

did you ask google before you said the following?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend.

is google your enemy?

Mervingreat:
Will stil refer you to Google so go back and ask Google.

Mervingreat:
Ask Google pls.

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

reddingtonblack:
Tinubu deploying IMF and world bank agenda is a huge limitation for maximize potentials.

Tinubu is not different from my Arteta who is always trying to copy Guardiola .. thats a limitation,cos your best can only come from your true self/potentials.

Is it a Nigerian thing to "Resign"

are you saying that tinubu is confused and clueless?

I dont know its a thing to resign or not. I only asked:

if those recruited by tinubu have been rendered clueless and confused by tinubus formation, why have they not resigned?

dettolgel:
I used hunger as example hoping that since you find it very difficult understanding the example I used for the celibacy that at least most people understand the concept of hunger and fasting. Which you could adapt to the concept of sexual desires and abstinence ( in this case celibacy). The relationship between both examples is ”denial ie denying yourself of something that you may want or need"

I already explained to you how to yield to sexual urges- by doing it. Is your confusion from the fact I used the word "yield"?

This is a very simple concept. Straight men are known to mostly go with straight women unless we are talking of bi here. So in defining celibacy I decided to use an example of a straight man that finds a straight woman attractive. How else do you make an example.

NB: I have been answering your questions but you have not managed to answer not even one of my own. So I am going to repeat it here again:

So in your own opinion if you want to define celibate as you understood it to be for Catholic priesthood how are you going to define it? And which assumptions are you going to make?

if the discussion is about sexual attraction (meaning there is an object of attraction), how then is hunger a good analogy since you have agreed that hunger is not an attraction?
The question I asked is “how do you not yield to sexual urges?” but you are talking about “how to yield to sexual urges”.

if there are people who dont have the urge for sex and live accordingly, how is that not celibacy?

like I said, you are the one who made the assumption. not me
if you are making an assumption, my question is based on the assumption you made.

dettolgel:
I would assume just like a straight man knows that he finds women attractive

how do you assume a man finds a woman attractive?
Not sure if I asked for an example.
What assumption are you expecting me to make?
What is the disagreement about the definition of celibacy that you want me to clarify?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend.

is google your enemy?

Mervingreat:
Will stil refer you to Google so go back and ask Google.

did you ask google before you said the following?

Mervingreat:
Ask Google pls.

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

Mervingreat:
Will stil refer you to Google so go back and ask Google.

did you ask google before you said the following?

Mervingreat:
Ask Google pls.

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

malakaimoscondo:
u are I'll informed....your own is just hatred toward Muslims....go see what decision pundits in Israel are saying regarding the seize 🔥 deal....they believe it a capitulation of israel to hamas.u won't understand...no one single war objective was achieved.hamas still waxing stronger ... military graves in israel is filed u..no more sight to bury fallen soldiers.u will understand better its just a matter of time...

where is hamas waxing strong?

what makes you think Israels quarrel with Palestian has to do with religion?

if you will its a religious issue, why dont you go to Gaza and fight for Hamas?

FreeStuffsNG:
https://www.ynetnews.com/article/hkt2wb8dkl

what are these clowns saying? Iran sounds quite emotional.

Iranian Parliament Speaker Mohammad Bagher Ghalibaf added that the agreement "prevented the Zionist regime from achieving its strategic goal." He called for action to "punish the Zionist regime and heal the wounds of the Palestinian nation."

what strategic goal is that?

why is he making call?

cant he and Iran not go and punish Istael themselves?

Mervingreat:
Ask Google pls.

did you ask google before you said the following?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

Mervingreat:
Google is your friend bruv.

.is google your enemy?

Is it google you used to make this comment?

Mervingreat:
Ok we have heard you but sir unfortunately he will rule you till 2031 believe it or not we don't care about your utterances because obi and atiku would have be the worst option so hold your peace the reform will go on regardless. Thanks.

How are atiku and obi worse options to tinubu?

What are the reforms that will go on?

Looking4Trouble:
Go to INEC and collect your vote. The 2027 Presidential election is just a formality, you will cry blood when you see the results. Gluten’s, na only food Una sabi. The same impatience that brought you to this level will not be continued. Tinubu is rebuilding the foundation of the economy, if you cannot be patient, then the borders are opened

If tinubu is "rebuilding the foundation of the economy", what then did buhari do for 8years?

Was it this same patience this same tinubu and apc asked Nigerians to have for buhari?

If tinubu is patient, how come he is not patient with our hospitals but travels to France for medical treatment?

How come he was not patient with Nigerian schools but sent his kids abroad to school?

How come this same tinubu was not patient with Jonathan but asked that Jonathan resign from office?