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greatnaija01:
TRUE LOVE IS NOT BLIND but LUST is BLIND and will always get you LOST

everything you see in this man that you itemized is just a tip of the ICEBERG after marriage you will see SUPERSTORY and it will be all your fault. IT IS CLEAR YOU ALSO AINT VERY SPIRITUAL ELSE THE VOICE OF GOD WONT BE SILENT ON YOUR CASE.
God can not watch you enter disaster and God will not lead you to nairaland before HE commands you to have SENSE.. Chai biko if a man's best friend is a womanizer then so is the man but you may be too slow to discern it.. Sister sister.... NA MARRIAGE GO TEAR YOUR EYE O.

Even if you do not have a spiritual authority over your life who can see into your life and correct you... UNLESS your church pastor is a blind rat..if you tell him these things he CAN NOT ask you to go ahead,.

About anger... madam biko i advise you on this... ANGER THAT IS EASILY EXPRESSED IS NOT DEEP but the one that "ignores" YOU is waiting till you are trapped to finish you.... your marriage wahala is doing NYSC.

ABOUT books... LOLS... did you not know the BIBLE says STUDY TO SHOW YOURSELF APPROVED? or are you so old that you will settle for anything in trouser and with a manhood? I pity you sha... because it looks like you are loving this man with your heart OPEN but your BRAIN CLOSED. Readers are leaders... The man is to be a leader to the woman and children.

If he is not PRAYERFUL then get ready to carry your kids to all manner of prayer meetings and programs forever cos he would not bother to start in marriage what he didnt start as a single

LOLS... you made me laugh by saying he is patient... even the devil is patient with you my sister... I KNOW YOU DO NOT READ. cos if you do.. YOU WOULD HAVE DUMPED that devil's plan in male clothing long ago... EVEN YOU ARE NOT A WIFE MATERIAL... cos you are able to be confused about a clear WRONG CHOICE.

DID GOD SPEAK TO YOU? ARE YOU NOT AWARE MARRIAGE IS A SPIRITUAL THING? DID YOU SEEK COUNSEL FROM YOUR PASTOR OR A VERY GENUINE SPIRITUAL PERSON? Do you pray and hear God's directions? cos this is a simple matter of BY THEIR FRUIT YE SHALL KNOW THEM.

If you can not correct him then how are you his HELP-MEET. my sister, print out all i have written and understand it. JESUS IS COMING SOON.... MARRY WHO WILL HELP YOU MAKE HEAVEN rather than WHO WILL DAMAGE YOU SO WELL THAT HEAVEN WILL NOT KNOW YOU EVEN EXISTED.

Na wa ooooo. How can you be preaching Jesus and be so judgemental. If you want to advice her, do so without all these insults abeg. Greatnaija01

thesicilian:
You have husband that has your time that's why you're even asking this in the first place

Thesicilian, she asked what pained her. Why isn't that a valid question. Does this mean you won't have time for your own wife? It is well.

redcliff:
All these backward african mentality. Make una go buy washing machine make all these useless kine topics stop

Uncle read the post before you comment naa. They have washing machine. Redcliff

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Hi Olawunmi, My husband and I have been married for about a year now and are doing fine.

We are both in paid employment and both of us contribute financially but I handle all the house chores.

In the course of doing the laundry, I wash all our clothes including his singlets and boxers, without complaint.

Recently I took ill and he decided to help out with the laundry but to my surprise, he took out my panties and other undies of mine and washed only the clothes, even though we use a washing machine to do our laundry.

I hope you understand my confusion, if I wash his singlet and boxers, why can't he wash my panties and bra? Afterall, I am his wife and not a stranger.

From a confused young wife.

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