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sucess001:
It's painful to listen to Amokachi

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Beremx:
do you expect her to congratulate you for bringing a woman home? Naturally she ought to be jealous na. When a woman keeps bringing food for you to eat, it's a signal she likes you. Couldn't you decipher that?
Just make amends with her not necessarily apologizing.
But how can you make amends without apologizing? That's the problem

By living with the person as if nothing happened

I had a funny painful experience. It was during my JSS1 days and we were working on the school farm that faithful day, as I worked and was tiredly hungry, I decided to pluck pepper to eat in the farm to alleviate my hunger.

Omo, Community hear the matter cause na rush dem rush me reach my papa house as I don almost join my ancestors. The most painful part na that "who send you" question

What are the terms and conditions.... I am kind of interested though

Permit me to say this to all of you commenting cos I can clearly figure out that you people forget that the wife has needs to be met and plus she is not a full time house wife. So please, cut me some Slack, let the OP satisfy her needs if he can identify them and the wife will reciprocate. Biko, she was Married, not bought. Just my Piece

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

All I can say is all through out this period you have failed to understand your wife and didn't invest heavily in building your relationship. Also, try to fill up her inadequacy in the area you mentioned, and your love life will blossom.

Divay22:

Omo their shiit scares me abeg...
I no fit..

Pele... its better to be safe. I just want to tell you, not "all" are bad

Divay22:

A combine demon abi

Just about the perfect one There are very beautiful souls you are yet to meet love. Be very open minded sweetheart and you will find us just the best

Divay22:

Isoko or uhrobo?

BOTH

Divay22:
Lol
I'm loving one isoko own o..... Be like i go hold feelings first

You see that urhobo na punishment from your village people

you have always been meeting the wrong ones. They are in every tribe. So, dnt generalise pls.

The right way to go

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Cucurella na wasted money dem take sign am

Omoluabi16:
Is it just me that prefers Ben chilwell over this cucurella guy?

I fit come learn work for your hand

Lalami3232:
I think I was in SS2 when I did, but I don forget sha.
Nowadays, I no fit get time to watch movies because my life na to dey on laptop to write code everyday and night. Whenever I come nairaland or Facebook, just know say na because my code dey give me problem with serious bug. Aside that, I no dare sitdown to watch film, else money go pass me.
Guys I get good news for una, babes I get bad news for una. The news be say I wan create an app wey go make toto dey get LAST SEEN. This cheating wey una dey cheat don too much


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "instead of you to die as a yahoo boy, die as a software engineer/developer"

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Anyone deeper lifer with a valid answer should answer me, please

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