₦airaland Forum

Reinamaria:
The tax is too much.

Ebukaboss:
This morning me and my girlfriend went to eat at a shoprite, after the eating moment i stepped outside... I saw mum and i was shock so me and gf greeted her... She didn't anwser us when i looked straight to her eyes.... She shake her head and eye me with bad looking.... Before she comes back
pls guy tell me what she meant,even me i don't understand

Zanzibar1:
I have always had it in mind that when I hit my first million, I'd spend 100k out of it in kindness without expecting anything in return

I'll give back to those kids who are hungry
And few homeless people.

What do you intend to do, if you hit the first million?

CyberHustle:
loop thru d array, and note the index where X is greater than the value(s) stops and the index where X is less than the value(s) start.

care4you:
Keep chatting yourself...

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airsaylongcome:
Guru mindset

Ayooade:
Goodevening all, i have been wanting to get peoples opinion about something that has been bothering me.
I am a lady in my early 30s, 32 to be precise. I have had like 3 relationships that failed. Among of them is a guy i dated for 6 years but later ended the relationship because i got a job and at the time but he didn't have a job, he ended the relationship due to some certain decisions he took.
I am a kind of person that believe strongly in God and things of the spiritual, i later met a pastor guy that was assisting me in prayers but to my surprise this guy started telling me that God has told him to marry me. I told him immediately that i am not interested, i had a dream once about him where they showed him to me that he is my husband, i woke up and prayed against it. It was this time that i told him to stop any prayers he has been doing for me if his intentions was to marry me.
I educated him of how marriages are crashing this days even the ones that loved themselves dearly, i also educated him about how wifes are killing husbands and husbands are killing wives but i think this guy has refused to listen.
I got a call from his so called " spiritual father " sometimes last month and the man was telling me all the implications of not marrying him that if i want my journey to be fast in life then its him that i should marry.
I immediately told the spiritual father that its not possible and I won't marry someone i am not emotionally attached to, I'd rather remain single all my life than go into a marriage that i know won't last 6 month all in the name of God told me to marry him.
I know there are people who are wiser than me concerning marriage issues, i know there are people who have been in the same issue as i am now, please how do you pple cope, is there a punishment when you don't marry who God wants you to marry?
How am i sure its not this guy that's messing in my head?
For the fact that i am in my marriageable age doesn't mean i should push mysef into what I don't want.
I am sorry for the long epistle �

Michelle70:
You woke up by 2:58am, the best time when great men wake and think.

And all u could think of is how to marry three wives?

UnconventionalT:
I've been a guest of the platform, I created this account to get the opinions of my people since I happen to be a Nigerian.


I am a lady in my late 20s and I have discovered over the years that although I love love and the idea of marriage, I believe the conventional typical marriage will not work for me.
I am a core introvert, I enjoy my space a lot and I loose so much of my energy spending a lot of time around people. When I was in uni years ago, I made sure I didn't enter a relationship with a guy in my school because I didn't want a boyfriend that will most likely always want to be in same space as me, or try to spend very much time together.
I enjoy long distance relationship, because it means I will not be seeing my patner at all times, I only enjoy little moments of companionship before I get tired of sharing the same space with my patner no matter how in love I am.

I have observed over the few years that the few guys I've been with are people that didn't live in same town as me, and when I tried dating men within close proximity, it always ends in complaints from them about how I don't miss them enough to come spend time.

I don't enjoy sleep-overs, although I've been compelled to do that on very few occasions(probably less than 4 times) I always can't wait to get back to my house, I have never spent more than one night at a stretch with any of my ex. I really do enjoy long video calls.

To be honest, I am also not a fan of sex, I could go months without it. I can't imagine being married and having to do that all the time with a sexually active man that I'll continually share my space with. The only time I feel the urge to do that is when I am on my ovulation period which is quite normal for most women. I am doing my japa masters degree and I tried to develop a relationship with someone I really love and attracted to, he is currently complaining about same thing my ex would complain about.

I could be married tomorrow if I want to as I have two men ready to do that with me, but I cannot lie to myself or the man that intends to marry me and have him live his life in misery. I love children and want to have my own kids.
My idea of marriage will be a marriage of convenience, where my husband and I do not necessarily have to live under the same roof for extended periods of time and we can co parent our kids on our own terms. This is the only way I can have a long lasting marriage if I am not deceiving myself. A long distance marriage, family vacations, have the privilege of being married and still be able to occupy my own personal space as much as I want. This can be reviewed as time goes on by the way.
I am not certain if I can meet a man that shares the same idealogy with me, I'll get married to him tomorrow

The only thing I'll regret not having by the time I'm 30 will be a child of my own, I carried a baby in church today and I wished it was mine. I have babysitted my nieces before and I enjoyed my time with them, kids brings me a lot of positive energy. I really don't mind having just 2 kids for a responsible adult man that isn't really interested in marriage as well.

It's not my fault, my marriage will fail if I try to practise it the typical way and it won't even be the fault of the man(if he is a good man).

Help me out guys, I am at a cross roads. Are there men that are open to long distance marriages? I'll be in the comment to reply as much as I can.

Mods pls help move to front page.

Najdorf:
This is why you're not working at Amazon sir

GREATIGBOMAN:
The way he post the nonsense boldly.
I wonder if he didn't see the solutions above which works but doesn't satisfy the questions Lol

GREATIGBOMAN:
U just display your stupidity in HD


U don't even understand the actual thing they're looking for in the question.


I bet you don't even know what O(1) or O(n) means

Najdorf:
This is why you're not working at Amazon sir

JOSHUAsalami:
Why people don't change even though you preach to them .
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People hear God's word ,and remain the same or do nothing ,they don't even practice what they are thought even though they agree with the teaching .
Unless the word becomes part of their spirit it can't move them to action
The one you heard and do nothing is the one that enters through one ear and goes out of the other .
Peoples don't get change because you preach sweet sermon or communicate the word with excellency .

They don't get transformed because they agree with what you preach ,or because they
Understood it .
What moves them is a blow or a striking on their heart ; a fire kindled in their spirit .
It is not enough to make them understand
Or to get them to agree with what you say .
There must be a kindling and an ignition of fire in their innermost being .

God changed the apostles by kindling a fire in them through the baptism of the holy ghost on the day of Pentecost .
If that fire is not in you then you can't impart it to others .
So what makes the difference is not just the communication of the word alone but also of
the fire ,and the spirit .
If the word you speak does not carry fire it can't stir men up ,if the words you preach doesn't flow out of you with the anointing of the spirit it can't peers into the heart of the hearers creating change .

The anointing that God put on a tongue is not just to help the preacher speak articulately but also to cause a stirring in the heart of those who hear the one who has such anointing .
That anointing flows out of your mouth together with the word creating access to the heart of the people .
That is the gift and power of :
UTTERANCE ANOINTING .
A literal OIL glued to the tongue of the one who has it.
What changes men is not just the word alone
But also the energy that those words imparts into them .
ENERGY is what get them to move NOT WORDS ALONE .

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Wealthoptulent:
Chai.. na second I need bayi o