Nice...

You should have mentioned your child's age/gender. You stand a good chance of having custody of that child and he will be mandated to pay for child support. He will surely be made to pay for the child's basic needs (education+feeding), you may support in providing for accommodation.

I have not really read all the previous posts, but truth is that if you were a good wife and played your part to make the marriage work, yet it didn't, then don't be surprised to see his next marriage collapse again with time. I have seen such happen.

I do not think he will divorce you, but if he does, with time you will surely be able to forget him and move on. Get a job and live your life.

So the solution of witchraft is to lock up a child? Is this wickedness or $tupidity? Good that the law has taken its course. If a child as young as this has witchraft, getting solution would be easy, cuz the child is still young.

So why can't men like you forget about having children so that you can be having $ex monthly without complain? I always wonder.

Tallesty1:
The problem with you and others like you is selfishness and wickedness. It's always about what women want and how they should be treated.

During their period, women want men to understand their hormones. While pregnant, they expect him to stay celibate because she doesn’t want sex due to hormones and mood swings. Men should respect a woman's hormones, but a man's own hormones, such as horniness, should be disregarded and forgotten for nine months.

If she can't give him sex, then she should give him a pass to get it elsewhere. I pity the guy who is even waiting on her.

Nonsense and potential thunder victims.

The BBL method which uses fat transfer is safe

Looking at his picture, it is clear that the man might not be mentally stable, and I believe the speculation that he is HIV positive out to infect and killll. How can one person always be involved in negative issues all the time. Married madam is simply one of those $ex starved women in po0ygamy $uffering in the name 0f marriage.

Fake story

The guy did it just to hurt her. He has hurried into marital journey with just another lady available, and such a marriage will not work out. Let her watch and see.

What's the title of this song?

Fumigating the house alone is not enough. You have to fumigate the insides of the ceiling and block tiny holes if any.

What did he do wrong? His crime?

Why did you ask her repeatedly if she cooked? According to you, you bought food items so as to cook, so when she said she didn't cook, why did you keep asking. Did you expect her to stay without eating? You even went to the waste bin to check, checked the kitchen, checked the gas, you are a very stingy man. When you leave her and start dating a new lady, remember to come back here and give us update/complaint of what your new woman does, because you sound very stingy and follow up tiny things which shouldn't matter.

So this one is getting married with the intent that he will cheat.
, Majority of Naija guys are badly raised, imagine a newly married man saying "if I want to call my woman outside I have to hide". No $hame at all cuz he wasn't well brought up. N0nsense

Damina should be correcting them in private, not publicly. Correcting them publicly seems like an insult

What did Kemi do to him? People always feel they can mess with pastors / Christians as they wish, it is not wrong for a Christian to go after someone using the law.

bdon123:
I hated him since d time he got kemi thrown in prison.I was like wat kind of pastor throws a woman who insults him in prison wit connections m refuses allowing her get bail

So because he has anger issues, then he's not a true man of God? A lot of people always feel that a man of God should accept all kinds of n0nsense and oppression. However, Bible expects that we obey societal laws, so if you hurt a pastor, don't condemn him if he brings the law after you. People like Moses, Elisha, etc all had anger issues cuz they are humans. Mind you, I am not a member of his church, I don't even listen to his preaching.

mhisTessy:
Pst Ibiyomie is not a born again Christian, he has anger issue

You should have dated the man before marrying him. Maybe you don't really love him or find him attractive, because if you do, you wouldn't feel this way. Tell oga what to do, and speak up when you don't feel comfortable. Go meet a professional marriage counselor, I don't mean elderly people, family people or people in church, go to a professional counselor so that you will feel free to speak up and be advised.

Your reasoning that there is nothing like husband material is a joke because ladies do take their time to chose a husband material among suitors for marriage. If you think that ability to provide is all that a man should possess, then you are sleeping, otherwise you would have come across some men who's wife left them despite their wealth. Then when you see a woman who knows her worth and walks out of a bad husband, you begin to taunt her with her divorced status. Times have changed and some women are no longer ashamed of the divorce tag, single mom tag or spinster tag, I belong to such category of women. Some women also contribute financially at home.
Qualities of a husband material:
Faithful
Loving
Supportive, even with house chores
Provides
Kind, etc

chidiokay:



what are you saying, 3- 5yrs is just few miles away you might even still be single at why briing the next generation as if it 30yrs from now the lady is talking about

There is no such thing as husband material the only expectation that defines a responsible husband is "Providing"

The present generation, your generation are you implying they are dumb, and if they did believe in true love will a thread like these come up. No matter the acomplishment of a woman without a Marriage is like Nigeria at the olympics

I'm not...just sharing ideas.

1000angstroms:


Why are you triggered sweetheart?

If such times ever comes, that means there will be 0% men worthy to be called husbands. I pray the ladies of that generation will be smart and never believe in true love. Rather develop themselves and make their own money. If marriage comes fine, if not, they focus on their jobs and children...if any.

The only mistake here, is that a committee in the school should have taken the phones to sell off, then use the money gotten for school fees or books. The truth is that their academics will improve. Children spend too much time on their phones.

Lucky guy...

He definitely will plaster the floor. He feels annoyed that after he spent money making the shop better, the landlord doesn't give him peace.

Went ahead to marry him means what, what if he pretended all through the dating period, hiding his true character ....

Ballzproblemm:
so you know he's bad then went ahead to marry? sometimes I dey wonder how una reason, leave the woman alone only her know wetin she see for the man body.

Go for surgery and keep one organ. When she began to date women, did she approach them appearing as male or female. So the hermaphrodite traits can be transferred to newborns? This is sad...

Why do I keep seeing this topic everywhere I go...

The problem is not submission, the problem is that it's totally impossible to submit to a bad* husband. If he's good he deserves submission. Does a bad husband deserve submission?

The world is full of very w!cked evilll people who like to accuse falsely, some even bear false witness. Only God knows what the OP wanted to achieve through this fake post, he's probably on a mission to make someone lose his job.

Wow....

Looks like staphylococcus infection/ ringworm.

Why leave one of the children with the man? Will that child forgive you when she grows? Two children is not too much to carry along. Majority of these men are very w!cked, poorly raised and unfit as husbands, we don't know what he did.