Did he say yes? I've watched the video but didn't hear his reply. So she had children of her own, he also got her pregnant and have a child between them, yet they have known each other for 10yrs, without marriage, hmmmm.

Fix your life my dear, leave a married man alone. Even averagely beautiful women don't have a problem finding a man, yet you claim to be this and that yet an immigrant who came to Hussle, is whom you decided to cling to, even when he refused to divorce his wife. Fix your life dear, leave husband and wife to fix their own lives.

Jackie999:
Same me who is the reason he now has a relationship with his siblings and father?

Same me who encouraged him to call his wife and kids everyday instead of once a week?

Same me who sends things to Nigeria to his children?

Same me who corrects him when his wrong and speaks badly to his wife or argues on the phone with her with his kids present?

Lol yip. I definitely made him forget them

Did the women force these men to have sex or impregnate them? I wouldn't be surprised if he has 3 or more kids from this same woman who you try to paint black. Yes, it is very necessary for a man and woman who brought a child into the world to care for the child, that's why some women refuse to let their husbands go.

Jackie999:
Refuses? How can he when women use kids as bargaining chips to keep men in the marriage? I'm not even a parent but I'd sure as hell also choose my biological children over a girlfriend or boyfriend.

If you are above 18, yet still reason this way, I advise you seek mental health care cuz you are mentally challenged.

If a man asks you to leave his house by say 1am, 2am, or by midnight, would you feel safe to leave? Why didn't he let her go when she wanted to? Did you enquire about the time he finally told her to leave? As long as he refused to let her go when she wanted to, the blame is totally on him.

If his room is checked and there are several walking sticks, yet he picked the one with dagger, she will be released, and investigations done immediately to know his previous victims. You are definitely a crim!nal male r!tualist or female r!tualist coming on here to support your kinds. Demented* f!lthy*tramp.

Beverlyjean:


U are naturally stupid ooo...what are u even saying... someone asked u to leave his house and she refused and u are creating assumptions... why didn't he strangulate her when they first had sex... u are a very very very dull child ... I doubt u passed ur waec ... damn...see dull child .... he took out his walking stick...did he pull out the dagger out of it? The woman was the one that took the walking stick after he dropped it and then pulled out the dagger....was there at anytime she said the man pulled out the sagger from the walking stick?? As I said u are a proper " ITI BOLIBO"

That was self defense 100 percent, because he was much more stronger than her, and continued to hold onto her, trying to harm her, despite his wounds. He was determined to k!il her.

wrongnumber:


It is easy to sit and write.

You need to get your facts right.

SHE STABBED HIM REPEATEDLY.

That was not self defence but intentional.

A confirmed second degree murder.

Yes I know everything about immigration. She should do everything possible to give the child a good life here. If I were in her shoes I would not even release the child to him even when the child is grown. I would work hard to give my child a good life wherever I am.

The OP can never tell if the man will always be there to nurture and guide the child. He might take him there and abandon him to strange women. Op, keep your child with you. Don't release your child to a new wife. .

Harddiskng:


18? Do you know anything about immigration laws?

It is obvious you don’t.

The best time for the father to file for him is now that he is still young. Everything gets more difficult the older he gets.

Stop giving rubbish advice based on sentimentality.

Just read your comment, it shows how evil minded you are. He will this and that, are you a witch. Can you see the future.

With what intent did he make the advances? To possibly strangulate her, while pretending he wanted to get intimate. Luckily she wasn't as f00!i$h as you are. As long as he pulled out a walking stick with dagger, nothing on Earth can make him be seen as innocent. It was a case of self defense.

Beverlyjean:


Self defence and attempted rape ...but she said the man asked her to leave his house when she refused his advances according to her... how can she now claim rape and self defense.... she will be sentenced to death

Even an infant can reason better than you. Have you not seen, at least in movies, how someone would ask another to leave, with the sole aim of hitting the person from the back? Why didn't he allow her leave early enough when she wanted to? A discuss with your kinds is a complete waste of time.

Beverlyjean:


I don't know how people like u reason... but she said he told her to leave his house but she refused ?? So someone that wants to use u for rituals or rape u will tell u to leave ... instead , she started insulting him and refused to leave ... and u wanna blame the man cos he is dead... ur intelligence is pretty poor

The walking stick had a dagger inside. Her instincts were correct. He was a ritualist and insisted she spent the night so that he would kill her. Why did it have to be a walking stick with dagger that he brought out? That lady will not spend More than 5yrs in prison if she knows her rights and has a good lawyer.

tyup:


Stabbing multiple times was a clear intent to kill nothing more. that was an intended Kill nigga

Who told you that is the punishment for self defense? You are an illiterate who knows absolutely nothing about the "law".

IgboSomalia:


Do you know what will happen to that woman?

They will jail her and she will be rapd severally by lesbuans in jail. Warders sef will do their own.

Thereafter, she will be sentenced to death and her mayer will go on appeal for the next 20 years. Lawyers who want to collect SAN title will use her case to test the law. Eventually, her matter will be converted to manslaughter after spending like 30 years in jail. In all this time, her husband will marry another wife who will show her children shege.

She will come out spent, wasted and her punna will have the mileage of an old lorry.

Free the lady. She only acted out of self defense. If his walking stick had a dagger inside, it means he was definitely a ritualist, he brought her home to kill her. She's very lucky he failed.

He is the one who relocated to another country, and she's been keeping the child. The child is just 10yrs. He cannot win any legal action against her, not possible. He can only win if the court found her incapable of raising the child.

tollyboy5:

Lol when he takes legal action against her she'll be the one to cry at last.

Entitled broke,!diot everywhere

Dingbat..... . I mean take her along as his sons mother. If he's not ready for that, then the OP should be wise enough to block him permanently and change her phone numbers. She should change her home address to cut off from him, with that he will never see her son again.

aktolly54:
Take her along after divorce? What did you smoke? Since she can't endure her marriage,she should 3njoy the divorce

Take her along as his sons mother, if he doesn't want that, then he should be ready to forget her child.

Nokio2:

Take her along as what?
His Son's nanny?

Matchewww

Don't release your child. You should only allow the boy to go when he's 18- 20yrs. If you release your child to him, he will definitely manipulate the boy and cut links with you. Keep your child. What stops him from taking you along? Be wise.

The lady in the picture is not Ajoke, but one of the late Prophets 3daugters.

chieveboy:
Lol, he is trying to hard to cover up. Ajoke is his carbon copy.

He lied all through the allegations.

The cock can only try this with a "goat". The cock can never try this with another animal.

I guess the husband is now satisfied . He will have all the time in the world to move from skirt to skirt? I don't blame him though, I blame his wife who
Values a man to the extent she kills herself.

In saner climes, ladies join any work force without sexual harassment, but in Nigeria you people think you can normalise sexual harassment? You give all forms of stvpid excuses for those lose peni$ men? Is it a different teresterone that runs in the veins of your Nigerian men? I am very sure that the lady will be given justice.

In the past, sexual harassment was a normal thing in higher institutions, now it has been curbed. Same cleansing will soon happen in the military and other forces. Any male officer who knows he cannot tame his pen!$$ should resign or cut it off, simple.

Namaster:
Women who join the Nigerian Military disgust me. They are senseless and have voluntarily forfeited their feminity and ALL the privileges it accords them.
You join a profession dominated by men with testosterones that are through the roof and expect no sexual harassment. It's dumb.

Also, this is Nigeria.

Ordinary lecturers want to mess students for a pass mark in a useless course. Bosses wants to mess their subordinates in the office just for the hell of it.

You now decide to join the Military where zombies are bred. You join an institution where you are just a body that follows orders.

And the orders are given by randy men. Yet you act persecuted when they order you to sit on their di.cks.

It's dumb.

My dear, what you call toxicity, is what I see as a strong willed character. Only God knows the depth of pain the young man may have gone through while growing up. His kinds do not even want to love a woman, but this one is ready to love and protect his woman from his malfunctioned family. No one desires to find themselves in such a situation, but life happens. I am talking from experience, cuz i have bad relatives I don't talk to.

As long as he is ready to stand by her, fine, but she has to be careful not to offend him deeply, because people like him can hardly forgive. People marry orphans, people marry partners who are an "only child"? No diggidies, life goes on.

Klass99:


Strong willed kwa? I don die 🤣....Favvy please explain it to me, what gave you the impression that her man is strong willed from the original post?

Me, I read that post and thought, toxic man with unresolved trauma issues. Not toxic in the way of nairaland men but toxic in the sense of malice keeping. How do you not talk to relatives on your mother and father's side, including your own siblings except one? Haba, na only you waka come this earth with issues?

I don't like my father's people but I can relate with them in a courteous and civil manner. I don't allow them over step their boundaries. If she marries this man she go hear am ooo.

Sad sad sad..... no wonder the rate of HIV keeps increasing.

I knew it would be a black-bald-baboon. Poverty and laziness will always make the female gender stoop to accommodate anything.

You should marry him. From all you have explained above, the man is "strong willed". As a "strong willed" person that he is, it will be difficult for anyone to manipulate him in his marriage to you, unless the person uses diabolic powers. There is no perfect relationship anywhere, you may meet another one, and he's a broke cheat or has other issues.

I am trying to understand what would cause such hatred in his mother's heart. If she is not a diabolical woman, then don't bother much. If she refuses to visit you or talk to you, then so be it. However, it is totally wrong for your man to say that he will stop giving her allowance monthly when he moves out. Don't support such, he should continue to give his mom financial support, but it doesn't have to be half of his salary like you mentioned.

Your man at least has a sibling he talks to. You have to encourage him to forgive his dad. Send Goodwill messages to his mom from time to time.

He was a pastor, he prayed in the name of "Jesus". Talking about Allah, or the universe should not be part of your comments. Submit and stick to the name of Jesus Christ.

Pay your tithe and forget "first fruit". First fruit is not compulsory.

Well, you saw the power of God. Miracle has happened. You do not know if that man of God was on his knees without food or water, interceding for you, yet you are still here beginning to doubt. Tithing and vows are biblical. Give your testimony and redeem whatever you promised God. Be careful what you read here, so that it does not corrupt your mind/stop you from God's grace another time. A word is enough for the wise.

Personally, I recently received a miracle after meeting a particular pastor in August, last last year. We still have genuine Pastors, not all are bad.

A miracle indeed.

Even if it is not acted, they are abusing her rights as a human being. A right to privacy. Very annoying video.

Focusmind:
The acting seemed so obvious. But honestly, Nigerians are brainwashed people. I am not moved by all these actions - packed movies from our pastors. Every fine girl in Nigeria must be possessed by marine spirit?

Deliverance is a personal thing, right? So why is it posted online? Some Pastors need to be called to order. This is not right. The government need to do something asap, arrest people who post private videos.

One unfaithful husband down, another one will soon drop, next news pls.....

You gotta be joking, so you are not aware that some ladies actually prefer far older men? Have you not seen several ladies who left younger men, to marry far older men? Look around...

nairagenone:

Seems you love to live in denial.

Congratulations to the OP, but be aware she is married to a widower who is 20 years older than her.

OP is getting married to her 3rd husband (who is 20 years older and a widower) and all you can come up with is a way to somehow make it feel like our choices in life do not matter ?

If the OP had her way, would she be marrying a widower who is 20 years older than her ?

I am putting this here to provide guidance to younger ladies out there who might get the impression that our choices do not matter in life cos thats the message your write up is conveying...