Greetings Everyone,

I want to start by saying a very Happy New Year to you all!

It has been a while since I have accessed Nairaland. Today, I am introducing Neveah 4 Africa, an Australian-based company that runs an informal micro-financial service and other services/ shop.

Neveah 4 Africa has taken an ancient informal financial aid structure called susu/ sou-sou or asue or marry - go - round and has modernised it.

What is susu/ sou-sou or asue or merry - go - round ?

Susu is a small financial aid structure that provides quick money without borrowing. This system originated from the market women in Africa, where they will come together in a group and contribute a certain amount of money each time. Each time, one member of the group will take until everyone has taken/eaten.

This kind of system has been used by generations across Africa and the Caribbean. Unforutnly scammers have implemented this system and have turned an old African tradition into scamming activities, leaving bitter tests in their victim's mouths.

How does Neveah 4 Africa come into play?

The co-funder of Neveah 4 Africa and others are one of the many victims that has fallen into the hands of scammers using this system.
Based on Neveah 4 Africa co-funder negative experience, they decided to research into the structure that those scammers used and actual legalised it in Australia with permits to conduct it outside of Australia.

Neveah 4 Africa aim/ goal is to operate this great system based on both Australian and international laws. Neveah 4 Africa also redesigned this informal micro-financial system where it replaced the ongoing payment of susu with a one-time price.

If you want to know more about Neveah 4 Africa financial services, just visit -
www.neveah4africa.com
Click on the "financial services" tab and if you want to enquire more, just click on the "Contact Us " tab on their website.

Don't let your 2022 be restricted financially.

Hey NL lovers meanly foodies, I need help... like seriously...

Ok I got invited to a friend birthday party where she has invited lots of people and asked everyone to bring a "plate". Now it would be easy if I was dealing with African lady but this my friend is English and the people that are coming are not from Africa.

So I am looking for some good testy Nigerian/ West African food that goes down well in a group of people who are not African. I need something that is quick and easy to make, something that show cast our West African party food. I only have Friday and Saturday morning left to get this under control.

Please do drop down what I can make and I will chose AND will share the pictures of the chosen food.

Cheers
LilMizzGood

Healthy pasta salad.

ahsekeena:
After stressing myself all day looking for my daily bread,I will now come and give myself headache because I want to understand the gibberish the o.p wrote up there?! impossible!




Some people just can't write cohesively.

Did I made you suffer? No one held a gun in your head to read or comment on this.

Some people wants to read grammar and big big English when they don't even understand simple English.
How the heck you think you will understand grammatical English when you don't even understand the simple one?

Update:

sowie....yhu studied in togo??
Omg!!!
This shit is just like a new born baby tryna talk....
Pls explain in one word

you know if you have nothing nice to say, just Zap off!

I don't know like I said all of you guys have a point but again because I am a upfront person I just think if they liked or just want to be washing buddies, she should not use "visiting me" as a I guess a path way to see my housemate. she should just be upfront when she comes over and just say I am here to see your housemate.

I mean if she just done it like that it wouldn't have much impact on me as it is now, founding out from my hubby and than my housemate denying about it while texting my hubby "why you have to tell her" like really.

you get caught out just come front with it and admit it.

Bottom line is both should just be upfront and not playing hankey pankey like I am some type of fool.

25omega:
wtf are you talking about aren't your housemate and friend adults? do you feed or pay either of their way in life? are you secretly your "friend's" mother?

instead of taking issue with your house mate and friend, you should take issue with your man who insulted you by connecting you with your friend and housemate's slutty ways

huh I don't understand a lot of what you said.

BuddhaPalm:


You're just a little jealous. No shame in it, happens to the best of us.

no it's not jealousy.

hmmm maybe you guys are right but I just can't shake the feeling off.

hahaha lol I know right I had to use "washing" lol

Would you feel disrespected if this happens to you?

If a friend comes over to see you than she and your housemate (male) who is friends with your partner goes out to get dinner but they stayed longer than it should have taken.

1 week later in a hot fight with your partner he mentioned that your friend and the housemate in a bad way, telling you about their "washing" while they went and got dinner the other time; that's why they stayed too long because they were "washing" in the car park.

You came and asked the housemate if it was true that he "washed" your friend at a common car park when she came for a visit, he denies the whole thing but is texting your partner why he has to tell you. You let the whole thing go but some how you can't shake the feeling of disrespect off.

I don't know for someone reason should I feel hurt or disrespected or just gross out. Like I don't really care they are both adults but I don't know. Now I just think she comes over just for my housemate and not to actually "visit me".

Prixus:

I'm done toying with words so I'll be simple. I can't treat all the girls I'm with now as of they r wife material. first because it's difficult for me to imagine treating a girl that more than one boy has used like a princess. just doesn't make sense. I will stress myself chasing a girl that is another man's used tissue? i'm too proud for that. again I'm not ready for marriage so I always have it at the back of my mind that it's gonna end sooner or later so by kill myself? take u for example, u will date and straff a number of guys belfries u settle down, u'v even started already. but in the end u will only marry one.
2ndly, if we r dating I'm expected to spend on her. only an irresponsible guy would date a girl and she won't have anything to show for it. that's my opinion. so while I'm doing all the spending what exactly is she supposed to be doing? pecking me with a thank you?

Now you are talking like a man that respect women and not like a ape that you were before. You are entitled to your own opinion, I personally am not the kind that you have described in your comment but yes there are ladies out that are like that ONLY because they have been hurt and abuse from other guys so they tend not to trust any guy that are in their life. If you start treating them seriously and showing them real love and not being stingy than hey they might delete the rest.

The same way you said that you don't want to spend on another man used "tissue", the same applies to guys, us ladies don't want to spend on other ladies "vomit".

#IamJuststandingOnFreedomofSpeech#

frankhennry6:
you can browse about it @lilmizzgood....I gez ur fone has an internet connection

i don't need to i can just listen to the news from Melbourne or go see the site in person.

Your lies have shocked me.

Prixus:

you are a senseless dimwit. all the characters you stated above should belong to a wife...WIFE!!! not a gf
no sane guy would expect all these from a gf. and yes my mother does most of these things for my dad an for us when we were kids. so if your short-circuitrd brain with fewer than normal synapses can percieve, you will realise that you still cannot tell me or anyone h what a "girlfriend" can offer a guy in a relationship where she expects money but no sex...good evening ma'am

Once you finish experimenting with words, you will come to understand that those girlfriends are someone wife and mother. Maybe if you start treating every girl that enters a romantic relationship with you as a wife material than just a person you are "passing time with" than you will clearly see what a true and real girlfriend brings to the table you ninny-hammer piece of filth.

Looking at all this food, makes me wants to cook more food. What should I cook next. What country food should I cook?

Prixus:
Have you guys noticed that whenever you raise this issue all the girls say is "is sex what a relationship is about"? no one gives any tangible suggestions as to what a girl brings to a relationship. even when they suggest you hear things like "help each other with culinary skills"(how dumb) like one girl posted on the last page. but the moment you say no spending they are quick to say you are not man enough or caring as the poster I quoted above said. am I missing something here to these girls actually want to encourage us to spend foolishly while they chop and clean mouth wisely?

you dey mad!! useless man, you are one of those guys that is soo stingy with money but expect your lady to cook you fresh breakfast, lunch and dinner. Clean your house for it to be dustless, wash your cloths including your 2 dollar underwear, that is beyond dirty. Please you in bed and the last one to still look good for your friends to envy you.

FYI ladies brings a lot to the table. If you want to know... think about your mother, think of all that she has done for you and your father.

Saimeritus:
What will I gain from a relationship that is free of sex?

Must everything have to be sex, can't you enjoy the company of each other? Must you gain or expect something from a relationship? Honestly you can have a relationship that is sex free and still enjoy the relationship.

Wahala don come oooo Chia!!! I don die finish!!!! my hubby broke my iphone 6, he did not play with it, not even leaving it alive a little to see if it can be fix.

Why God made useless men? why ooo, my life as I know it don finish.


I never known my hubby to be a jealousy man and if he is/ was, he never did once show me until now. In the morning I waked up very very angry and started talking to myself about all the wrong he has done to me, than I thought I should text him my frustration while he is at work. A few hours he came back ranging with anger and started writing down things. ( no one spoke to each other) After we started cleaning the house than he started talking about religious difference ( I couldn't care less) than he insulted my father that's when I went off the roof, ob man you guys should have seen me shouting and screaming and kicking and shouting some more. I stopped for a while, take my phone out to call my mum to pick me up because there was no way in hell was I staying at my place.

He did not know who I was calling, in his head I was calling a man, lord jesus this man toke my phone off me, me shouting over my lungs to give me back my phone (iphone 6), he kept asking who I was calling but i was too angry to answer him beside he already believe what was in his head. he than dial the number from my phone unto his phone and at that point I told him if "if my mum picks up, tell her why we are fighting" ahaha. He hanged up and throw my phone on the ground more than once...pretty much until he saw it was beyond respire.

Blackett:

so wetin u wan make I do?

Same title, different context.

How do you know he is "the one" for you?

Does love at first sight exist?

How does love feels like?

Does love last forever in a romantic relationship?

Why am I asking all this questions....hmmm... lets see ........

I don't believe that love at first sight exist, no body knows if any one is "the one" for them, love has no feelings because over doing all emanations will be lead to declaration of lunatic which leads you into a mental institution or if you are in Africa you will be on the street ahahaha jokes aii. I REALLY SERIOUSLY don't believe that love last in any romantic relationship, love dies after a cretin amount of time; if the two people decide to stay in the relationship after the love has gone than it turns into a mutual understanding from both parties, which involves into accepting and compromising with what so every packages that they have on them.

Any other thoughts on my theory of love? Is my theory on love wrong?

This is what I have been eating during my time away from Nairaland, the last one is for my little man, teaching him to eat healthy lol. FYI everything is home made, fresh ingredients.

sam13:
Call this number
07038462492

ok whats the name

Hello to all

Please I'm looking for a 2-3 bedroom house/ apartment/ flat in KETU Lagos or Ketu Alapere. I can pay $520-600 AUD per year.

I need it ASAP, only serious, real, safe people only.

If you can help just email me @ jallah57@gmail.com

Dinner for 2 folks!

It's fired rice with oven roasted honey chicken.

I'm BACK who missed me while I was enjoying life haha hahaha.

Let me update NL ....hmmm
Let's see
1- Got married
2- Had a baby
3- Build houses
4- Move in a new house
5- Graduated with a Bachelor degree
6- Now started with study Masters
Hahahaha believe me or not na your business all I know is papa God is with me.

How y'all doing?
What's being going on in NL while I was away?

hmmm still sexy but have become my less fav since his visit to Australia, he refuse to smile to his fans that were taking pic with him so yer booo!

hahaha well like I said those pic was a ruff idea not on the spot correct and secondly some of your comments won't that bad but lets be honest here and talk reality. Most ladies won't step outside of their home without make up or any form of artificial look and most guys will over the look the lady in the first pic and go for the second, why? Because she looks better than the first one.

I personally don't really care but since this was an argument, I must state that in this age of time ladies have taking the art of unnaturalness over-bored to the point that they fear for their partner or a man to see them without some sort of make up or fake hair on.

I just think it's a waste of time standing there after dressing to put on a whole lot of colors on your face, spending money to look young or staying young when you have your natural beauty to show off, not necessarily means that you have to look dirty or smell like dog crap or be naked but be able to walk on the streets with a good self-esteem.

Example
A few weeks ago I met an acquaintance and she disclosed with me that she can't go on the streets without looking "FRESH" as she would like to put it in other words without her hair done, nails, make up the whole drama thing.Even stating that she is in fear of losing her "man" for a more as I would like to put it BIMBO ( not in the name but the meaning of it)looking. Noticing that she started bleaching as well, which is very common in Australia since most African are bleaching now days.

Just to address the person that made a statement in his/her comment that I as the OP may look ugly or what ever word you used, I'm not ugly nor am I that beautiful but just average and that's the honest truth take it or leave.

P.S who has seen Lady Gaga without her looking gaga

I'm a very natural lady when it comes to looks but my friends are not and in arguments on the subject of which type does men prefer i.e. a woman that goes for natural look or a woman that goes for unnatural look.
I wanted to know what the rest of the Africans think of it. Have your say in this argument of mine.

What looks does men go for, natural or unnatural?

NATURAL LOOK
* No make up
* No weave or any sort of fake hair
* Natural grown hair and nails or cut
* No bleaching or toning
* No Botox or plastic surgery on any part of the body
* No body art apart from your earrings holes (limited to just one hole on each ear)

UNNATURAL LOOK
* Make up 24/7
* Fake hair or weave
* Fake nails
* Bleaching and toning
* Botox or plastic surgery
* Body art and any other
* Any other fake things that ladies put on themselves.

Picture under for vision people and so you get a ruff idea on what I'm talking about.

Source of pictures: Google Images

This is why people are scared of Nigerians all coz of this kind of things.

LMAO!!! I can't stop laughing from all the pic and comments on here, I should get off NL and focus on my assignment that is due in today hahahahahah.

Only on NL u'll see beauty and beast and comments that will bring out the African side of you in a area full of old white people. hehehe anyways good luck in showing off ur babe pic.

I got a new laptop that runs on windows 8 (it does not have the touch requirement). Since I'm new to using windows 8 I find it annoying to work with. I now went and got The Sims 3 (the base) game.

I tired to install it on my windows 8 laptop but every time I click the install button nothing seems to happen, well nothing happens. Instead of the game installing "origin" installed, so here I am thinking maybe I need to be sign into origin before the sims 3 can install, than again I sign in and updated it (origin) but every time I click install for the Sims 3 nothing happens.

Please I need help for I really need this game to install & play on my laptop so I can have a happy life.

Well this is some of my cooking at home.

1. Chicken gizzard with hot pepper and tomatoes.