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I actually don’t know where to start my story from. But I know Mandy and I are in this mess because of my jealousy years ago. This was how it all started. My name is Bobby. Mandy and I have been dating for about eights years now. Both families knew about our relationship and there was no doubt that we would get married when we are ready to settle down. Precisely in the fifth year of our relationship, I had gone to visit Mandy at home when I saw her with two young men and her other siblings. Mandy hardly noticed my presence ,the three hours I was with them. She was so engrossed with the two men, especially the one called Anthony. They talked and whispered into each other’s ear occasionally as if they were lovers. I was not too comfortable but I had to behave like a man - hide my jealousy. I partook in all the discussions from politics to football, played games and even had lunch together. All the time we were all together, Mandy did not introduce me to the young men and that bothered me so much. “Mandy did not introduce me to these guys. Am I not presentable enough or is there something she is hiding?” I asked myself. For the first time, I did not get any attention from Mandy, this was usual. I left them there and went home; she just saw me off to the doorstep, gave me a hug and promised to call me later in the evening. I waited for her call but she did not and because I was so angry and jealous, I refused to call her either even though I was dying to hear her voice and was anxious to know who those guys were. While contemplating whether to call Mandy or not, I did not know when I slept off. I dreamt that Mandy was walking down the aisle with Anthony in a grand style and when I accosted her that I was the right man for her, she told me she thought she loved me but sincerely she does not and was sure I am not man enough for her. While I was pleading with her not to leave me, my alarm rang. I was sweating profusely when I woke up. “God, what kind of dream is this? Is Mandy really planning to leave me?” I put aside the dream and got ready for work. At about 7:30 a.m. Mandy called me and apologised that she slept off. That day at work, I couldn’t concentrate because I was really disturbed by the dream. At about 3:00 p.m., I called Mandy and told her I would take her home after work and she said that was a good idea. At exactly 6:10 p.m., I was at her office and as we drove to her house, I took the opportunity to ask her who Anthony was. She told me he was a childhood friend and an ex-boyfriend. She explained to me that she broke up with him after she caught him cheating on her with her best friend and that He suddenly travelled out of the country and they lost contact further stating that To be honest, they saw each other again for the first time after 12 years the day i met him in her house.” out of redhot jealousy, I asked her if she still loved him and she said “No, but that they are still friends. Look, there wasn’t anyway that I couldn’t have seen it, It was very transparent enough that Anthony was still in love with her even if Mandy did not see. I saw it, I am a man so I know. I was so scared that she may leave me at any time, so three days later, I suggested that we took an oath to be together forever…… Yes I said so…..i was too jealous and insecure about my self and I thought I was going to loose her…. So I asked her for it to be done and people guess what happened….! She refused to talk to me for more than two weeks. One Friday evening, she called to inform she would spend the weekend at my place so that we would have the opportunity to talk things out. I felt it was a pleasant idea. The weekend was splendid. Mandy agreed to take the oath, if that would put to rest, my fear about her leaving me for Anthony or any other man. I cut our right thumbs with a new blade, with blood coming out. We pressed it against each other’s hand and said one after the other, “As long as I alive, I will marry you. If I marry another, I shall die. The only thing that would separate us is death.” I thought this act would keep us together for life until a few weeks back. We both decided that it was time to settle down and live happily ever after until we were asked to go for a series of medical tests as it is one of the requirements to get married in her parents’ church. so, we were told the particular hospital to go for the test. We went to the hospital with the sealed envelope we were given from the church. We saw the Chief Medical Director who asked us to go to the laboratory where we will be attended to. Our blood sample was taken and at the end, we were told that the result would be sent to the pastoral unit of the church. Three days later, I received a phone call from the head pastor to come with Mandy to the church that evening. When we got there, he informed us that we cannot get married based on medical grounds. So shocked beyond words, I asked him What the outcome of the test was and At least we should know why we couldnt get married And he told us that, the outcome of the test showed that our genotype is both AS. And that If we ever got married, we would only bring children into this world that would suffer as sicklers. Do you want to give birth to sicklers?” He told us that he would call our parents and inform them of the new development. I could believe my ears, mandy almost fainted… but that didn’t change the fact that he advised that it was better we thought of calling off the wedding to avoid future crisis. A week later, Mandy and her parents came over to my house to see my parents about the medical report. We all sat in our sitting room and her father that there was No doubt that Mandy and I love each other dearly but after due medical consultation with mandy’s mother and they have concluded that this wedding slated for the 21st of April next month should be called off for the sake of their unborn children. my father agreed and Both parents counseled us that we could still remain friends but must move on with our lives. We both agreed but we knew it was not going to be easy. God, my dream has finally come to reality. Mandy is finally taken away from me. But then, I remembered the oath we took. “What will happen to us because the oath was to be together for forever?” Time now has come for both of them to get married and they had to do test, which they did and guess what, they both are AS….. The pastor, families have come to a conclusion that the wedding which is coming up on the 21st of april will be called off so that they don’t bring kids into this world to suffer… They all agreed but here is what bobby has got to say in the concluding part of his story… Mandy came to see me in the office two days later and immediately she entered into my office, she pulled me close and asked, bobby, what about the oath we took? What do we do? And that she doesnt really care if our genotype is AS or SS; and that all she wants is to be my wife. And what broke my heart was when she asked me what I wanted, I became weak and stupid because I was responsible for this mess. “Honestly, I don’t know anymore. As for the oath, I thought she would leave me for Anthony that was why I insisted. Now, she still cannot be my wife. O God, what have I done?. Although the wedding had been called off but we both insisted that we must get married. The question on every one’s lips is why do we want to do this against the odds? Please advice, Do we tell our parents about the oath? God they would be so disappointed or do we marry different people and both die, or better still, get married, bring sicklers into the world and allow them to suffer? As I write this piece, Mandy is already a wreck and I am totally confused. What do we do? |
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I really wanna know cos am kinda confused |
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Mathematics unilorin |
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There are alot of fools and idiots in this site,why would you condemn islam just because a member tried to bomb a plane,stay with your belief's while we also stay wit ours,spoilin islam just because u're a christian,why dont u guys leave it for God to decide and stop bein one sided,God will surely judge us all |
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Pls guys i need someone to stay with and at wat cost cos i havent gotten a room,my number 08099743987 or mail me on facebook www.Facebook.com/Lilshaddy.Thx |
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April 27 my number 08099743987 |
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Seyman01 |
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My number 08099743987,or on facebook www.facebook.com/lilshaddy or 2go at Seyman01. Interested girl (18-24) should check me out |
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Hi guys pls i need friends in ilorin,add me www.facebook.com/Lilshaddy or on 2go at Seyman01 thx |
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How are we gonna upload our signature cos i dont understand |
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All freshers pls add me on facebook let ur relate www.Facebook.com/lilshaddy |
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Pls which area can i get accommodation that is very close to school and at wat cost,urgent help needed,thx |
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orlah baba:pls wen was the last time u uploaded |
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orlah baba:wen was the last time u upload |
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Harjibode:how about those that have not been cleared,are they also resuming too |
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Wat U guys mean is that we can do the etranzact stuff without being cleared since the bank did not ask for clearance form |
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flex12:i thought you said u have been cleared my fb id www.facebook.com/lilshaddy |
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Shud44:thanks so much i uploaded mine on thursday around 2:45pm definately i would be cleared today around 2:45pm |
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golddeejay:wen did you re-upload your result and wen were you cleared |
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Shud44:wen did you upload your result and wat time were you cleared |
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ms.squiz:just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload |
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ms.squiz:just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload |
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ms.squiz:just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload |
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There is something i still dont understand,i was told invalid scratch card,i went to neco office to purchase their card and i used d card to check my result it worked,den i re-uploaded wit the new scratch card but all am still seein in my status is INVALID CARD,WAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS |
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Thanks so much for the info |
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