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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Boyfriend by Lilshaddy(m): 12:28am On Mar 30, 2012
Any hot and sexy girl in lagos,abuja or ilorin,should holla at me 08099743987.Am really good at makin girls reach orgasm and squirt
Romance / What Should I Do by Lilshaddy(m): 11:59pm On Mar 29, 2012
I actually don’t know where to
start my story from. But I know
Mandy and I are in this mess
because of my jealousy years
ago. This was how it all started.
My name is Bobby. Mandy and I
have been dating for about
eights years now. Both families
knew about our relationship and
there was no doubt that we
would get married when we are
ready to settle down. Precisely
in the fifth year of our
relationship, I had gone to visit
Mandy at home when I saw her
with two young men and her
other siblings.
Mandy hardly noticed my
presence ,the three hours I was
with them. She was so
engrossed with the two men,
especially the one called
Anthony. They talked and
whispered into each other’s ear
occasionally as if they were
lovers. I was not too
comfortable but I had to behave
like a man - hide my jealousy. I
partook in all the discussions
from politics to football, played
games and even had lunch
together.
All the time we were all
together, Mandy did not
introduce me to the young men
and that bothered me so much.
“Mandy did not introduce me to
these guys. Am I not presentable
enough or is there something
she is hiding?” I asked myself.
For the first time, I did not get
any attention from Mandy, this
was usual.
I left them there and went
home; she just saw me off to
the doorstep, gave me a hug
and promised to call me later in
the evening. I waited for her call
but she did not and because I
was so angry and jealous, I
refused to call her either even
though I was dying to hear her
voice and was anxious to know
who those guys were. While
contemplating whether to call
Mandy or not, I did not know
when I slept off.
I dreamt that Mandy was
walking down the aisle with
Anthony in a grand style and
when I accosted her that I was
the right man for her, she told
me she thought she loved me
but sincerely she does not and
was sure I am not man enough
for her. While I was pleading with
her not to leave me, my alarm
rang. I was sweating profusely
when I woke up. “God, what kind
of dream is this? Is Mandy really
planning to leave me?” I put
aside the dream and got ready
for work. At about 7:30 a.m.
Mandy called me and apologised
that she slept off. That day at
work, I couldn’t concentrate
because I was really disturbed
by the dream.
At about 3:00 p.m., I called
Mandy and told her I would take
her home after work and she
said that was a good idea. At
exactly 6:10 p.m., I was at her
office and as we drove to her
house, I took the opportunity to
ask her who Anthony was. She
told me he was a childhood
friend and an ex-boyfriend.
She explained to me that she
broke up with him after she
caught him cheating on her with
her best friend and that He
suddenly travelled out of the
country and they lost contact
further stating that To be
honest, they saw each other
again for the first time after 12
years the day i met him in her
house.”
out of redhot jealousy, I asked
her if she still loved him and she
said “No, but that they are still
friends. Look, there wasn’t
anyway that I couldn’t have
seen it, It was very transparent
enough that Anthony was still in
love with her even if Mandy did
not see. I saw it, I am a man so
I know. I was so scared that she
may leave me at any time, so
three days later, I suggested
that we took an oath to be
together forever……
Yes I said so…..i was too jealous
and insecure about my self and I
thought I was going to loose
her…. So I asked her for it to be
done and people guess what
happened….!
She refused to talk to me for
more than two weeks. One
Friday evening, she called to
inform she would spend the
weekend at my place so that
we would have the opportunity
to talk things out. I felt it was a
pleasant idea. The weekend was
splendid. Mandy agreed to take
the oath, if that would put to
rest, my fear about her leaving
me for Anthony or any other
man. I cut our right thumbs with
a new blade, with blood coming
out.
We pressed it against each
other’s hand and said one after
the other, “As long as I alive, I
will marry you. If I marry
another, I shall die. The only
thing that would separate us is
death.” I thought this act would
keep us together for life until a
few weeks back. We both
decided that it was time to
settle down and live happily
ever after until we were asked
to go for a series of medical
tests as it is one of the
requirements to get married in
her parents’ church. so, we
were told the particular hospital
to go for the test.
We went to the hospital with
the sealed envelope we were
given from the church. We saw
the Chief Medical Director who
asked us to go to the
laboratory where we will be
attended to. Our blood sample
was taken and at the end, we
were told that the result would
be sent to the pastoral unit of
the church. Three days later, I
received a phone call from the
head pastor to come with
Mandy to the church that
evening.
When we got there, he informed
us that we cannot get married
based on medical grounds. So
shocked beyond words, I asked
him What the outcome of the
test was and At least we should
know why we couldnt get
married
And he told us that, the
outcome of the test showed
that our genotype is both AS.
And that If we ever got
married, we would only bring
children into this world that
would suffer as sicklers. Do you
want to give birth to sicklers?”
He told us that he would call
our parents and inform them of
the new development. I could
believe my ears, mandy almost
fainted… but that didn’t change
the fact that
he advised that it was better
we thought of calling off the
wedding to avoid future crisis.
A week later, Mandy and her
parents came over to my house
to see my parents about the
medical report. We all sat in our
sitting room and her father that
there was No doubt that Mandy
and I love each other dearly but
after due medical consultation
with mandy’s mother and they
have concluded that this
wedding slated for the 21st of
April next month should be called
off for the sake of their unborn
children.
my father agreed and Both
parents counseled us that we
could still remain friends but
must move on with our lives. We
both agreed but we knew it
was not going to be easy.
God, my dream has finally come
to reality. Mandy is finally taken
away from me. But then, I
remembered the oath we took.
“What will happen to us because
the oath was to be together
for forever?”
Time now has come for both of
them to get married and they
had to do test, which they did
and guess what, they both are
AS…..
The pastor, families have come
to a conclusion that the wedding
which is coming up on the 21st
of april will be called off so that
they don’t bring kids into this
world to suffer…
They all agreed but here is
what bobby has got to say in
the concluding part of his story…
Mandy came to see me in the
office two days later and
immediately she entered into my
office, she pulled me close and
asked, bobby, what about the
oath we took? What do we do?
And that she doesnt really care
if our genotype is AS or SS; and
that all she wants is to be my
wife. And what broke my heart
was when she asked me what I
wanted, I became weak and
stupid because I was responsible
for this mess.
“Honestly, I don’t know anymore.
As for the oath, I thought she
would leave me for Anthony
that was why I insisted. Now,
she still cannot be my wife. O
God, what have I done?.
Although the wedding had been
called off but we both insisted
that we must get married. The
question on every one’s lips is
why do we want to do this
against the odds?
Please advice, Do we tell our
parents about the oath? God
they would be so disappointed
or do we marry different people
and both die, or better still, get
married, bring sicklers into the
world and allow them to suffer?
As I write this piece, Mandy is
already a wreck and I am totally
confused. What do we do?
Education / What Is The Difference Between Bsc Mathematics And Bsc(ed) Mathematics by Lilshaddy(m): 10:58pm On Mar 18, 2012
I really wanna know cos am kinda confused
Education / Re: Name Your School And Course. by Lilshaddy(m): 7:42pm On Oct 22, 2011
Mathematics unilorin
Politics / Re: Why I Became A Terrorist - Abdulmuttalab by Lilshaddy(m): 11:51pm On Oct 17, 2011
There are alot of fools and idiots in this site,why would you condemn islam just because a member tried to bomb a plane,stay with your belief's while we also stay wit ours,spoilin islam just because u're a christian,why dont u guys leave it for God to decide and stop bein one sided,God will surely judge us all
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 8:57am On Oct 15, 2011
Pls guys i need someone to stay with and at wat cost cos i havent gotten a room,my number 08099743987 or mail me on facebook www.Facebook.com/Lilshaddy.Thx
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: What Is Your Date Of Birth? See If U Have A Match by Lilshaddy(m): 8:00am On Oct 15, 2011
April 27 my number 08099743987
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your 2go User Name,you Might Be Lucky by Lilshaddy(m): 7:55am On Oct 15, 2011
Seyman01
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Phone Number And You Just Might Get A Date by Lilshaddy(m): 7:50am On Oct 15, 2011
My number 08099743987,or on facebook www.facebook.com/lilshaddy or 2go at Seyman01. Interested girl (18-24) should check me out
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 8:37pm On Oct 12, 2011
Hi guys pls i need friends in ilorin,add me www.facebook.com/Lilshaddy or on 2go at Seyman01 thx
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 8:49am On Oct 08, 2011
How are we gonna upload our signature cos i dont understand
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 9:22pm On Oct 04, 2011
All freshers pls add me on facebook let ur relate www.Facebook.com/lilshaddy
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 12:28pm On Oct 02, 2011
Pls which area can i get accommodation that is very close to school and at wat cost,urgent help needed,thx
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 5:29am On Sep 28, 2011
orlah baba:

@ all i have just been cleared dis morning by 9 o'clock i am just too happy, i Give God the glory and Adoration, Who knows the amount for the acceptance fee with the bank charges? pls urgent reply,
pls wen was the last time u uploaded
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 5:14am On Sep 28, 2011
orlah baba:

@ all i have just been cleared dis morning by 9 o'clock i am just too happy, i Give God the glory and Adoration, Who knows the amount for the acceptance fee with the bank charges? pls urgent reply,
wen was the last time u upload
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 5:05am On Sep 28, 2011
Harjibode:

This is to inform all returning students that academic activities resume on October 4th, 2012. Returning students are to visit their Portals for details on Good Standing and registration
how about those that have not been cleared,are they also resuming too
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 6:14pm On Sep 24, 2011
Wat U guys mean is that we can do the etranzact stuff without being cleared since the bank did not ask for clearance form
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 11:30am On Sep 24, 2011
flex12:

Dem no gree clear me o!!@lil shaddy whats your fb i.d i need your help with sumtin
i thought you said u have been cleared my fb id www.facebook.com/lilshaddy
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 3:23am On Sep 24, 2011
Shud44:

@lilshaddy,i uploaded on wed around 8pm.was cleared today around 8pm
thanks so much i uploaded mine on thursday around 2:45pm definately i would be cleared today around 2:45pm
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 10:48pm On Sep 23, 2011
golddeejay:

they have cleared me but ask me to accept my admission 72 hrs from the day of clearance. i hope it will not be too late on monday cos 2morrow is sat. and most banks will not operate 2morrow.
@ arrowtop kudos to u for keeping everybody posted on latest info from school.
all those that have not bn cleared yet, just be cool and calm cos it is not nothing to panic about. the worst that can happen is for them to ask u to come manual clearance.
holla me on www.facebook.com/dejiakande so we can relate on anything that has to do with this admision and other issues.
wen did you re-upload your result and wen were you cleared
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 10:46pm On Sep 23, 2011
Shud44:

They don clear me!i used a dripping marker to write all info on the side of my result.monday come quick o.72hrs,ilorin no dey joke.
wen did you upload your result and wat time were you cleared
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 10:42pm On Sep 23, 2011
ms.squiz:

Pls guys help me,i uploaded my o level result with my details written with a biro and am yet to be cleared.the problem is i want to re upload my details but they av removed the link telling me my they've received my uploads already.pls is there anyother way i can upload apart from the admission status page.tanx
just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 10:42pm On Sep 23, 2011
ms.squiz:

Pls guys help me,i uploaded my o level result with my details written with a biro and am yet to be cleared.the problem is i want to re upload my details but they av removed the link telling me my they've received my uploads already.pls is there anyother way i can upload apart from the admission status page.tanx
just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 10:41pm On Sep 23, 2011
ms.squiz:

Pls guys help me,i uploaded my o level result with my details written with a biro and am yet to be cleared.the problem is i want to re upload my details but they av removed the link telling me my they've received my uploads already.pls is there anyother way i can upload apart from the admission status page.tanx
just go to instruction number 2 below it u'll c "click here 48hours to check ur clearance status" den click on it den u can upload watever you wanna upload
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 4:13pm On Sep 23, 2011
There is something i  still dont  understand,i was told  invalid scratch card,i went to neco office to purchase  their card and i used d card to check my result it worked,den i re-uploaded wit the new scratch card but all am still seein in my status is INVALID  CARD,WAT  CAN I DO ABOUT THIS
Education / Re: 2011/2012 Unilorin Admissions by Lilshaddy(m): 12:25pm On Sep 23, 2011
Thanks so much for the info

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