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Excuse me but you people are incredibly narrow-minded not to mention out of touch with the way modern society and culture views relationships with a fairly significant age difference, not that age matter anyway. Obviously, the girl knew the guy wanted to sleep with her which mean she was aware of the nature of the relationship and was coherent enough to make the decision to sleep with this guy and the other(s) Our guy, being an adult, also knew the nature of the relationship and you mustnt judge him by your own frail standards anyway. He didnt make a mistake, he was acting on a very natural human impulse and the fact that he thought that it may be wrong shows he isnt a peadophile.
Also the free use of the word peadophile in this topic is rather disgusting. How would you feel if random people were branding you a peadophile without sufficient knowledge of the facts? It's the most disgusting act in the world, it ruins lives, takes them away and you motherfuckers are giving it away like candy. Get a grip.
Age is a state of mind. I'm not advocating sleeping with actual kids but there are girls mature enough to have sex with whoever they chose to and are sage about it. They are not whores. You guys need to open your minds and realise that the age gap thing is just a futile argument that will forever be debated but never solved. What works for some doesnt for others, Keep your minds and eyes open.

I still want to be your friend but I just dont think we should see or speak to each other anymore. I think it would be really beneficial for our friendship and bond.

I do love him. I can see us so happy together with a strong family, a wonderful life and always very much in love. I respect him more than anybody else, which is why I was so honest with him about my past (which is very colourful indeed!).  I just want the same honest and if he loves me like he says then he should confess and find a legitimate way to conduct his business.

I dont have any ugly friends. I really dont. It may sound shallow and pathetic but I feel better when I'm with someone who is good looking and well dressed, and dont get me started on fat people,

I have secrets, of course, like everyone else but since I chose him and gave myself to him I promised that I would be truthful with him always and that means no secrets. I dont need protected from who he is and if I did I wouldnt be with him, I think I would view it better if I'd known a while ago but I just had a feeling of dread for a long time and now my fears are very true.

There is being secretive and then there is avoiding the truth and covering up your tracks. It's fine to have secrets but not to the detriment of those who love and care for you. I would ask him but he is very evasive.

I cant even think of marriage is he's not going to be truthful with me. I have never lied to him and I would never lie to him even if it may hurt him deeply and I expected the same from him. Also, does anyone have any idea about the type of crime that happens in west africa? I dont think he's involved with drugs but maybe something to do with fraud, Men are so full of shit sometimes and I cant believe I fell for this one,

I'm a British girl dating a Nigerian man and I dont know if he can be trusted. He is very secretive and recently he has left me saying he was going down south but has instead left the country. I found this out when he called me and I checked the dial code. I dont know why he would have to leave the country and not tell me unless its to partake in something illegal. I have also found documents that I believe to be fraudulent.
I'm really falling in love with this guy and I need to decide whether he is lying to my or is dangerous. I do not know. I want to wait and hear it from the horse's mouth but should I just decide now that all these lies are not a good foundation for a relationship??Any comments?

LilyRose