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Hey peeps i nid ur advice pls no insults.she hapuns to be my coursemate but we don't talk to each other but she always stares at me in class until oneday i went to the front sit were she always sits to pay for a handout then i felt somebody tapping me from behind and bhold it ws her,she was like bros front sit fit you and since then we started talking.to cut the long story she has been good to me with advice and so many tinz the greenlight she showed prooved to me that she loves me as much as i do then i decided to let her know what i felt for her when i told she was like she just brokeup with her guy so i should give her sometime to think about it of which i did after some few wiks she told me her mind saying she wants to be single for now and that she doesnt want to be distracted,i did'nt argue with i jst wished her luck in all she finds herself doing and since then i stopped calling nor texting and she too never did it over 4wiks now and currently we're on strike in skul so we've not been seeing for over a month,pls peeps what should i do or what will u do if you're in my shoes?

RealBitch: She dint call back when you stopped calling??

yeah she did not call or text atall.what do you think.

my name is shola,a student of plateau state polytechnic (plapoy).there is this girl in my class that i like so much,initially when i started school we dont talk 2 each oda bt i notice that eachtym she sees me in class or outside class she always stares at me and if i catch her staring,we make eye contact then she smiles and covers her mouth with her hand,it always like that eachtym we make eye contact bt we neva talk,until this very good day,i went to pay for an handout to our class rep in the front and she was sitting behind me,i acted as if i did not even see her,i sat close to the class rep as i was writting my name she tapped me from behind,i was very suprise and when i turned,she said bros this front sit fit you,i responded with a smile saying 'really',she said yes bt i dont knw y u lyk sitting at the back,i told her it because i always come late bt if she can keep sit 4 me the next day i would appreciate,she said 'no problem i will try',i said ok and left.the next day we did nt see atall until afta two days and when i saw her,i asked y she did not keep sit 4 me,she said she did but i did nt come so she allowed someone else sit on it,later that day we met at the school cafeteria,when she saw me with her friends they all started smiling and when i approached them,i was feeling shy,she now whispered to her friend that 'his shy',i heard and said to her you dey chuk me yan abi,she said no o,after then i asked her for note,she said i should bring my book she will copy it for me,i gave her and her friends left for there various houses.i was walking her home and as we wia going she was a kinda advicing me to be serious with my education and stuffs like that,i gave her ma fone 2 dial her numba,she collected and dialld it there.now we somehow close,i asked if she was in any relationship she said yes,i felt bad but within me i felt she's nt into any relationship i kept the fire burning by calling,texting and care,although she had texted me twice but that was all.am fadeup now with the calling and texting,i have the intention of telling her how i feel for her but am scared.i stopped calling and texting her for about a week now and she too has not called nor text,pls my pals if you are in my shoes what will you do,advice me.

i intended to bring her to my home on christmas day but when i called and asked if we could see,she said she was a kinda busy so i decided not to disturb again,on boxing day which was on monday,she called me arround 3:30pm that can we see,i couldnt say no cos that very day we where having a family meeting in ma house so there is no way i could take her home,when she came i wanted to tell her that we cant go to my house but i was scared she could get upset,i then made up my mind to take her to a guest inn in ma area,which was unkown to her,i felt if i should tell her she might refuse not to go with,i said to my self that i was going to explain to her once we got there,she was busy asking me are we going to your house i said yes.on getting there she got really upset that why did i lie to her and that why dint i just tell her the truth,i explained to her but she shunned me and said i have killed thfeelings she had for me,ever since then i was always sending her text,telling her how sorry i was but if i call she doesnt pick ma calls till today.

i met this girl on 2go and we've been very good friends ever since we met,we then met physically on a beautifu tuesday morning because we where both applicants for admission into unijos but unfortunately she did not and i as well did not get,so we met in the school and gisted about the admission stuff,we really had a goodtime that day after we never saw again but became more good friends on 2go,i like her so much ever since we met but unknown to her,i then started flourishing with text messages and asked her out for a date of which she agreed to,we met and i told her what i felt for her in my heart in her response she said i should give her time to think about it,my problem now is that she has not given me reply back and she is not showing any sign of concern like even texting or even calling to give me the humor that something positive can come out rather i be the one who is calling and texting everyday,pals pls what do you think should i discontinue with the calls and texting?

peeps i only needed an advice on what to do next,actually i asked her out befor that funny incident of why she doesn't call and text as i do and she agreed,i dnt want to tell her that i like her on phone,i preffer telling her face to face,guys pls give your opinions but please no insult.

peeps there is dis girl dt always coms to my shop to buy feed and each time she comes i always admire her,so i decided to ask her of her name and number,she did told me her name and as wel her number,ever since then have been calling and texting her but she neva calls,though she texted few times but i neva botherd about that i still kept on calling and texting,each time i call we use to role very well and she shows signs of interest that she likes me but i dnt knw y she doesnt call,i den dcided to ask her why she doesn't call as i do she replied saying i dont knw wt u wnt me 2 say,i sed she shuld say anytin bt she jst kept quiet and sed nthn,eva since den i stoped calln ha nd she as not calld yet,peeps advice me on what to do cos am rily triping 4 her,what do do.