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This is soooo informative, tnx alot op lalasticlala dis shud be in fb asap

Jadeite:
She never loved him in the first place..Never.. She still doesn't... If she did,she would have seen prospects..That being said,I'd feel normal and happy for him,but that doesn't mean Id want to have him back.. Hells nah!

True but we are humans you know

Let's be honest, there's this feeling of intense jealousy and regret especially if you took him/her for granted while you both were together.

A friend of mine is currently having serious emotional trauma and it hasn't been easy convincing her to move on. They dated for over two years and she never really took the poor guy serious (she once told us he was there for her "hold body" when she was bored), you know he was really broke like hell then lol. Heard she came across the same guy in her new area where she and her family relocated to and she probably didn't expect was she saw. She's been crying ever since then lol it's really funny but I don't really understand why it is like that really.

Don't fake it, how do you feel when you see your ex bf or gf really successful, famous, more good looking and probably beyond your league?

For me it would hurt a lot though. But an ex is an ex anyway so.......

lalasticlala

eitsei:
It's well my brother, we all have a story to tell when we become successful

Exactly reiyvn itz a phase we must pass

Av bin followin ur topics 4 a while. Ur a very gud writer reiyvn. Thumbsup

Beautiful write up Reiyvinn! Hapi bday too

Reiyvinn:
still very much available...

What's the last price?

Pls mods lalasticlala farano ishilove rocktation seun, ladies wil sure use this piece of info. It nids to b in FP. Thnx

My friend posted this on fb

I've dated many guys during the course of my teens and early adulthood but no one, I mean no one, can compare to this very guy I met while serving in Cross River a few years back.

The moment we started dating, I knew he was God-sent and to top it all up, he was extremely handsome, intelligent to the core and fun to be with. He had everything a decent woman would need in a man except that he wasn't too rich then, after all he too was serving with us, but I always believed he would one day because he had so much intellectual asset that could make any man wealthy in the nearest future, and he wasn't lazy.

Two months into the relationship and I was already feeling like I've never dated any guy before in my whole life because his love, affection and pampering far superseded all the other guys I've ever been with X10. It was like I had won a lottery.

He loved discussing future plans with me; always saying he can't wait to meet my Dad whom I never told about him (I lost my Mum at age 12). He took me to his hometown and showed me to his family who welcomed me like their own.

Once in a while I'd steal his phone away from him just to go through his messages and chats with women on Social Media and to my greatest surprise, he had turned down so many women who tried their luck on him just because of me. I couldn't help but love him totally. He really stole my heart.

Notwithstanding, I cheated on him so many times just to "belong" in the eyes of my friends. To me, he wasn't even my fiance nor my hubby so I didn't owe him any kind of faithfulness.

Although he was a machine in bed, a killer kisser and a roman in romance, I just couldn't stay with him alone. I mean, I needed to catch fun while my age allowed it.

One day, he was sending some songs when a text came in. It was from one of my "boyfriends" back in Lagos, and he kinda read it. To be frank, I can't really remember the content of the text but I could see heartbreak written all over him.

I had to lie to him that it was one of my Ex'es who was really disturbing me and that I was long over him but he didn't want to leave me. (You know normal girls kind of lie na, I couldn't afford to lose him o)

He let it go, but I knew his trust had depreciated if not long gone.

Almost a year into relationship (we had finished service) and we began to hit the rocks. We had quarrels upon quarrels. My man had completely changed from whom I used to know.

When we talked on phone, it was brief; whilst sounding very casual to me. When we kissed, he'd just pull away, look me in the eyes, and change the subject. He became more pensive, moody and he never opened up to me like he used to.

I was totally bemused by what was going on and I started fearing that someone may have stolen him from me.

Funny enough, he even tried to settle things at some point but it just wasn't working! He was losing his love for me so fast and he couldn't help it. I knew it and it hurt me badly.

One day, while I laid on his chest, I summoned up courage and asked "Baby, is there someone else?"

If humans could see the future, I would have known better that that question would result to something I will regret forever.

Of a truth, I knew he wasn't a womanizer. I just needed to know what was going on with such changes I was seeing.

He looked me in the eye, smiled and said "No" in a very harmless way.

Then he asked me "How is it that you ask me such a question without being judged by your own conscience?"

I was startled. What did he mean by that?

It was at this point he began unfolding to my face how many other guys I have been sleeping around with (both protected and unprotected) since we started the relationship. He told me when (as in the exact date) for each of them and up till today, I am still shocked at how he knew all these. (although any time I cheated on him, his attitude towards me changed).

I was too weak to deny it. I had been caught pants down. I was really in love with this guy and I could feel his pain. I betrayed him. I cried my eyes out and he too sobbed.

I didn't even have the courage to beg him because I knew he was fed up.

He just dropped a paper on the bed and left the door. It turned out to be his HIV test result which was Negative.

I never saw or heard from the man of my dreams ever again after that day. I called, switched off. On Facebook? He wasn't active. His house? He had relocated. It was after I got married that I heard he was also married, comfortable and with children.

Today I'm married with 3 kids to a man; a drunk and a brute who doesn't see anything bad in dishonouring our matrimonal bed.

Please ladies, before you loose your dream man (the man God may have chosen to bless you with), thread carefully.

If he loves you, cares for you and is faithful to only you, please reciprocate because you may not know his worth and his value until he walks out of your life.

God bless you

This almost made me cry.

Lalasticlala

I saw ds on fb sumtym ago. Lolx so funny (but i kinda disagree tho)
"Wen a mushin galfriend claims she only had sex 1s, her bfs be lyk:

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I see some truths in what the OP said tho. I'm so fund of Number 8, it's crazy! *hides face*

Number 8 tho. LMFAO!

One act could put you against God.

One act could throw this country into chaos.

One act could make this country a hell-on-earth for us and our children.

One act could put you in direct allegiance to the Anti-Christ.

BE WISE

God bless you.

God bless Nigeria.

Emmyk:
Nonsense.

The message is "nonsense" to those who are perishing. (1 Corinthians 1:18).

Are you??

Check yourself.

Cheers.

You are probably at your various Polling Units and what you have on you has the capacity to dictate the future of this country, Nigeria.

However, have you asked yourself "What does God say about my choice?"

Is your choice God's choice??

Here is what God has to say:

"Fear God, fear the King. Do not associate with those who insist on CHANGE " - Proverbs 24:21.

SO, who are those clamouring for that "change"??

We have:

* Bola Asiwaju Tinubu, whom WikiLeaks has proven to be the most corrupt entity Nigeria has ever had.

* Olusegun Obasanjo whose regime recorded one of the highest case of kleptocrasy (stealing of Nigeria's money) who decided to decamp from President Goodluck Jonathan's side for refusing to dance to the tune of his "God-Fatherism"

* Atiku Abubakar who changes political parties like diapers. Desperate to have another taste of the "National Cake", has exposed his true intent as not having the Nation's interest at heart but his Pocket's.

Lastly, Muhammadu Buhari the President Aspirant for APC. The Camouflage, Smoke screen, Puppet and Figurehead with which these criminals intend to enrich themselves with Nigeria's money. The former dictator, being sold back to us as a "saint."

Dear Nigerians, do not be decieved. Those clamouring for this "change" are antichrist, please don't receive that mark. The mark that gives you the audacity to challenge God's word.

If you find yourself in that situation, it's not too late. God is telling you to:

"Come out of her! And take part in her sins. . .and share in her punishment. . ." (Jeremiah 51:45; Revelation 18:4)

God bless you.

God bless Nigeria.

Ladystewie: pretty you

Awww thanks buh you look reaally cute too

Reiyvinn: Nope, shouldn't.... That's why it's called "Sunday Service." It's meant to be free!

Lol you're just too naughty

there r lots of cuties on NL.... can't remember any of them tho, lost the memories of my past life i guess

Youngzedd: You see.

Everyone knows that our government is unserious.

This country is never serious with anything.

Yup, should. naughty people will only come to church for that.