vybzkartel:
I proposed love to this lady, and she said

She is sorry but she can't return the love

I asked if she loves me but she said NO but she likes me

I asked if I should forget about her and she said, ' Let's be friends, anything can happen'

What should a guy do In this kinda situation? Thanks

bodybuilder:

What are you saying ?

Fantachapman:
My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.

Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.

Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.

My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.

Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).

When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.

Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God". There was a chat where she was angry that the guy came to her house and didn't eat her food. This guy asks her if she is alone at home before he can come visit. She stopped working (cos they were paying her peanuts so i put her on monthly allowance) so she was always home.

I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy.
I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.

Note: She told me she never slept with him that it's just chat jokes.

FreeStuffsNG:
WhatsApp status can only be seen by those on your contacts.
Birds of same feathers flock together. What hate and bigotry can't destroy does not exist
But for Nigeria, all the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las .They always lose.
Everyone should not come from your tribe and religion before you acknowledge their citizenship right.
If the founder of nairaland is unpatriotic, he won't build this platform for Nigerians and give you this same opportunity you are now abusing . Go and build your own platform for those who live and breathe hate and bigotry sir because this is a platform for Nigerians and Nigeria.
Those who have contributed to the greatness of Nigeria won't wish Nigeria evil.

By 12 noon, nairaland ,and even Google, will wish Nigeria and Nigerians happy Independence Day. That's all that matters. Patriots are moving on.
God bless Nigeria.

FreeStuffsNG:
WhatsApp status can only be seen by those on your contacts.
Birds of same feathers flock together. What hate and bigotry can't destroy does not exist
But for Nigeria, all the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las .They always lose.
Everyone should not come from your tribe and religion before you acknowledge their citizenship right.
If the founder of nairaland is unpatriotic, he won't build this platform for Nigerians and give you this same opportunity you are now abusing . Go and build your own platform for those who live and breathe hate and bigotry sir because this is a platform for Nigerians and Nigeria.
Those who have contributed to the greatness of Nigeria won't wish Nigeria evil.

By 12 noon, nairaland ,and even Google, will wish Nigeria and Nigerians happy Independence Day. That's all that matters. Patriots are moving on.
God bless Nigeria.

bodybuilder:
Without paid sex ( prostitutes and runs girl) many men wouldn't be able to have regular sex. So give these girls a break. Not so many guys can pull women to fvvck without paying them. This is just the truth. Without prostitution only a small percentage of men will have the privilege to fvvck multiple women. They are serving a huge purpose. Stop hating.

mardis:


I don't think girls drive any pressure from doing that. Girls mostly do that to please the man.

SATANICALLY:
Islamic Group, MURIC Compares Buhari With Jesus, Says June 12 Protesters Ungrateful After Being 'Healed' | Sahara Reporters.

MURIC also criticised the Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, for joining the June 12 protest in Ibadan, the state capital.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/06/14/islamic-group-muric-compares-buhari-jesus-says-june-12-protesters-ungrateful-after-being

SATANICALLY:
Islamic Group, MURIC Compares Buhari With Jesus, Says June 12 Protesters Ungrateful After Being 'Healed' | Sahara Reporters.

MURIC also criticised the Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde, for joining the June 12 protest in Ibadan, the state capital.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/06/14/islamic-group-muric-compares-buhari-jesus-says-june-12-protesters-ungrateful-after-being

Tango123:


I feel u too bro. But if we aint married, i dont care if i am number 1 or not

And even in marriage, always know u may stop being number 1. So what is the solution

The trick is to be you, be confident, and never believe any woman (except ur mother) is so important in ur life. Other womwn apart from ur mother are like cars. For me I buy, i use, when the car gives me trouble, i sell and move on.

If u are my girl friend, if u give me trouble, i move on.

Even in marriage, if u give me trouble, i move on. Life is too short.

The redpill is golden bro. I thank God i didnt simp more than in my early teenage years. I think from around 18, i knew i was more important than any girl friend, that my life, and future is more important than a pussy

#never beg for pussy. Never pay for it. As sweet as the pussy is to you, so is ur dick to her. If she says no, walk away.