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Omo this is fvcked up.. After 1.2m dollars..

God abeg

The Buses evacuating Nigerian students and non-student
were stopped in the middle of the Sahara, and the drivers refused to continue the journey because they were not PAID. @abikedabiri @nemanigeria @FMHDSD @nidcom_gov @NigeriaMFA

Students crying out in this video pic.twitter.com/tbXSq1hUdY

— Dr. Ahmad Sagir (@dr_ahmadsmall) April 27, 2023

God abeg nau

https://twitter.com/diisa2002/status/1651564054543048706?t=kfN_WgL7nyDpJ9ScPRXOog&s=19

BlueRayDick:
Which kind man u be sef? Rain dey fall, woman dey inside house u dey argue Feminism and sexism online.

I beseech thee brethren, go into za room and do thy many duty!

I shall get to work😩😩

larride:
Since you don’t have “manly” duties to do, you can continue. 😂

She dey busy with serious workkk😩😩😩😩😩

Kholiwe:
Lol your nature is not to protect women. It's shameful you can't see how you have been conditioned due to Gender stereotypes and patriarchy over the years to thank that a woman needs your protection and care. Those are things rooted in benevolent sexism like I told you before. Same way patriarchy has forced women to see men as masters to be worshipped which leads to toxic masculinity. You are defending being oppressed and wearing it like a badge.

Lmao... Man go tell you something about man.
You wey never live as man go dey argue with man about man.

God bless you dear

seankafor:
this rain 🌧️ reach your side

I dey with one now

Omo everywhere dark.

GrammarNazi1:
According to the resident feminist, your wife should carry you to the bedroom ooo.

Lmao she go carry me later this evening.
We dey ration the carry😁

I've tried.. Make I go carry my wife enter bedroom 😁

Kholiwe:
Nothing like assuming. Men rights activists are there for anyone to look at their mission statements and what they are fighting for. Men discussion boards are also all over. Men speaking out against the patriarchy and Gender stereotypes are all there. I don't need be dead to know a dead man.

There are about 3billion men give or take.
What is a constant amongst majority of men is the protection of women and children when there's problems.

We see it among mammals too.
Those men that you listen to complain will sacrifice their lives for their partners and children. Sometimes you think it's because we want to be heroes when most times it's just how it is.


I grew up thinking like this. When I got married, it opens you up to a whole other level of responsibility to your partner..
You are legit making a vow to protect with your life and that becomes second nature to you.

Of course like everything there will be outliers for sure but even some of those outliers will react to certain things because it's your nature.


So again you are not a man.
You don't know how we think or what we feel at every second of our existence.

Please do not reduce what it means to be a man to talking points in forums.
I can't even begin to cover what it means to be a man.

Don't tell us we are being 2nd class or that we shame men who want to speak up. Those same men still wear the badge of pride when everything passes and the women and children are safe.

Kholiwe:
I don't need to be dead before I know a dead person. Treated as inferior to your fellow gender in this particular situation says it all. What about men that wants to leave Sudan immediately with the women or even before the women but due to Gender stereotypes and fear of being perceived as a "weak men" just shuts up and goes along with it? Patriarchy affects everybody but men are too scared to admit it.

Nah.. You are assuming how a man should feel.
You are not a man.
You don't know what kicks in for a man when we are in such situations.
You don't know how we think in such situations.

So again, how did you come up with majority of men feeling like 2nd class citizens when you are a woman..
Abi did you live your life as a man at some point?


What do you think it is to be a man?

Kholiwe:
Its an evacuation. There's no need for gender to come into play. Like Adiche said "Protect those that need protection, irrespective of their gender.". Even when your Gender gets oppressed and treated like 2nd class citizen you will still defend the patriarchy.

Oppressed? 2nd class citizen?
Lets get into this.
As a man, why do you think I would feel oppressed or a 2nd class citizen because women are getting rescued first?
Have you lived as a man?
Do you think for all men?

Kholiwe:
Benevolent sexism is self explanatory.

Lmaooo it's okay to admit that certain situations do not warrant being viewed through the lens of sexism.


Anyways enjoy your day👍

Kholiwe:
lmao.


Benevolent sexism refers to attitudes about women that seem positive in tone (eg, women should be cherished) but nonetheless connote inferiority to men based on fragility, lack of competence, or need of help and protection.

Hmmm so the days my wife also holds door for me to pass, it means she's calling me weak ba?

Kholiwe:
I answered you perfectly with this speech from Adiche.

Leave what Chimamanda wrote. We know where she stands.
Let me tell you how unrealistic you sound.
In a war situation like that, people go into survival mode and that means the people with peak physical condition have the best chance of survival.

Pick 30 random men and women with 15 representing each gender, you'd have alot more men stronger physically, who can run faster, jump faster, probably fight better.
You'll most likely be much of a liability in that situation which in turn will be a drawback to the entire group.

It is not a nice situation, it is reality.
So again while in most cases we all support the call for equality, in cases like war situations we will have women and children getting preferential treatment.


And it is always funny when that happens and you barely get news of women standing up in that situation to say "no I'm a human being like you.. Let only the kids and injured be rescued first"

Again.. Reality isn't nice sometimes

Equality in comfortable situations is easy to propagate. When shit hits the fan that's when you know the real you👍

Kholiwe:
Act of chivalry rooted in sexism and gender stereotypes of women being weak? Yes I would.

So if I hold a door for you, am I calling you weak?
If when we get married and I carry you into the bedroom, am I calling you weak?

Kholiwe:
If you are ok with your life being treated like a 2nd class citizen then that's your business. If others are not and want to fight to be treated equally then it's also their right. They are men that are not ok with it that's why they are men activist and Men rights movement. Always speak for yourself.

You have still not answered my second question.
In this situation in Sudan, would you refuse the preferential treatment given to you as a woman..
Yes or no

Kholiwe:
This reminds me of what Chimamnda Adiche said. "" She said holding doors shouldn't be a gender thing. We should hold doors for each other, or anyone that needs such help...not just because she is a woman!
She went on to add that, in the event of danger---the first set of people to be evacuated should be those that are weak/unwell. Not only women and children.
Protect those that need protection, irrespective of their gender. ""

Lmao she said it and that's fine for her.
Would you consider the act of chivalry an insult to your worth as a woman?

Kholiwe:
You are not making sense. Are you ok with your gender lifes being treated as 2nd class citizens in that situation? A simple yes or no would suffice.

I am actually okay.
I have a wife and mother.
I like every other man would ensure that they get preferential treatment in such a situation.

Question is would you as a woman accept the preferential treatment or refuse it in such a situation.
That question should not be hard

Kholiwe:
Have a problem with what?

With women being given preference over men in this situation.

Like I said, I'm sure if you were there ehn.. You would have told them that it is not good and probably waited

Kholiwe:
You are basically calling out the patriarchy system.

Of course I am.
I'm sure you also have a problem with it and if you were there, you'd have told them that only children should get preferential treatment🤲

BlueRayDick:
It's not part of the original suit Atiku filed jare. Na just lawyers arguing in court; I don't think it will have any serious effect on the eventual outcome of the case

Lmaooo you are sure?
Coz I know we've not actually looked at all the suits atiku filed

BlueRayDick:
Sauce ?

https://dailytrust.com/i-have-no-drug-case-dual-citizenship-scandal-atiku-replies-tinubu/


Apparently it was filed by his legal team.

But I don't think they are attacking it as perjury🤔.


I know we like to focus on Obi but atiku's case is very water tight

Not to be the bearer of bad news.

But it seems atiku used the dual citizenship in court against Tinubu.

How the man's team didn't make noise about it till recently is impressive.

As you were 🙏

Again this is not equality oo👀

izzou:
[color=royalblue]What are the economic prospects of states building airports?

I don't know, I don't see Abakaliki as a choice destination for anything.

This airport be like elephant project to me.

But, who am I to oppose good stuff? [/color]

Cash out season 🤌

I Don laugh tire😂😂😂😂

When you have a company that is known for delivering bad services, you can tell your social media admin to be replying every of your customer's negative feedback on the Internet with insult.

larride:
Engr O.T Law

Did he lie or not? Na simple thing my well respected elder brother

We never forget the INEC perjury matter ooo
Where Tinubu said he wasn't a citizen of another country but still somehow has a passport from that country.

We dey come🙏

BlueRayDick:
We know slapping him was an assault and will attract arrest. Did he arrest those that pelted him with tomatoes too ?

Of which that counts as physical assault too

Wooh.. Make I go shampoo my hair

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Nawa