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As romantic as it may be, the idea doesn't sit well with me o.....I no want surprise wedding abeg

PastorAIO:
So was it Jesus' Perfect Will or his permissive will that wanted the Cup to pass from him?

It's jesus permissive will

Sanchez01:
Let me add to the OPs post. There are two kinds of will; the perfect will and the submissive will.

The perfect will is when God takes charge and in turn, one asks God to take over without habouring thoughts or options. For example, 'God, please, take charge totally. Direct my affairs and direct my thoughts and actions. '

The submissive will, on the other hand, is when we have a choice or options and want God to align with what we have. For example, 'God, please, I love Jane and would love us to have a Godly, Happy home that would come to fear you, even as we walk in love.'

Both Wills cannot run together in one person. You cannot say you're giving everything to God one minute and you're trying to make decisions for yourself while putting God in it.


Humans are imperfect but God often gives us the grace of choice on certain issues. Sometimes, God could take the back seat if someone, who instead of relying on Him, make certain decisions based on the physical eyes or on shallow grounds.

Very correct and well said sir! Buh I think it's "perfect will and permissive will"

Since it's not against the rule #shrugshoulder......Determination is the keyword here!

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I can relate with ur story, had the same issue during I.T. Was accepted into the computer college of an IT(information tech.)company to teach since I studied comp. Science but was later moved to the accounting dept. Less than a month of working with dem , reasons being that I was hard-working and dedicated.

So just try to be focus bro and keep ur cool.
No effort is ever wasted u know, its either an experience is gotten from it or a lesson is learnt.....so pls don't quit cos it will soon end afterrall.

Will just say "my boss is currently unavailable,any msg for him...thank you.

Writing brings clarity #IYAC2016

Youth alive!---Rescue Agent

dejavubobo1:
But all this tinz we look forward to others to give there assessment b4 we roll

I think dats becos we too overly conscious of what others think about us and we wanna keep keeping up with the on ground reputation.

Valid reasons @op, but personally I think barbing one's hair should be a choice.

Though I barbed all thru all my Secondary sch sha even rocked gorimpa to my graduating party

kennygee:
I'm not just feeling the hair and the shoulder pad on the dress. Its a little too much.

Observation on point I must say abt the shoulder pad

Nice outfit

sapiosexual1:
That's why I implied the earliest time she could broach the topic is during courtship. Talking about how i should spend my money while we're just friends or dating gives her off as a lady with a bossy tendency which doesn't cut well for my persona. Moreso when I know I'm a responsible guy who isn't extravagant.

Okay, now I get your point

sapiosexual1:
At the stage of courtship. If she does broach the topic at another time it would indeed send a bad signal to me.

Well that depends on how the issue is being communicated/presented.

Or would u have preferred not to talk about it till when married,den complex money matters' arises.

If the relatnship seems to have a bright future then everything, I mean everything! Should be discussed including money issues.

Just be the requirement of your requirements......dazzall

Nice one op
Can relate with the meme especially no. 8, she always complain I walk too slow(like am on runaway)

Sweet ma'ami

Fear is a normal human emotion. But if what you fear is really not very dangerous, and you fear it so much that it causes emotional and physical distress, you could have a disorder called a phobia. Symptoms of phobias include panicking, pounding or racing heartbeat, difficulty in breathing, and desire to get away *to ran as fast as your leg can carry you*

Categories of phobia:

-Animal phobias: like the implies,it's a fear of animal. Examples include the fear of snakes, spiders, rodents, and dogs.

-Environmental phobias: fear of natural things around us. Examples include fear of heights, storms, water, and of the dark.

-Situational phobias: fears that is triggered by a specific situation or happenings

-Blood-Injection-Injury phobia: fear of blood,injection, needles or anything abt medical issues.

Mine is a situational phobia called "Phonophobia": fear of a sudden,unexpected loud noise, having migraine atimes as a result.

So nairalanders, what's yours?

Adaobi12:
because we have been brainwashed that universities are better. Which is not true.

Three correct gbosa for u jare

A man who doesn't know God(as in deeply knows God for himself) is capable of anything.....

At this point sis, judging ur action(the abortion) wouldn't make any difference, all I can say is,draw closer to God and keep praying deeply for forgiveness and restoration. God is indeed mercy.

The lord is ur strength and he'll uphold you!(Amen)

186? Short-listed for oau....ain't gonna hapun o

Are they trying to say Kaduna is among the ELDS? Shouldn't be o, cos kaduna have like five(5) tertiary institutions (abu zaria, Kasu,FCE zaria, NDA, Nuhu bamalli poly)

Happy birthday sir......age with grace IJNAH!

Hab 2:3__for the vision is yet for an appointed time and it's hasten to the end(fulfilment) it will never disappoint, thought it tarry, wait for it,because it will surely come(AMP)


Micah 7:8__rejoice not against me, o my enemy! When I fall I shall rise; when am in darkness the lord shall be a light to me(AMP)

These verses keeps me going when mental motivation hits rock bottom

kolomax:
seriously are you to defend what he wrote?

Nah not at all bro.....not defending anybody here, am just placing emphasis on the word he used,so as to avoid any misunderstanding o

Tochilyns:
"A walk to remember".. Always touches me nd put's me back on track each time i fall short from loving the one's who are there for me, life is too short for anger,hatred and especially malice..

Yay! Just too short and unpredictable

kolomax:
who are you to judge someone? you also decide to mock his status remember you might also be in that wheelchair tomorrow

He was talking abt "work" not "walk", right?

The guy might tink he has gotten something berra then dump the current lady( like catch the next moving bus)
But most atimes they regret it cos they always get what they neva bargained for---the 80/20 rule

Remember mike n sheila(why did I get married)