₦airaland Forum

Sopies:
Some days back I opened a thread on I got infected by my ex girlfriend.
https://www.nairaland.com/6944366/just-shot-myself-foot...the-fallout

Because I met my girlfriend a virgin I completely exonerated of any blame because I trusted her. I have access to her social media and she has not given me any reason to suspect her before. She blocks any guy that asks her out immediately, but at times the more you look the less you see.

After I discovered I was infected I called my ex and talked her down for infecting me with what seemed like gonorrhea. She insisted that she doesn't have gonorrhea so we went for a test together on Monday. I broke the news of my infection to my girlfriend citing toilet as a possible cause, I was surprised on how calm she took the news.

I stay alone and my toilet is always neat so I was kinda surprised she kinda bought the lame excuse. I followed some prescription I was given on Nairaland and started treatment without seeing the result of the test and the symptoms have subsided though I'm still on medication.

We got the result of the test today and it was confirmed that I have a moderate growth of gonorrhea while my ex has candidiasis or something. She doesn't have gonorrhea.

Now how did I contact the gonorrhea, my ex has been taunting me since we got the result.
Should I confront my girlfriend?? I don't really know to go about it. Is it possible that my ex has it but the test didn't capture it, because the lab guy wrote down the test to take according to the symptoms we explained to him.

No one can be trusted anymore

You slept raw with your ex and still went ahead and slept raw with your current girlfriend. Abeg how much is cond*m again or even abstenance ? You can not be living your life recklessly and complaining when the repercussion comes

[quote author=22o62021 post=109548484][/quote]Oga you are actually confused , you are the one that said your body doesn't move when you are around her and you see her as a younger sister but when she said she see you as a brother you are complaining and asking nonsense question about how you guys are siblings. You need to get your priorities right first before complaining about another person

pretteemee:
Ibadan

Wow, can I have your contact, I am in Ibadan too. Have something to ask you or you chat me up with my number below in my signature or profile

belkof:
Hi guys,

So have been dating this lovely cute girl since well over a year and the half. We rarely go on social outings because I work out of state, and when am around, we mostly spend time indoors and once in a while to the restaurant or lounge. So I had like a month off from work, my body felt like clubbing, so I told her we should go clubbing, i lodged in an hotel in ikoyi and asked her to come meet me when shes done, all of a sudden she said she clothe she wanted to wear got torn, thought she would opt for another option but she didnt, until she showed up in the hotel, plans spoiled. We were gisting till late when she started quizzing me that would i mind if we got to the club and see gay friends hugging her and greeting her in a lusty way, i was like that one no concern me as long as sey them nor go pass their boundary, and then the next thing, she was like some people go even think sey u be my younger brother if we get there. That I could not decipher at first, i asked her why she said so, she said well nothing, didnt bother to ask her again, then later I figured out she was a bit uncomfy about wearing heels and probably be like 2 inches taller than i am, LOL cos we are both of the same height. Then I thought to myself,does this girl really love me? I mean what has peoples thought got to do with we as lovers going to the club to have fun? Or is it just that shes making up excuses for the other reason why to me i feel she probably have gotten to know too many men clubbers she may have had something to do with and try not to make me realise sey she don cast. What are ur thought guys and girls?

The girl doesn't love you fully, a girl that loves you fully will be blind to anything anyone else might say or not

Benchilwell:
is diz picture real

Which kind question be dis, you are seeing wood constructed in a pyramid form sorrounded with bags of rice and you are still asking if the picture is real..please which answer you wan make dem.give you like this. Smh

Brexxit:
Instead of kanu to be sad and sorrowful he is still smiling.

Maybe he is not aware yet that treason offence is punishable by death in Nigeria.

And in you own little sense, you thing federal government will be foolish enough to kill him?

Iyaebe:
My friend came to visit last Sunday and met my cousin brother who came visiting, she asked who he was and I told her then I noticed she steal glances at him at intervals and not fully interested in our discussion. Ever since then she has sort of made our house her second home and I don't need to be told that she's very interested in him.Whenever she comes around and we are discussing, she will just be nodding and contributing with few words while her main work is to be stealing glances at him and this has made me so angry that each time she calls that she's coming I'll tell her I'm not home but she will still come.Yesterday when she called to inform me that she was coming which I told her I was not home and I will branch her place when I'm returning. I knew she will come, so I went to hide in my room, and behold when I came out,I met her and my cousin having some conversation and I'm sure she initiated it,I didn't even give her face as I was so annoyed as to why a lady will present herself so cheap for a man she barely knows.Now I want to fully stop her from coming to our house but I don't know where to pick on her because she's a nice person aside this cheap silly attitude she's displaying. How do I go about it?

Na childishness dey worry you, nothing more