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cheenway:
UPDATE
So I finally damned the consequences and reached out to his boss. I didn't even hide my identity.
He apologized and acknowledged that the organization has been going through a rough time but that things are now getting better.
He also assured that payments will be made 'in a few weeks'
Thanks for all the advice.

you are not a good woman,sorry
You damned the consequences on your husband's career?wow!
Call me whatever you like,I really don't care but all I know is you aren't a good person.
Jeez!

armyofone:
How can you eat such sweet thing with that bitter herbs ?
Give me the croissant and Starbucks white chocolate mocha!

lol I had a lot of sugar yesterday so i just had to balance it up with a little bitter tbh.
Now I ate all the croissant first before taking my coffee

joseph1832:
you smoke and you don't have appetite, better quit smoking or start having appetite bro.

I am surprised you are finding this strange though.
I don't smoke weed o,just cigarettes and appetite issues is very common for we Benson lovers
I just picked another hobby,alcohol
Wetin man go do na my brother,life is worthless walahi.
I wonder what people even see in it
Cheers bro

miss00000:
We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children. we started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year. About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business. 8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine. After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me. One day I cried and begged him to tell me what was going on, after hours of begging, the first question he asked me was "where was it written in the bible that marriage has to be between one man and one woman and not with different women", "why can't a man marry two or more wives if he has the resources to take care of them equally"(the lady is a muslim btw). He confessed that he has been dating this lady for over two years and has no plan of leaving her, and theres a possibility he's going to marry her. I'm just 26yo with a one month old baby, I didn't sign up for this. while growing up, my mum has always warned us against polygamy. although he's promised to be there for me and still wants our marriage to continue, but the thought of my husband being with someone else is killing me. I've tried to reason with him several times but I end up hurting even more. I've been praying but still no change. He's been trying to compensate with gifts and money but thats not what I want. he doesn't want me to tell anyone and I feel reporting him to his family will even worsen the case. We've always settled our issues ourselves without involving anyone. I've tried everything I can just to take my mind off it. I need someone to talk to, prolly a friend or a counsellor. I've been crying for days now, I've not been eating well and I have to breastfeed my child. I never knew my life would be this complicated. I don't know why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.

if you are pretty,educated and have a job,come to me.
I have money too,educated,handsome,from a good family and smart

Dinner for people like us that don't have much appetite but smoke all day
Triple black Nespresso and croissant.

cutiereborn:
Imposicant
They sell porridge beans and stew if you need.
But that your meal looked like the real ewa agion.
Though the tray service looks exactly like kilimanjaro sha.
Modified, that bread, did you buy a whole and removed the slices you need for the beans? Cos I know nibbles bread is not sold in half

how did you know it was nibbles?
I bought the complete pack and took out some slices for myself,ghetto style
I no send anybody o as you see me so

cutiereborn:
Which fast food serves ewa goin?

Kilimanjaro,GRA junction,port harcourt.

MariaAngeles:
Even though it's past, it's not too late to celebrate your Mum on her new age .
She's a strong woman to have raised you...it must not have been easy

May she enjoy her latter years than her former in perfect health, peace of mind, body and soul, surrounded by abundance of grandchildren by God's grace, Amen .

I see what you did there @ bolded.
Honestly,raising me wasn't easy.it comes with a lot of trouble and trials.
She persevered,endured and entrust irrespective of all the disasters u caused lol
Don't worry,your son will be like me and will have my kind of growing up

The usual breakfast

condemn:
So red label drink na sign of riches? Na your type dey see every nigerian when dey post fine photos for instargram as rich people

where you see red label?
That is chivas regal 12 years.it is what ballers drink!

alaricsaltzman:
130k

I swear baba.
It was too old,I sold it to mgbuka people
I used it like a truck to go everywhere and carry everything possible then.
Rice,whiskey,diesel,etc..
Thank heavens for better days.I swear it wasn't funny

kapelvej:
happy birthday to your mum

thank you baba

Happy birthday to a great woman.
My first love,the only woman that loves me to pieces irrespective of my excesses.
The one that believed in me and consoled me in my lowest moments.
Encouraged me and supported me in every way she can to make me a better man(financial,motivational,spiritual,moral,etc..)
Nwanyi eji eje mba.ijele nwanyi.
If she stands with you my brother/sister,you must conquer the world.
When all the bastards in that family tried to belittle me or put me down,you stuck your neck for me and now the boy has turned into a man,a big man!
I love you mom,to the moon and back
Normally I am not a birthday person but I just had to do this.
Help me celebrate her o!!
Good woman,fine woman,tall woman,strong woman,rich woman lol.
Gob bless you mrs N.F.M

frozen70:
Wait until you are matured and married then you can make a point

Just keep learning and stop arguments

I am not married,yes.but does that make me lack common sense?
How does a person learn from bullshit?

Mine was a gift from mom after I was robbed and almost kidnapped in a cab in Diobu,port harcourt when I was in university.
The next thing I heard was go to Abeokuta sharp sharp and go collect your car
04 honda crv weh to fuel be dey pass me that year.
Fuel been dey finish steady and nothing kazeems no bypass for that car.
Fans ran direct on ignition,na 700 naira ATF men been dey pour for gearbox,adapted AC switch,k back leg,etc...
I sold it I think last 2 years for 130k
Nostalgia nostalgia.

frozen70:
Ahaha, the man has not being paid for 10 months, its left for the boss to confirm or deny it

Confirmed by whom?
The wife?does that sound professional or even normal to you?

frozen70:
If you think you don't trust your hubby and you want to know the real truth if salaries are paid or not, call his boss with your real number and book a visit with him

Just tell him you wan want to confide in him

He will acknowledge your request and tell him all you just typed here, he will be in a best position to tell you all you need to hear and ask him to keep it secret for you

Then start working towards your discussions with him because that will determine your next move

and how will the boss see the man after such a meeting?

breadplanets:
So I got tired of looking for where to buy powdered yogurt starter and decided to trust store bought yogurt with active culture and voila am back on my yogurt making bicycle.... Yum yum yum

lol I catch you
You just told me where you are by posting that yoghurt brand.
You are not in Nigeria,yes?
Ok now that that is done with,do I tell you where you are?
Soticam(lebanese) is the company that owns that brand and it is being produced in 2 countries.
Now I heard they now export to Nigeria but that packet and that of the Nigerian own seem different,so I know what you have at hand might not be the Nigerian type of it.
Correct me if I'm wrong though but I think I might know exactly where you are

Jacinthe:
If you do that, he will lose his job.
......


I pray the tide becomes easy for you guys soon. All the best.

and you were the only one that saw it from this angle.
I like you already.you are smart.
When I saw the "I don't think I can cope anymore",I just laughed.
Very typical of women tbh yet the modern woman/feminist/wannabes always make it seem like a man's money isn't important?
Madam op you've got to be patient at this point.
Someone has bought over the company which means more liquidity is going to be available and perhaps the business might grow.
Who knows where they will place your husband when the firm gets to new heights?think about it.
Before you relax,you must first sit down.that was what a father figure told me some years back.
Be patient,it will change for good.do not lose out due to impatience!!

badadvice:
after all this epistle, the sad bitter fact still remains: YOU DIDN'T FVCK THE BITCH!!!!


you are officially a bitch ass motherfvcking pussy nigga


spits!!!

she lost,I didn't honestly...
She stood to gain a better life with me if not for her ashawo attitude.
Give and take perhaps I spent up to a 100k with her since we met.so what?
I really don't care about fucking anyone.
If you know logobenz,You will know sex isn't my problem.ive had enough of it.
I'm looking for something else these days.

Now this is the story.
So I discovered this girl worked for the dad's crashing contracting firm according to her.
They are having liquidity issues and I as a businessman myself understood what was going on..
Noticed she was cashstrapped and all and we talked about it and I decided to put her on 50k salary monthly.
Because we had already started discussing future plans since the both of us have had our fair share of the world.
There is no day I meet this girl that I won't spend 15k or more.
It's always one fancy restaurant or the other,one this or that even though I never gave her cash.
I began to wonder and ask myself,how is someone who is penniless not know the value of money?is it that I'm her maga or what?
We went to NOVOTEL for lunch one day and after blowing up to 12k on food in her presence,she still demanded for takeaway for her bony sister?
I sha pay,no shaking.
She even wears leg chains.wtf!I told her to take it off to no avail.i ignored.
She knows all the big women in GRA and will always tell me to come with the bigger car so we go see people I have no business with.why?I still don't know till date!
Perhaps to go show off her new maga or catch.Bleep!!
I was such a fool.i should have noticed!
I was thinking about all these and wondering whether to continue or not when she called one morning very early and told me ehn,she had been working on whatever and told me to go to Beijing chops and get her Chinese bla bla bla...for breakfast on my way that she is very hungry.
I couldn't help but talked to her rudely on the phone and hung up!
That was the deal breaker.
How would a person that doesn't even have ordinary 100k feel so comfortable in blowing a man's money like that?
Mtcheew.
Stay off poor girls!bunch of lunatics.spits!

So we got in,placed our orders and they asked us to sit and wait for 15mins.
There was some pizza(largest one with some honey and ketchup on it),cheese,break sticks and some fried chicken and drinks.
The bill was like 14k or so already and the lady at the counter was just running her mouth with options and options and I replied her a little bit rude like;
Stop sounding like you are doing us a favour and bring out the POS already
I immediately regret talking to her that way and felt so bad I wanted to apologise but was ashamed cos the counter was full already.
Then we went to our seats and I told her how bad I felt and all and she smiled and said it happens sometimes,I am glad you let it out.
So we talked from one thing to another,from business,to work,to politics,to education and capitalism,to travelling,then to champagne,my favorite and the girl does know her champagne tbh...
So we argued on a particular wine(Thomas Barton),the burgundian and I told her there were 2 flavours of it and she argued it was 1
So I said I will show you that I know what I am saying so I told her we would go to a winery at elekahia so that I show her that I know what I am saying and she agreed.
So it was 15 mins already and we headed there to GET the food.she said I should sit while she goes to get it so we don't lose our seats.hmmm impressive I thought because I know what the usual naija babe will do in that scenario which Is trying to order me around
So I seated and waited and when she was served,I rushed to carry the food and we chosed another spot.
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Pictures coming up

LewsTherin:
The bot took one look at your post and went "logobenz, soffry soffry!"

lol

So it went this way..
After we had a date for the next day,I was super excited waiting for the 3pm we agreed on to reach fast so I go see my sweetheart.
So when it was like 2 pm,I called and called but she did not pick up instantly but called back after some minutes to tell me that she had something at hand bit will call back.
I knew that was it!this one want bail me again,well I'm used to it anyways.
So I took my keys and went to my favourite small private hangout to drink some beer.
So as I was drinking,she i called her again and she told me she just got home in an exciting tone and told me I could come pick her up from their house.
So I stood up,gulped all my beer,paid them,jumped in the car and hit full throttle.
I stopped at market square to buy mouthwash and spray so I don't go there smelling like a drunkard
So I got there,we met and exchanged pleasantries and she got in.
I drove straight for GRA and she started telling me all about what made her disappointed earlier.
THAT she and her friends had a fight and all that and one of them attempted to slap her and all..
So I tried to calm her down and told her since no one touched her,let her just let go.
Yeah so we started gisting about some things about us and I pulled into a car wash since the car was really dirty.
I apologised to her and she understood and said ok.
So I pulled in,rushed down to open her door and was so gentlemanly
We continued talking,she asked me about what my hobbies are and the things I like,I asked her hers and she said travelling,cooking and some other things.
Then they came and called us that the car was done,the guys were igbo so I responded in igbo and was in a very good mood and I began to over pay people.
THAT girl really gives me too much joy I swear.
Then the funniest thing was selecting a venue for the date.
I wanted us to go to my friends restaurant but she said no that she doesn't want heavy food so I had to turn and we kept scouting for something special.
So I being someone that hardly go on dates asked her where we coukd go and she suggested dominoes pizza and off we went along olu obasanjo road PHC.
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Anyways typing update...

I tried uploading yesterday but anti-spam bot banned me I don't know why.