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Romance / 7 Signs Your Wife Wants To Leave You ❤️ Stop Divorce � Getmymarriageback 55 by lolaandola(f): 10:27pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
Romance / “with My Wife, Nomo Newness Niceness” ❤️ Nice Guys & Attraction In Marriage by lolaandola(f): 5:05am On Jun 06, 2019 |
In this video, you will discover how to find the balance between being a Mr Nice Guy and maintaining a high level of attraction in your marriage. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDPBSRMt8lA |
Romance / “i Want My Wife Back” ❤️ Save My Marriage � Getmymarriageback 53 by lolaandola(f): 10:35pm On May 12, 2019 |
FREE BOOK ➡️ http://GetMyMarriageBack.com QUESTION - “How long do you do all the things you talked about before you just move on? When your gut is telling you that your spouse is never coming back but your heart is full of wanting her back.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAlQcJRh23I |
Romance / "10 Years Marriage With 2 Kids Is Over" ❤️ Save My Marriage After Affair � by lolaandola(f): 8:59pm On Apr 19, 2019 |
QUESTION - “Both sides failed to stay true to each other and after 10 years the truth went out. Now they are arguing and one side keeps hurting the other every time she can. She keeps telling mean things ,cussing ,aggression. She wants him to move out and they have two kids 16 and 10. What should they do?” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dMN7TwRT5g |
Romance / "MY WIFE CHEATED" ❤️ Infidelity In A Marriage � by lolaandola(f): 2:14pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
"MY WIFE CHEATED" ❤️ Infidelity in a Marriage � GetMyMarriageBack 50 "What do I do if my wife cheated and now doesn’t know if she wants to save the marriage? I want to save the marriage. WHAT can I do?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Alat9oPQmjs |
Romance / Re: She Has Not Filed Divorce Yet But She Said She Will. How Should I Stop Her? by lolaandola(f): 8:05pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
Thanks for your contribution. Aileexa1: |
Romance / She Has Not Filed Divorce Yet But She Said She Will. How Should I Stop Her? by lolaandola(f): 3:28pm On Mar 13, 2019 |
10 months ago, she said I don't want to continue!! We were under pressure due to moving to Canada but we were in our schedule and plan. We had good sex, happy weekends and.... I love her and she always said I love u. After separations, we went to counseling and he said the issues that your wife mentioned can be solved and these are not huge problems. A few family members that I spoke with had same idea, that these problems are not the kind of problems that fall apart a marriage. I did whatever she wanted during these 10 months. We have 2 daughters and I can not imagine how our marriage is falling apart. She has not filed divorce yet but she said she will. I don't know. How should I stop her? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drLvLuJmgm4 |
Romance / Gbenro & Osas Ajibade ❤️ Marriage Counseling Special by lolaandola(f): 11:30pm On Mar 12, 2019 |
In this special episode and 1st of an online marriage counseling and coaching series, we address Gbenro and Osas Ajibade’s social media marriage drama in a uplifting and enlightening manner. Gbenro had taken to Instagram and posted the following about his wife… "Who leaves their baby in the house and goes out to party with friends/events from 6 pm to 5 am?!!! It is not the first, second, third and fourth time, the other night you slept out you sent our baby off with a stranger to drop her off at home with the nanny so you can be out all night," We appreciate your comments... Thanks. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j_QM1QA-_oQ |
Romance / Re: "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 12:50pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
I LIKE THAT tobechi74: |
Romance / Re: "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 1:18am On Mar 09, 2019 |
Oh... hah,... true ghettochild4u: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Husband Isn't Supportive ❤️ Any Advice? (full Story) by lolaandola(f): 10:48pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
I guess it's a generic complaint from a lot of women. Sometimes, they feel their husband don't support career advancement or simply always being on the other side an argument topic. edicied: |
Romance / My Husband Isn't Supportive ❤️ Any Advice? (full Story) by lolaandola(f): 10:42pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
QUESTION "What if your trying everything you can to make your marriage happy again, going to a counselor is what we need, but the other spouse doesn't think you need it? What do I do in that situation? I am alone in this and trying to get him to see how I am feeling. My husband isn't supportive" PLEASE LEAVE YOUR OWN ADVICE BELOW OUR ADVICE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRstD9jURjQ |
Romance / Re: "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 10:35pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
Romance / Re: After 5 Months I Still Can't Let Go. I Need Help! by lolaandola(f): 10:29pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
I think you are misinterpret "self respect" as weak or as abnormal. I agree it is easier said than done. But please re-read what I said. ekanDamie: |
Romance / Re: "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 10:38pm On Mar 06, 2019 |
Rejoice006: shakmati: SO TRUE 100% |
Romance / Re: After 5 Months I Still Can't Let Go. I Need Help! by lolaandola(f): 7:16pm On Mar 06, 2019 |
Sorry to hear this. What you need is a nice dose of self respect? There is a good chance that she found it even easier to leave you because a man that doesn't respect himself cannot attract from a woman. A woman who cannot respect you cannot love you either. Work on your self respect before falling for another girl. Better yet... getting a girl to fall in love with you because of healthy self esteem and respect. |
Romance / Re: "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 7:01pm On Mar 06, 2019 |
I mean.. let's talk about it. What's the alternative? What would be your advice for this gentleman? shakmati: |
Romance / "My Wife Has No More Attraction Towards Me" ❤️ How Do I Save My Marriage by lolaandola(f): 11:23pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
In this episode, you will discover what to do when your spouse tells you “she has no more attraction towards you ME”. CLICK HERE TO WATCH THE VIDEO ANSWER https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WP5QdNBS_8 QUESTION - "So my wife and I met each three and a half years ago at a gym her father use to manage in upstate NY Rochester to be exact. I was actually a personal trainer at the gym, and she did child care. For the eight months that I worked there we became really great friends and eventually started dating and grew love for each other. As time went on I told her that I no longer wanted to be stagnant with my career as a personal trainer I wanted to travel and work so I told her that I wanted to join the US navy to work and travel the world as an military police officer. Upon leaving for boot camp we knew we wanted to be with each other for the rest of our live, she was pregnant with our first born child Silas. Long story short we ended up getting married before I left for boot camp. After boot camp and A-school I’ve received my orders to FALLON NV NAVAL air station a drastic change form were we both lived we were completely isolated in our own ways in other words it is heck no black people and the nearest store and malls is an hour away . Her, brand new military spouse pregnant, hormonal, isolated to the house, stripped of all of the basics, family, social life, no were to work and get a job to pursue her career and passion of cooking. Me I kinda had it tough but easier cuz I had a job and just did what I was told and got payed only to return home to a depressed and miserable wife. Months went on and she finally delivered our first born a very joyous moment for the both of us. But soon not so great cause I wasn’t meeting her needs as a husband coach friend everything she basically believed our whole marriage was a mistake even before having our child. She was upset with most things one would try to deal with there husband, everything to hygiene to finance, to speaking up for myself and not being afraid of what opinions I had about her or anyone else for that matter I had zero confidence in myself. We received counseling on base, everything went well for her that was. She had no problem telling the chaplain what she despised about me she felt like she was raising a child. I just sat there and said nothing through both sessions. We eventually got into a heated argument and both agreed she should go home to finish school work and make money. Boy it was a rough 6 months with out her, I had a relationship with her and my son through FaceTime daily all the way across the country. From time to time I would break down and cry and beg for them back. Her and my son eventually moved back and everything seem to be fine. Our second year we went through the same thing everything that bothered her before about me happed again this time I threatened her that if she left I’d take my son away from her, bad idea. It all brings us to today same situation only I recorded everything she’s saying that bothers her about me. She says she feels that she’s the only one that’s keeping this marriage alive, she had enough of me not trying to motivate, support, and be honest with her, to stop being so wishy washy with my decision and to be honest and open with her. She’s an open book, she feels like she’s going through the motions with this marriage and she says she had enough. We are leaving soon on orders to Spain even though I look forward to it she doesn’t because she for one has to start over again, and she feels like I’m not being my true honest self around her. She doesn’t like to be the one to always start the conversations, the fun and everything else she says the only thing I’m good for is paying the bills. She says she wants out but continues to ask if I’m okay she says she has no more attraction towards me and that she better by herself than with me. Again we have a counseling session Wednesday night is she truly done with me? Will she ever become attracted to me? How do I motivate a strong black woman who is confident and knows what she wants? I love her and my son very much and can’t bear the thought of her or my son being raised by another man. How do I save my marriage?" |
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