Na the government kill am!

They want cut off any loose ends buy placing such a bounty on the killers. You talk, you disappear.

Common among northerners, they Bleep cows, donkeys, sheep, goats, and now the have added chicken to the list.

Biodun556:
Tribalism seems to be poor man's disease

Fueled by the greedy rich

Obolor123454:
PREVIOUS THREAD https://www.nairaland.com/7931278/wife-travelling-without-consent/4#127349507
Hello,
I am writing to provide some clarifications following our earlier discussion under the mentioned headings. It has become necessary to address certain points for better understanding.

I've noticed some surprising comments, and I believe it might be attributed to cultural differences. I want to emphasize that I opened this account upon the request of a Nigerian friend who encouraged me to share my story.

My primary concern is the timing of the information about the occasion for which my spouse has been making preparations. The issue is not about mistrusting my brother; rather, it's about my spouse not sharing this information earlier.

The wedding she is attending is that of her old classmate's younger sister, a man whose name has been rarely mentioned in the ten years of our marriage. My surprise stems from the sudden revelation of her involvement in this event just a few days before the ceremony, despite the extensive preparations leading up to it. Like I said, I think she only mention the guy’s name just once when the guy had an accident. She just mentioned the accident and that was all.

Moreover, when she was even telling me of embarking on the journey, she just only said that she was attending a friend’s wedding without further details or explanation. She was merely informing me about it, because she already made all the arrangement to attend the wedding and has been discussing the issue with this same class mates for over 4 months without ever mentioning it to me, just only to inform me days to the occasion.

I hope these clarifications shed light on the specific points of concern. I appreciate your time.

Oga do wetin dey your mind. We sha don advice you finish before!

You have now added it's a "Male" friend's sister's wedding, which you didn't mention in the earlier thread. Go ahead and enjoy your new support and advice from 17-21yr old nairalanders.

Your home, run it the way you want.

woginid967:


You did this very late...

Dont ever trust a woman whose phone you have not haccked

Spy on her phone, sms, calls, SM... Before and after marriage if you want peace.

Now for the men... Send their evidences to bloggers while protecting your wife's identity. And you will be fine.

They will think she leaked it, she will be shamed and become remorseful.

Find the men's wives or church members and send the proofs. Simple.

Do the same to her parents and siblings and your parents too.

Return her dowry.


You're forever free.

You will never be suspected because it is the online blog you would be sharing.

God bless

Return her dowry Keh? na she go return dowry nah

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

It's a good thing you don't have a child yet. Dump her arrogant azs ASAP!

6ixVille:
Planning to get an apartment close to my work and im planning to use to my 3months salary for rent. Is this advisable and economical?

If your 3 months salary can't pay your rent, you are living in the wrong house.

I wonder why the mods are dragging feet to push this to the front page?

As long as it creates employment, fine.

But this drink is not what Nigerians need now.

So una know say una been dey marginalize south east all these while?

Na their useless leaders I blame sha.

Please release MNK!

NANS dey busy dey fight for who Dem go include for Dubai largesse.

This country is finished!

Adebayofficial:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I am writing this article with great pain in my heart. The unethical and abusive culture of the management of the school where I teach is second to none.

After a successful interview and negotiation with verbal promises of benefits on the job, I started this teaching job at a school located at Makoko Area, Yaba in March, 2023 but since then, no benefit has come forth rather the school owner, Mr. ***** negotiate the payment for extra school lesson with parents and paid me a meagre #5000/month.

This is a school where class teachers are not allowed to communicate with parents because of the school owners' dubious nature.

Sometimes in August, I approached the school to complain about the unfavourable work environment, and workload because I was teaching Mathematics and Further Mathematics for seniors, IGCSE Mathematics for seniors and Geography for seniors too but a meeting was scheduled immediately and I was harassed by the school owner who said it openly that "If dem born anybody well, make dem complain" and the school principal even issued a death threat to me saying that "He can slaughter anyone who wants to destroy his works" the anyone referring to me.

The paltry sum of #7,000 was later added to my salary. This is the same school where I spend an average of #1,200 on tfare daily and the school owner was aware of this from the beginning.

Need I say that he pays salary to any staff he likes at any time in the next month. He looks for every little mistake to deduct from the salary and the height of it is that today is the 5th of December, this man paid my colleagues for November, yesterday evening but left me out. I went to the principal's office to find out why this happened and the next thing the director and the principal did was to start investigating the exact colleague who told me about the November payment. Sometimes, it's as bad as trekking all the way from Mushin to Makoko area, Yaba in the morning and after work.

The Director has sacked more than 15 teachers in the past 2 years for no reason at all, even more than 20 teaching and non-teaching staff members had left the job due to his manipulative, greedy and harassing attitude.

I have a full report, ready to be submitted to all relevant authorities concerning the maltreatment of labour going on here.

Please advice me on what to do and kindly help me to get this to every concerned authorities.

Resign and move on! Reporting him won't make any difference, he will bribe his way out of it. We live in a rotten country.

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.

Condoms are now being sold at 2500, 5000 and 7000 naira a pack.

I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.

Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way.

Kiss, love and gold circle is still 200 naira. Na you want flex with durex

99% of Nigerian police are criminals

The 50k is for agbado urchins.

Obidients and atikulates make una commot mind from that money, shishi una no go see.

Na normal nah!

Many of my set in OAU that were rusticated for not meeting 1.00 cgpa that travelled abroad for their studies all gradated with flying colors.

Buhari is so happy now

guobe:
Happy belated birthday to Julius Aghahowa as he turns 41 years old.

Lol, if Julius is 41 then I'm 12.

Make all of us dey craze

Johnbullirabor7:
Good things happen to those that believe in the name of Jesus.its possible

Sorry but you are a fool if you actually think this is real.

Foolishness!

Jesus Christ is ashamed right now.

Lol

codedgalaxy:

I know what you are driving at but, this thread is mainly for those who delibrately avoid sitting at front row in any gathering whatsoever, even if they arrive early enough.

Their choice, just as some people jostle for front seat, and others middle seats.

codedgalaxy:
Are there any hidden benefit's for sitting behind at a gathering, especially in a church.
Its quite baffling to see people who on a daily basis make prophetic declarations like, 'i am the head and not the tail",
" i shall be a leader in my generation" but, when they get to church they run away from the front row seats lol. How do you lead from the back?
.
Which begs the question,
" why do people like sitting behind ?

Why is there back seat in church?

Let him fix benue/enugu, Enugu vawka, ph/aba roads and see igbos sing his praises.

yinkus6750:
Till the project comes to reality.
Let it not be audio project
And hope it will actually be for the masses ?

Since the time of amechi, rivers people don't know what audio is

Urge universities that you are underfunding?

Clueless idiots!

This is why I see red flag whenever anyone introduces himself as a pastor to me. That titled has been bastardized

philipobiz:

If you like change the name. It's like a goat in a sheep's skin.
It's legalised now. It's no news
Do you know that the owner and their children/close relatives don't get involved? That should tell you something about the business.

Most pharmacists don't take some of the drugs they make too.
Top hard drug dealers don't take what they sell

Thanks to buhari and tinubu

iammo:




Netayahun is a coward like Boko Haram

Bombing soft targets, women and children


Idris Derby (RIP) led his Army to war as a President


.

Go and show him where the hard targets are so that he will leave the soft targets alone.

GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, Fvck Isreal

You can't be a born again Christian and be using the F word, Saheed! Haba!

Mantul:


Can you make chocolate from the pods? If yes do drop step by step recipe

Google is your friend