Politics › Re: 52 Cows Crushed To Death By An Abuja-bound Train + Pictures by Lomprico2: 10:57am On Sep 10, 2018 |
Nntanta!  |
Travel › Re: Our Loss; Our Pain: Pmt Regrets Itobe Accident, Pleads For Understanding. by Lomprico2: 10:06am On Sep 10, 2018 |
bedspread: Seriously the Mgt of Pmt needs to Seek GOD'S face for their vehicles,. Most of their drivers are touts. Very rough and uncouth. If u caution them for reckless driving or over speeding na market u buy. I will NEVER travel with them again instead i'll follow unregistered transport vehicle. |
Politics › Re: Ikpeazu Kneels Down As Assemblies Of God Pastors Pray For Him To Win 2nd Tenure by Lomprico2: 10:03am On Sep 10, 2018 |
PrinceZahzah: Lol if were a politician, will you agree to be sworn in be sango or amadioha?  If you know u r going there to serve n not steal why not? If d temptation to loot comes u go jejely resign. The country will be better off whalahi |
Politics › Re: Ikpeazu Kneels Down As Assemblies Of God Pastors Pray For Him To Win 2nd Tenure by Lomprico2: 9:05am On Sep 10, 2018 |
PrinceZahzah: Don't condemn the church in general.
Why can't you say "Religion"? He has every right to condemn these greedy churches. If our politicians are to be taking oat of office by swearing to sango or amadioha instead of bible n quran do u think things will be this bad in our country? |
Politics › Re: Ikpeazu Kneels Down As Assemblies Of God Pastors Pray For Him To Win 2nd Tenure by Lomprico2: 9:04am On Sep 10, 2018 |
clarocuzioo: Honestly speaking the church is our number one problem in this country. I agree  |
Politics › Re: Primate Ayodele To Igbo: Forget 2023 Presidency by Lomprico2: 8:32am On Sep 10, 2018 |
Tell them o! |
Sports › Re: US Open Final: Serena Williams Accuses Umpire Ramos Of 'Sexism' by Lomprico2: 2:59pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Sore looser! You n your coach were caught cheating!! Was her opponent not a woman too? Where dose d sexism come in?  |
Politics › Re: Bribery Allegation: Presidency Defends Abba Kyari by Lomprico2: 2:38pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
B4?
Buhari is fighting corruption naa!
Idiots |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Police Officer Helps An Animal Survive In Somalia by Lomprico2: 1:00pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
But you will come back to Nigeria and kill a commercial driver that refused to give u 50 naira extortion money.  |
Sports › Re: Dave Mussard: Seychelles Chubby Goalkeeper Causes Commotion On Social Media by Lomprico2: 12:55pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
showafrica: He just have a big head, not really fat. A fat head!! |
Travel › Re: Unbelievable...this Is Not America But Kaduna by Lomprico2: 10:10am On Sep 09, 2018 |
And who dafuck asked u if it was America b4?  |
Technology Market › Re: ⏯️⚙️⭕️♨️ “BARELY USED Sound Bars..."⭕️♨️ by Lomprico2: 8:45am On Sep 09, 2018 |
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Price: #70,000 (Negotiable)
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Contact: 0803 054 6462 I want this particular one. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why You Need To Stay Away From The NIV And Other Bible Versions by Lomprico2: 8:41am On Sep 09, 2018 |
alBHAGDADI: In the book of Revelations, all versions mentioned Jesus saying He is the Morning Star.
How come in Isaiah 14:12, which speaks of Satan being cast out of heaven, instead of using his name Lucifer, they put Morning Star there?
Doesn't that mean that they are saying it is Jesus that was cast out of heaven? Well, u have to take it like that! Don't forget satan is also an angel n close to God just like Jesus. |
Politics › Re: Normalcy Returns To Borno Community, CJTF, Locals Confirm by Lomprico2: 8:35am On Sep 09, 2018 |
Liars! |
Christianity Etc › Re: So Much Evil In The Land by Lomprico2: 8:28am On Sep 09, 2018 |
End time! |
Phones › Re: Whats The Best Budget Phone So Far. by Lomprico2: 7:58am On Sep 09, 2018 |
last35: Nokia 3310!  This phone was never a budget one. |
Romance › Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Lomprico2: 7:52am On Sep 09, 2018 |
ultimate77: Who wrote this story again? ok, tell the person its all lies. pictures or we will not believe it. in short, i cant take this rubbish from you oP. just come and apologie.
Nigga... here it was a catholic church and the Bolded was in charge.
when did catholic church start having pastors? Niggga stop this trash make thunder no locate you o. Anglican and methodist call their pastors priest too!! |
Romance › Re: We Met In Church: How “No Sex Before Marriage” Destroyed My Marriage by Lomprico2: 7:48am On Sep 09, 2018 |
Justice310: I met him in church one Sunday morning. He sat next to me and I couldn’t help it but recognize the kind of gentleman he was. He was soft spoken and had this shyness on her face anytime he tried to talk to me. During the service, I realized he was finding it uneasy to sing along with the church because he didn’t come along with a hymn book. I shared mine. We both sang from the same hymn book and got closer as the service progressed.
After the last grace was said by the priest and the church dispersed, he turned to me and said thank you. I smiled and asked his name. “I’m Martin,” he said.
“Nice meeting you Martin” I responded. But before I could turn around and leave, he told me;
"Actually, this is my first time being here.” Amid smiles he continued. “and it’s great finding a friend at my first time in church. Do you mind if I called you sometimes?”
We exchanged contacts and left each other’s presence. Truth be told, I was going through the hardest times of my life. The man I’ve dated for about two years just called it quit and I was very devastated. I was nursing my wounds when Martin came along. He kept crossing my mind all week but I resolved not to call him until he does.
He never called until we met in church again the next Sunday. Inwardly, I felt guilty for thinking about him the way I did all week. That’s girlish. But we had another good service together, singing from the same hymn book and making fun under our breath.
After the service, he called when he got home. We started chatting on Whatsapp and grew closer together as the days pass. I shared my story of broken relationships with him and he was kind enough to offer soothing words. He didn’t judge me. He didn’t condemn my actions or sought to give directions as to how I should have handled things. He gained my trust that way and I opened up more.
He told me a little bit about himself. Nothing of note though, but I was happy he was overcoming his shyness. We grew closer and closer until finally, after about six months later, he made it obvious that he wanted us to date.
He didn’t propose to me. I don’t remember him telling me he loved me or wanted to be with me. He loved to act than to use words. We spoke more about it and decided to be in a relationship. He already knew my fears and easily accepted the conditions I laid down for the relationship. I told him; “I don’t want sex now. At least, if it should happen, it should happen after marriage, that is if you have any intention to marry me.” He only nodded and smiled. That day in his room, I remember we had our first kiss.
It was awesome! A lot of things started running through my head. Hey, I wasn’t a nun. I’ve had sex before and kisses this intense usually lead to sex. I remember grabbing him intensely like my whole life depended on him. I was shaking. I wanted something more than the kiss but I held on. He was gentle. The farthest he could go was to hold my head in between his palms, look me in the eyes and kissed intensely. I couldn’t breathe. I gathered the little strength in me and pulled away. I was panting like I’ve been running around for hours. The next words that came out were; “No more kisses until marriage. I mean it.”
For the next two years, we didn’t kiss and we never had sex. The farthest we went was to hold hands, lean on each other and occasionally cuddle. Martin was a good boy and I loved him dearly. We decided to get married after two years of being together. When we started counseling, our pastor wanted to be sure if we’ve had sex before. We had all the pride in us when we answered no. I don’t know if he believed us but we were telling the truth and didn’t care if he did. He only told us to be careful since it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in. We knew our strength. We were sure we could scale above all temptations.
Our marriage arrangement was to have the traditional wedding and then do the church wedding in six months later. We started having troubles. The urge to have sex became greater. After all, we were going to marry so what stops us from having sex? In my mind, I wanted our first sex to be special. I wanted to blow his mind off during our first sex and what better moment to do it than to wait for the honeymoon? this thought kept me going. Two weeks before the traditional marriage, we spent most nights together in the same room and on the same bed. We had a lot of errands and arrangements to do and it was better we stayed together. But sex had a way of creeping into our minds.
I remember one night it turned into a serious scuffle. Martin wanted it. I’ve never seen him so aggressive. He was pushing and struggling with me to allow him to have s*x. To him, we were already married and didn’t see the reason to still cover the cookie. I implored. I fought him. At some point, I wanted to scream. What the pastor said was ringing loud in my ears; “it’s at this stage that all manner of temptations creep in.” Amid threats of screaming and loud prayers, I won and slept in peace. That wasn’t the last. We kept having series of minor fights because of s*x.
Days to the traditional wedding was tough. We could go all day without talking to each other. He was angry and I was angry. S*x was killing the beautiful thing we had together. But we soldiered on.
Finally, we did the traditional wedding. The pastor was there to pray and bless the union. During his sermon, he complimented us for staying chaste all this while and told us to still be strong and keep it till after the church wedding. I could see my husband restless and with a subtle frown.
The night after the traditional wedding we had a fight. Our first fight as husband and wife happened on a night we ought to be happy together. What brought the fight? SEX! Not That I didn’t want to have sex, I wanted to but the time wasn’t right. So I told him; “Didn’t you hear what the pastor said? This is not the real marriage so we can’t have sex. Hold it together. We are only six months away.”
After saying this, my new name was launched; “Madam-We-Can’t-Have-Sex, I hear you but tomorrow, I’ll have s*x somewhere else.” Did you hear what he just called me? Madam-We-Can’t-Have-S*x? At this point, I didn’t care who he would have sex with if only that would make him stay off me till our honeymoon.
For a week, we lived in the same room but talked less to each other. He was always angry with me. What a way to start a married life. I was determined. To me, that was the right thing to do. The church frowns on sex before marriage, not that I also frown on it, I had a different motivation. I wanted the first sex to be unforgettable. I was saving my best for last and for no one but him. So why was he rushing?
Then one night things got worse. Martin came home with a friend. He was too drunk he couldn’t have made it home without the help of his friend. We had spent two arduous months together. I was sad for him. “Is he going through all that because of sex?” I asked myself.
I left him in the coach till he woke up at dawn and came to sleep next to me. He was smelling like a rotten fish. I couldn’t stand it so I woke up, picked a pillow and started walking away to sleep in the coach. He pulled me over and tried forcing himself on me. We’ve been through this tussle over and over again and I always won. I was used to it. This time, something was different. He was stronger and determined.
We struggled and fought for about fifteen minutes. He seemed to get stronger by the minutes while I was losing steam. He managed to tear off my pant and held my two hands apart with his two hands. We were both left with our legs to struggle with. I got tired and realized I couldn’t fight any longer. I kept my calm. He sensed the victory and quickly dashed over to have me. That was when I raised my right knee and unfortunately, my knee caught him in the balls. He fell over and screamed out loud. He suddenly got frozen. I’ve never been scared in my life. I thought I had killed him.
I tried calming him down but he kept whining in pains. Neighbors who heard him screaming started knocking on our door. I rushed to put on a dress and opened up the door. It was very embarrassing seeing neighbors in my room trying to help him regain his calm. After a lot of going up and down, he regained his calm. We were left alone.
The next morning, he packed what he had in the house and left. I didn’t ask him any question. I feared he might hit me. I left to my parent. I kept playing out the incidence in my mind over and over again. I kept asking myself; “Did I take this no sex thing too far.” I believe I did. He never picked my calls for three days. My parent and I went to meet him and his parent to try and resolve the issue but he didn’t listen to a word of what we had to say. All he said was he wanted a divorce. Two weeks later, his parent and other family members came over to dissolve the marriage.
That was it. My marriage lasted for only two and half months. What breaks my heart is the fact that I gave sex to those who didn’t deserve it. They had sex and left anyway. This one—Martin did everything right but I allowed fear to take over my senses. Recently, I heard from another pastor saying that traditional marriage is also marriage and sex is allowed after traditional marriage. If that was true, how stupid could I be? I was married and I didn’t even know it?
Three and half years after our break-up, I attended a wedding—Martin’s wedding with another lady I knew so well. I’m here, still single after six years of our breakup. Guess what, I had a boyfriend. We had sex but the relationship didn’t go well so we broke up. Back to single again.
http://silentbeads.com/not-sex-marriage-destroyed-marriage/#.W5RCDGko80M I will leave too if I were in his shoes. Not because of sex but for the fact that you will listen n obey your pastor rather than your husband! Marriage is marriage, irrespective of the type. You were already married after the trad ceremony why still deny him sex? Because ur pastor says u are still not married? Why did he bless you at the trad wedding?  |
Nairaland General › Re: FUNAAB Student Hospitalised After N5k Bet To Drink A Bottle Of Gin--naij NEWS by Lomprico2: 7:42am On Sep 09, 2018 |
Where are all those 'am proud to be a Muslim' crew who where masturbating on that thread where they said no amount alcohol is good for the body? |
Politics › Re: Governorship Candidate Of APC In Osun State Empowering Women With Cups Of Garri by Lomprico2: 7:37am On Sep 09, 2018 |
Drchristian: She's trying better than nothing at all but I wonder why politicians in Nigeria do this. Trying?? Seriously!!!  |
Celebrities › Re: Actress Anita Joseph Blast Fan Who Came To Her Page To Preach To Her by Lomprico2: 7:36am On Sep 09, 2018 |
She must be blind or beefing those sharp boobs to call em almost fallen. Am sure if she removes her bra, hers will roll down to her knees!  |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Urgently Needs Competent Leaders – Saraki by Lomprico2: 7:32am On Sep 09, 2018 |
But u voted in the present incompetent, lifeless one. What then makes u think you are competent?
IMO, for failing to see buhari incompetence and still supporting and voting him in, you are also incompetent!
Fellow nigerians dont vote for any of these power hungry criminals that supported and installed the lifeless one on us. Atiku, kwankwaso, tambuwal, all included. They are also incompetent! |
Politics › Re: What Happened Between Me, Jonathan, Buhari, Tambuwal, Others – Ex-igp Opens Up by Lomprico2: 7:27am On Sep 09, 2018 |
You snitch!! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why You Need To Stay Away From The NIV And Other Bible Versions by Lomprico2: 7:15am On Sep 09, 2018 |
alBHAGDADI: The Textus Receptus is the manuscript to be translated to English. The first translation led to what we have as the king James version today. Ok Just did a research on it now even. Now let me compare what u just said. But on d case of morning star issue, all versions mentioned so in revelation. So it cant be a misrepresentation. |
Politics › Re: NCC Threatens To Shut Down Illegal Broadcast Stations Over Piracy, Theft by Lomprico2: 7:14am On Sep 09, 2018 |
How many NCC dey this contri sef?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why You Need To Stay Away From The NIV And Other Bible Versions by Lomprico2: 7:08am On Sep 09, 2018 |
Find out which version was d first manuscript to be translated to english n check again. |
Crime › Re: The 3 Policemen Killed In Taraba By Fulani Herdsmen (Graphic Photos) by Lomprico2: 1:37pm On Sep 08, 2018 |
Christian police officers!  If you know, you know. Buhari must not go unpunished! |
Politics › Re: Revealed! Why Buhari Is Backing Oshiomhole On Direct Primaries by Lomprico2: 1:34pm On Sep 08, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: EFCC Works On Petition Linking Buhari’s Aide, Abba Kyari, To Contract Scam by Lomprico2: 7:05am On Sep 08, 2018 |
They r still working?  If na opposition now d pesin for dey detention as dem dey work. |
Politics › Re: Revealed! Why Buhari Is Backing Oshiomhole On Direct Primaries by Lomprico2: 7:03am On Sep 08, 2018 |
RevenGeMission: I also heard from reliable source that apart from Direct primaries being experimented , Different colorcode for different Local goverment type of ballot papers will be used , Buhari is doing what he can to end rigging , Saraki and PDP are trying to reduce Budget for INEC even though Jonathan spent 2 Trillion on the same thing / Same election Shameless liar!! 2 trillion? Fear God small na! |
Politics › Re: FG Purchases N50m Earthquake Monitoring Equipment by Lomprico2: 6:56am On Sep 08, 2018 |
SojiCash: Picture of the Equipment Exactly! Some rogues will just share 50 million amongst themselves like that. Thanks to the tremor. |
Politics › Re: Is This How They Clean Red Carpets In Aso Rock? - Photo by Lomprico2: 10:07pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
DannyJ19:

So he should use Mop abii.. Have u heard of vacuum cleaner b4? |