u people should go see down and get a grip.

5 times in 2 years. that is 5 days in 730 days. and u feel u have enough data to judge the love btween them. nonsensical

dont u people think beyond ur noses. have u ever wonder what happened in the remaining 725 days. yes violent in any form is bad and does not solve anything or bring out any thing good. and the guy should grow up and learn how to control his temper, also the babe should analyze if she is doing any wrong to put the guy over the edge. I do not for 1 min support the beatings in any form, it is babaric and immature on the guy part.

But for anybody to sit on his/her dirty high horse and wrinkle his/her soiled nose on the love btween these 2 people is the high of immaturity and lack of understanding. u want to judge the love of these 2 using 5 days out of 730 days. stupendous.

Go and face your own relationship. why dont u dish ur own spouse who rather than beat u , excel in emotional torture, verbal assaults, infidelity or any other problems u have between couples in relationship, except u are wont to tell me dat ur own relationship do not have any problem, which seems highly impossible. so why r u sticking with the relationship (and even love) despite the problems. except if u continue to sit on ur dirty high horse and say other people realtionship problem is worse than ur own. keep dreaming in filth.

Ikenna wanted to get married. He was having trouble choosing among three likely candidates [Ifeoma, Nneka & Ngozi]. He gives each woman a present of N650,000 and watches to see what they do with the money.

Ifeoma does a total make over. She goes to a fancy beauty salon gets her hair done, new make up and buys several new outfits and dresses up very nicely for the man. She tells him that she has done this to be more attractive for him because she loves him so much.Ikenna was impressed.

Nneka goes shopping to buy the man gifts. She gets him a new set of golf clubs, some new gizmos for his computer, and some expensive clothes. As she presents these gifts, she tells him that she has spent all the money on him because she loves him so much.Again, the man is impressed.

Ngozi invests the money in the stock market. She earns several times the N650,000. She gives him back his N650,000 and reinvests the remainder in a joint account. She tells him that she wants to save for their future because she loves him so much.Obviously, Ikenna was impressed.

He thought for a long time about what each woman had done with the money he'd given her.

Then, he married the one with the biggest boobs.

Men are like that, you know. You can never tell what they base their judgement on. Quality or quantity

@nimshi

I do not strive to define but to understand. Sin might mean so many things to so many people in so many cultures and societies. I am only trying to build on the definition in the bible about the root of evil. I only know that sin is of the evil one. so sin is evil

I just roll it backward to arrive at desire. If you do not agree with me. I will be more than happy to look at your own analysis

In preparing for my next year new year resolution, which is to Live above Sin (this year resolution was to increase spiritually, and I thank God that I made some good progress), I spent quite sometime in meditation and quiet time. I arrived at the following analysis of Sin

Beauty and Perfection leads to Desire
Desire leads to Acquisition
Acquisition leads to Pride
Pride leads to Materialism (more acquisition)
Materialism leads to Love of Money
Love of Money ===== root of all Evil
Sin ===== Evil

So logically, so it seems to me, the root of sin (evil) is Beauty and Perfection. BUT BEAUTY AND PERFECTION IS DIVINE AND ETERNAL. It is the delight of the spirit and all throughout the Bible, God and heaven and the glory of life afterward are described in excellence beauty and perfection. So Beauty and Perfection, to me, which is divine and eternal cannot be the root of sin.

Therefore the next is Desire. Can desire be the root of sin?

Our spirits is created to delight in beauty and perfection (because our spirit is of divine origin where eternal beauty and perfection reside). So can our spirits delight in beauty and perfection of earthly things (which i think is normal considering that the spirit is of divine nature) without our flesh desiring the beautiful and perfect earthly things. For desire, as analysed above, leads to sin.

Can man live without desire in the face of beauty and perfection (of earthly things around us)

Dear Fellow nairalanders, i greatly welcome your opinion, disapproval, expansion or rejection of my analysis. My goal is to reach an understanding, and I beleive that diverse view is necessary for tru understanding.

well, if u decided to call it quit, enjoy ur freedom while it lasted or keep it forever by staying away from men. become a sister in d convent. but if u still have in mind to get involved with any man in the future, then deal with it : men all over the world sleep with women not their wife. bill clinton did, former french president kept mistresses , etc. Even king david in the bible did it. countless. so lady, i beleive it is a short-curcuit in the male brain. some men have been able to bridge this circuit with serious spiritualism and it works, but majority of men all over the whole does not have the tilt toward spiritualism. it is ur choice.

Brace yourself for more stories from the agency in charge/ govt. my bet is this satellite is toast - it is gone nigeria style and nothing will even come out of the insurance angle cos i trust 9ja, the insurance is not even properly done. let's just await more stories.