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Don't get me wrong but i have to say some things that I think the church is guilty of, first why most the church neglect the true Gospel of Christ which is the standard Gospel, why most they refuse to preach to the flocks the standard doctrine which Christ commanded them to preach to his children, why must they emphasize on the prosperity preaching every Sundays, everything about them is about glorifying money over Christ, is making me sick, I can't take it.


The church that should be a place for sound doctrine and salvation for the unbelievers, is now a den of thieves, they worship wealthy members like Gods, and pour spit on poor members, is sickening.

For me I hate Lime, Black Plum and Grape what about you.

vr0xen:
I don’t pls elaborate pls

El Salvador's prison is one of the toughest prisons in the world, when locked inside you can't get out, you have no business with the out side world, Guards outnumber prisoners, so you can't get out and it is for harderned criminals, dangerous ones unlike Kiri Kiri prison where you can bribe your way out due to corruption, the difference between the two is that one is more strict in how they handle criminals over the other.

At least this is El Salvador's prison you can't compare it Kiri Kiri prison.

If you know what I mean.

Of all the pictures of a chicken, why can't you use a picture more deserving — you went ahead with this old picture, making the chicken part look like that of a vulture.

Well to your question, I don't like that part.

Whether scooped or not, whether healthy or unhealthy — many people have eaten nonsense in this country, just buy and use it, it won't take anything from you, the red oil you are consuming, do you know the dirty process it takes to make red oil, having a full grown human being using his dirty legs to move around where the oil is being processed, matching in and out in intervals, do you know the dirty process of making bread, having someone's sweat mixing up with the flour of the bread before the final result, do you know the dirty process of meat, do you know the dirty process of moi moi and other things that I will love to say but I do not want to say it, so you won't throw up.

In essence, we have all eaten nonsense one way or the other, it's inevitable in Nigeria, you can't dodge it.

After so many months you are back, welcome!

But I tell you man, this female mods governing this section won't push this to front page, but keep doing what you do, they can't take that from you.

Welcome back bro!

Although football is the most popular globally, but no one seems to call out Golf, is it not popular as well and it pays very well but it is so low-key you think it doesn't.

Please ma'am before exposing your fellow genders and what they do and how abroad guys are getting married to them, can you aswear pay more attention to your face — seeing it in the middle of the night can scare the hell out of someone.

I don't believe — is too good to be true!

Even if you earn a top salary (like myself), I won't advice you to marry talk more of bringing kids to this wicked word, is a word for thought.

Human beings look at children as a source of investment against old age, and that, right there is the problem, they fit into societal pressure than common sense.

richiemcgold:
Abeg o! Unlike Iran, Nigerians plenty for Iraq

Which Nigerian is in Iraq?

Or don't you know Iraq is the immediate brother to Iran, when it comes to war alliances, don't you know??

It will be more interesting to see Iraq join force with Iran, let it be 2 vs 2.

Iran and Iraq vs US and Israel.


We all know that by the end of the day, Israel will still win, is not math is a fact. They just win, because they are always destined to win no matter the circumstance.

They started early January of this year in rivers state, kind of weird where this Hausa people get there business format from.

Make money, money is the beginning and the end, money is everything.

See thunderous influence everywhere.

Beerbeer:
This is Super Story...🎶🎼🎤

Alaye this is not a kada cinema show, this is real life talk, if you are interested in a show go to pleasure parks cinema and watch one, that is if you can even afford to buy there tickets.

I see two of you are here doing 'Mathematics' and 'Detective' work on my profile since morning. If it’s October last year or one year, how does that change the fact that Tunde’s ( not his real name) 7-year marriage is a lie?
I’ve been away from this forum for months to face my life, and this heavy matter is what brought me back. While you are busy calculating my 'Last Seen' date like a primary school teacher, my friend of 12 years have been happy for a child that is not his (his first child for that matter). If your own conscience is not hitting you, at least have respect for the weight of this matter.

I am not here for 'dates' or 'profile views,' I am here because my head is full. If you have matured advice for a man whose life is about to enter a ditch, give it. If your own work is just to check my login history, then park well and let those with heart talk. This is my last response to all the people with childish response!"

thorpido:
This is obviously a story spun from God knows where!

"Story spun from where? My friend's life is about to enter a ditch after 12 years of brotherhood and you're talking about 'stories'? This is why I stayed away from this forum for a year—too many people have lost their humanity. If this was your brother being fooled by a Counselor after 7 years of marriage, would you call it a 'story'?"

Stainless11:
The woman is actually stupid for going for that option....she thinks na favour she dey do her husband now she will be thrown out.
Orisirisi

At least there is a woman with critical reasoning here, thank you for your response.

pocohantas:
Your friend's wife never confessed any of this to you. A woman would rather die than admit such to anyone at all. The only exception is if you are the father of the baby.

Which brings an important question. Why are you so involved in your friend's fertility journey?

I have known my friend for 12 solid years even before he got married to his wife, he knows me too, you see we have been closed like brothers ever since, I was actually his best man in his wedding, so you see I know everything about him, nothing to hide except the ones he kept secret, like I said in my post the wife knows am his closest friend and for that reason thinks I will betray my close friend by keeping her dirty secret private, which I will never do, Cause that is pure wickedness.

I don't actually want you to believe it, I just can't hide a secret that will make my friend look like a fool.

prophetwis:
Must you people always involve the word 'Church' in your clout chasing, it is really disgusting.

Why must a church marriage counselor sleep with another's man's wife and still have the effontry to tell her to keep it as a secret, that is wickedness!

I have been away from Nairaland for over a year now, focusing on my life and career. I didn’t plan to come back here, but what I witnessed this past weekend has left me trembling. I cannot keep this secret alone; it is eating me alive.

My close friend, Tunde (not his real name), has been married for 7 years without a child. The guy has spent millions on fertility treatments, herbs, and prayers. The wife always told me Tunde was the "problem" but that he refused to go for a clinical sperm test out of "male pride." I always pitied her and encouraged Tunde to go, but he remained stubborn.

The Timeline of the Betrayal:

Friday Evening: I met them at a lounge in Ikeja to celebrate. Tunde was over the moon, buying drinks for everyone. He told me, "Lonesoldier, God has finally remembered me!" He was even showing me the baby clothes and a stroller he already bought.

Saturday Afternoon: The wife called me, sounding very troubled. We met privately because she knows I am Tunde’s closest confidant. She broke down crying and confessed: She is 3 months pregnant, but the baby belongs to their Church Marriage Counselor.

The Reason: She said she "helped" Tunde because he is "useless" in that department and she couldn't wait any longer.

The Cover-up: She told me the Counselor himself advised her to keep the secret to "maintain peace in the home" and give Tunde the joy of fatherhood, even if it’s a lie.

I haven't been able to sleep. Every time I see Tunde’s WhatsApp status with "Thank You Jesus" captions, I feel like vomiting. If I tell him, I will destroy a 7-year marriage and a man's joy. If I don't, I am watching my brother raise a marriage counselor's child as a fool.

Men of Nairaland: Is "peace" worth this kind of paternity fraud?
Women of Nairaland: How can a woman be this cold-hearted after 7 years of loyalty?

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun... please move this to FP. This is a serious matter. I need matured advice on whether to speak up or mind my business. Trust is officially dead.

Fear Women!


Updated

To those that contributed nicely, I solemnly appreciate your response, to those that contributed otherwise, I have nothing to prove to you. So I have decided to tell my close pal about his cheating wife on Wednesday tomorrow, I know this will break his heart, but it will save him a lot of suffering knowing that his first seed which he is thinking is his, is not actually his.


This is what women and religious so called holy men of God can do, as a man always watch your marriage closely, do plenty of DNA test to make sure, your kids are actually yours, things are happening in this world.

TheWolfen:
Even animals are wise not to eat their feaces

Dogs eat there faeces