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Kobojunkie:
The problem begins with the fact that your mothers, for one reason or another, did not reach out to correct these notions you have of the status of a woman in marriage in time. If you had known from time that marriage is a type of business agreement between a man and a woman were both typically contribute — financially, emotionally, physically(via labor and more). etc.—consistently to the success of the marriage and the individuals in the marriage, you would have no need to ask these silly questions. 1. She says that because she has every right to claim a part in the success that is the marriage and its dividends.

2. A man's money is typically considered the dividend of the marriage when the man is the sole provider in the marriage. That should be a no-brainer, really. If the man were a partial provider, the case would be entirely different. If a woman can take care of her responsibilities in the marriage and also make time to earn more on the side, that is typically when her money is regarded as her own. It all depends on the agreement between the man and woman, really. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Marriage is a choice... it has always been a choice. If you don't want to pay 1.5M for a woman, then don't. It is that simple. Look elsewhere for a woman whom you can afford somewhere else. Don't play victim. That is a kind of mental illness! 🥱🥱🥱

4.a. Your friend, with eyes wide open, chose to marry a woman who had no job and no established skills of her own. What did he expect? For the marriage fairy to transform her into a dazzling career woman after marriage? Is your friend a reptard? 🥱🥱🥱

4.b. Well, tell him to divorce the woman; however, that woman will do well to make sure that she gives full custody of all five kids to the man, since they are his kids anyway. When he was busy making them, where were these thoughts of this woman being a liability then? He produced 5 kids and is now suddenly screaming that a woman with 5 children he made her have is a liability? 🥱🥱🥱

Please tell your friend's wife to come online make she come tell her own side of the story.

5. Please go back to your mother for the lessons you missed out on, and also visit your friend's wife to hear her side of the story. In this day and age, you can't really think yourself a king if you can't even reason simple things such as these for yourself. 🥱🥱🥱

Your number one point, I don't go along with it, women doesn't have that right to say such, because behind every mans success is his sweat, hard work, determination, dedication and a slim curve of hope to make it, not you.....


Your number two point, so now marriage is now a business venture, enlighten me more..... You just proved my points, so a man's money is actually for the wife also, because they did an agreement, why a woman's money becomes hers when she works for it, I want to ask you a question, does the man not work for his money also, does he sit and wait for money to fall down from the sky before he gets it....... You people are just something else honestly speaking.......



Your third point, when I said 1.5 to 2M of bride price, I was of the motion to say that you guys ain't worth that kind of amount, that is a scam of the highest order, you guys aint even worth 1,000 naira, you are not worth anything because you came from us, without us you are nothing......



Your fourth point, well like I stated above earlier, I will definitely tell him to do the needful, which is to divorce..... There is a saying that goes this way, all that glitters are not gold, marriage glitters but is not gold .....


Your fifth point, I have a lot of lessons I have learnt over the years, Marriage AKA Suffering ProMax is one of them .....

I hope if you are a female or male or she-male or he-male, or whatever you represent, if a man marries you he will really suffer for sure.....

blesdman:
This is because u are copying western idea of marriage. With African idea of marriage, u will act properly

There is no copying of anything, all marriages are the same everywhere.....

Carl99:
What you said sadly is true. But there are still lots of marriages that are flourishing with happiness today.

The problem is not marriage. Rather it's those who enter marriage without a proper understanding of it. Why would you marry somebody that does nothing in the first place.
There's is a reason for Courtship.

Marriage is beautiful. Just pray you find the right one

Even though you get a working class lady as a wife, it doesn't mean, that they are useful anyway......

There is this way women are been wired to act as a parasite and the man the host..... Even when the said woman has money, just know you are in deep shit, they will obviously want to take control over your life, after all that is all they wanted all along..... Marriage is not sweet, I can attest to that.... Men all over the world are crying silently, divorce is on the high side this days ....

Rexymania:
The thing is, marriage without money is hell.
Marrying a promiscuous woman is hell fire

You nailed it, money is the reason most of this women go into marriage in the first place.....

That is the same reason Regina Daniels married a man her father's age.....

paragon10:
even if he has sisters and aunts, should that in anyway stop him from saying the truth. Men are now facing reality... You women should bring value. It's no longer business as usual

You can say that again brother, most of these women are just so useless, nothing to offer to a man.....

That's why you see men dieing anyhow due to high rate of high BP..... It's painful.....

Esthered:
Do you have sisters, aunt's, does your assertion apply to them?

That doesn't apply to my context, what I wrote up there is the bitter truth about marriage.....

Sirchiboy:
I went through traumatic childhood dUE to over religious woman called mother.
A mother that worship and cherish money more than her own kids.
I have studied this world and discovered that most people that are living good life are actually non religous people.
I stopped going to church in 2006 because I had no single clothes to wear.
I was putting on one trouser every Sunday while the woman called mother will buy clothes every Sunday and still buy for her pastors wife yet her kids wear rags to church.
My life would have been much better if I was born into non relgious home.

Your assertion is very correct, coming from a religious background is a nightmare, especially when your father is a pastor..... The church itself is a business venture, all they care about is money, pastor and his wife love members with money, be it a criminal or kidnapper as far you have money, you are a good member, when I saw how the so-called church is, I quited and i also stop believing in God, God itself is just a mere word he doesn't not exist, he is just a dillusion used by pastors or prophets to strap you off your hard earned money.....

Dear esteemed men, why will a woman you married that has nothing, came from a poor background, have the audacity to say, "I made my husband what he is today, I was with him when he had nothing" why this said man worked for his money without your efforts, is this not entitlement mentality......


Another thing I have observed around marriage is the fact that a man's money is always a woman's money, why a woman's money is only for her self only, is this not greed.....


Why the hell will I pay 1.5M to 2M for bride price just for a useless liability that has nothing to offer me in the long run, except high BP, I will always say it marriage is the biggest scam in this world.......


Most of the married men, are all crying silently, because if they knew what marriage really is they won't have gotten there self into it, marriage is a path to slavery......


I know two friends my age, suffering from marriage wahala, one came to me yesterday and was explaining his ordeal with me, telling me how his wife is good for nothing and a liability and had it been he knew, he would have remained a bachelor like me, I just smiled, I wanted to convince him to divorce, but he has five kids with his wife already..... But I will still tell him to do the needful....


So dear esteemed men be careful out there, so you don't make a terrible mistake...... Remember we are Kings.....


Bachelor For Life

Bachelor For Life

That gender so entitled to another genders hard earned money from hard work and sweat, and society will paint it as marriage, tufiakwa for that gender.....

Ever since I saw how women use marriage to rob men off there freedom, I graduated from being a Bachelor to a Confirmed Bachelor..... If you care for the meaning go and ask google.....

Most of the drivers are full time aberos, what do you expect.... No certificate, just drink and drive and kill who ever is your competitor in the road.....

There are many online legitimate stores with good consultants you can order such a phone with certainty you won't be cheated, what happened to online stores like jumia, konga, shopinverse and other legit stores.... Madam na you do ur self, by now you suppose to know that places like computer village is not for the weak, the amount of criminals in that vicinity is not easy, they can even kidnap you, nothing will happen.... Maybe next time you will think twice the kind of place you get a product from....

Honestly I don't know how men keep on marrying all this kind of things in the name of marriage or love..... And the worst part staying with them for a lifetime till death do them apart, tufiakwa.....

Confirmed Bachelor For Life

Just look at how they are so organized, but Nigeria's own is opposite....

With such an amazing talent you have, you suppose to look for jobs that pay well outside the shores of Nigeria, Nigeria no follow for top payers that is what you should understand.... Nigeria treats there employees like slave ..

SpencerForbes:
And you can read and write ooo. It’s very unfortunate that with everything said here and some people still saying it isn’t masturbation. You just had to spill it out. It’s quite unfortunate you just showed what you really had up there.

Your ego overclouds your understanding...

It's quite a shame having such an ego like that....

Always be upright in your life, stop leaving the life of a lier, it doesn't fit you....

SpencerForbes:
I have this colleague that’s always putting his hands in his trouser stroking his divk anytime he’s free or he’s sitting close to his guys.

Anytime he’s close by or we’ll sitting on the same table, he start stroking his dick and it’s very disturbing and disgusting.

Guys have you experienced this and how were you able to solve the problem cos it’s dirty and disgusting and I don’t wanna hurt his ego by telling him.

You guys pretend alot, there is nothing like your colleague, is you....

I also masturbate, is not a big deal....

Google is perfectly working on my phone right now....

This must be a fake news....

You made a big mistake, snapping your full head on display here, Nairaland is not a place for consultancy.... You go chop insults for here....

One even said, his head is like Acura, Chai

Igbo people and wanting to occupy other regions are 5&6 , left only, they will one day say that the whole world came out from there tribe.....

Blessed are those who are bachelor's for they shall have peace of mind....

Honour indeed, this man just keeps on investing into useless things, the people you are awarding are long dead, of what use will the award be to them.....

Can't you do other things that are meaningful as a president that you are, like investing into something that will help the nation....

This man is an embarrassment aswear.... Investing in honour award to dead people, why the economy lacks stability....

Ommmmmoooohhhh, seauuuuuunnn whhhhhhhyyy naaaaaaa.....

4000000000 wooooooordssssss....

Suen what kind of stupid pattern is this, so someone can not say something in a short form again.... Omo nawaoooh

Maybe you like it now when people are passing there opinion with this kind of pattern

Oommmmmoooooooh seaaaaaaaauuuuunnnnn, yyyyooooouuuu doooooooooonnnn spppppppooiiilllll naaiiraaaalllannd ohhhhhh....

Just to prove a point....

illicit:
That's a pocket snake...

It's very tiny and portable can even fit in your shirt pocket

Correction to the bolded....

It can...

AndroBlaze:
You only have one BVN and are suppose to have only one NIN (but that one na another discussion).

You said you used different phone numbers on the accounts One thing I will say about that is the account where you use the number that is connected to your BVN will run more flawlessly than the account where you use another number that is not connected to your BVN.

This is one thing the banking and financial sector need to improve on....which is adding more than one number to a BVN like the way NIN works.

Thank you...

Throw more light on the bolded....

Obiedun:
Yes.

Thank you...

OlaOfLagos:
Sorry I just modified

Okay