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We4all:
I am not holding brief for Tu Face because he is not a disciplined man. But, he also accepted so many nasty things from you, so both of you deserved each other and crying foul now is pointless. You knew you were a mother, but you were getting hooked on drugs. What sort of responsible mother does that? By the way, are the girls in the picture her daughters? The one standing on the left look like her younger daughter, but I can barely recognize the girl standing on the right. Why lay emphasis on the singular word 'daughter', when you have two daughters, or the second one is not that important as the first?

Are you this daft, can't you read......

You look like the category of people that just jump into the comment box and say whatever is in your mind without visiting the post first....

Learn to read okay.....

We4all:
I am not holding brief for Tu Face because he is not a disciplined man. But, he also accepted so many nasty things from you, so both of you deserved each other and crying foul now is pointless. You knew you were a mother, but you were getting hooked on drugs. What sort of responsible mother does that? By the way, are the girls in the picture her daughters? The one standing on the left look like her younger daughter, but I can barely recognize the girl standing on the right. Why lay emphasis on the singular word 'daughter', when you have two daughters, or the second one is not that important as the first?

Are you this daft, can't you read......

You look like the category of people that just jump into the comment box and say whatever is in your mind without visiting the post first....

Learn to read okay.....

That is why, threads that are made to enlighten men are threads people like you skip all in the name of "all of them are not like that" now you have learnt the hard way......


Most of the enlighteners of this forum have gone out, you hardly see them this days, because people like you don't take them serious, and another thing is easy for useless threads with pant worshippers to make FP, than real threads that enlighten men about women manipulative nature......

We4all:
People like you need people like us to borrow you some sense, so you don't keep on constituting a nuisance on a public forum with an over flogged topic.

There is no point getting nasty, I understand you are the one that have taken it upon himself to flog the topic so many times, since is what you know how to do best....

Shame on you!

pdppower:
It depends on the woman you marry. Look at Temi Otedola and her husband. Will he ask what she brings to the table?

Oh forget that, if the said temi otedola came from a poor background, you won't be here saying what you are saying now....

Is it because she grew up in a wealthy family, she already have what she wanted, what every woman craves for, which is MONEY..... Modern women can't do without it.... Is like a virus in there veins.....

We4all:
Over flogged topic! Have you ever heard of the word 'responsibility'? I believe in every home, every one is responsible for something. A man shouldering the financial responsibilities doesn't make him better than the woman who is shouldering her own responsibilities by taking care of the home front and risking her life to birth babies that will inherit his name and give him a bragging right. If women bring nothing to the table, then why don't you just continue to live a solitary lifesyle and leave women alone? Life is not that hard!

It is not an over flogged topic, is just a question directed to men not people like you, so you are free to flee any thread I create that doesn't suit your view, like you said, Life is not that hard?

Zackattack:
As she dey look into your eyes, make you sef dey look into her eyes say she go make am too o. Success is not only for men.
I get tired of only women believing and sticking with men. Make we sef dey put the expectations on them too. At least, if e nor work, nobody go feel disappointed. Eshe!

Is very hard to see people with your calibre of thinking..... You really nailed it....

Caaz:
If you nor erase this mindset your white go continue to stain. Women are created to be pampered and cared for.

Do you know what we bring to the table?

What did i just read, you are created to be pampered, why the men are created to suffer to pamper you abi.....

The only thing you bring to the table is suffering nothing else.....

Dear esteemed men, what do women actually bring to the table in marriage, because the way I see it men are the ones doing everything even though society deems it that way, I don't think it makes any sense for only one person to be shouldering everything all in the name of "man of the house" this is the main reason men are dieing constantly, the load is much.....

Dear esteemed men share your thoughts.....

Dear esteemed single men, to be a single man is indeed a good thing especially knowing the horrors that married men go through in the hands of there partners all in the name of marriage....

I want you to share your experience as a single man and also the benefits that comes been a single man and also the challenges that comes with been a single man in today's society.....


I will start with myself,

Experience:

I have a lot of experience about marriage, I know marriage is an enslavement casted on men from time immemorial to this present day to only favour one person, the women why the men suffer, you barely see men this days in marriage leave up to 70 years before you know it they are dead while their wives leave up higher than that margin, we all know that in today's reality, marriage favours women more than men.....

Benefits:

I have been a bachelor for years, and I can tell you the benefits is so good, I have so much time for myself, no wife to disturb my little peace, I work from home and life has never been much better than that.....


Challenges:

Well, my challenge came from my family, but I made them understand that am not interested, and that fixed it, common they can't control a grown up man like me.....

So that's my experience, benefits and challenges as a single man.....


All single men are allowed and free to throw there inputs.....

Nigeria is number one, the number of churches in one street alone can be up to 15.....

Which person sow this kain thing for them... omo

One liability gone, it has never been this better, what a great news.....

Afodot0022:
Am not an advocate of not to get married, one thing I experienced in marriage is that marriage will humble you as a man. Those saying their marriage is sweet and fine is because they are still meeting up to their responsibility, once this is taking away, that your wife will become something else you never imagined. Those that want to get married, take this, don't marry a woman at was brought up by single mother, they eventually end up like their mum. My mother in-law, married 5 men with different kids to different man. What good can you expect from such family of not their daughter later being like her mum. Now we have been separated for 3years and heard she is with another man. That's a pattern she must follow . Marriage has its up and down. Just study the woman you are with very well and notice red flag that can become insure in marriage. Women are very complicated and you need to be sane to deal with their shenanigans

The bolded is very correct, you see young men that know nothing about marriage, saying it is sweet, they think is a joy ride..... When your peace of mind is been tampered, you will know that marriage is nothing but slavery.....

sportflex:
i took me fifteen years to realize i was with the wrong person.
fifteen years of my life!
fifteen years of fighting!
fifteen years of retrogression!
hanging on, because of the children
God knows best

This is a testament that men are really going through a lot in marriage AKA Suffering ProMax.....

Honestey:
Marrying someone who doesn't really love me hoping she would fall in love with time only to discovered I've condemned myself to a boring marriage. Had it possible to go back in time, marriage wouldn't even be in my dictionary.

That is women for you, very ungrateful things..... You still have the chance to divorce her.... Marriage is not a do or die affair....

hush15:
Marriage is not the problem. Its the values, foundation and principle you bring it to it as a man. You can be a man of one wife and be at peace. You can be a man of 10 wives and still be peace. You can be a man of one wife, and your life can be in turmoil, and regret. You can have multiple wives and you life is complete chaos. When you younger, find yourself, build yourself with the right principles and values. Always strive to be a better man. At first, it might be inconvenient and the world may not understand you and flow with you because the world we living today doesn't go with such, but in time, when you stay on course, it will be begin to sink in and things will align. Those women that will give you the peace of mind you looking for will come along. Whether you married or not, you will be fine and between you and the woman or women, there won't be issues cause they know you and will stand with you irrespective of the outcome and you will be in perfect peace.

My two cents

Am a Confirmed Bachelor, am not a married man and will never be.....

But I still get your points tho....

Dear esteemed married men, can you throw more light about your regret as a married man and also share your bad experiences also.....

You can still add if you are still in the marriage or not, and tell us how many years you were in before you eventually left the marriage.....


Divorced men you are free to drop your inputs......

This is how it's suppose to be, women suppose to pay to be with a man, even if it is a small potion of time or small conversation, you pay for it..... Because men are Kings..... Without us, the entire females in this whole wide world are nothing......

What a liability, can't you yourself be successful.... Must you depend on the male gender for everything..... Tufiakwa....

Let her switch to porn acting, she is definitely in the wrong place..... Teaching is not for her.....

ChizzyBuna:
Time will come when you will regret your decision not to have a family

Since you don't want to listen, is your choice man, I don't have any right to change your mind..... Do as you please.....

But don't come 7years from now in this forum crying and lamenting about divorcing your spouse......

Marriage should not be a thing of force, you have the right to say yes or no to marriage as a man.... Why does society deems it, if you are not married at the age of 30 you are not a man.....

They go pressure you put for inside suffering promax say na good thing dey do for you......


Tell them to there old faces that you ain't getting married for your peace of mind oh ....

ChizzyBuna:
Popsi and everyone at village has been pressuring me to marry and give them grandkids.

I'm 34 this year and still single.
I just recently moved into an apartment
So the hunt for finding a wife has begun.

How do I find a wife?
Where should I go to find a good wife?

This is my whole point about marriage, they are pressuring you into marriage not that is your personal decision, but you just been pressured by family members to marry to birth them grand kids, my point is marriage should be personal not mandatory, there is no importance in marriage, if you marry you gonna suffer men..... Don't do it.... This is how they pressured me, but I told them NO.... And here I am, enjoying my money all to myself, no wife and no kids.... Just me and my money.....

Is not too late, be a man and tell them NO to there face....