Celestialsword: can you please mention one area of human existence that is stress free.
Life is filled with struggles and challenges, weather as single or married even as a child.
So when you cowardly shy away from responsibilities , you are equally restricting your growth.
So someone says he doesn't want to marry, because he doesn't think like you, or doesn't like the idea of marriage.... Then you tame him with the bolded.....
We all know that nothing is easy, the world is cursed with suffering by a fictitious God which I don't know whether he exist or not, don't care.... My point is marriage should be a personal decision, not a mandatory decision....
Celestialsword: You are not ready yet,keep following social media lies,
You will learn the hard way
Nigga, like I said earlier on my first quote.... Am old enough to marry but I didn't, stop hyping marriage, marriage is pure suffering....
Am not following social media, I speak facts, I once created a thread called Life as a bachelor on romance section, it made FP, it's filled with insights....
Omowale2023: I totally disagree with the bolded. How can 500k not be enough to start a family?. People are thriving and surviving with way less and nothing do them. The economy has nothing to do with it, although the economy is bad, but you will survive. Everything is planning. This generation is in serious trouble.
Will you keep quiet, 500k can't go anywhere for a family man.... Are you in this country at all....
Only rent bills alone will shorten the money into half, school fees, stupid wife's bills.... You won't even have what to keep for yourself, everything will go to the family.... If you are the family man that earns 500k every month, you are finished.... You will be left with nothing eventually in the long run....
Stop justifying marriage, you know nothing about it.... It's pure suffering, mind you that 500k can last well for one person only, not a family....
mayDtolu: The pressure on men to get married once they hit their 30s is honestly exhausting. In our society, the moment a man enters his 30s, people start acting like he’s overdue for marriage—throwing jabs, cracking jokes, or outright questioning his decisions.
But what many don’t talk about is the financial reality behind it all.
Marriage isn’t just about love; it’s a serious financial commitment. And let’s be real—it’s tough out here. Some men are earning as much as ₦500,000 a month and still don’t feel ready to marry, because even that amount barely sustains one person, let alone a family. When survival is the goal, the thought of taking on more responsibility can be downright scary.
Sometimes, it’s not even about unwillingness. It’s about survival. Stability. Peace of mind.
How do you handle the pressure? If you’re a man in your 30s, have you felt this pressure too? If you’re already married, did you feel financially and emotionally ready when you tied the knot?
Let’s talk. Share your thoughts in the comments.
This is the reason I tell men to focus on there self, marriage is a cage and a bondage, only one gender suffer it all, which is the male gender.....
Mind you am old enough to marry, but I choose not to marry, I don't know the hype they attach to this marriage of a thing, which favours a particular gender over the other....
I have choosen the bachelor's life, with my job nature... I always have time for myself so no pressure whatsoever....
AmuEbule: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 No no Amubule 😃😃 I will take it like a riff raff that i am. You asked for it ba! It’s my birthday sha Hanging out in God’s own Country with close pals. Just to let you know. Not here to measure priik. Okay 👍
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Travel out bro, Nigeria doesn't support such dreams, if you stay here long enough... Your career is gonna end...
For the record why must a man shave his dick, for women is important, but men not that important....
Not that you can't shave but if you do, you might scratch your flesh out.... The hairs there is what is stopping you from scratching your private part, is natural not infection oh...
AmuEbule: Isn’t it better for you to look at other reasons why you indicated you’re jobless. My NGO can actually rehabilitate you. Just lower your pride and leave the rest for me and my board trustees. I’m not actually your mate ok. I lose so much when I respond to your nonsense. Please move on or keep losing.
Do I look like your mate either, I have a job also that gives me money to my satisfaction.... You have nothing to offer, so go back and learn and stop being such a pussy...
AmuEbule: After many hours ba? You didn’t have to wait for data to respond or quote me 🤣🤣 Tufiakwa. Still looking for a job? Continue to rest, in peace o o o
Your name is obviously affecting your life, poor retarded fellow.... AmuEbule is that a name or a curse?
AmuEbule: You’re probably related to the op but I don’t have time for both of you. You may as well go and start patronizing those prostitute. Nonesense.
Instead of you to learn how to read very well, you are here complaining....
Sorry for your soul tho, and for the record I don't even know the op, we aren't related....
Stop believing in some fictitious entities, they don't exist..... Heaven and hell doesn't also exist, they are all made-up to fool the gullible, the bible is just another made-up book written by drunken and confused men to enslave you, and keep you mentally locked by ignorance and neglection of the TRUTH, which is all you have been told all your life by clergymen are all lies.....
The story of God, Jesus, Allah, Prophet Muhammad are all false, it never existed.... The people who brought this false doctrines and teachings to you know that the day you finally know the truth about this world you will be free, you won't be locked in ignorance anymore, so they are lieing to you to keep you imprisoned in your ignorance....
The names mentioned in the bible are all fictitious, nobody truely witnessed those moments, nobody can testify about the happenings that occured according to those early years, the Jesus they claimed came to earth, if you can testify you know how he looks quote me with mature response, don't use your bible, is just an ordinary book.....
Allah on the other hand is a very confusing shit of a story, with there fake Quran book filled with bunch of lies, the Prophet Muhammad of a guy is as funny as his name implies.....
They just cook some fake stories, and make it look as if it was real, they both also never existed....
Both Christianity and Muslim are violent religions, acting like there fictitious figures.....
You and your fictitious God are foolish, see the way he is happy that innocent people will perish because they don't want to accept one bullshit religion called Christianity, is it by force....
Yankiss: No. It's yours that is. When u can't grab simple logic. Compare life in 1445 to that in 2025, then project upwards to 2095. It's easy to surmise that being in the moon would become an effortless issue in the future, wouldn't even be news. Adeboye didn't mean travelling to the moon today. God showed him what would become a possibility in dim future. Get it or get lost.
The bolded shows you are already lost, 21st century and you still believe a fictitious God crap, or prophecy given to a man suffering from dementia in his old age....
You are lost in 299 AD... Come back to reality Mr man....