irumole1975: Just because your wife is cantankerous, rebellious, showing you shege, doesn’t cook and cheat you on you here and there doesn’t mean you should leave her or run away. Real men don’t abandon such women and run away. Real men stay and pray for their wives to change. Nigerian men are not patient. A woman is showing shege and you now get a visa and japa to abroad, that not a good thing to do. You are supposed to stay with her.
But then, Nigerian men lack patience and will rather run away. So sad. The man that left his wife in Nigeria and run away to America isn’t a real man at all, you’re a coward and that’s the truth
Useless man, you want to know the definition of a real man come close and listen attentively.... A real man is a man that acknowledges that women are liabilities and don't have anything to offer any man but suffering, it's time you people come to the realization that the war is against men, 90% of men around the globe are dropping dead like flies, what I mean is that not only Nigeria alone, just today only like 10 men are already dead due to high BP from there useless liabilities called wives....
Estimated probability and prediction states that a man has drop down dead about 8:25 PM right now.... Be wise..
irumole1975: OMG 😦 I don’t get these things. OMG I don’t literally understand these things. Nigeria is damaged. Nigeria is doomed. I just saw a billionaire in Nigeria sold off his properties, 4 of his kidneys, 3 of his livers, and 5 of his scrotums to get a student visa to Canada to japa. This is another testament of how Nigeria is the worse country on erath than even the elite are leaving to seek a better life for their unborn kids.
I literally know of a First bank CEO whose income was 540million in Nigeria and he japa to Canada to go and start washing plates..he’s around 67yrs, it’s worth it, at least a McDonald plate washer earn more than a billionaire in Nigeria and he’ll be able to give better life to his children in a country that work.
Gents, do everything you can to leave Nigeria. My uncle that left Nigeria last month told me his salary in the UK is over 7million dollars per week. Who earn such in Nigeria l.
Lol..😆 pls wake me up..but then it’s been long we see these types of post on Nairaland and on Nigeria social media lol..so I just thought to bring these foolings back here ..who missed those times? What happen? Why did it stopped? Nigerian no longer japa or what?
You haven't seen anything, liability wanted to use budget and kill the man so he ran for his life, before he will drop dead like the man that slumped and died due to high BP on front page...
GistMedia0: A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after claiming that "real men don’t care about your past, they don’t care about your body count… they only care about your present, how far you have gone to be a better person, and how your present life affects them positively." She placed strong emphasis on "real men."
However, her statement didn’t sit well with many men on social media. Netizens, mostly male, expressed skepticism, with one commenting, "Once you hear ‘Real men,’ you better run," while another added, "I avoid anything that will make a woman call me a real man."
The discussion has since sparked controversy, with people divided on whether a man should care about a woman's past or solely focus on her present character. What’s your take on this?
DyshApp: Man in a dilemma as he shares how his girlfriend reacted after he used a different phone to text her.
According to the man, he had wanted to test the loyalty of his girlfriend.
He used a different phone to text her and pretended to be a customer.
Two days later, he asked for them to meet and spend some time together, and to his surprise the lady agreed.
The man is sad and wonders whether that’s a red flag.
His words read …
“Sir D, thank you for all you do , I texted my babe on a different number and acted like I wanted to order something from her in just two days I asked her if we could meet and spend time together she agreed sent address for me to come pick her up. Omo I’m in pains , is this a red flag sir please help”
So, this guy decided to test his girlfriend’s loyalty by texting her from a different number, pretending to be a customer. Long story short, she agreed to meet up with "the customer" in just TWO DAYS! 😳 Now he’s heartbroken and wondering if this is a major red flag.
Fool, can't you see that this is a full red flag, foolish man....
You trusting a gender that has no regard whatsoever for the male gender and entering a relationship with such a gender while you can be a Bachelor and have peace of mind was the first mistake you made Mr man....
The female gender is programmed to be useless, stupid and foolish at a 100% ratio.... This Gen Z girls are just the beginning the next generations of girls will leave your heart blown away..... It will be from 100% to 1000% ratio of stupidity, madness and foolishness....
Women think is all about big ass and big boobs, aside that there is nothing they can offer a man, absolutely nothing... Is just to be parading with there useless expired breast and overused ass that they know how to do....
You are still playing around with him, gays have a way of knowing how to manipulate the weak ones so they can fück your anus, you can't tell me this asshole can go to an army man and do this kind of nonsense with him...
Whether agent or not, invite an army man that will treat him very well in an army base (better beaten go fix him brain)...
Stop wasting time so he won't lock you up one day and sleep with you oh...
“If you’re currently unemployed or struggling financially, it may be wise to focus on getting your finances in order before entering into a romantic relationship. ❌
"A man should leave those useless genders that have nothing to offer, and focus on his career and how to make it in life, and use some of his money he has gotten so far from his hard work and go on vacation and leave his life like a King ✅
Goodlady: One of the things you can do to a woman is to break her trust. Who remembered this story I shared here few years ago? https://www.nairaland.com/7547774/he-ran-away-because-valentines Don't hurt an innocent soul because there may be karma. Don't call me bitter plum but life isn't fair. Someone I trusted but suddenly changed and started misbehaving because of other girls. He is so good sweet words but can give. All he ask for is sex and I can let a man I won't marry climb over me. I think since that time he started changing, doesn't spend on me and kept giving excuses till we broke up. There are other things he did to hurt me that I can't say here. But in all he toiled with my emotions to the extent that I cursed him. Though I later felt sorry and prayed for him. After breaking up with him I heard he traveled to US. How he did it I don't know because when we were together he was trying shengem visa route to Europe and other student visa stuff. To the gist, learnt that he is back in Abuja. I don't know if he was deported or he just came back on his own. Big part of my heart disliked him amd small part of my heart is saying I should free him. I don't know if I am being wicked but he is the bad person. I must surely go to his parents house next week and confirm with my korokoro eyes. Don't say am wicked. The guy disappointed me too much.
Bolded 1 Break your trust, you people are so funny....
He's not picking my calls cos I told him I wanted a car as val gift. I just told him how I had a busy schedule last week and I wasted lots of money oh tfare plus the stress in entering cabs. We were discussing and I mentioned I wish I had a car and we just talked normally. Since last Friday, I v been trying to reach him but he's not picking my phone. I called his friend to ask after him. He called back n told me he's going to check on me but he hasn't. Why is he acting like he doesn't care? Could my instinct be right that he's trying to run cos I mentioned I wanted car?
The bolded was gotten from your last post, I congratulate the guy for not buying anything for you, you guys are just full time liabilities.... You have nothing to offer to a man...
Bolded 2 You are not an innocent soul, you are a ripper... And am glad the man was wise enough to back out from your trap....
Bolded 3 The guy didn't disappoint, you where the one that disappointed him by asking him to buy for you what he has not bought for his parents or himself.... You are the fool here not him....
GistMedia0: Valentine’s Day took an embarrassing turn for a young woman who proposed to her boyfriend at a busy shopping mall, only to be met with rejection in front of a crowd.
In a now-viral video, the woman, dressed red gown and holding a ring, went down on one knee to ask for her boyfriend’s hand in marriage. However, instead of the expected joyous acceptance, the man appeared visibly uncomfortable before shaking his head and walking away, leaving his girlfriend devastated.
The incident, which took place in the full glare of the public, sparked a heated debate online, especially among women who expressed anger over the man’s reaction. Many argued that women should not be ridiculed for proposing, while others believed the man had the right to decline if he wasn’t ready.
“So embarrassing! Why propose in public if you’re not sure of his answer?” one social media user commented. Another wrote, “Men do it all the time, and women say no. Now the tables turned, and everyone is upset.”
silvertuke: A South African marriage therapist and community psychologist, Bakhe Dlamini, has revealed that he lost his virginity to his wife at the age of 27 on their honeymoon.
The father of three disclosed this in a Facebook post on Valentine's Day.
“I lost my virginity to my wife at the age of 27, at our 1st night at honeymoon. I know it's seen as outdated nowadays. That's why I want to talk about it on this Valentines day. I want to celebrate that. I believed that sex is pure, wanted to have it for the first time with that special someone in marriage,” he wrote.
"I recall how I'd at times tease during the days we were preparing for our wedding: "Hey, I feel too much fire between you and I. Time for me to go. I'll see you tomorrow". I'd drive off, see her on the next day we'd be working on our wedding preps. I don't regret waiting."
phineas: So he realized she has no value when he turned 50. After using her all the while for himself,his kids and other kids from others
Responsibility in men means a man takes charge of a family unit and it's future amongst many other things. In women it means sacrifices for that family unit trusting in the effort of the team to bring great rewards for all parties in future. This new mentality been perpetuated is for the women to learn from,never sacrifice your growth for anyone,never marry a man that is not responsible.
Lastly this ideology usually comes from men who grow up underprivileged. Those who grow up in wealth cater for their spouses mental and financial well being even in divorce. Women should do better.Not every man is a MAN
GistMedia0: A USA-based Ghanaian man has tied the knot with his longtime girlfriend through a virtual wedding, igniting widespread debate online as someone held the bride's hand for him!
Viral footage from the ceremony shows the groom attending via FaceTime while someone physically present stood in for him, holding the bride’s hands on his behalf. A microphone was placed near the phone so he could recite his vows. Despite the effort to make the ceremony appear normal, the bride’s straight-faced expression throughout the event raised eyebrows.
Social media users had mixed reactions. One person asked, “What’s the difference between this and a spiritual marriage?” while another questioned, “What’s the point of getting married if it’s virtual?” However, others defended the couple, saying that love is what truly matters.
While the debate rages on, the couple is now officially married—virtually or not!
judewrites: 📖 Genesis 38 ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ ⁸ And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother's wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother. ⁹ And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother's wife, that he spilled it on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother. ¹⁰ And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
In the Old Testament God gave His people some laws concerning the discharge of semen from a man. (Leviticus 15:16-18)
According to these laws:
👉Anytime a man discharges his semen outside procreation (with his wife) he is considered unclean.
👉Any type of surface a man's semen falls upon is considered unclean.
👉When a man is in the process of procreation (with his wife) and he discharges his semen externally, both of them are unclean.
From these laws, we can see how sacred/sacrosanct man's semen is to God.
God ordained that man's semen should be utilized in procreation (with His wife) and not discharged carelessly/anyhow like in the case of Onan.
God killed Onan because he in outright disobedience, desecrated his semen by pouring it out on the floor instead of procreating with Tamar. (As custom then allowed it to raise children to represent his dead brother)
The major purpose of a man's semen is for procreation; to produce children on earth:
📖 His seed shall be mighty upon earth: the generation of the upright shall be blessed. — Psalms 112:2
The semen of man is full of supernatural creative energy from God. It can create life therefore it is highly valuable in the spiritual realm.
This is why the more a man practices semen retention, (with bible reading/prayer) the more supernaturally creative he becomes like God Himself. (Hebrews 11:3)
The devil and his cohorts also seek semen to create life/exercise power in the demonic realms.
In God's perspective, a man's semen is LIFE and can create LIFE; therefore it shouldn't be treated with levity like it's done today with many through masturbation, MouthAction, homosexuality, fornication, etc
Unfortunately, the free availability of pornography/prostitution has misled much men in freely desecrating their semen attracting the wrath of God:
📖 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men... — Romans 1:18
We are under the dispensation of grace by the blood🩸of Jesus, that's why God's wrath hasn't been fully manifested yet.
Goodlyhrt: The way "life" has treated me has been nothing but unfair Other people become successful with little effort even pure luck..but mine is different because no matter how hard I try, it seems to get tougher and tougher for me.
Yes I didn't get a tertiary education, but I thought I had all it takes to be successful in Nigeria even with minimal support.
I thought I was smart enough but I soon realized that I can't secure any reasonable job unless I have a proper degree, and because of my physical challenges, I can't take up stressful jobs like factory jobs, security personnel jobs, filling station attendant, etc
My only escape route was through tech so I thought. I tried to pack in as much tech skills as possible, like: laptop repair and maintenance, graphics designing, website design, content creation/writing skills.. heck! I even taught ICT in a computer school and also in a secondary school.
Some of those skills I paid to learn, while others I self-taught (still learning more and more) but I cant deny that It's been challenging and seems to me that I am not trying hard enough when I don't have gigs regularly coming my way even with all my skills.lol
Let's face it, you can't really succeed in tech without strong support. I mean you really need money to explore tech if you really want to be successful in tech
Nobody tells you about all the packaging and salesmanship skills you will need to sell your skill to potential clients.
You need light, money for advertisement/sponsored posts and enough data to be active in all social media spaces to solicit gigs. The hours you will put into this is no small feat. Then I am scratching the surface when you compare with forex and crypto traders.lol
I am just here to let you know that tech is kind of difficult right now and especially when you don't have strong backing you might end up being frustrated.
I had to close my computer school in Ajegunle and return back to the East because of some of these challenges. Though, not only those tech related issues. Other issues like my mum's health and because no one to be with her except my dad.
So here I am in the East "lazy-ing about" lol according to my dad. And he can send me message like a small pikin eh just because he thinks I am not doing anything at home. Which I gladly run for him though, because he feeds me lol. I can't take that for granted. But he doesn't know that he is talking to a CEO lol
I have asked myself what job I can do now but when I remember that I need to build my tech brand Nexora I just shrug it off and continue in my grind.
What do you think guys.
I hope when you suffer to reach the top, you won't waste your money on useless genders that can't offer you anything in life....
Sometimes there is a reason life gets tough for some so when you make it, you will know how to properly handle money and don't waste it on women....
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