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Funny funny name indeed, Nigeria too has their own as some has already listed them above. Die hard fans

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larrymoore: Just passing by....

I beg don't just pass by, chose one of those name first before it finish, lol

Is it that parent are trying to be unique in naming their child? It is somewhat surprising seeing parent giving their children the kind of name that one can easily dissociate him or herself from such person. In year 2011, a name his child “Facebook” and it goes viral, people were wondering why he should give his child such name and he replied to everyone that care that, Facebook help them a lot during that year that led to unseating of their country president and the whole Arab benefited from Facebook social media because, it help them to spread the message to the world, what they are experiencing in the hand of their leader then.
Around September too, one woman named her child "HASHTAG" something that is associated with searching on twitter.

Here are a few of the highlights from Baby Center's very strange list:

Girls:
Fashion-conscious: Couture, Fedora
Rolling Stones fans: Jagger
Altered names: Joshitha
J-names: J'adore, Jazzy, Jeevika, Juju, Jury
Aspirational: Ace, Admire, Excel, Monalisa, Oasis, Queenie
Places: Americus, California, Zealand
Just plain weird: Inny, Yoga

Boys:
Aspirational: Bond, Casanova, Jedi, Legacy, Popeye, Rogue, Elite
Nirvana fans: Cobain
Altered names: Devid, Donathan, Villem, Xenon, Zaniel
Religious: Exodus, Savior
Dad picked this: Espn, Burger, Ball
Just plain weird: Cello, Drifter, Four, Goodluck, Google, Haven'T, Hippo, HToo, Pate

"Pate"? Seriously?

"These parents value creativity and nonconformity above other attributes in a name. Their goal is to come up with a name that is truly unique. By definition, they don't want to fit in. They want their children to be individuals who stand out from the crowd," Baby Center's Global Editor in Chief Linda J. Murray told Yahoo! Shine. "While we've all cringed at a baby name here and there, the good news is that most children end up liking their names. Less than 10 percent of adults want to change their name."

UNUSUAL BABY NAME 2012

Youth obey the clarion call, let us hmnn hmn our nation high, under the sun and in the rain, with dedication and selflessness, Nigeria we serve, Nigeria we Hmnnnnnn!
Are you ready for 2013 Batch A orientation exercise? National Youth Service Corp (NYSC) has just released the 2013 Batch A mobilization time table. All Prospective corps members are expected to note the notable date for the camping activities. The main orientation exercise will be starting from March 26th and ending by April 16th, 2013. For other notable dates of the programme, see the full time table below.

Registration of Foreign-trained Nigerian Graduates 10th December, 2012- 24th January, 2013

Submission of Master list. Screening/Vetting by Mobilization Officers. 21th - 24th January, 2013

Action by the Computer Centre (coding). 21st January- 11th February, 2013

Delivery of Preliminary Printouts 11th - 13th February, 2013

Return of Corrected Printouts by Institutions to NYSC NDHQ 25th - 27th February , 2013

Action by Computer (Coding, Corrections etc) 25th February - 11th March, 2013

Sorting and Packaging of Call-up letters 11th - 18th March, 2013

Delivery of Call-up letters to CPIs / NYSC Secretariats 18th - 20th March, 2013

Briefing of Prospective Corps Members Throughout the year

2013 Batch ‘A’ Orientation Course 26th March - 16th April, 2013


We here at I Love Relationship wishing all prospective corps members a blissful camping exercise with no bombing, no communal clashes, and no kidnapping as well. For information on what you will need at the NYSC camp please read it all here on the needed information.
Source of Information: NYSC 2013 Batch "A" Camping Exercise

Mynd_44: bla bla bla

Alb! Alb!! Alb!!!

Mynd_44: Na so e easy?

Why not make front page, this are enlightening post that is beneficial to all gender, reading thing like this will help to understand that men and women actually need for successful relationship. You will imagine how many people will be interested to read it when it get to the front page. The knowledge is just here lying low somehow with those that are in romance category.

Male and female has three differences in their primary needs and this is explored in the major differences between man and woman in the way they think, act, and responds so that they better meet one another’s needs and work cooperatively for a successful love and relationship life. The three primary needs of male are: Respect, Recreational Companionship, and Sex. While that of the female counterparts are"
Love, Conversational, and Affection.

Let see why these three are considered as the primary needs of man & woman for a successful love and relationship life.

Man Needs Respect: A man doesn’t just deserve respect, he needs to be respected, it is part of his nature as leader, protector and provider. The need for respect is at the core of his self esteem, and it affects every area of his life. Women (wife) will have to meet her husband’s need for admiration and respect by understanding his value and achievements. She needs to remind him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self-confidence.
A single man needs respect as much as a married man does. He needs sisterly affirmation of female ladies friends and relatives.

Woman Needs Love: To love mean to cherish and care for. Because female was created for the purpose of receiving love, a woman doesn’t just desire love, she truly requires it. As much as a man needs to know that he is respected, a woman needs to feel that she is love. A woman wants to feel that she is important and special to her husband. When a man spends time with a woman, it makes her feel cherished and care for because she knows she comes first in his life. If a woman is single, receiving love is still her greatest need. Male friends and relatives can meet her need by showing brotherly love through acts of kindness, companionship, and assistance during life difficulties. Find out the rest through the source.

Source: I Love Relationship

wizb: Beautiful!

Yah! really beautiful and elegant.

larrymoore: 4 pple with hype n shy syndromes

You get the message small

Nigerian designers are trying, no wonder they always compete with the best in the world. If you are looking for Ankara stylish fashion designed clothing material that is very hot and ready to go hay wire in 2013. See the pictorial diagram of the selected once down below and if you want to see the rest of them click this link 21 Ankara Stylish Fashion For 2013
I only selected just four of them to display but I know surely that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder that is the ones that you will like might not be the one that I like. Check them out for yourself and make your comment here on how you see the Ankara Stylish Fashion Wear.

Using your cell phone will make you look immature now, except you're master of the game else it will piss ladies, it shows that you don't have your would be partner time na.

It is possible you possesses all the attribute a partner is looking for in a would be dating partner, and you get him or her attracted to you with your excellent beaming smile and elegant style in the way you work, look, and speak, but if you don’t know how to detach yourself from your cell phone during dating and most especially first date, you may end up not winning his or her interest at the end of the day. Too much attachment to your cell phone can cause you to lose the one you have taken your time to search and find, this is because, it will put your would be dating partner off, except you’re a master of the game. It is not even advisable simply because, it will cause lots of distraction and loss of focus on your date.
It is a total turn-off for anyone discussing matter of the heart and suddenly your partner pick up phone, read text messages, text, or even make call right there before you. Although there are some exceptions but it has to be strategically handled, if not it will jeopardize what you’re trying to build.
What is expected of you in your dating is to allow your phone to rest in your bag or pocket as the case may be, don’t be distracted with your mobile phone on your date except if need be like trying to exchange phone numbers.

Source:How Your Cell Phone Spoil Your Date

Man Need: Respect, Recreational Companionship, and Sex. and Woman Need: Love, Conversational, and Affection.
Male and female has three differences in their primary needs and this is explored in the major differences between man and woman in the way they think, act, and responds so that they better meet one another’s needs and work cooperatively for a successful love and relationship life. The three primary needs of male are: Respect, Recreational Companionship, and Sex. While that of the female counterparts are
; Love, Conversational, and Affection.
Let see why these three are considered as the primary needs of man & woman for a successful love and relationship life.
Man Needs Respect: A man doesn’t just deserve respect, he needs to be respected, it is part of his nature as leader, protector and provider. The need for respect is at the core of his self esteem, and it affects every area of his life. Women (wife) will have to meet her husband’s need for admiration and respect by understanding his value and achievements. She needs to remind him of his capabilities and help him to maintain his self-confidence.
A single man needs respect as much as a married man does. He needs sisterly affirmation of female ladies friends and relatives.
Woman Needs Love: To love mean to cherish and care for. Because female was created for the purpose of receiving love, a woman doesn’t just desire love, she truly requires it. As much as a man needs to know that he is respected, a woman needs to feel that she is love. A woman wants to feel that she is important and special to her husband. When a man spends time with a woman, it makes her feel cherished and care for because she knows she comes first in his life. If a woman is single, receiving love is still her greatest need. Male friends and relatives can meet her need by showing brotherly love through acts of kindness, companionship, and assistance during life difficulties.
Male’s Needs for Recreational Companionship: Nothing blesses a man more than when a woman is involved in his favourite recreation. If a wife participate in what her husband enjoys doing, may be something like playing table tennis, visiting historical landmarks, playing an instruments or designing a computer programmes as an examples, and the woman let the man tells her all about them, she will strengthen her relationship with him.
When a couple shares important aspect of their lives with one another, they build understanding, companionship, and intimacy in their love and relationship life.
Female’s Need For Conversation: Because males have a leadership mindset, sometimes their conversations with the female counterparts amount to instructions rather than a give-and-take dialogue. A woman desires to have a man talk with her and not talk on her.
Man can fulfil a woman’s need for intimate conversation by continually making a point to communicate with her. To truly meet females’ need, man should talk with her at the feeling level and not just the knowledge and information level. Male needs to share his interests and a female needs conversation, these related needs can be a wonderful bridge of communication between men and women.
Male’s Need For Sex: Man is almost always ready sexually, a man’s needs for sex is one of the strongest needs imaginable, it is an aspect of his makeup that gives him great fulfilment. Therefore, it is important for a woman to be sensitive to her husband’s need for sex.
Female’s Need For Affection: While one of the male’s primary needs is sex, one of the female’s primary needs is affection. If these two interrelated needs are not lovingly understood and balance, they can cause some of the worst conflicts in a (marriage) love and relationship in life of humanity. The female natural focus is on the sensory, intuitive, and emotional realms of life, and that is why she has a corresponding need for affection. She needs an atmosphere of affection in order to feel love and fulfilled.
Men and women need to understand that affection create the environment for sexual union in marriage, while sex is the event. Most men don’t realize this, so they immediately go after the event. They don’t know what it means to create an environment of affection. Instead, they focus only on their own needs. Affection is the environment in which to grow a wonderful relationship. Giving affection to a woman means appealing to that which makes her an emotional being. Sometimes women just want men to sit with her, hold her hand, and talk with her.
Source: http://www.iloverelationship.com/2011/03/top-3-needs-of-men-and-women-for.html

I want to say here categorically that, although Churches don’t like you being impregnated before coming to the church for your marriage but who say church will not wed you after you delivered of your baby. What it mean is that, since you prefer to get pregnant before your wedding, then you should prepared to give birth to your child before coming for wedding, and that is the church stand about this. You have the option now.

what of if you get pregnant and God forbid along the line after the wedding you have miscarriage. What will happen? Will he filed for divorce?

Hmnn! Don't be deceived, the use of perfume is never a sin, in Jesus time, perfume was used my dear, in fact if you can remember that women that pour the whole of her perfume on Jesus leg. I don forget her name self but the truth is perfume make you smell nice if you know how to apply it in the right amount. David, solomon and the rest of them used perfume wella.

A lot of people may say that age is a state of mind, that a person is only as old as they feel. That is an upbeat and optimistic approach to aging; however the question is if that applies when it comes to relationships? The romantic in me wants to say no. If the two of you love each other, then go for it; love will conquer all. But the pragmatist in me says differently.

It has quite often been acceptable for a male to be the older person in a relationship. Some issues can arise if the opposite happens; that is, a younger man going out or dating an older woman
Women who mainly date much younger men are labeled as "sugar Mummy." A young woman in a relationship with an older man may be labeled either as “aristo” or a “gold digger”. Much meaning may not be attributed to a male being much older because if the male is many years older than the female, it is possible to have a secure and loving relationship in which there is an age difference, if both people involved understand certain issues that may arise and they can work together to resolve them. Although men can father children well into old age, but how will your child feel about having a dad as old as his friend's grandparents?

Whether you find yourself to be the younger or the older person in a relationship, take into account whether your maturity levels match. You may find in life that a fifty year old and a thirty year old can be very similar in regard to their maturity level. This all depends on their life experiences, personal outlooks and goals.
Another aspect to consider is if the age difference will interfere with your own personal goals. Whether you want to concentrate on your career, have children or spend your free time travelling; ask yourself if your partner’s age difference agrees with your way of life. Discuss the future, not just the present situation. Some topics to consider are finances, children, retirement goals and career choices. You may find it very useful to choose a time to sit down and seriously talk about how the age difference may affect your lives one year, five years and possibly twenty years down the road.

I'm not sure if age matters but maturity plays a bigger role. If you are both at the same level and want the same things out of your relationship, then I say go for it. Most things that are worthwhile come with a challenge and age barrier relationship is no different.

The Bottomline is that, It's not the age that's the problem; it's the maturity of both parties. And there are also loads of other factors that affect a relationship. You can't really classify people based on their age, on one hand there are some people who never grow up and on the other there are teenagers who are mature beyond their years. Even a couple with a large age gap could be compatible with each other; it all comes down to their personality.
Source: http://www.iloverelationship.com/2011/04/does-age-difference-matter-in.html

First of all, you need prayer in such marriage
Secondly, you need to bridge the communication gap in between because that is the bedrock of the fading away of the Love in marriage.
If you can communicate well with your partner, I'm sure everything will be restore to normal.
But if fail to communicate with you and you've done everything withing your reach after committing it to God hands, I think it is time for a breakup though not advisable but that is the last option to take. I strongly believed that effective communication will bring back the love in your marriage.

No matter who you are in the world today, you are affected with HIV/AIDS disease. The things you're used to do before cannot be done now because of the fear of being infected with HIV, everyone of us is being careful about the way we live our life now. Today, the whole world mark HIV/AIDS Days and it is for the good of all of us to remember that HIV is in existence and AIDS is real.
Go out today and spread the message that AIDS is real and e no dey show for face.
Don't stigmatize those that are infected because you too are affected.
Play safe and be saved.

So so funny I can't just stop laughing seeing these top english premiere league football coaches and formerly Barcelona coach with Jose Mourinho. I hope you will continue to laugh like me.
They are more than four but I can't upload more than these one right now. If you want to see the rest of them, you can go here: http://www.iloverelationship.com/2012/11/very-funny-sexy-football-mangers.html

Some still believe it is trust and love but I disagree with it because, there can be love and trust if you don't communicate well with your partner. The truth is that your level of communication in your relationship will determine how successful and celebrated your relationship is. To be friend with God too, you have to communicate with Him every time and that is when you can say God is your friend and Father because you have a good relationship with Him. Just as simple as that. Thank you guys for attesting to this.

Good talk there, it is always good to help people because somehow, somewhere someone will help you too. This is the reason why I always believe in celebrating people to that people too can celebrate me.

Without communication, no relationship will ever stand, even if there seem to be love, it will falter as times goes on. When I said communication, it is not any type of communication but an effective communication and it is on this that love stand, you cannot love someone and fail to communicate with the person. Immediately there is communication gap in a relationship, just know that, the relationship is gradually heading to the rock. Source: ILoveRelationship.com (http://www.iloverelationship.com/2012/11/Communication-the-Most-Important-in-Relationship.html)

Yes o, I just hope the Nigerian thing will not enter into this one, INEC should employ people base on merit and not on I know man level. I wish you guys success in your application for the INEC Job