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Wood for concrete fascia(parapet) have started arriving the site... As we'll be commencing with that immediately..

You're doing a great job

Not available anymore.
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Salesgirl is wanted around Ikotun area of Lagos State.

The girl/lady must be living around Ikotun and its environs (Igando, Abaranje, Ijegun, etc)

Your major job is selling of drinks (Different kind of Wine, Alcoholic and Non-alcoholic, Malt, Boom, ) in the shop

+ SSCE/OND is the required qualification

+ You must be good at Calculation

+ Ability to speak English

+ Friendly disposition

+ You must not be lazy

+ .... and others


Interested person should come to No 5, Imope Compound, also known as Agbole
(Drink market) Old Garage Ikotun.

OR

Call 09093829879 for a description on how to get there.

You'll be interviewed to be sure, you're qualify for the job.

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You can now run your Facebook ads in Naira and you'll be charged in Naira too.

No limitation to how much you can spend on your Facebook ad now, unlike what's happening this month where you're limited to only $100 per day with your ATM Master Card.

I have an ad running now in naira and you too can do exactly the same thing if you follow the simple instruction below.
Login into your Facebook Ads account

Please note:
You can change the currency you use for Facebook ads in your Ads Manager if you don't have a current balance once every 60 days.

Here's the link to your account setting in ad manager;

https://web.facebook.com/ads/manager/account/settings

Keep in mind that the payment methods available to you depend on the currency you use.

Now to change your currency:
Go to your Account Settings in Ads Manager.

Under Time Zone, click Change Currency / Timezone.

Select your new currency and time zone and then click Create New Account.

Things to keep in mind about changing your currency:
When you choose a new currency and time zone, you'll create a new ad account.

Your old ad account will be visible in the Account dropdown in the top left of your Ads Manager, but it'll be closed and all ads created with your old account will stop running.

Any ads you had running on the old ad account will be billed in the old currency.

If your Business Manager account has several other accounts associated with it, it's not possible to change your currency.
You'll need to create a new account from Business Manager with the new currency.

The payment methods available to you depend on the currency you choose.

Source; http://iloverelationship.com/how-to-run-facebook-ad-in-naira/

We need more writers for these 2 categories

1. Wedding & Accessories

2. Fashion & Beauty


If you know you can write well in these categories, apply now as the deadline is approaching.

The number of writers wanting to write on Family Healthy Living, is just increasing, 80% of those that have submitted their application chose Family Healthy Living. This mean the competition on this topic among the writers will be tough.

We'll love to have more female writers too, especially on the area of Fashion & Beauty, Wedding & Accessories, and Parenting.

Keep your application coming, you will hear from us after the deadline.

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If you're interested, just follow the link for further instructions and how you can apply.

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Here Comes An Opportunity to Write and Earn Money

Do you have passion for writing and can write articles that based on any of the following area of interest?

1. Fashion & Beauty
2. Parenting
3. Family Healthy Living
4. Weddings & Accessories

You just need to have a passion for just only ONE area of interest and you might be among the most suited for this home based job, which you can do at your own conveniences.

It does not matter if you are a graduate or not. What matter is your ability to write good and simple English, that even primary school pupil can read and understand.

The sweet thing about this job is that, it's not the type that you will resume in one office every day, you can actually write from anywhere you live as far as you're able to have access to the internet.

The sweetest part of it is that, you will be given N5,000 to purchase data which you will use for your research and writing, this is not part of the money you will earn on each article you write.

If you're interested, waste no time as the positions are getting filled up now.

Please follow the link below for further details and how you can apply

http://iloverelationship.com/vacancies-article-content-writers-ilr/

DEADLINE: May 4th, 2016.

peteregwu: bro u have spoken well. dont let seem as if u are d only one experiencing this, most men do, but only that they will hide the feeling and not let it out.
i used to experience it myself some yrs back, actually i hated it. i actually got the secret of overcoming it. i gave my life to Jesus and i got rid of all the immoral movies, ponorgraphy, flirt chatting on the net, in fact, i cut off all immoral music....audio and video. i focused on bible, xhristian literatures, educative novels....i went for everything good. prayers and hanging out with Godly friends. in a short time, the bad feelings died, even if am with a beautiful girl that is like angel, i will feel nothing but Godly feelings.
so, brother, that is the key to overcoming such issues.

Hmnnnnn! Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it a lot.

ojesoj: You av nt learnt to be a man. I can help you man. It happens 2 yu because yu ar sexually desperately. All those books yu av been reading cant help. This book wuld teach hw 2 over come this. The book is called Double your dating by d'angelo. Quote this comment if yu ar interestd

I have read the, I even have it with me presently. Thanks

Donalð Genes: @Op
Please when last you had s*x before we can diqnose the possible issh? Like one quy said.prolly you haven't had it overtime and now your hormonal level(testosterone) is so hiqh

The last time I had sex is over 12 years now and I promise not to do it until I get married but it's affecting me now.

Richfella: @ OP

This is actually a good thing. A VERY GOOD THING!

Your dick is your compass. It points you to the right girl.

Nothing turns a girl on as fast and as instantly as a guy who is not afraid to express his sexúality. A guy who sees her and gets turned on.

WHATEVER YOU FEEL THE GIRL WILL FEEL!

I can't count the number of times I've said something like this to a girl, "I don't like what you're doing to me, you're so hot you're giving me an érection in public".

The always love it.

That's one of the sexíest compliments you can give to a woman.

If she sees that you're not afraid of making mistakes or making a fool of yourself. She loosens up too.

It shows you have BALLS OF STEEL too .

I love what you said here, how I wish I can do it but we are different, I feel shy immediately I notice it and the confident to even try to use your word will have eroded me then. Thanks very much.

obi4eze: It is not bad to have an erection but what matters is the mind of the person having the erection. Medically, it becomes a problem if it comes always; it's also a problem if it lasts too long especially after 3-4 hours at a stretch. In the case of the OP, I think he's always sexually excited when he approaches a lady to woo her. His problem is his mind and he has to solve it form there. And he has to go to the Creator of his mind (God Almighty) for solution. He also has to free his mind of evil thoughts and avoid lust. The purpose of approaching a girl should not just be for being intimate with her. If his problem isn't solved, he may end up having pre-marital and extra-marital sexual relations. Thanks and God bless.

Truly I'm sexually excited but the thought of having sex with them is not there initially, my manhood is just to quick to react to a lady of interest. God help me o, thank you for your advice.

Oohrhii: I smile at all these replies.. but none of them actually does it.

The problem the OP has is that his hormones levels are high due to not having s.ex for a long period of time.

Its something you were used to before..but now lacking. You have a high se.xual drive but that does not mean you would last much during s.ex. you are just Hot ni.

The solution.. is >>>Try to masturb.ate more frequently on your own maybe twice a day or more if you can, so as to lower your hormones level.

In a week or 2 you should be alright.

You might be right, but I try masturbate like once or twice a week but it seems the thing has not really satisfy, mastrubating twice or more per day will make the whole body to week and beside each time I masturbate, I always psychologically down knowing that I have offended God and myself. I don't always feel alright about it each time I do that. High sexual drive that is a real confirmento. Thank sha

Yomii: It sadden my heart to hear that my fellow man is passing through this mess. Well, first and foremost, your mind is the ultimate; what you think about always you will ultimately become. I have notice that er*ction responds speedily based on thought condition. And what we watch or see often times we meditate upon. that is why it's is very easy for John Thomas to erect at the sight of a damsel.
You need to control what you watch, control what you think, control your mind. Don't let the Devil tamper with your mind. Your mind is the most valuable assets of your life. if the devil tamper with your mind, he has succeeded in tampering with your destiny. If you are addicted to nasty movies, stop it and work on your mind. Another thing that can easily control your thought are the magazines your read. Any s*xual arousing magazines will definitely have an effect on you.
Guy you don't have an er*ction problem but a mind problem.

In the word of the wise, "sow a thought reap an act; sow an act reap an habit; sow an habit reap a character; sow a character and reap a destiny".

God bless you sir, you really hit me hard with your words, much appreciation and God bless you and your family sir.

malawi14: @poster, wen approaching a lady u like or u dnt like, it al depends on wat u av in mind abt d lady,may b negative feelings of lust,or feelin dis is my kind of woman!I dnt knw wat uve done bak den, nd hw many times a wik u bleeped wen u were a youth, al dis as its own. Biological side effects, I feel u nid to start seein any lady lik ur sister or any close relative, nd wit prayers u r sure of a change.

Thanks I really appreciate this

FineBro: Try wearing "Iron Pant" your Big Man would be put to rest.

Honestly I will be happy if I can find iron pant to hold the Big Man. Your solution could save someone here.

dhrey: Ma guy u are stil nt ready 4 serious datin.i advice u control ur mindset.

Controlling the mindset is the biggest issue now, often time I have try to do that but along the way, I mess it all up.

thorpido: You're probably still young and will outgrow it with time.
However,I suspect u indulge in indecency pictures and movies and i'll advice you to stay away from such.

I'm not too young at all, people of my age could have like three children and that is if they are not rushing children.
Thanks for the contribution anyway.

I have read lots of books, articles, and magazine on how to approach woman but none of them is working for me, I just wonder what is wrong with me. The only problem I have is how to control my manhood when I approach woman.

Any time I see a woman I like and try to approach her, my manhood will just start to erect and it's showing off in my trouser even if I put on jeans anybody that look at me will surely know that something is going on in this guy's mind.

I have tried to put my mind away from it and go after the girl but in the course of the approaching the "Big Man" is getting stronger which make me feel uncomfortable and most time I look for an immediate excuses to leave the girl as if I have something urgently to attend to immediately but it's a lie, is just to let her not notice that my "Big Man" is on annoyance level.

I'm not getting younger anymore, I need help on how to overcome this serious issue in my life for over ten years now.

Please what do you think I can do to put this behind me? Your contribution matter to me a lot, thank you and God bless you as you contribute. (Amen).

The question appear in anther post here
The question is now here: https://www.nairaland.com/1260178/manhood-wouldnt-let-me-approach

No more interest if you care

Pro in the institute of sexology. So, they get paid in what they know how to do best.

Thanks for the reminder, not in relationship alone but in every facet of life

It is natural for women, especially when they are not with there own man, if the guy is not handsome, they look down at both of them and hiss, but if the guy is a handsome man, jealousy will start because they think the guy should have been there guy. It's just a another topic for them to gossip about anyway, territorial behaviour.

It is not proper dear, it could have been friendship proposal first and watch how things goes, if he is in haste to get marry, while not just be friend for a week, then enter relationship for a month and bring up marriage proposal. It is a total turn off for many girls except those one that are desperate for marriage. I know that when preparation meet opportunity, success is inevitable, part of his preparation would have be giving room for friendship, dating before going further.

Different people with temperament, and different mood, I don't see anything in the word stuck but it may annoy me if used in an improper way. I'm sure he is not in good mood during and after that argument, so he find it difficult to take word stuck, is as if, you're telling him that he has no where to go, he has no option and nothing he can do to separate him from you. This is just a bad mood interpretation that can be read to it. When a guy is angry with his gf lots of things goes on in his mind, looking into the future at that time with you is not the option, he will at it that, if you're not married now and you can arguing with them like that, how will it be, if you eventually get married. I'm not accusing you for anything, just letting you know how irrational man can think at time, it happens to woman too.
Tell him you're sorry, not because you've done something bad but for the sake of your relationship.
To whether you're loosing your relationship, after when everything is over, you've back to the normal level, use the word stuck again but not directly relating to him and watch his reaction, if he really don't like that word, he will react with it again, then back off immediately. But if no reaction shows up, then, something might be fishing somewhere.

anitank: There are very beautiful designs yet way too edgy for me.
Most of these designs are mostly worn only by run-way models.
I cant wear the first to church as that's what i do with most of my ankara cloths.
The second would get u very hot and sweaty considering the weather here.
I wont mind something simpler yet classy that could pass for weddings and church services

It all depends on your taste and also it's fashion, some can be fashion crazy you know? Respect your opinion anyway.

tellwisdom: wetin this wan come teach us now??

it teach you to be wise in naming your baby so that your baby's name will not be on the list one day. Lol

It's a sign of immaturity, grow up and learn more on how to be stable in your dating, if you don't, just know that what goes around comes around. You need to talk to your innerself and only go for what you want and don't go for the urge to just be with a lady.

Don't try it, don't even make an attempt, people may get away with but the one that are caught red handed suffer it alot and most time you may end up loosing the man that is suppose take you home. Same thing for the guys, I know we guys are natural players BUT nemesis do catch up with us, and if you don't believe it, you can continue to spike and strike. Don't say you're test running to see how others can satisfy you feelings while you're still in one relationship, it is better to end one and begin another one to avoid unnecessary headache.

Since you've accepted that the problem is from you and you think you don't deserve her, please let her go, it shows that you still need to get mature in relationship matters and you can't afford to hurt her more in your learning stage now. Find a better place and time to explain thing to her so that she can understand. I know she will feel even more hurt but she will be ok over time. By the time she looks back, she will be happy for it because issues like what had happened before might still surface and it will get much more unbearable by then. Let her go now.