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There is a guy whom I love and actually crushed on since childhood but because he is Christian my parents said No that we cannot get married.

Now, we are about to get married in a week without our parents approval. He seems fine with it so do I but people are saying it's not right but what can I do? I want him but my parents don't want him. Especially my dad.

Are there really consequences? Or its just a myth and it's no big deal?

I'm not a Muslim.

I do not wish to disobey my parents and at the same time I do not wish to loose my love

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There is a guy who i have been with for a long period of time and we have been dating for about 2 years, and i consider him my prince charming. We have been friends since childhood and we have always liked each other. He is a very good person and the kind i desire for a husband but however, he is a Christian and I am not Christian. My parents wont have me marry a Christian.

When we started, I told him about our religious differences, he said he didn't care and neither do I but my parents do. His parents on the other hand, are okay with it but mine, No! And ever since I've been with him, I shut the door against other men and never gave any other man the chance or attention.

I don't know what to do about this as my friends are saying I should ignore my parents and just go ahead with marriage in a simple way and I have been considering it because he has everything i want in a man and also, he has been around since we were in our cradle so i know him in and out. He is already excited and making arrangements as he proposed to me, and I said yes only for my mother to say "No, I won't endorse it". It would break him if i suddenly turn everything the other way around and say "I changed my mind" so i don't know how to go about this. He also has a heart condition so breaking such news might hurt him and I am hoping there is a way to workaround this.

please mature advice.
Thanks