No. God forbid o. I cnt even wish him for an enemy.
sometimes, I wonder how love works in those days, how can my mum marry such a man?

I don't want a man like my dad ooooo, Lord help me

hmmmm

chikago1:

what you're saying will be extremely difficult to achieve. I can relate with the OP.

tnx, only he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches abi how them take dey talk am sef?

please don't mind him

pcguru1:


Awwww thanks dear I wish you all the best and may God favour you. Greetings to momsi too , you can always buzz me if you need advice relating to career and stuff take care

Amen, THANK YOU SIR

I haven't been able to come online for some days now. now that I am here, I want to use this medium to thank Pcguru1 for his assistance. we chatted off nairaland and soon, he sent me money to buy my laptop. Sir Ade, words are not enough to express my gratitude. thank you Sir, God will bless you real time. I appreciate and will never forget this in my life, when things keep moving on fine, i will look back and remember you

I also thank acidosis for his brotherly advise.
my thanks also go to eyinjuege and olatemmie13 for their contributions.
and to brugge, I say wehdone Sir for your badmouth.
God bless you all

pcguru1:


Yes That's how i learnt lucky for you There's Youtube Video during my time there was no Youtube in the office sef we learn on our own.
No some would say Phone but i don't believe in that method, but you can just be reading to gain an idea pending the computer comes.

Thanks

pcguru1:


Aside from the contribution if you want my honest advice, I will encourage this to do this, I was in your position so i understand, I learnt Programming on my own because of the love but never had money to do it, and really picked up alot despite studying business admin, i was able to do side jobs and others till I got employed by several companies, Programming or IT is a good area it's one area that needs alot of specialist even in my company alot of people resign and they need people to employ. so my advice whatever course you study still study Programming on the side. If you are interested come to Programming Section on Nairaland am always there. Ending of the month we will talk about the former topic. Send me a PM so i can email you however i will obviously get try to get more proof what you say.


Take care

Thank you so much, I will try and come to the section. Can one learn the programming just online? I mean without any form of physical teaching. And can it be learnt without computer?

pcguru1:


Do you stay in Lagos or usually come to Lagos, you seem honest I don't want to regret and find out all these were lies, because it would really hurt me as i have been scammed before so you must understand why some of us don't trust easily. For now a decent laptop should suffice nothing expensive, you can find deals on NL section here if you were in Lagos, I could check computer village for you, I will follow this thread and from there hopefully end of month contribute towards that, if you were in Lagos I would have told a friend to allow you join women in Tech as there are always opportunities there, alot of companies looking for Women in technology.

take care

Thanks for your concern. Am sorry if you have been scammed before, I understand why you won't trust easily.

Am in Benin City tho, thanks

Acidosis:


Yes, I have been there. I believe in starting small, great things begin in small ways. I remembered how I walked to Afribank back in the days to deposit my share of the total earnings after several weeks of working. I got something around N19k. It was like a dream come true. I'm still doing business on freelance basis today and still do not have an office space. You can achieve a lot without necessarily investing too much on assets, rent and operation cost.

Sometime around 2014, someone called me from Nairaland and requested for a PowerPoint job (over 1000 slides) few days after I posted my pp services on Arts/Graphics section (with a different moniker though). The whole work was done in my family house in faraway Kogi state back then, while client called in somewhere in the southwest region. Around same period, I met with school heads to outsource their exam papers to me. It was so massive that I had to beg one of my cousins to help. I had since entered into my actual line of interest and still "starting small" without a physical office space. 400k may not come easily, how about doing something with 40k?

Thanks. with your advice, I think the best thing to start with is Laptop but unlucky me don't even have the money to buy one.
With 40k, I think I can start from somewhere but believe me, even to feed is wahala, if I start working under somebody, the salary will be between 8-12k which can barely cover feeding and transport. There will be little or ntn left to save before admission

blazer234:
. Looks like you need to read up about article writing. Do that and geta computer/ laptop and I can link you up to clients

Okay

blazer234:



Can you write articles? If you can, source for funds to get a computer and I will link you with clients.

Write articles? Sorry I don't get, lyk type or wat? If it's type, yes, I can type well

Thanks

pcguru1:


Exactly Upworks is an example just a laptop and Internet connection I do jobs for people outside Nigeria however that's software Dev, @OP what are your computer skills or writing or anything take a look at Upworks it doesn't require any initial startup but patience

Thanks. I can type fast (ms word)

blazer234:


You are a new member and you already know how to create thread, spot "mentions", reply to mentions, etc? Or maybe you are an old member, who created a new account for this purpose.......Just thinking in writing.

You said you have computer knowledge? That's a good starting point. Admission will not come up until August/September. That's an opportunity to raise money pending that time.

I've learnt a bitter lesson in life: no one will help nobody; not even girlfriends that you love dearly. Even when they see you struggling, they will still be more concerned about what they can get out of you. Other people who might want to help almost allways have their personal responsibilities to bear. So every man for himself and God for everyone.

Do you have a computer? If you do, I may be able to show you how to raise some money so that you can save something before admission.

Lol, Nairaland is not as difficult as you guys are making it look like. The very first day I registered on this forum, it didn't take me time to know my way around.

Sorry for the bitter lesson learnt, have you ever been scammed or hurt dearly? Am sorry.

No, I don't have a computer. Maybe you can help me with just that. I will appreciate

Acidosis:
I really don't know how you want to manage this biz all by yourself together with schooling.


And oh, that 250k budget cannot cover your expenses.


Rent: N150,000/annum
1 Set of Computer: N20,000 (note: using only one set is risky for this business)
Photocopier: N50,000 (its way more by the way)
Scanner/Spiral binding machine: N20,000
Printer (1 inkjet + 1 deskjet): N50,000
Modem + 1 Month subscription: N7000
Refrigerator (with drinks): N60,000
Annual Association/Levy/Local Govt tax (if any): N3000
OX standing fan (you can't afford to do this biz without this): N18,000
Now you forgot to add Generator: N50,000
Annual Electricity Bill: N12,000

TOTAL: 440,000.


Your budget is way underestimated, and here is the bitter truth:

1. You cannot do this biz all by yourself in a student environment even if you decide to forfeit your education. Implication is that you'd need to employ an extra hand.

2. You cannot combine this biz with schooling and still make enough money to afford your feeding, school fee, and annual rent for 100L

3. Your budget is about N440,000., however let me remind you that majority of Nigerians do not have this kind of money in their accounts...so soliciting this sum may come off as "greed" just because you have family issues and a business idea. As a matter of fact, everyone have family issues and "business ideas".

4. Don't make it sound like you want to work hard and excel so you can "show" your father how much greatness you have in you. Truth is that 99% of persons do not care about your father's actions and inactions.

5. What course did you apply for? and your JAMB score?

6. Take pictures as proof of your candidature and solicit for your 100 Level budget. Tell anyone that cares to listen about your idea and see how you can get some funds. You have some months left to 'hustle' and save towards your biz but this shouldn't be your aim for the first year.

I don't know the magic you want to perform with your capital in few months that will enable you pay your 100L fees, feeding needs and hostel accommodation.

7. Towards the end of my 300L, I had similar idea but had to funds. Guess what I did? I partnered with a friend (business freak) who lived in the school hostel. He had the constant electricity, a computer and a printer (I didn't have any of these as of that period), but I had one thing which he didn't have - Skill - Ms-Word, PowerPoint, plus I type fast. We had a sharing formula and it favoured us both.

Implying that you don't have to literally 'beg' most of the time. What you have (which you perhaps take for granted) can actually give you a a bargaining power. I did typesetting for years (without a shop) and never settled for the ridiculous pay typists get from business centre owners. You can run your biz in your hostel (a lot of students do this). It will save you cost on fuel, generator, rent, dues, levies, etc, while allowing you focus on your studies (which for me is priority).

Wow! Am impressed by your comment. Looks like you have been there before hence you took time to explain things to me lyk your younger Sister, thank you sir. I appreciate.
I never knew those things are that expensive, I know that photocopier and refrigerator are very expensive so I dint plan to buy new one but second hand.
Scanner-10, 000
Printer- 15, 000
Computer-20,000
Laptop-30,000
This was my calculation
I excluded Gen to save money because UNIBEN light is still 80% constant, if they sieze it, I will use my laptop to work and maybe print it smwerr else.
Thanks

Thank you all

dominique:
For a 'new member', you sure know your way around the forum and very quick to reply quotes. I just dey observe sha

Please observe well.
Yes, am quick to reply anybody. I mean I was the one that created the thread so I should make myself available

Brugge:


It is not about the amount it is about principle. I have watched people get scammed in a bid to help someone that pretended to be in need. I know their antics, if you want to fall for it, good luck go ahead and send her your money. But I will keep calling her (if she is truly a her) out and reminding her to hold her parents responsible for her well being. We should send her money (that is if her request is genuine which I seriously doubt) ten years down the line she will come back here to post how much she loves her parents for all the sacrifice they made for her.

I can only post dat about my mum. Please you know nothing about me, stop jumping into conclusions, I understand there are scammers out there and one needs to be careful. I know my parents are are responsible for my well being but its not my fault that i am from such background. I Am a girl, don't doubt me seriously. Okay, do you have connection in UNIBEN? do you know Lecturers that can invite me to their office and hear me out and maybe probably give me one the shops? Please help me if you can and I will be forever indebted. I have never been an ingrate.
I did not come here to claim sick or dying and in need of medical attention. Please help my career

All I see is bit*ch, bit*ch, bit*ch. The man is jobless and incomprehensible.

Their problem tho

eyinjuege:
OP, its a good thing you have a business idea you want to follow through.

Why not work and save towards that? Nothing wrong in saving towards your goals.

Get some odds jobs, be a nanny to busy people and help them in their homes.

Look for ushering events, contact event planners and let them know you're available to be an usher, contact caterers and let them know you can serve food, wash plates after events.
You may even be able to partner with other people you meet while working, and you both can contribute to start up your business.
At least have a little saviings towards that.

Tnx, I did work that is how I have knowledge of the computer business. The little I saved from my my meagre salary has been swallowed by our everyday needs. I can start working but after collecting my salary, I will use it to pay up debts, how then will i save? If I work under som1 and eventually gain admission, I will need to quit the job so how will I survive? I cnt be begging my course mates for food and fees hence my plan to set up my own business which I believe will flourish and I won't have any problem financially. Thanks once again

olatemmie13:
Bro if you won't help the lady, don't add to her injuries okay? Just wish her luck and move on.

What she is asking isn't much... When God blesses you with excess, you got to help others.

As for me, I just want to say you should probably take this other social media, tweet at some celebrities, NGO etc. Am positive something will surely come out good for you.

Wish you luck sis.

thank you very much, God bless you. *sigh

Brugge:


How is he going to verify your stories,travel to Benin or you giving out contact numbers to call or print out of your jamb result? Those are not foul proof.

Anyhow you know you know you will be convinced

Brugge:


He does not have enough but he has enough to marry more than one wife and breed all over the place. You had better go meet him and let him take care of his "shits" stop disturbing people that had no hand in your man made problem. If you had taken your negotiation skill to him am sure you can still get something from him.

It's okay. You won't understand. Am not forcing anybody, Say you dont have and move on, You attacked me in a thread, come here to attack me again, please I don't know you from Adam, you don't have to be harsh, you dnt know what the future have in stock for you. just pray you don't find yourself in a messy condition. If you cnt help, let ppu that can help do so. and if no help comes, i will leave everything to God like i have always done. Tnx, God bless

If you can still help with equipments, I will b glad

Brugge:
I am yet to see a scammer that admits upfront to being one. They all tell you how genuine they are, how they can provide evidence to back their claims.

Secondly since your dad is alive you should make him take up his responsibility and stop trying to pass it on to people that had no hand in your birth. You father's job is not just to knack your mom and make children. You letting him off the hook is an encouragement to other would-be deadbeat fathers.

Ask around there are organization that can take up your mom's case if she can prove that your dad is not living up to his responsibilities he will be made to pay up.
I suggest you do that than looking for someone that will clean up your father's mess.

What should I do? Kill him? He married more than 1 wife and he focus more on his younger children. Not that he has enough to cater for everyone hence his shying away from responsibility. I just wanna live without him, I dnt know any org. that can be of help to my mum, she is but a petty trader, if asked for collateral incase of loan, what will she use as collateral? am begging you, if you have the money, any amount @all, i am not asking 1 person to give me all, i believe if money is being contributed, I will get it.

I just need quarter quarter quarter of that .money to build my life. Chai! Y is life lyk this?

Eiyha, chai! Wasting of money

Lol, this is funny. I can never b involved in prostitution no matter how bad it is. God forbid, tufiakwa.
Mad couple

sseunth:
You are not a scammer, so what are u?



You created ur acct today. Spent 2hrs online. U created 4 posts today.


How did you find the post if you are not a scammer?

Who is this saddist? I saw this post as a guest when I have not registered. Excuse me please, do you really think smone who has been on NL 4 ten years cnt scam you? It's not by how long you have registered, it's a matter of if your intentions are genuine. I really believe in confirmation of stories b4 rendering help so if you doubt me, u can verify before you help. If you cnt help, then leave smone who can alone and stop being an enemy of progress.

cruchenuti:


My sister, that is the price in clubs oh. True talk. It is more expensive in Quilox sef. Almost a thousand.

OK. Don't know

Synord:


Leave am ...I doubt if she ever goes clubbing..


Coca cola wey be 150 for outside na 1k for inside this club !!!

Yes, I don't go clubbing, wetin I dey find? Have more pressing issues

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Please help