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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nnetriplet: 9:35pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
am already married to one 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by roqrules04(m): 9:35pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
See as all of them dey say No No.. like say na Christ dey Wan marry |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by genieluv(f): 9:35pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
ioreth69: Daaaa, the most annoying part! After causing so much problems, heartbreaks n troubles in their young age. They will now repent in their old age, carrying a big bible as if that was the way they always were. lol scammers 15 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by juman(m): 9:37pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Many nigerian fathers are not trying enough as dad. 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by genieluv(f): 9:39pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Holly Majority of African fathers have failed cos most of them still believed in some archaic cultures of their african fore-fathers like polygamy, male superiority n strict female subserviency n inferiority. Fathers of this modern age will definitely be better as westernization is becoming more pronounced and modern african men are becoming more monogamous, affectionate n female supportive, respecting women's rights more. 10 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by ioreth69(f): 9:39pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
genieluv:na their way o 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by shumuel(m): 9:40pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
If i was a lady, then i would have said ''Yes'' to half of him; that quiet, simple & gentle part of him, but ''No'' to the other half, the annoying and bad mouthed part of him, mehn..! That man get wahala i swear, he even made me shed tears two years ago, no my birthday o, imagine him picking on me for not being married, and he sabi use bad powerful words that would make you commit suicide . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by dominique(f): 9:40pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
These responses further proves that Nigerian men are failing in their husbandly and fatherly duties. Most of them treat their wives like dirt and are too unnecessarily strict on their children. Yet they're quick to heap the blame of a failing marriage on the wife. In their old age, they start complaining bitterly of neglect from the people they treated so poorly. Who says there's no such thing as karma? Ask the guys if they will want to marry women like their mums, 99% of them will say YES. Yet they will say it's the women that cause problems in marriages. @topic. Yes though he was strict but he made sure we never lacked, never turned my mum to a punching bag and wasn't a cheater (to the best of my knowledge). But he can nag for Africa and beyond and a neat freak. No matter how hard you clean the house, he will still find a spot you missed. Overall, he's not a bad person to live with. 12 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by LaurelP(m): 9:40pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
I think there is something that fathers are not doing right, or rather many things. Just check the popularity of Mother's Day and that of Father's Day. 12 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Lionofdjungle: 9:42pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
midehi2:You are funny and mature; l thught you would react negatively to that statement. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by swtcharissa(f): 9:42pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nofuckgiven: 9:44pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
OK. I would not like to marry my dad's womanising part but I will definitely marry his generous part Truth is most of our mothers tell us their daughters these stories,but because of blood we just let it be. Most Nigerian men are the reason for their failed families!! Once they start cheating,from there it is down south! Dont blame younger generation single mothers for making the choice they made. Change is constant!! Kudos to my mum for still staying because of us like most mothers of older generation 4 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by genieluv(f): 9:45pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
dominique: Most of these problems of African fathers n dislike by their offsprings for them is owed to the African culture where real men are to be seen as strictly unnafectionate, uncaring, polygamous n absolutely domineering. Any lack of these traits and u are ridiculed as a 'woman wrapper' by your fellow men. 8 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nofuckgiven: 9:47pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
dominique:Actually, it is the women who have failed to raise responsible men who treat women the way they want the women to treat them. Even the Bible said,do unto others what you have them do to you! 5 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Blade21: 9:48pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
my dad wAs actually my yard stick to choose my husband almost all the qualities my dad have is in my husband my daddy is the best dad in the whole wide world my biggest achievement in life will be to build him a mansion someday. I LOVE YOU MY PRECIOUS LOVE 11 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by genieluv(f): 9:51pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Most of our African fathers were brought up to believe that real men are supposed to be Alpha- males. Traits of alpha males - Polygamous, unnafectionate, unemotional, brutal, assertive and low esteem/discrimination of females! These are the reasons majority of we young african women of today will not wish for our fathers' kinds. We are more westernized 9 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mujtahida: 9:52pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
missyadorable:You are really impassioned about this. How was he? Free your Dad and free yourself. Since you hate him so much if you don't free him you might recreate him in your man. Just saying. I wish you all the best in your relationship 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by profhezekiah: 9:53pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Mrs/miss U cant predict a man,most men are great men,bitter experience from their wives changed most of them,if ur man at his own detriment try to provide U with everything U want,it may nt continue after wedding or U don't appreciate him during relationship or U hurt him so deep,dont sleep with ur eyes close, about 98% men will surely retaliate and revenge evil done against them in dating. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by LordHelpMe(f): 9:55pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
No. God forbid o. I cnt even wish him for an enemy. sometimes, I wonder how love works in those days, how can my mum marry such a man? I don't want a man like my dad ooooo, Lord help me 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Mujtahida: 10:04pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
dingbang:Because by a strange psychological twist they will end up creating their father out of you. Inspite of the hatred they can't live without him and so they recreate him in the men in their lives. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by airex(m): 10:06pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
dayo2me:Why are you just disturbing people up and down? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by cococandy(f): 10:06pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:Actually men have a role to play in raising their sons too. As for the question, mine is no 17 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by ABbless(m): 10:07pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
alBHAGDADI: excuse me but what is wrong with upcoming artistes?? 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:09pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Did I just see Estharfabian ? Chai! I have to watch my back around here. |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Ngokafor(f): 10:10pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
alBHAGDADI: ..That is not true..The truth of the matter is that the average Nigerian father has failed in every ramification when it comes to living up to expectation as a husband and father...Most are just too irresponsible it is scary.. ..Thats why in Nigeria,both males and females prefer their mothers to their fathers by far...fact 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
airex:did u just say people? have i disturbed you, when, how, and what have i said that disturb your heart from regular beating? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by dominique(f): 10:11pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven: They must find a way to blame the woman, typical! So it's only the mother that raises the child right? Fathers just sit down, fold their arms and bark orders at everybody. Truth is, most of those men grew up watching their dad treat their mums like dirt. They see it as a normal thing and act same way towards their wives. Also, the type of friends they keep determines their behaviour. Men should set a good example by treating their wives right so their sons can learn from them. 19 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:11pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
I swear I can't marry a woman who doesn't love her father, you don't like him then how would you like me? Stupid untrained girls everywhere, I spit on y'all 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
I will not wish him to marry my worst enemy, he was a disgrace and all his kids regretted having him as a father. 9 Likes |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
Yes love my fathers Temprament and communication skills especially he can make me laugh well 1 Like |
Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by Klington: 10:14pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
With these points of theirs, we can unequivocally say that the Nooooos have...... Ladies and hypocrisy are like ants n sugar. Lemme cum n be going. 1 Like
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Re: Would You Marry A Man Like Your Dad? See Replies Girls Gave by ALVA001: 10:15pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
genieluv:Really! you mean the ones killing their wives. 2 Likes |
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