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pocohantas:
So you can be calm like this? Nawa!

Lol!!!

I am very calm person in nature. Just that, the too much troubles can any make any man to sometime act irrationally.

I keep enduring.

The5DME:
You have a victims mentality op.

When experience folks dey talk, small pikin go keep quiet.

HeRulesMen

You did well.

Your good deed will be remember unto you for all eternity

Ulunne777:
Maybe it was LOSTCHILD from the other thread you helped .Ask for your balance later.Women ruined him

I fear nigeria women.

pocohantas:
And do you think the Romance scam is still as profitable as it was in the 90s and early 2000? Western women are getting to know you guys. They are now warning themselves to avoid Nigerian men. The yahoo guys cashing out now are the ones doing BEC and the likes. The rest are just collecting gift cards and iPhone that they would still sell at half the price because everyone on the street knows they defrauded a white woman of it.

Woman wey no wise up after Naija man handle am. E mean say she really get coconut head.

Any yahoo boy that tells you he is cashing out heavily from Romance scam in 2022 is a big liar.

OK.
I hear you

tensazangetsu20:
Op it's you they are Cold hearted to. There are guys who are even broke like fucking broke and they have so many women loving them, sending them texts buying them stuff and all. With regards to matters of the heart it's all about destiny. Love might not be in your destiny of the life script the creator has written for you to play.

You can improve female attention by making money and all but genuine desire can never be negotiated.

The write up above has nothing to do with romance.

You are looking at my experience from the romance point of view. I did not come to this earth to do romance and cash out from women. If I want to do romance, I have the qualities, good looks, and sweet mouth to twist the mind of women. I can bring women to their kneels when it comes to romance. I can used romance to become temporarily rich, but that is not my calling and purpose on earth.

I am a love person el who came to this earth to share God's love and kindness

I am a vessel of God's love and not of human romance and cashout or (sex)

Trust me, I understand your point of view.

stacyadams:
pls go back there,buy the guy a drink and thank him again .

Stacy.

I don't have to go and look for him, and buy him a drink. That which he did for me will be remember for all eternity. I still remember his devotion towards my well being that very day as he wanted me to get back home.

The love and kindness he shown me that very day, strengthen me and encourage me more to be kind to strangers, men / women / children.

Kindness is one of the ways we add value to humanity and introduce God love to them. When you give to people who can pay you back, it is eye service to God and you therefore have your reward. But when you give to people who have no power to pay you back, you compel God to reward and lift you up.

If western women is as cold hearted as Nigeria women, then all yahoo boyz will go broke. In fact, yahoo business would have been null

I used to be that guy with extreme compassion and sacrificial love for women

I used to be that one, that care so much for women.

I used to be that guy who love to help and protect women wherever he goes.

I used to be the maximum ca$h giver to Nigeria women with their children.

BUT Nigeria women heavily betrayed me and brought tears to my eyes. They turn my world upside down.

I have loss all hope on women, especially Nigeria women.

I loss my confidence on Nigeria women.

I lost my trust over Nigeria women.

I no longer feel or have sacrificial love for Nigeria women and for their children as swell.

I no longer see the need and benefit to be kind and helpful to any Nigeria women.

Nigeria women did me so much wickedness and still continue to show me more wickedness.

They have shown me how heartless they can be as women.

They are so cold hearted and selfish towards men.

They have no compassion for men.

They have no self sacrificial love for men.

Anytime I look at Nigeria women, all I feel is pain, losses and regret.

Each time I look at any Nigeria woman, I just turn my face and my heart away in pain and disappointment.

THE STORY
In looking to rent any apartment, I did not feel the need to use realtors because of my past terrible experience with them.

During the month of December last year 2021, I boarded a bus and traveled to the outer suburb of my home city to look for a bed-sitter apartment to rent. As I go about each neighbourhood looking for any affordable apartment, I pass by the major market and got the reminder that, I needed to buy some food (groceries) because things are very expensive at the town where I live.

In my home city, things are a bit less expensive and there are banks everywhere. So I snick into zenith bank and used their slip to cash out some money, for me to buy some food stuff (groceries) on my way back home.

When it was time for me to go back home, I branch by the market and bought the things I needed for the week. I was left with N500 ($1) which is enough to take me back home with stress free.

I walk a bit to the nearby junction, to take rickshaw (keke) that will take me to the express border of the next town, from there I will take bus back home.

When I was about to take rickshaw (keke) I realize that, the money I got left with me, was no where to be found on me. I lost the N500 ($1) I have left with me.

The bank have closed.
I was not with my debit card.
I was not with my mobile phone for USSD banking.

See me see trouble, I blurted.

As a cross bearer, I decided to walk (trek) to the next town since I lost the money that will take me back home. It took me about 1 hour to get to the bus stop of the next town which also borders two different town. I was so tired because I have been walking (trekking) for about 7 hours in total for that day.

I was still carrying my sack bag of groceries when I got to the junction by 7:pm at night. It was a highway express, and so many buses and exotic cars where passing by in full speed. The buses will drop and pick up few passengers and zoom off.

There was no way for me to speak to any of the buss drivers because it was a high way express. I look all around me, looking for who to help me so that I can get back home.

I walk back a little bit and saw three ladies and a young guy in his 20's, were busy with golden chance lotto. It was not possible for me to speak with the ladies because men understand each other more better. So I wave at the guy who was about to leave - and signal him to come which he did.

When he came to me, I explained to him what happened and even show him the things I bought. He became very worried and as swell show more concern about my well being.

He told me that, those ladies down there are owing him change (money) that he will be right back.

I watched as he went to meet them. They started asking him questions upon questions about me. I stood farther away from the ladies as I wait for my fella, with my bag on the ground because it was a bit heavy.

The three ladies delayed my buddy from coming back, but finally he came back and told us to look for change.

We started looking for change. We went to all the women around, they all refused to change the money for us. Finally we approach one keke man who did change the money for us.

My buddy was so happy and gave me money to go back home. As I was about to leave, he said something that affected my soul to this very day

He point at their direction and said to me, those three ladies down there said I should not help you. Allow him to rot there. Don't help him, the ladies said to him

He maybe a ritualist.

He will used your money to collect your glory.

Don't give him your money they said to my buddy.

My buddy began to argue and quarrel with them over their insanity.

He told me he argued with them and became angry with the three ladies.

He asked them, is it your money ?

Are you ladies, telling me what to do with my money?

I replied him, my Friend. I know why they delayed you.

I know them too well.

I deeply know what they are telling you. For God Himself said, let us make man in our own image and likeness, and God made man like himself.

I gave him a brotherly handshake, fully thanked him with gratitude and took a bus back home.

QUESTION
Nigeria women; why are you people so cold hearted towards men?

When you need help, you will avoid your own female gender but run to a man for help.

You will hardly help any fallen man, but you will even prevent a man from helping his own fellow man.?

Nigeria women; why una be like this?

Women, why una dey cold hearted?

Why are you Nigeria women so unkind to men?

megatran:
This is so me. It seems as we age, tolerance for people naturally reduces.

100% √

megatran:
The past few years have been draining. Being around people who are emotional than logical gets to me. Most of my dates do not end well. My question to you is how do you find people fun?

In my 20's, being around people, friends and old buddies was fun. It was the best time of my life, but as I grow up, the real me began to emerge. I can work with people, but I no longer find people fun to be with.

oceanized25:
I have had this symptoms for long...though I always looked at it from another angle.
Infact I have always had constant headaches that I begin to think,maybe no one goes headache free.
This morning I was discussing with mum after drinking alot of garri the previous night and feeling very heavy n headache,I told her how using roasted or dry fish also makes me weak after eaten though immediately you feel full.
For he it usually gave her running stomach and she had to let go for a while...but being Nigerian,it's hard to totally let go.
I began to make research and it took me here,maybe I too should dump garri for a while.

My body suffers many illness anytime I eat garri,.

After eating garri, I will feel full, but after an hour, I will start feeling hungry again alongside headache and body weakness.

Garri does more harm to our body, but nigerians will not agree

Karleb:
The society is not upside down. Our government has created a system that punishes good deeds and rewards evil deeds.

If you help the man and he dies, you think you will just go scot free?

No way! It's not the people, it's the system.

I have seen a man who spent 6 and half year in prison for helping a dieing elderly woman..

Our society is upside down.

Ablemax \ Nnamdiosu

Do not follow the ways of men, but follow your own heart that is rooted in love.

In this evil country, there are many famous but faith preachers. There are many holliness preachers. There are many salvation preachers, but there is no love preachers.

That is why none of them can be compare to T.b Joshua, the only love preacher who has passed unto glory.

Anyone may teach about God's love but yet has no love. Even the greatest teachers on love may not have it..

Anyone can teach truths but there can be a difference between having truth and having a love for the truth

My friends, let love be your goal in this life.

odinson1:
I wonder where these weak men keep crawling out from.

It is Biologically Impossible for 2 Black Parents to give Birth to a White or Half caste baby. So I don't see why your friend didn't opt for a DNA test right there in the delivery room. His wife cheated and pinned the pregnancy on him,end of story.

You are a very straight forward person.

A man was mocking the death of another man, not knowing his own death will be in three days time.

That's how life is. You can be rich yesterday and be poor today. You can be poor today and be a end time billonaire tommorow.

Just be your real self (sincere).

Be honest.

Life is like a game. If it favours others today, it may also favors you tommorow.

Only the fools will insult and be little others

stacyadams:
yeah I was referring to your list

OK.
I will check out the song "original ft birdman, Lil Wayne.

stacyadams:
U sabi...I d blast mystikal full track..I got Lil Wayne too...Kanye too...I just love the energy wey mystikal d input for him song......have u listend to "original"it features mystikal,birdman and Wayne

There is no mystikal on her list. I am a big lover of mystikal.

Rubbiish:
@ Lostchild
No Tupac or Notorious BIG among your top 20? Lol This is strange!

The list is base on my favorite. I don't enjoy tupac rapping at all. I enjoy biggie more than 2pac.

Babsojimjim

Accept her and don't talk about it. Just pretend as if nothing had happened.

She learnt some lesson she will not reveal to you.

Elliotwealth1:
Infact the way the system works, to live a life without sin is like a pain.
The poverty/hardship
Lust, all ladies are all sex freak and if you want to follow God they all point towards your direction.
I feel so sad and no one can understand my pain, used to earn high money in a sinful way but i stopped and now everything came crashing down.
I barely make 10k a month
Could this be my mindset or what??
Could i be doing something wrong?

I overcame and was able to live free from sin through extreme pain and suffering. I saw troubles and problem of life because of sexual sins.

There are consequences of every sin.

As for your question, it is 10 times harder to survive in Nigeria because of the extreme greed.

Any money you got from acts of sin, can only be maintained by acts of sin and propagates more acts of sin.

In God, you must follow the narrow path to survive. (no short cut)

sisisioge:
May this new peace stay with you forever!
Please do not be annoyed with the birds and other animals that use nature as their natural habitat-snakes,lizards, etc. Each time anyone wants to annoy you, just remember you've come along way and people will surely think you're indeed problematic if you lose your peace again. Opening too much critical threads is usually a sign of no peace.

Once again, may God's peace never depart from you. Enjoy your new space and good luck!

My sweet sister.

Thank you for your words of encouragement. You just lifted up my spirit and lighten my heavy heart.

As for the birds and lizard, I am okay with them because they are part of nature and I love nature so much. I will even try to be droping cooked rice for them to eat.

When I was a teenage boy, I have a keneri bird as pet and I used to build bird cage and hunt a lot of birds. My favorite pet are birds and fish.

As for me, I will cling to your encouragement because I have come a very long way. I try as much as I can to respond to every situation with Gods love. In this way, I always triumph over every trials.

Trials and tribulations are often meant to help free us so we will press further into God's kingdom.

We often need trials in order to keep us moving in the right direction. Conflict is not a sign that we are losing ground, but that ground is being taken.

It is apparent that we have much to learn about dealing both with the tares and the wheat of life.

I repeat: Thank you once again and God's blessings to you.

I saw a pastor seeking God help. Why?

He went to the mountain and fasted for three days. In answer to his prayer and calling, the Lord gave him a sword and grafted him into His armies.

Instead, of the pastor to use the sword to fight and destroy the enemies, he lusted after the beauty of a woman and went ahead and got married.

When the evil days met him, he was not able to overcome the attack and he fell. He began to cry, begging God for a second chance.

He should have waited for God. It was not yet God timing for him to get married.

Spiritual warfare is very dangerous. I don't easily encourage it even though I recommend it.

Prayer is the solution to all spiritual problems of life.

Elliotwealth1:
I also listened to a sermon and also have read lots of books of Mighty men of God.
Spirituality, Music is a form of worship
The question is who are you worshipping?
I don't mean to judge you sir, i do listen to worldly music.
But anytime i do, I feel this urge in me that tell me it's not right to play this song.
Because most Nigeria hip-hop artists, afrobeats are all puppets in the hands of the devil, sorry to say this.
But they are not aware..
What do you think about this sir?
Could i be wrong?

You are %100 right.

We are in the golden errar of Nigeria song, and before now, there was a spiritual case between the ocult vs the Illuminati of who will take charge of Nigeria music industry.

They plans to brings prosperity and boom Nigeria music industry (songs) to lure many youths from God's ultimate will for their life.

I was told all these before they even start manifesting. I was given little info about the tactics of the cosmic powers in charge of worldly music.

#WARNING
You can listen to their music, but don't go into their caliph. (drinking)(smoking)(partying )

Stay away from sin because Satan is the owner of sin. Satan reward unrighteousness and God reward righteousness

Elliotwealth1:
Okay sir
Thank you for your response
Sir have you had any physical ecounter with God?
Also, have you figured out His will for your life?
If yes, how did you do it?

Yes, I will mention you when I write about it in due time.

NOTE; there is God permissive will and there is God perfect will. You can only be in God perfect will through His permissive will (trials)

EXAMPLE. 1

(Genesis 39:1-20)
Joseph trials; persecution, slavery, portiphar wife seduction, prison was God's permissive will.

Joseph glory; Prime minister of Egypt was God perfect will.

You can never used short cut in God. You can never enter God perfect will without his permissive will. (trials)

ADVICE; Pray and ask God to reveal to you His perfect will for your life.