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Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 8:13am On Mar 17 |
Thank you for your contributions everyone, keep them coming! |
Jokes Etc / Re: Many Will Fail by LotaTee: 12:18am On Mar 17 |
Silentgroper:I know nothing of that sort, I said I didn't want to know, ehn? Ignorance is bliss. Don't jinx it for me, when the changes are visible, I'll share.๐ You replied without giving me anything. |
Jokes Etc / Re: Many Will Fail by LotaTee: 11:22pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper:I'm going to ignore the first paragraph completely because I only have more questions which I don't think I want to know the answers to. I don't use others like I use NL. Just laugh at funny content, find vendors and screenshot relatable stuff. The BBL is gonna have to wait, not with the current situation of the country. Besides, I think God would rather be my surgeon, the way my body's started changing. Off nairaland, who are you? |
Jokes Etc / Re: Many Will Fail by LotaTee: 10:15pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper:One and the same, the pleasure is all mine. Not to me though, naughty is playing it down. It means touching others without their consent in a sexual way. Do you really want that kind of tag attached to you? Just re-evaluate. I've been touching grass and I must say, it's been good.๐ Hbu? I'm sure you've been a menace all over the forum.๐ |
Jokes Etc / Re: Many Will Fail by LotaTee: 9:49pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper You remember me right? You haven't changed this offensive moniker. I mentioned you here because I don't want to derail my thread. |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:42pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper:In short, you're a high functioning drunk. |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:39pm On Mar 16 |
Solofresh2:I meant exposure to public speaking, social situations generally. Doing it over and over reinforces one's confidence, from what I gathered from your response and others. |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:31pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper:Be for real๐๐ |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:30pm On Mar 16 |
Great vocalist, thank you for those pearls. I know you must be an amazing teacher, your students are privileged! |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:10pm On Mar 16 |
Silentgroper:How about in professional setting, like a work presentation or something? I don't think alcohol would be appropriate for that. The sweaty part is so true. |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 9:02pm On Mar 16 |
Solofresh2:Thank you for your contribution, i guess exposure is really the solution. |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 8:53pm On Mar 16 |
Jeon:In what way? The audience or speech content? |
Romance / Re: Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 8:49pm On Mar 16 |
EreluRoz:Same here! I have a presentation coming up soon and I'm so nervous. Introversion, shyness and public speaking are a terrible mix. 1 Like |
Romance / Come In And Share Your Experience by LotaTee: 8:20pm On Mar 16 |
Do you have a fear of public speaking? Or you struggled with it in the past but somehow found a way to overcome it, I'd like you to please share your experience with it and how it has impacted your life. |
Phones / Re: The Xiaomi Thread. by LotaTee: 2:18am On Feb 15 |
How much is redmi 10c screen? |
Sports / Re: What Are Your Expectations Of Super Eagles Against Elephants Of Ivory Coast? by LotaTee: 10:31am On Feb 11 |
slaawomirr:If Nigeria wins the match, please and please perish the idea of fast and furious. Celebrate indoors, if you must be outside, don't over speed and only drive when you're sober. Don't be the reason a family loses their breadwinner. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Which Should I Go For ? 650k For Hybrid Start Up Or 350k Two Remote Jobs by LotaTee: 4:13pm On Jan 18 |
LandMann:There are still well educated and skilled individuals in the country. It may come as a surprise to you that not everyone has been affected by the japa syndrome. It's wrong to think that our workforce is largely filled with mediocre minds, it's an insult to those working tirelessly to the best of their abilities in spite of the various limitations. 3 Likes |
Food / Re: See The Yams I Bought For 2,500 In Benue State (pictures) by LotaTee: 12:17pm On Jan 15 |
LagosSuperStar:Wetin we go do? ๐ฅฒ |
Food / Re: See The Yams I Bought For 2,500 In Benue State (pictures) by LotaTee: 7:25pm On Jan 14 |
A single one can go for 2k over here. 84 Likes 2 Shares |
Food / Re: How Many Of These Yoruba Food, Soups and Vegetables Do You Know? by LotaTee: 10:26pm On Jan 04 |
kellytuns:Whatever feeds your delusion. 1 Like |
Food / Re: How Many Of These Yoruba Food, Soups and Vegetables Do You Know? by LotaTee: 9:39pm On Jan 04 |
koning:You lots are funny. 2 Likes |
Food / Re: How Many Of These Yoruba Food, Soups and Vegetables Do You Know? by LotaTee: 9:25pm On Jan 04 |
kellytuns:Akara was introduced to Brazil by slaves stolen from Yorubaland. They took Akara to Brazil, not the other way round. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Being A First Daughter by LotaTee: 12:37am On Jan 03 |
Kobojunkie:People react differently to situations. Were they raised by OP's parents? Did they experience similar situations? She may have been physically abused as well. And if she was deprived of opportunities available to her siblings(tertiary education), who knows what other things went on? What should she have done differently? Refuse to do chores and suffer the consequences perhaps? Run away from home and risk being the victim of a ritualist/organ trafficker? Please answer realistically. Nope I haven't, but I know that any psychotherapist who blames me for my childhood trauma isn't worth their salt. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Being A First Daughter by LotaTee: 12:02am On Jan 03 |
Kobojunkie:Are you African? Being first daughter means that from an early age, as soon as you can walk and talk, you start contributing to the household by running errands and doing chores. That in itself isn't a bad thing but it's quite common to see the male siblings treated preferentially(little to no errands/chores) and if they're older, double wahala. You know the whole respect your elder shit. So from an early age, getting punished for things your siblings don't even do can be damaging to the psyche. Then the child grows into a traumatized adult with self esteem issues and low confidence. Because the only love/attention she received growing up was directly proportional to how useful/helpful she was. And you tell this kind of person who obviously needs some form of psychotherapy that her current situation is a culmination of her choices. Yeah, she definitely chose to be born and to be treated like a slave. Even if you didn't have this kind of experience growing up, would it have killed you to be empathetic? |
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