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chuksdsilent:
I am good with php, laravel and javascript. if you include me in the project I will be happy. Thanks

Thanks for willing to be part of this, however, it’s already nearing its completion. If I have future work that required many heads, I’d let you all my family here know.

I’m so grateful of your{
@Oaroloye
@Chieveboy
@kings20
@Ms. Luvmijeje
@Muttleylaff
}
contributions here honestly. I think I had just gone back in time now to witness things that have happened before the time we know�. I’ll keep that to myself now anyway.

May the Almighty Lord give us all more wisdom and knowledge.

Thank you so much Mr. Oaroloye, I’ve really learnt so much from your writings.

More wisdom sir.

Thank you! Thank you!! And, thank you all!!!

I learnt a lot here.

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS IS RIDICULOUS. DON'T BE SILLY.
SHE'S NOT A GOD. SHE'S NOT AN ANGEL. SHE'S NOT SPECIAL, JUST ANOTHER GIRL.
WHY ARE YOU BEING UNBALANCED OVER WHAT WAS NEVER YOURS?

THIS IS HOW WE MAKE MISTAKES. WE SHOW OUR DESPERATION AND ALLOW PEOPLE TAKE ADVANTAGE AND EXPLOIT US. PLEASE KILL YOURSELF OVER NOTHING IF YOU WILL, BUT JUST KNOW THAT THERE'S NOTHING ABOUT THIS PERSON THAT IS NOT OBTAINABLE ELSEWHERE.

Thank you sir. I've already closed my mind on her, I'm just pained, that's all!

I already deleted everything about her from my physical life, apart from the one in my head, I even blocked all our channels of communication, 'cos the more I hear her voice, the more I crazier becomes. She calls and text me almost everyday.

Ishilove:
Brotherly, not every man get strong mind. People handle rejection differently.

Thanks ma'am! You sure do understand this better. I don't even talk to girls before I get them, they come to me, this is utterly different, she ain't rich, but she's in a class of her own, and highly focused lady.

GoodBadandUgly:
Save yourself the drama, there are billions of women in the world and guess what? Their shit smells just like men’s shit smells.
Your first mistake is putting her on a pedestal like she’s better than you.
She stated her career pursuit is her priority, yours should be the same!
Focus on working on yourself and ladies will chase you instead of the other way round. You want to be the catch and not the chaser.

Thanks bro!

I actually got them chasing after me, but I'm not interested in them, 'cos I know what they want. Good things most times need a lot of work to get.

BAAKUS1447:
What do you know about love after just three weeks?
Youthful exuberant is worrying you

Well well!!

What can I say now?

Many people fall in love with their Soulmate on first date. A happy union after.

xendra:
now here's something you and I agree on

You got it wrong too.

I appreciate you guys honestly, and everybody's contributions.

I'd like to point out some things though, so you guys will get the picture right.

Firstly, I'm not a pushover to any girl, or any person so to say, I'm doing well for my self in all aspect of life, @cutehector, I'm no longer an undergrad, I pointed out in my writings that I graduated few days back.

Secondly, I'm not bad looking, I looks better than average guys(no boasting, I remembered her telling me that I don't look like someone that can't love due to my looks, and I'm even thinking that that's one of the reasons why she said no, she said I'm a ladies man, she thought I'm a playboy on few occasions).

And lastly, I'm a very serious and hardworking dude, I've got few projects of myself getting me income, as well as done few other projects for people. Currently I'm working on would be the biggest one.

So I'm no pushover guys, aside her career excuse, I think she felt I'm way above her(reverse of your thought), and she wouldn't be able to keep up with me. And I've seen many beautiful girls, most times though, beauty isn't everything. No matter how you're beautiful, if you aren't brainy, and productive, we can't roll.

Martinez39:
Stop acting like a child. Mature minds embrace the fact that life and things can't always go the way they want. She is focused on her career, accept that, move on, and stop whining.

SMH.

And you think that I am not matured ba? At times, love knows no maturity, and it takes maturity to know that. A genuine love turns you to a toddler.

iamharkinwaley:
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Guys I'm not sir abeg, is any of you highly grounded in server-side and client-side scripting?

If yes, which language/s are you proficient with their respect?

To you guys mocking me, y'all don't really know how I feel. I'm really heartbroken guys. A woman of my dream is slipping away from my fingers, I thought that I'd find help here on how to possibly change her mind, I want to build my future with her.

Cutehector:
She is a wise girl. Else you would have gotten her pregnant and left her to her fate

Hello, I'm not like the regular guys you see on the street that lack morals and values(no disrespect to anyone). I'm also an ambitious young man, we both graduated few days ago in a federal uni, though different faculty entirely.

I already have a biz of mine as an undergraduate, and currently working on a project that's gonna be employed by people all over the world (and, especially Nigeria).

Her reason is very simple, career first, relationship later.

I once told her that I could kidnap her and take her to my utopia, she laughed, thought that I was kidding, but now I wished I had.

She's a lovable girl, black, bold, and beautiful, with the gaze of eternals, she's a goddess. A goddess of beauty. On our 4th date after three(3) weeks of knowing her, I made my intention known to her, she asked for a time to process everything. Alas! She came back with the big N-O, citing her career pursuit as the reason.

This is the first woman I've ever truly loved, but I was rejected. She isn't like the most ladies out there I've seen, and she isn't even driven by money or materials thing.

I've deleted all her memories- her pictures, our chats, her contact, and even our pictures, we truly bonded well. But I can't erase her memory in my head, she's already got me in her grip, I'm psychologically unbalanced ATM.

Here is so cold damn!!

Please message me via LoveElfrida@protonmail.com if you've got something you want to tell me but can't write it here for some reasons.

culf:
pray and ask for interpretation and pray for it not to be negative also

Alright, thanks!

Actually I'm not so good in praying, but in all honesty, I wish I was. Infact I barely knows how to, most of my communications with God are done through praise and worships. I can't live without those.

One way or the other though, I must get my answers.

@Oaroloye, Immortall, Corussa;
I'm sorry if I bothered you all, but I saw a thread up of mine about dreams, I saw your inputs there, and I thought that you could help here.

I'm not having malaria ma, I know all the symptoms of malaria, and even if it is, I won't be having malaria almost everyday.

I know what I feel, I know what I see, they are just too difficult for any to believe.

Would you believe me if I told you that I have received a coded message that was passed through MOON, A message that no other person at that moment saw, but only me, it's part of the mysteries that I'm looking for answers to.

Everything I wrote is real, to me all these years, I've never thought that there could be a meaning to all, because I enjoyed everything, traveling through space in a spaceship, traveling through earth on hyper speeds, flying around to anywhere, I gasped for my breath yesterday before I became stabilized after the incident.

That's why I need answers, because all of these are more than just Lucid dreams.

Jungo11:
Good one

Hello there,

Could you give me some advice? I'm scared honestly.

Hello everyone, good evening.

I don't really know if this is the right place to seek counsel on this, but this might be my best choice as I have no religion father or mother from whom I could sought explanations. But having been a regular visitor of this forum, I know that I will have a lead to what must be done, and how.

Right since I was small, I've always been that special child to everyone, everyone seems so have this love for me, maybe it's because of my look, or it's because of my intelligence, whichever the case, I've never been sure. I've seen thing/s that others wouldn't see as a child, things that no one would ever believe if I tell them, and of course, everything is well kept in me.

And right since I was small, I've been dreaming of flying, a spatial flight if I might say, sometimes it involves flying in a spaceship in cosmos, the thing is, these dreams don't actually look like one as I am fully aware of what I'm doing and could decide to return anytime, the stress of the "Journeying" would be left of me anyways.

[b] These dreams/flights/travelings continues till today, but the thing is I don't travel in spaceship anymore, neither do I journeys into cosmos/space anymore, but rather flying at my own will, fully conscious of my actions, at times, I travels in speed that I couldn't control different unknown locations to me in earth, mostly Western world, WHY AM I WRITING ALL THIS? I want to know why, because I feel like I'm not normal, I don't sound like others, people will often ask me where am I from, infact many thought I'm not a Nigerian, and the ones I told often doubt me. I want to know why I keep flying around, I want to know that thing that I'm looking for, I want to know if there are others like me out there.

I had an experience yesterday that really scared me, so I decided to fly again in my dream with my full consciousness, then I decided to fly out of Earth, I did, but immediately I was overlooking earth beneath me, I loosed control after I felt an unease I can't fully explained, I fell back into Earth without the control of my self, and I woke not long after that, for a while after that event, I wasn't fine, feeling weak and tired as if I was hit, I slept for most all the day, I was very tired, PLEASE HELP ME, I WANT TO KNOW THE MEANING OF ALL THIS.[/b]

Note: I've journeyed out of Earth on few occasions but in spaceship that always have a pilot, but a word has never been exchanged between I and the ship pilot.

Lalasticlala/Mods please I need a wider audience.