henrybomb:
bleaching doesnt make u beautiful

So it makes you uglier?

GlorifiedTunde:


You have not slept ehn? Still on this bleaching matter.

Oya its past bed time, go and sleep joor.

Good girls don't talk to guys late at night

Sweet dreams.

Abi if sleep is far from you nko? sweet dreams dear.

Oahray:
give me a number estimate. How many Nigerians have you met that condemned dark skin as ugly?

Do you need an estimate to know dark skin is condemned in all parts of Nigeria? From the north to south, God help you if you are ugly and dark on top. Nobody remembers black is beautiful
But people dont even chant fair is beautiful because deep within them they dont think its necessary to. But thats a distorted mindset.

People may not openly condemn dark skin but if they bleach and give all honour and glory to fair skin, it means they have done that in their hearts

ButteredBiscuit:
@ bold. Right there!!!
Not popular just the loud mouths speaking over everybody else!!!

These loudmouths outnumber the reserved ones na. When last did you see dark girls winning anything or used for sales promo?

Oahray:
well, people would always talk. You could let them define who you are or you could choose to see yourself differently. A woman who is confident in her skin is appealing to the mind... ok, my mind

hmmm okay ooo

Beamborla:

The OP is only trying to make a point.

People would excuse an ugly fair lady for her skin color.
'She no fine but she's fair in complexion'...'Na only her skin complexion dey help her'.

But if you are dark and ugly, you've committed an unpardonable crime...'she no fine, she still come black join'

Yet these same set of people don't waste time when it comes to chantting black is beautiful.

The ugliness of a fair lady is always detached from her skin color while for a dark lady, well, it's just one of her ugliness

God bless you
You have summarised all i have been saying o.

Some people are very funny. In short we blacks are very funny o. Do you know 90% of black people are dark and we are just a minority if we look at the world picture.
Even europeans that are in the minority dont ever look down on themselves. They dont associate white with ugliness at all. Na only us no get shame for eye.

Quick quick quick, see her black face, see her black nyash. See as hin black. And na we be the black race o. No shame. hmmm.

Me sef get for body

GlorifiedTunde:
what assets?
Well if you're still trying to make me see an asset, that means its not there.

Because even we guys have microscopic eagle eyes that pierces any form of clothing... So we see well. Even if an endowed lady wears bubu, we can see what is hidden

You are very funny. Are you a comic actor?

henrybomb:
she doesn't nid to do dat...she is very beautiful

But what if she is not very beautiful kwa? will bleaching be ok?

ButteredBiscuit:
I explained that twice now

Lol ok i wasnt attentive

drmikeadams:
..if your the peron..me go like marry u//

no be me o

Lovelynature:
chai, and I don dey loveyou4real

Lol na you sabi o

Oahray:
for me, a beautiful woman is appealing to both my eyes and my mind. Has to to be both of them, not just my eyes. So I usually prefer to just say a lady is pretty.

I can't answer your second question. I do have my preference, but it's not my place to determine the correct view of beauty. If a person thinks a light skin is what beauty is, fine. If they think the opposite is the case, fine. Just don't bug the next person with it.

Okay o. I always mind my business sha...just said i should talk about it today.

They way some people badmouth others is very bad for people's esteem.

Cool23:
I dont think I would use the word mad I prefer dissapointed

Okay o

Maiconyoung:
i dn't love all light skinned grls nd vice versa, dat was my reason 4 sayn dn't get me wrong. l luv grls who are comfortable in their skin. i only dated one light skinned lady nt 2 light sha. rose by name, nt because of her skin bt d contents of her character. (i stil miss her). dark skinned ladies jst "wow" me like one i saw dis evening. as 4 d y i cn't say it publicly so you cn't knw it.

tell me y oooo.

Hmm so you cant date a girl with bleached skin? what if she is good?

GlorifiedTunde:


Well I'd rather ask a question. Why do you ladies have to bend your legs to strike a pose for picture?

So we can position our assets well.
Sometimes we just forget our legs need to be composed well too. hehehe

ButteredBiscuit:
It's just Odd,is all.

How is it odd o biko?

JerryHiroshima:
sure thing! I love me somee black skinn chocolate lady with caramel topping GGG!

hmm village girl like me dont understand what caramel topping ggg is o. Hehehe

ButteredBiscuit:
you answered neither question.
......
Why are you pushing them?
......
they answered yet question in the negative but you just keep pushing what are you looking for?

Why are you worried dear? Is anything the matter?

Maiconyoung:
bleachn her skin won't make her beautiful either, i detest bleachers. dn't get me wrong, i luv light skinned girls but i have a soft spot 4 black girls do u knw y?

Hmmm Y?
and do you love all fair girls?
and have a soft spot for all dark girls?

GlorifiedTunde:


So do you want one now?

Please if you have time, go on

ButteredBiscuit:
They've said their piece, why are you trying 2 push them?
....
Answer yer own question.
Do you think her skin/she would be beautiful or more so with light skin?

Dear i am throwing the question out here for everyone. I am still undecided.

Maiconyoung:
see hw beautiful she luks. she dn't need it na

ehen but if she is ugly or average with that skin colour wont you be indifferent or not borthered if she lightens up?

GlorifiedTunde:


Thank God that what?

You know that all women like compliments

Oahray:
yes, an 'ugly' girl can have beautiful skin. I think 90% of the time, when people mention beauty, they simply mean a pretty face. Facial features (eyes, nose, mouth, cheekbones etc) determine how pretty her face would look, but that has nothing to do with having beautiful skin.

An attractive skin can make the face look more attractive, but attractive facial features cannot make the skin any more attractive than it already is.

That said, I do not see beauty the way most people do.

Ok. Thanks.
So how do you see beauty pls?
And do you think only fair skin is attractive or we are just brainwashed?

GlorifiedTunde:


We actually know that. Even the ugly ones too

Thnk God o hehehe

DatCuteGuy:
hi.. You're beautiful

Thnk you

Lovelynature:
yeah, you are welcome dear. It's always good to have something to discuss.


Besides, why do you and I have ''Love'' in our usernames? Could it be a coincidence or divine plan

hahahah i am taken already o

Oahray:
She would be foolish to bleach that beautiful skin

but would her skin still be beautiful if she is not beautiful. Because as you can see she has nice looks even if she was not dark she will still be beautiful. Lets say an ugly girl has the same skin colour, will you separate her skin colour from her ugliness like many nigerians would if she was fair?

GlorifiedTunde:


So is that you on the profile pic? Ris you have to bleach to achieve that?

Well beauty is in the eyes if the beholder. A lot of northerners too love they women dark and slim, so how about that?

And do you really need people to praise you in life? No! I don't think so.

In fact praises can be dangerous.

I'm sure you're one of those who loves to be told by a million guys that "you're the most beautiful lady I've ever seen in my entire life" and we both know that's a lie

You are very funny.
Someone was accusing me of bleaching but i told her its toning not bleaching. She said its the same thing.
When i came back home, i really thought about it and realised she is right after all.

The truth is people mostly women like being told they look good. No matter how intelligent a woman is she wants you to compliment her looks.

Another thing is the media. Thats a story on its own o

Lovelynature:
Inferiority complex. That's the main reason dear. I wonder why some guys do bleach too.

I personally hate bleaching. In fact, I hate all kind of faking. Originality rocks


I'm dark skinned and very proud of it

I am happy for you.
I hope i am not a bore?
Just felt like talking about why people really bleach and maybe while away time.

EBUG:

What have black men not done?

brother you and i know the truth. But lemme not comment further

GlorifiedTunde:


haba!

Low self-esteem is always self inflicted.

You cannot blame anyone else for not having confidence in your skin color.

If nobody encourages you or praises you, as a human being you will not be too pleased.

But you have two options. Either to change colour or bone everybody. To bone everybody u must be a bit above the average nigerian in confidence.