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ghost1718:
Be sincere. which. style do you prefer. to sleep with your partner??

I prefer (A). It's the best position.

jadelyn007:
Op tell us what you and your family did to her that makes her cuss you out.

Unless you are telling us you married a mad woman which will make it your fault.

After frustrating the hell out of the poor woman you come here to form saint!

I did not marry a mad woman nor me a saint , I married her as a wife and she is the mother of my children. My family loves her but she is always of the belive that they are planning against her and that they want her out of my life. she accused me that I am going out with my friends to meet a secret woman that I have.
I come back she starts smelling my dick and checking me out to see if there is anything she can pick out.
I am here for advice and not insults.

my wife comes home telling me how she loves me and care about our children. But I find it hard to believe. Cos she hates my mother and father, never communicates with my family and then dislikes my friends.

Yet she says she loves me ?
When I correct her she never accept and take correction rather she says that I am not better than her.
My wife does what she wants to
Do and goes where she wants to go without me stopping her. Yet she sees her self as a victim of Nigerian man.
She swears swears at my parents and family saying I am not trained and I want to destroy her that is well trained. Please pals advice me b4 what I do gets me into prison.

This is my side of the story. Advice me my head is clouded, I don't want to take a step I would regret I have worked so hard to be here that I am today.

I and my wife are separating and we are working out the child care. the child is mine as much as i know and the child uses my surname. we both are in the United state and my father and mother in-law wants to take the child.
do you think they are right to take our child. although they said its helping us
but what do you guys think

Before now i have never had an issue with her parent, but lately my wife is giving her parents wrong impression about me and that had lead to her insulting me and my family.

she tell them a lot of bad things and when i try to explain to her mum they take side and dont want to reason with me. for example:
i am a social smoker and i never smoke inside my house but she tell her mum that i smoke inside the lounge with the child seating with me.
when i was at the university in Nigeria and i joined a brotherhood ( cult) but that was long time ago and out of love i told her that this was who i used to be but i have changed and dont do those things again, But she went on to tell her parents that i said i would Kill her parents.

Her mum hearing that stated insulting me more and more, even when i swear with my future and my destiny that i never said that, but she would not believe me but rather believe her daughter.

i am not saying all this becos i want an excuse but i want a honest help.

pickabeau1: Where was this and what is ur mil doing in your house

How many kids do u have n how long is the marriage

Who gave ur wife out in marriage

Who is the major earner in the family

Who paid for the house you are living in....


Answers will determine my comment

i am based in united state of America.
we both have one child ( Emma Gold ) she is almost 3yrs old and our relationship is almost 4 yrs old as well.
My mum does not leave with us as well as her mum.
i am the bead winner of the home ( i provide for the home ) but she supports me.we both share the rent.
Her father Gave her out in marriage as we both did not go home for the traditional marriage.
please will this information help.

What should I do as my wife and her mother takes turn in insulting me and my family.
There are a lot of things that had happened which I will share very soon but I really wish I can get advice on what I should do now