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Back when I was in primary school, I had the 2nd position in my class the previous term then jumped to 10th position the next term.
Can never forget that day, the beating was legendary.

Not all girls are like that. I spent more than half of my scholarship fund on my ex, well, he spent and I didn't object.
Not all Nigerian girls are leeches, some are willing to help you grow, sometimes at the detriment of their own growth.

Hmm, doesn't apply to all women o. I speak for myself tho

RealSolution001:
Please your advice is very important.

There's this girl I have been seeing on friendship level but presently there's urge to push it into relationship. From the look of things, I know she's already falling for me so the question whether she'll agree for me or not shouldn't even come in. However, I recently happened to know she's a member of brotherhood of the cross and star (the white garment and shoeless church) likewise her parents and other members of the family. Since I discovered this, I have been very sceptical about the whole thing.

Is it advisable to date such girl? What of in the event of breakup? Any physical or spiritual harm done to someone for being with such a person? Would I be coerced to convert to the beliefs (that is the last thing that will ever happen). Have you dated one before? How did it go?

My mum was a former brotherhood member. Most of them, just like some of us, were born there so they naturally have to go there. I feel there's nothing spiritually wrong with them, that's where I go whenever im on holiday at my aunt's house. The only thing I don't agree with is that they believe olumba olumba obu (ooo) is their creator, his son who is there current leader, is their Jesus, and the former's wife is Mary. They worship and pray in the name of Jesus like we all but theirs is to their Jesus. Don't stereotype the girl, marriage, if ur relationship ever gets there can bring her out if the church. My mum is currently a deeper life member

Nigeria will get there, hopefully.

Ishiewo:
Chai!! Which means no hope for me, because I'm already in 100 level

If it gives you any hope, I am an economist also. Graduated 2018 and I can assure you there are many career prospects for a 'good' graduate of economics. At least, I am a testimony.

Zane2point4:
A reminder for the govt in charge to fix bad road.

Enforce laws to deal with bad vehice,speed limit,route to ply and avoid crowded areas.

A reminder for road safty to stand up and checkmate heavy duty drivers lisense.

A reminder to make someone pay for these,stop attributing bad things to God,he has giving us head to use it.

I didn't attribute the sad incident to God. Our government don't need to hear about road accidents in order to fix our roads, it's glaring to see. Accidents happen also irrespective of the state of the roads.
You interpreted it your way, I interpreted it my way. Eternity is what matters, whether we believe in it or not. Have a good day bro

A reminder to us all to prepare for eternity. I wish the injured speedy recovery and may the dead rest in peace.

zyzxx:
he is devilish, thank God it's past
If you try to complies with such, he will use it against you at the long run, so it is better he Fu*ck-away

My thoughts exactly, thanks friend.

zyzxx:
He is testing your faithfulness, just stand your ground of being faithful, he will come back begging you.

He isn't testing nothing. He swore that if it was a test, his parents, his sister should die. He was certainly very serious. It past now tho, he has blocked me on all social media platforms we are connected, shows how much of a test it was.

ashybabs:
join the group bro. almost 100 already

i make u admin cos u too wise!

great recommendation

Can u kindly send the link to join the group. I don't want to put my number on a public forum. Thanks

Fountainofyouth:
What da actual fvck

He wants to watch you via video sleeping with guys? He is a stupid evil monster

Do not ever think of going back to beg the fool, da hell.....

Thanks sis. We broke up two days ago since I couldn't fulfil his condition. I miss him sometimes cuz we've been together three years. But I'm not going back.

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

Hmm. Well he was the one doing the begging. I literally begged mine over faults I didn't commit. He thinks I sleep with any guy I talk to, he checks my Facebook messages and questions me on every guy I've chatted with. I have never cheated nor thought of cheating on him.
He told me that he'll forgive my alleged cheating if I sleep with any guy while he watches via WhatsApp video call, and that's the only condition to continue our relationship. I seriously considered it but I just couldn't, the very thought makes me sick. I told him I couldn't and he broke up with me and blocked me on Whatsapp. He said I'll come begging and crying back to him and by then, he'll insist I sleep with two guys while he watches.