cococandy:
We are good. Thanks a lot.

We are no longer in Washington.

Moved to a different area. 3 hours ahead. It’s a crazy life.

Enjoy your trip.

Moved to Cali?

Very Nice Place but Super Expensive to Live in...

Prefer Miami over Cali...

Toks2008:


All these are easy talks. It's not as easy as many think.

The phobia ladies have for naija guys is so alarming that it is only by God's grace that you will find one to really want you.

And also the issue of papers is another big one. As long as you are not fully settled as a man, many settled ladies usually conclude you want them for papers n this is why arranged marriages are thriving.

And in most cases those who will want you are those who are way off from what you want...u no get luxury to dey picky.

It is not as easy as many think

What part of it isn’t easy?

That’s what I did & what a couple of friends I know did...

Whatever I’m telling you is based strictly on Experience not hearsay...

A) OP doesn’t have a Paper Problem...

OP never said He had a Paper Problem. If he did then he would have never thought about going to Nigeria to Marry...

B) As far as I’m concerned Ladies abroad don’t have any phobia against Nigerian Guys...

Are there Girls that will turn you down? Absolutely Yes...

It has nothing to do with any Nigerian Phobia heck you can even say you’re from Africa without mentioning Nigeria.

Are there Girls that Avoid Black Guys? Absolutely Yes...

There are Girls that have #I don’t date Black Guys Policy & that includes both African American Guys as well as Nigerian Guys

(C) Some Girls are above your league... FACT

This is not Nigeria...

You have to be realistic with yourself...

You don’t expect a Lawyer OR Medical Doctor to marry a Security Guard...

Does it happen? Maybe but the chances of that happening is usually very slim & isn’t something to hope on...

Heck most College Educated Ladies also want a College Educated Man...

The truth of the matter is that there are materialistic Ladies both Home & Abroad...

You cannot runaway from reality...

If OP has his Papers, has a Job & has an Apartment plus having a Car doesn’t hurt as well...

OP wouldn’t have any problem finding a Girl within his League except he is an introvert...

The only way OP will have his life together & still be struggling to find a relationship is if OP is aiming for Someone way above his league all things being equal...

OP the big question now is:

Are you aiming for a Lady way above your League?

That’s a thought provoking question for you to answer...

Ishilove:

Don't mind them. They are here ranting and raving about Nigerian women, meanwhile if you check well they are more likely than not mega assholes themselves.

I don’t really know who to believe anymore...

Opinions on Nairaland tend to be really biased...

Ladies on Nairaland believe Guys are the problem Meanwhile on the Other hand Guys on Nairaland believe Ladies are the problem...

Op my best advice to you would be to go back & reconnect with one of the Girls you went to High School with...

You remember Amaka, Adaobi & Chineye...

Those ones that gave you a chance in High School...

They dated you because they love you because you didn’t have to spend anything on them...

Those are the ones you need to go back to...

Now if you didn’t have any Girlfriend in High School tend start attending Nigerian Churches & Nigerian Ceremonies called Owambe Parties...

Usually I will recommend Redemmed Christian Church of God, Winners Chapel & Deeper Life Bible Church if you’re based in the United States...

There are eligible Bachelorettes with Good Paying Jobs available...

You can start attending Youth events & develop familiarity from there...

But don’t go to Church & start womanizing, that doesn’t end so well because Bad News spread very fast especially in Nigerian Churches...

If the two options fails, then look around really hard & you should be able to find a White Girl that should be Marriage Material...

You can sign for Yoga Classes, Cooking Classes & even the gym...

You should be able to find someone as long as you’re outgoing...

As always just play your part & God will play his part...

There is no Magic Formula to finding the right woman...

RTSC:
See as dem spoil market for Nigerian based ladies.

The ones that scaled through earlier to Yankee or Europe would be thanking their stars they left before the market got spoilt.

cococandy:
You’re looking for who to subdue and dominate

E go red for you.

You don’t want chores as a duty but I’m sure you will want her financial contribution as a duty. You never start. Life go hard you so.

Biko Stop...

So Guys I have been listening to Andrew Yang who happens to be the founder of Venture of America (VFA) & a 2020 Democratic Presidential Candidate.

I'm particularly interested in one of his Policy called "Universal Basic Income"

Basically Universal Basic Income proposes a $1000/month "Freedom Dividend" to all U.S. Citizens over the age of 18 regardless of income or employment status.

I know we have Savy Business men on Nairaland...

My question is the Universal Basic Income Policy Attainable without Blowing up the Deficit...

The more I listen to him speak the more sense he makes...

My only worry will be that we would be encouraging Laziness for immediate gratification...

On the Other hand that also sounds like a good way to help the Poor Class & Middle Class who are the Backbone of the American Economy...

I mean if someone offers me $1000/Month Tax Free that equates to $12,000/Year...

I don't get to save $12,000 every year so this policy sounds promising...

But I need to know the Pitfalls & Drawbacks if any...

holuwasheyiWGP:
Am i the only one who feels like UEFA away goal is BS.I believe football is the same home or away. It's that Same field size,same leather ball,same 11 players.....
congratulations to Man U though
I cancel every PSG curse in my life in Jesus name

Mizwisdom:


PSG about to trash United


The most useless club in EPL

Hide your face...

LesbianBoy:
See the crowd viewing this thread

Nigerians like bad news

Some people will suffer heart attack tonight...