₦airaland Forum

jazinogold:
hmmm


my mum is too religious,over 10 pictures of jesus christ hanging on our wall,i grew up thinking he was my uncle.

ArabMopol:
For bless my future wife this way and I will give u one of my child as an offering

ceejay80s:
i can smell somebodys sister own too from here,
guess who's sister?

StephanieLuv:
We are women, what do you expect. You expect her to reason like a man




Nope we feed on Grudges that's why we are called Bit*ch




To me that's her fish brain at work, don't blame her.

rawgurl:
comparing them is a huge insult to Monolisa Chinda .

iLegend:
Probably guys. Hihi. Where did you get that smiley face from? Looks like you. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/29.gif

iLegend:
If I love you with all my heart you go dump me with all ya heart. Hihi. Guys are wise now.

iLegend:
I love you with 54% of my heart. Please kiss me. If you no kiss me I go vex o!

Orikinla:
She is the epitome of Black is Beautiful.
I lover her natural beauty.

delishpot:
Na wa, it's a nice time to be a man ESP in naija.


I have one kwesion, why is it that some societies are quick to say......

Ori omo L'oun pe omo wale
when they suspect it's the woman's fault there are no kids in the union. And ask her to allow hubby bang other women in a bid to make any of his sidebabes have kids and maybe the wife would have hers too.

But if it is confirmed that the man is the problem, the same principle doesn't apply. The wife is asked to sit down and fast and pray for husbands shooter to recover fast and do it's natural job. Why doesn't the Ori Omo L' oun pe omo wale apply to the man too?

PDF:
No sense whatsoever in ur contribution.

Pple who have been commenting so far understand also that a man can av a child without honestly knowing abt it for years (Tnx to the child's mother) But will a woman actually av a child and claim oblivion?

Receive brain!

abbey621:
It's not about my conscience, it's about reality! I don't know why most women are so overwhelmed by emotions that they fail to consider the consequences of their actions or inaction. All I'm saying here is that in most African homes, men make most of the vital decisions. There might be a need to consult the wife at times but mostly the decision maker is the man unless he willingly gives up that right. It's a God giving role, a traditional role and a natural role. Now don't get me wrong,serious issues like this one should definitely involve dialogue with one's spouse but for the woman to think she can use force to deny a man's legitimate child or in the name of jealousy or bitterness is just plain silly. Anything short of juju will not work . For the issue of not having a child for the man after some years, it is simple. This according to African societal values and tradition is a negative, she's already being judged, making her husband unhappy or bringing up outrageous demands might just be the catalyst needed to end it all! THIS IS AFRICA, FORGET ABOUT THOSE MOVIES YOU WATCH ON TV!

abbey621:
Once again you fail to see the bigger picture, this is not USA or UK! This is Africa, the male role has not been compromised here. 5 years of marriage no children of her own, that automatically puts her at a strategic disadvantage. Her best option is to use dialogue not force

abbey621:
I think you are forgetting one crucial fact, in most African homes the male is the key decision maker. He's just being courteous by asking his wife for approval. After a DNA test, he needs to bring his daughter home, half bread is better than none!

fratermathy:
God will help us. Delta State is very terrible in this regards. From secondary school to universities. A known teacher in Abraka is also guilty of this and I've told him that soon I'll expose him once I get convincing proof. He always brings young girls to his room. They sweep his room, wash his clothes and of course, service him sexually.

At Uyo, there's a pedophile who stays close to me. He brings girls of about 6-10 years home and locks his door. We won't hear a sound after that. I wonder about the mental state of women who release their children to him. This one's name is Mr Ukpe and children of 10 years or below are his speciality. I've also sent reports to concerned groups. I only need proof to arrest his ass now.


We need to start learning in Nigeria that these things are not NORMAL! We can't get away from them anymore. I won't rest in a country like Nigeria especially when I know I may have a daughter someday. God forbids! I'll devote my time to hunting down men like this and exposing them. Let them watchout for me.

LucifersTongue:
This one (and many other women) has fully accepted her second class status.

What a fucking shame!

drmikeadams:
...are you taken?

metallisc:
you want to cheat on me?... so somebody else will come and be caressing those beautiful legs i love sooooooo much and holding them apart in the air!!

Berbierklaus:
The oldest rule in the world

And has really been effective