Dear Nlanders,

I & my g.f have been in the rosiest of relationship for about 5years now! We are not too righteous neither are we damned sinners! But last year as we crossing over to the New Year... In one of our heartfelt discussion about our plans in the New year....

I said.... “ Baby! I would like US to concentrate more on our career than on LOVE and build up enough finance to at least get a better foundation this year”

She said.... “waooow.... that’s a great idea”.

NOTE I have already kickstart the yeAr with lots of work giving her limited time).... though we correspond because we stay together and she is a student while am a music producer (keeps me more at the studio than home)

Fast forward to last night I came home and as we lay and reminisce.... I decided to do our normal sxxtivity......

From no where...... She bounced my attacked and in my actual words she said.... “ “ Baby! I would like US to concentrate more on our career than on LOVE and build up enough finance to at least get a better foundation this year”

Men on the house Pls how do I explain what I meant? She’s my World oooo and am not ready to stop the hustle

IGpro1:
There are enormous benefits in having many instagram followers.

Am kick starting my music career this Jan.... would benefit me alot

GhettoG1:
.

@OP. Thanks for leaving me confused

Marlians come forward....
The rest .............

Am kick starting my music career as early as January. Been managing to put it up it’s not been easy as regards financing... actually am looking out for a graphic designer who would actually believe me and work with me as a team....

Finance aside!!!
We will be a TEAM and I bet you what you see
You would like

I need to design a song cover urgently please

Randy100:
kindly pass the message to Femi.

This was it

HarunaWest:

Except the contract is with a shuga mummy, how does securing a contract stop someone from marrying...I don't get it...you and your friend are mad gan.

Like this.... Femi Dey mad gan

Ladylite:



There is no contract that cancels the possibility of marriage. So the money would be partly paid o... This is a very simple issue.

This involves traveling out for at least a duration
Of 6-8yrs

AwkaetitiBabe:
They can marry and suspend childbirth for now. Quite a very simple stuff. They can renew their vows lavishly when the millions dey.

Dem Dey marry with packaging money??

Randy100:
Femi should impregnate the girl and everybody will be happy.

Na wetin me go do

MARX77:
First of all, you don't need to have your life completely established before you go into marriage, femi should talk to his girl or at least propose if he actually intends marrying his girl.

Exactly why he needs to hear some opinions here before

Offpoint:
If you have time, kindly flip your phone upside-down and read this thread backward.

Love ur name bro

Prec1ous:
This is confusing, he got a contract. That is money and stability in the picture already.

So why can't Femi marry his woman of 7years now?

Fours years study in the UK
2 years mastering
2 years tour camping...

The details I can’t really give but This has been his dreAms...

Ladylite:



What was he waiting for for 7+ years

This is an issue. Why date a guy for 7years and now story for the gods concerning a contract... He should marry her.


She needs engagement or introduction. If he goes for a fresh new girl then he is a yoruba demon.

From secondary school till Femi grad oo.

Femi is not yet financially ok to settle down that’s why he can’t miss this opportunity

donbachi:
femi wan use dat langua take hold her for work...10years.

No be langua. The girl knows

faithfull18:

If you were the girl's sister, what would you advise?

I won’t lie. Femi na my guy and this contract is worth it. The girl in question is about 25years. Femi is 30

Femi is been dating this girl for 7 years
It’s the rosiest of relationship have ever seen
They supported each other financially n emotionally
The girl has secretly been wishing for Femi to propose to her.
It’s obvious to the point am already advising Femi to do so...
But Femi just landed a contract that would take at least a DECADE to actualize. (Million-dollar project) before he can think of Marriage which he was almost considering and the Girl know about it.
Femi should be kick starting by January

Now the issue is that the girl travelled and dropped a note for Femi..... saying Sje needs a break to actually think through it but it’s obvious That she can’t wait that long for Femi and Femi needs our Candid advice as he wants all party to be fine before he starts.

How do he respond her please.....

benodic:
@ lyrical






All energies are from God. The pure spiritual energy flows down from the ocean of love and mercy as one pure stream of light and sound and as it reaches the borders of the lower universes it splits into two streams, the positive and negative.

This two streams or forces are necessary for soul to have the experiences it needs to awaken to its birthright. Without darkness you cannot appreciate the light and without hatred you cannot appreciate love.

The Kal force works to entice Soul to remain in the lower universes while the ECK force works to free Soul to return back to the heart of God.

Insightful thank you alot

benodic:

Life in the lower worlds is made possible by the interaction of two powerful forces: the ECK force and the Kal force. Positive and negative. Love and power.

ECKANKAR- Ancient Wisdom for Today

Should I mentally regard negative energies which is almost seen as the backward or devilish energy as a POWER FORCE?! KAL

My studio equipments

The church as regards the Bible to tithe symbolizes a lot. Not just the edifice!!

You can chose to tithe in so many ways like visiting the orphanage homes, training a kid not yours, what matters is not what you tithe or to whom BUT SACRIFICING A PERCENT OF WHAT YOU RECEIVE TO UNIVERSE!!!

Touts on uniform

Abeg I don buy the phone

Make una settle una differences

Star boy Dey for you

That soundman alone fit make girl craze

Davash222:

Advice me on how to be a billionaire without working.

Are you feeling like a Billionaire Already??

If not, then stop all you doing, all your work and train your
MIND.

thats all you need BRO.....

what you feel inside gradually manifest with time and purpose

successking401:
Lol@ Advicel

try me

czarina:
There is already a similar thread in family section. Go there.

ok

In the Spirit of the Yuletide.....
am wondering if we can Spare some of the items we no
longer use by listing what you chose to give out and how it
can be redeemed FREELY..................

Someone Out here Might need what you DISCARDing.....

Tainku....

Wish i had wat to give EXCEPT ADVICE......

FINALLY I GOT THE LONDON USED iPHONE7 128GB for Exactly N85k

I PRAY IT WAS THE WISEsT CHOICE AS I CHECKED THROUGH YOUR COMMENTS

THANKS A LOT to evetyone for their pricelsess Suggestions

I OPE IRS SERVES ME THE BEST

Timileyin1234:
Dem dey do u ni
Why are u increasing the money by 5k

i just checked the prices bro...
and as i dey increase budget, i dey increase taste

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