Hi Nlanders....
Who's been in Togo or can compare the quality of life in Togo with that of Nigeria.

As A young man of 30 married with a 5 month baby...

Would you advise moving to Togo if I have what it takes to get accommodation and run a little business over there.

Please your candid advice is all I need. Thank you.

Hey Nlanders,

I have a son coming by April and that would be my very first issue, he’s not here yet but I can’t describe how I feel, I would love to give him all the best I can.

So as an inexperienced young potential Dad, I will appreciate the Daddies n mommies in the house on how to give him/her the best out of life.
I believe someone out there, have one or two piece of advice…..

NB we are just about the youngest couple and sometimes our moms and dads way is old fashioned……

MufasaLion:
Since you didn't break up on good terms, I would advise you to do have the photo session at another studio. It's better to avoid future squabbles than to try and settle it.

Not in good terms.... in the s ends that am not the type of guy who keeps to distance relationship...... it naturally died off for me.....

Pierocash:
How did you pay for a job you didn't know who the person is?

Forget the relationship stuff you had with her, focus on the business side. You are meeting her now as a business relationship and nothing more. Except you did her some evil

No evil at all, different university actually killed the relationship naturally. And we haven’t seen for more than 6 years now so you can imagine . We peep ourselves on social media .

jazon:
Get another studio. She'll feel you are trying to make her feel bad.

Never knew it was hers, it was a new opening and a friend recommended her.... did get to meet her the first time.

chatinent:
If I were you, I'll pay for another photoshoot elsewhere.

I don't want sb to be doing as if they are snapping me and in the eleventh hour show me blanks as payback.

Hilarious

Hey Nlanders,
I got some photo shoot to do and it’s basically a pre-wedding shots with my loml. I just found out the studio we chosed which I never knew was managed by my Ex. I already paid down , and I just need your candid opinion, have you ever met your ex with your gf? How did it go?
Note: she will be the one taking these pictures and the editing and it’s my pre-wedding pics. She’s not married yet too and much older than this my new wife to be.
Advise me please. Women can be unpredictable, and I just told my gf that my ex runs the studio. Show doesn’t give a Bleep about it but my Ex.... we didn’t part on good ways and it’s been about 7 years we met last. She peeps my FB and know am
Hooked but I never knew something like This would come up. I wait for the comments . I don’t know if we are all grown up
Now .

Bathroom s*x seems better than the bedroom

Ladies now Dey make am easy cause they no Dey wear pants.....

Please am not really religious but was raised in the Catholic Church, I even attended a seminary school for about 5 years, after my university education, I was frustrated as started following the “yahoo trend”...
Now for 7 years, I have been working but nothing to show off just sustenance and eating fee.... no house no cars nothing... now some of my friend into this same thing has told me about going to bath cele soap , one even advise to go meet Alfa or native doctor to make your clients pay forever and be subjected to you! Now my friends am staying with recently went on to Lagos to get soap and oil perfume in our names including mine, but am skeptical of using the Soap, though it’s white with honey on top and oil perfume...

Please I need your undiluted truth especially from CCC members as regards bathing soap and use of oil, what is it’s significance? Because I believe every young boy using that is just to make money!
I ask again? Does this really work? And would I have to use it forever though I wouldn’t want to be a Cele number!

Please give me your advice from experience not from what you heard!
Shalom

Kobojunkiee:
So your friend did whatever needed doing to get your the soap, without your knowledge, and then gave you the soap to use but it's been only two weeks but you are curious to know the "science" behind the ritual, not the soap itself?

You say you follow the bible and pray for the Holy Spirit, yet you are undecided, why?

Bro this life is omniscience, we really can’t know all, sometimes you need patches and fragments from different religion to establish a firm believe in God and yourself! I have learnt a lot so far, it’s entirely left for me to be guided.

Thanks for all who contributed in one way or the other
God bless us all......

One certain thing I know is that religion no matter the denomination is only a vehicle to the “UNKOWN FORCE CALLED GOD”........ and there are the good and the bad ones in each of these religions, don’t think yours is the perfect!
We are here to learn! Not judge!

Kobojunkiee:
The fact is you already know, from your questions, that you are walking into a territory that is beyond that which God defined for you to walk in. Why do you hesitate now?

You sound like someone who already made a decision to do a freefall suddenly stopping to ask how he can protect himslef from gravity while freefalling.

What repercussions are you afraid of -you already walked into a zone where the rules are not clearly defined, but you already bought yourself the soap , so the only one standing in your way is your fear ?

I want you to understand something brother, one of my friend voluntarily did it for us , all I had to give him was my name of which he knew already, so he was actually trying in his own way of o out us on the “cele soap thing” maybe from his testimonies and confessions, so I am absolutely not aware of it till he brought the soap to me and said “this is yours”..... am an explorer of life, I blatantly refused to use the soap with them last two weeks because I am yet to understand the science behind it..... that’s the main reason I brought it up here, I totally know nothing about it, and need enlightenment. I was born a Catholic but I can categorically tell you that I have no particular denomination! I just study the Bible and pray for Holy Spirit to guide me.
Thank you though

More reviews from CCC members please........ this soap has been prayed on with my name and am still skeptical about it, once I get a divine guidance I will know.... so as a CCC member, is there anything wrong in using such perfumes and soap? Any repercussion? For how long would I have to use it if I start? Am weighing all my options and that is exactly why I brought it to this forum!

Kobojunkiee:
Pray on water and drink, on oil and handkerchief too?

Where did Jesus Christ teach these?

And how is water, oil and handkerchief that much different or better than candle praying, or praying to Angel's, dead people, pictures of Jesus or Mary. No be all of them be form of idolatry way Jesus Christ condemn finish i.e. putting your faith in unholy objects/beings rather than directly in God?

Brother you Made a whole lot of sense. Thank you

enilove:


Why going barefooted when in their spiritual garments ?

Why placing the phographs of dead people in the church ?

Why calling on the names of Angels when praying ?

Are these Biblical ?

I think the CCC members can answer that, but i don’t see anything wrong with that, the basically stand with the Old Testament

naijaboy756:
And for you OP,

Any soap or oil that aids you defraud others is overly demonic.

Christ is never in such arrangement. It is the gift of the devil and he doesn't give free items

Noted bro

enilove:


The temple you read in the old testaments was constructed to specifications and kept in the Holy of Holies inside the temple where a priest enters once a year with chains tied to his ankle , to draw him out should in case he falls down and die.
It is completely different from what is built by all the white garment churches in Nigeria and it can never be.

After death of Jesus on the Cross , God has destroyed the alters of old by making our bodies the temple of the Holy Ghost.

1 Corinthians 3:16 KJV
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?

Noted. Thank you

excel222:
This is one of d biggest problem among Christianity today in Nigeria, DIVISION! some says my own is d best and others claimed it is mine.. I can see you're member of mfm and trying to win someone to church and not to Christ, to the extend you have made yourself the judge to say this is a church and this is not a church. who even make you the judge to condemn a church that preaches Christ and teaches His way? My Bible make me to understand that, anyone or institution as in church that believe and confesses Christ is of Christ! CCC is one of them, or when you're there did them taught you satanic? Some many people like you and the OP spoiling the name of the church really need to change..

Dear... please I am only here to get an insight and not spoil an church name, matter of fact I was born as a catholic but right now I can say I believe all the good aspects of any religion, I don’t take all the catholic doctrine, I only take one which favours me, so am not judging but trying to know how and what is the science behind soap and oil perfume attracting clients to pay...... understand me please, am frustrated and almost about to start using it

excel222:
Op celestial don't practice evil but light or good, so if your intention of visiting the is of evil it will never work for you.. Never you go there..

Going there to ask for client to pay you endlessly, is that a good or evil intention?

enilove:


I had been to CCC before and I have relatives who were born into CCC but all to no avail.

The church is not of God and what they do there is purely satanic.

As for MFM . Their ways are all Biblical . There is hadly any church members that don't go there for prayers.

To some who are not true Christians , it might not sound right to fast and pray for 3 days without food but for a true Christian who wants God to settle his case , it is the way.

Matthew 17:21 KJV
Howbeit this kind goeth not out but by prayer and fasting.

THIS WAS WHERE I WENT THAT SOLVED MY PROBLEMS.

JESUS IS THERE TO MEET YOU AT THE POINT OF YOUR NEED .

LASTLY , YOU MUST DECIDE TO LEAVE SIN AND ACCEPT JESUS AS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOUR , IF YOU DON'T , IT WOULD ONLY BE A WASTED EXERCISE .

You make this sound as if you judging a church you know no foundation of ? What satanic doctrine can you pinpoint they do?

excel222:
So you think celestial don't pray and fast also? Or Mfm dont make use of oil (anointing oil) and other spiritual items for prayer like celestial? For your own information there is one close to me, every Monday morning I usually saw the members with a bottle of water b4 and after d morning service..

Thank you for understanding my view as regards MFM, please I don’t need any church advert! Am only asking if this works and they use the psalms often which is biblical too....

Brainard22:

Soap works oga, I know of a boy who made $175k in 7 days BTC o so soap works it depends on the location you went to

For real bro? In your field of work, have you used it? I need someone who has actually undergone the process. I can’t take what you said because you only know of “one boy “ .... how about you?

Brainard22:
It works

Are you a member? And how long till I stop using the soap if per adventure I go ahead with my plans!
Give me proof because I know most people intention is to make money.... so what do you mean by “it works”

Nemeka:
Except the devil gives you power you will not succeed in that quest.

Don't mistake me.
Look, what is the intent of the power you seek? To swindle another? God will never empower you in that direction.
In fact, I believe the difficulties you have is a result of you being FAR FROM GOD. God needs you now that mercy is still speaking.
"O Lord , I know that the way of man is not in himself; it is not in man who walks to direct his steps. O Lord , correct me, but with justice, not in Your anger, lest You bring me to NOTHING"
Jeremiah 10:23‭-‬24 MEV

Reconcile yourself to him and he will help you. Repent is the key WORD.

Still confused, contact me. Your life is precious bro

Thanks, this is a candid opinion and I would reach out to you anytime I get confused
Thank you

enilove:


It does not work. In fact , it will get you into more troubles.

I am above 50 years of age , meaning I know what I am saying.

Go to MFM prayer city for 3 days fasting and prayers , you will come back to testify , in Jesus' name.

Thanks for contributing sir, but have you seen, observed why do such before “judging”.... I respect you but AGE doesn’t sometimes mean enlightenment.

Just like going to MFM to fast and pray for 3 days... to some people, it might not sound right. Thank you

Please am not really religious but was raised in the Catholic Church, I even attended a seminary school for about 5 years, after my university education, I was frustrated as started following the “yahoo trend”...
Now for 7 years, I have been working but nothing to show off just sustenance and eating fee.... no house no cars nothing... now some of my friend into this same thing has told me about going to bath cele soap , one even advise to go meet Alfa or native doctor to make your clients pay forever and be subjected to you! Now my friends am staying with recently went on to Lagos to get soap and oil perfume in our names including mine, but am skeptical of using the Soap, though it’s white with honey on top and oil perfume...

Please I need your undiluted truth especially from CCC members as regards bathing soap and use of oil, what is it’s significance? Because I believe every young boy using that is just to make money!
I ask again? Does this really work? And would I have to use it forever though I wouldn’t want to be a Cele number!

Please give me your advice from experience not from what you heard!
Shalom

70k

Am an incoming Artiste and i would use the medium to seek advice on how to pilot my career without a record label!!

Some say “ you can’t make it big without a label”
I wanna prove them wrong!

I can only make a viral video of my song! Not an official yet due to low budget!

What average platform do you think I should drop a “banger” on! That would connect to practically Nigerian individual!!!

I just got one shot! And I need to shoot it accurately!

Please guide me if you can! Any advise would be highly regarded

yinkus6750:
A brand new Hilux will be jumping and flying , and that's what happens if the driver gets intoxicated by the cars performance.
Thank God no life was lost.
And hope it had a comprehensive insurance?

Young lads! I wish they had!

Breaking!!!!

Happened yesterday 21/6/2020 1-2pm at, the T-junction between Juhel company and Millenium Aluminums, Regina Junction. Awka,Anambra State!

According to the passenger, the car was just 2 weeks old and was the first time riding into the town from onitsha!
The driver was taken to the closest Amaku Hospital to check for internal bleeding as both passengers emerged with little or no scratch/cut!

Witnesses reasoned it might be due to over speeding as the driver lost control at the junction!

At the end of it we cannot question but Praise God that no live was lost!!!!!!

I physically inspected the car and would only advise that DURABILITY should be a watch out word for New car owners as evidently seen here, if not for the trusted durability of the TOYOTA HILUX, it could have been worse! No advert intent! Just my small contribution!

Peace

@Otem

Nairaland has always been where i get the headline summary of practically everything! Registered on the 14th oct 2008, (12years�) though am not a huge active fan of NL.. I only remember coming here anytime am bored!

I went psychic 2017! (Man smoked Colorado! DnT try that shii bro)..... the intervention of a psychiatric home brought me back to my senses after three days! According to my “blood” who witnessed it all, he said and I quote “those three days... I couldn’t look into your eyes because all I saw was �, you never slept for those three days and you was always checking your wrist watch which you broke later, then you always destroy digital devices, we had to hide our phones and laptops from you”.....
(Myself cannot account wat happened those three days! ITS JUST BLANK THREE DAYS!!)

Summary be say I Dey psychiatric home for about 7 months because I relapsed twice! Now what I understood was that EVERYBODY IS MAD! YOU JUST HAVE TO PRETEND THAT YOU ARE NOT! BEFORE YOU CAN BE RELEASED! ���
And to survive when you are out! You have to MAINTAIN AN OUTWARD SANITY. Or else bro... they throw you back in chains!!!!

The story too long that till today, he hasn’t finished the story, he just recounts what happens when it hits his memory so even till today.... the story never complete.,..

Back to the matter! After reading this DOCTUFOS!!!
I knew this was exactly why NL Has stuck with me!

I hear some people bring in religion into this.....

Bro! This KNOWLEDGE cuts ACROSS RELIGION GOVERNMENT EDUCATION CULTURE AND WHATEVER MAN MADE CONSTRUCTS WE HAVE BEEN BORN INTO! (highly logical and like they say, real recognize real) there is this gut feeling like “yeah, that’s true! But our overgrown ego wouldn’t allow us reason properly)

I understand too that it is hard TO IGNORE AND REFUSE A BELIEF SYSTEM that’s been established in your SOUL by your PARENTS TEACHERS SOCIETY RELIGION which when you look deeper you find out that it’s main purpose is DIVERSITY OF THE ONENESS!

Now think man and be LOGICAL.... ( what if our parents were wrong, OMG � and they taught us the wrong ideas )

I understand this because I had a similar experience and one sweet thing about this experience is that you get to find your actual PURPOSE ON EARTH! That’s just a tool for you to connect and pass the message!

Mine is not to write.... but rather to sing.....
I was given the gift of “MELODY”. I call it “compensation for your madness�” because each time I get mad.... I just start singing.....lolz

If you dey doubt check out on YOUTUBE my first song after I recovered “ YUGO - LAMBA (unofficial video) ��� (I don use style do promo) sorry @otem!!! When I blow!!!! 30billion for your account! I don’t even want to know you now till I have the money!!!!
Instagram... king_yugo17

Am taking my time to write this! It’s not easy!
So atleast give @Otem applause instead of attacking..... there are just two ways....
Read and believe
Read and disbelieve

All I know is I have read it and thank God for bringing me here!!!

BTW one guy @xioxing talked about 14million choiiiiiiiii check my song and let’s work Biko... I no need record label ooo and na EXACTLY WHAT OTEM IS WRITING HERE.... THATS EXACTLY MY SAME PURPOSE ONLY IN A MELODIOUS WAY...

Pls Igbos ... what was the cause of their deaths... and reason for being buried together...

Strictly for Igbos... pls be factual, am writing an educational journal