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Which state is this? 12k is ridiculous o

I taught for a few years and left that profession to learn a tech skill, and I'm well off now. It's a waste of precious time to be a teacher in Nigeria, especially those earning low pay. I know some big schools pay well, but they are very few.

Pronigerian33:
Those that collected 25k are lucky sef, they use to pay me 12k-20k, they Always deduct from holidays, late coming and unnecessary deductions...LOL let me tag my last month salaryy, though nothing dropped this month as kids are on holiday

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KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Since you don't like it, it's wrong for her to keep requesting for it. It's not healthy at all, it can cause you serious infections, especially viral infections of the throat. Don't do it again bro.

Update147:
Please I need opinion from both male and female cos this is one thing I have never experienced in my 33 years on this earth.

My wife whom we got married this year wants me to eat her p*say during sex.

Well I tried it but I didn't like the taste of it so I just could not continue. And I was also worried about the health implications of eating a woman's p*ssy. So I just stopped.

But being an observant man, I realize that she actually wants me to eat her p*say, and I am considering doing it just to make her happy and satisfy her sexual desires but mt question now is this.

1. The first time I tried it, I did not like the taste of it, so I want to know do all pussy have same taste ?? Or does pussy actually have taste in the first place ??

2. What are the health implication of eating a woman's p*ssy ?

3. Is it ok to spit out the saliva in my mouth during the process of eating her p*ssy or should I go ahead to swallow it

4. I need general opinion of any one that actually cares to share his/her opinion.

Thanks.

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Russia and China not backing Iran is not good for the Global South. If US backed Israel is allowed to overrun Iran, they won't stop there, they will capture the whole middle east and extend their grip to Africa.

What is almighty Russia and China afraid of? This is the time for the Global South led by Russia and China to stand up to US and the west because this is a defining moment in history. The US empire is falling, hence the reason Trump is not holding back or showing restraints - the gloves are off now.

pansophist:
I am quite surprised at the response from China and Russia on Israeli's first strike to Iran. The US will only give Israel a go ahead to strike Iran when it is convinced that Russia and China will not back Iran.

Something tells me that Iran has been sacrificed for Russia to have their way with Ukraine.

This is evident by the absence of the mentioning of Ukraine in the manifesto of the upcoming Nato summit in The Netherlands on the 24-25 June 2025.

For example, in the 2024 Nato summit, the bloc announced that Ukraine's path to Nato was ''irreversible'', pledging an additional 40B usd for Ukraine's defences.

Furthermore, Hegseth announced on June 10 congressional hearing that the US will reduce military aid to Ukraine. I can cite more examples, but it is clear than Nato is phasing out Ukraine as a failed project.

For China, the details of their meeting with Trump's negotiating team in London was undisclosed, but one thing we know is that China has resume sending rare earths to the US, albeit with a six month trial period.

Also, Iran is a member of the SCO (Shanghai security organisation), which makes it more necessary to assist Iran militarily.

Lets not forget that Russia helped Assad until they decided not to, and China helped Pakistan against India. So their silence with Iran is very suspicious.

If Brics and the global south want to rise against western gangsterism, then a comprehensive, security architecture must be created, otherwise, it is a complete waste of time.

China has a foreign policy of not aligning militarily with any country. They may sell you weapons, train your armies, but will not align with you in a bloc. For Russia, I do not see them aligning with anyone except with countries in the CSTO, but they will also train your armies and sell weapons.

So can this conundrum be solved? Will Russia and China back Iran same way the US is backing Israel?

Teaching job nearly derailed my career plan. It was one of my worst decisions ever. I wished I never wasted about 6 years teaching. I should have used that golden period to learn a tech skills. Thank God I left though.

Pentagon007:
I'm doing that shit now and I can't wait to quit for something better.

This job can kill future, body, spirit and soul.

Please do you know any university in Nigeria or abroad that offers free Masters Degree?

emmaodet:
I think what you need is insurance.
Do health insurance for your kids. 60k per kid with axa mansard, that way, you won't be scared of a child been sick.
You spent 200k on your kid within a week when 60k would have covered that.
You can also think of doing education insurance for your kids and life insurance for yourself

Is the 60k a one time payment? How does it work pls?

Fact! I'm only going to have 1 child and live my life to the fullest. Anybody that is not happy with that can hug transformer. Nigeria economy is going to get worse, people should stop having more than 2 kids max.

tensazangetsu20:
The man is a fool for having 4 kids and men can control child birth. What happened to getting a vasectomy after having the first kid. Nigeria is only going to get harder. 2 kids is even a lot for an average Nigerian. There has never been a time the economy of Nigeria has been good enough for the average person to adequately provide for 4 kids.

Bros you just painted a real picture of what I went through in 2024.
This year 2025, I will take care of myself first.

Bobodee09:
Is so bad that has a married man you can't even buy yourself new wears.

Throughout last year I couldn't get myself a new set of jeans trouser even tho I needed it badly despite having the money.
All the money I made last year 90% when into paying bills and household expenses.
It so crazy how you has a man you will have over 200k in your acc and you be scared to even buy yourself something of 10k cos of fear of the unknown.
In all of this my wife and kids still has many clothes they haven't worn I paid for you.

Last weekend my wife bought herself over 10 new shirt and when I saw it I reminded her how I couldn't even buy myself new jean....she told me nah me no wan buy nah.
It really hurt me cos whatever money I make the family expenses come first before my own personal needs but it isn't same for women.

I just feel marriage is design for men to suffer honestly.
People just taking from you and no one really care about what you need.

Hi, I know this thread is old, but I think this advice is apt.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Just use her phone to type “Leave my wife alone” he’d get the message and if you ran across each other the next day, just throwaway face then the next next day you can continue to greet each other.

Compliments bro. I do enjoy your takes on global politics, but it seems you don't comment frequently on geopolitics again. Are you fed up with happenings in the world?

pansophist:
I have heard you. Now feel free to go and annex Kaliningrad, or chase them out of Ukraine

Ibos and fake drugs are 5 and 6. They are now producing fake drinks and everything.

American democracy They are not different from Naija's version after all. Judicial corruption is rife in America.

Chai, yahoo pro max

Rubbish appointments

How did Christ approve tithing? Did Jesus collect tithe? Did Paul and other apostles collect tithe? Quote a scripture where Christ approved tithe.

IrepChrist:
I have my uncompromised honor for mummy Bekky but this ascertion is all shade of wrong. Tithing is a doctrine of Law not grace. Ofcourse Christ approved Tithing but their are wieghier part of laws. Clergy men and women should take caution so we don't drift.

So, it's possible to submit two samples? Will they collect one fee for both samples? I mean two samples would indicate that you want to do the test for two kids.

Sellfish:
250k first place to confirm paternity of a child an ex said was mine.. result was 99.9% positive

455k at 2nd place for confirmation of result from 1st place...this time I submitted 2 samples to test against my own sample...one was the child's own and d other was a female work colleague's own, which she gave me when I told her i neded an extra sample to ensure the DNA test was authentic ...only child's own came out positive.

Since then, all my life's purpose has been redirected to my son, because I am sure he is mine..little nigga is becoming my photocopy as the days go by ...

Money for the DNA test was well spent..at least I am no longer under any pressure to marry..my parents are now so busy with their grandkid that they no longer pressure me to get married

As for the boy's mother, we still meet up once in a while even though she is now married ..I am not sure her hsuband knows she has a kid outside sha

Don't do it bro, it will bring misunderstanding between you both.

DNA test remains a controversial issue in Nigeria and globally. The question is, how much is DNA test in Nigeria and where can it be done? Is it affordable?

Agba Denzel Washington. His movie 'The Book of Eli' was damn good.

MuMu ticket is showing the north special shege pro max. Peter Obi went all over the north to campaign, but Tinubu went to dance and the north still went for the MuMu ticket.

They wanted to teach Peter Obi and obidients a lesson.

The shege has gone round now.

When will this sit at home end? Ekpa is holding south east by the balls. Na Yoruba matter ibos dey carry for head, ordinary ekpa dey hold dem for blokos.

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Factcheck0001:
Good day everyone

I just want to pour out my mind about series of events that got me worried lately, I have a friend who happens to be a bachelor (I am married though) so on Sundays he will always invite me to his house to come and play game and have some drinks with our other friends too.

But lately I noticed something about his neighbour who happens to be a private school teacher, though I have been noticing it on a steady and I didn't know others were observing it too till something happened on Sunday and everyone voiced out.

On getting to my friends house last week Sunday, I observed that his neighbours wife and 2 children were outside, I greeted them and entered. After like 2 hours we wanted to go and watch match I realized the 4 of them are now outside with the husband, normally as per say we discuss football together so I asked if he misplaced the keys and he told me the landlord staying in d same compound locked the door cos they were oweing 5 months house rent.

I felt bad for them so me and my guys with him went to beg the landlord and the man made it clear that he has tried enough that because we came to beg he will give them the grace of 3 months to sort the bills or else he will lock it again and the only time he will open it is when they agree they are packing that very minute.

The landlord reluctantly gave us the key as witness, so we called the man in and discussed how he will make the payment, the man made it clear he's stranded, he said he collects 40k as salary and 15k for extra lesson every month and his wife collects 20k as salary but they use his wife's salary to sort the children school fees.

Many atimes I observe anytime we want to buy something from the landlady shop in front of the house, this guy comes to buy something but will always tell the woman I will sort u but since it doesn't concern me I lock up but the one of last week Sunday touched me.

I am not here to seek for funds for anyone but to implore us reading this to stretch an helping hands to private school teachers around us, those people are going through hell and they can't beg.

The man told me he stopped job hunting with the little 55k because it affect the family a lot anytime he travels for interviews

To tech savvy guys here, please which online course do u think that guy can learn that doesn't involve money because I intend to be giving him 5gig per week and we intend to get him laptop too but what online course can he be doing with ordinary android phone for now pending the time he will get a laptop?

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So Joshua has been spending all his time on Cuppy. No wonder they beat the shiit out of him.

I believe Putin knows that he must respond decisively by attacking NATO allies if Ukraine fire those missiles deep into Russia. Putin already said they will respond if Ukraine fire those western supplied missiles.

I saw BRICS news on Twitter where China also said they will support Russia if the war escalates, so we are potentially looking at WW3.

My thinking is that Putin will likely retaliate against NATO using nuclear weapons, because using conventional missiles may not be as effective to produce the needed impact.

The whole world will be badly affected if all the parties do not begin to de-escalate now.

pansophist:
I'm wondering what would be Russia's response if Ukraine strike deep into Russian territory with long range weapons supplied and coordinated by Nato.

As it seems now, the West has written Ukraine off as a collateral damage. Ukraine's only usefulness is to harm Russia as much as possible.

So Russia's retaliation on Ukraine doesn't hurt the West whatsoever. Ukraine is the ultimate shield to western aggression.

I also wonder if supplying long range weapons to western adversaries is a good move either. Russia should accept that it's a war between nato and them. And they have to pull all gloves off and go all in.

The weather strategy is to test the redline of Russia, and if it's a bluff, then they will increase their aggression. Until it gets to a point where striking Russia nuclear facilities becomes a norm, because Russia will not dare attack them directly.

If you're Putin, what will you do now? Remember, you must hurt the puppeteer, not the puppet.

pansophist:
Search for

"soviet storm. WW2 in the east (the great war)". Uploaded by the channel "starMediaEN".

Start from episode one.

Thanks a lot.

Please where can I find the videos to watch? YouTube?

pansophist:
I dey fine o.

For the past weeks, I have been binge-watching ww2 series, especially the invasion of the USSR by nazi Germany.

From ''operation Barbarossa'', to ''operation Bragation'', to the battle of Stalingrad, to the ''parade of the vanquished'', and the capture of Berlin.

I keep wondering, what the hell gave Hitler the belief that he could defeat the USSR—given the population, size, and battle hardened people of the USSR?

I think the same belief is what Nato is drunk under, hence they keep Poking Russia and want to try again to defeat Russia like their ancestors tried. Just that this time, even if they defeat Russia, mutually assured destruction is guaranteed. The ''Dead hand'' system exists for a reason.

It is difficult not to respect the Red Army for the price they paid, and anyone with common sense who can think independently can see it. These guys saved the world for things we don't even know may happen to the rest of us who are weak (especially in Africa).

Surprisingly for all my close to five years of interest in geopolitics, I am just hearing about ''the parade of the vanquished''. I didn't know Hitler's defeated soldiers were paraded in Moscow in such a shameful way. The mainstream has done well to hide it. It was such a shame. No wonder Hitler committed suicide.