₦airaland Forum

Sulele04:
You are an illiterate it is very obvious.
"Beat the rod, and spoil the child" gibberish I am sure that is a reasonable excuse to abuse children.

If in 2025 you think the best way to discipline a child is physical abuse it shows how inept, and pathetic you are. I am sure no country beats their children more than us yet we turn out scammers, cultists, corrupts individuals like no other I am sure those guys were not beaten in their childhood. Otondoo.

E no go far sha.
When you born your own children beat them anyhow you like, with anything from canes, to pure wood, knife and even pressing iron sef.

Just don't even as much as slap another's person pikin else anything you use your eyes see collect am like that you hear. Filthy scum

Don't mind him, the way we were raised has affected most of them. They believed that those beatings and physical abuse made them turned out well. So, they are going to raise their own kids too using the same method. Instead of them to seek knowledge online on how to raise your kids without beatings, even without raising your voice.
I'm glad I did some researches on better ways of parenting

codemaniacs:
My parents never slapped or raised there hands on me...

Not even for once? That's a lie! I don't beat my kids too but I can't say that I have never raised my hand on them.

tribe has something to do with it because the same way people from different religions can't tolerate each other is the same way people from different tribes can't tolerate each other...

in saner countries, her slaps will be treated as a crime of hate against the Yoruba boy.

have you read anywhere that P:eter Obi condemned the woman who was slapping the boy

There is no tribe in Nigeria that doesn't beat their kids, it is a cultural things found in all the tribes in Nigeria with no exception. But you can see few parents across all the tribes that don't fancy beating their kids as a form of correction or discipline

Ishilove:
I am having no conflict of opinions. My stance is arrest and remand in prison is an overkill. She was dismissed, and this is appropriate punishment. If not that the case has already gone far, she surely would not have laid her hand on any child in the next school that employs to avoid a repetition of what led to her dismissal in her previous place of employment.

As for the mother, I still insist she failed her child. Why did she have to go to her pastor to report? Why didn't she go to the school authorities directly, or if she doesn't want issues, confront the woman herself? Which right thinking parent will see this and keep silent? It was likely the pastor that insisted on reporting to the school because she was too cowardly to face her own colleague at work.

Coward? No! She was probably concerned about the fallout and given her situation, she was doing everything to prevent what later happened: escalation which could cost her job. This woman is a widow for God's sake. You are probably an independent woman with some level of power, you might not understand the vulnerability of women in this category

Vulnerability has nothing to do with this

Going by how the school treated her after video leaked by seizing her phone (despite not being the one who leaked it) and she still refused to implicate them, it was glaring she was protecting her job. That's being vulnerable, I'm just surprised that you didn't see the connection.

valarinz:
Ma Oga, you need to remove emotions and research what I'm telling you here. Used cars don't have warranty, they're bought and sold "AS IS"

Sellers however, SHOULD NOT, impede any form of inspection you want to carry out, that's the koko

If you buy a used car for a low price and enjoy it for years, hence getting better good value and lots of savings as opposed to buying brand new, you wont go back to the seller to add up funds to him abi

So, when you buy and it goes sour, you chest it too

When you buy a used car, you inherit both the assets and liabilities. The onus is on you to carry out a proper research and thoroughly inspect before paying. Don't rely on things like asking the seller if the car is perfect and he says "yes", it won't hold any water

The guy who started this thread, the seller fixed his car for him. That's one. But you haven't learnt anything from it.
You have the right to ask them if there is any fault you should know about which you should ask. They would probably say no any fault. If you try to make them commit, that's when they would change their attitude towards you and that's all what you need to see, the red flag. What's so difficult for you to understand here?

Okortor:
He obviously have one or two star aboki general as a godfather. Cos NDA no be for the poor. This life, just have money and connection

And those godfathers also made him emerged as the overall best in Pakistan? What a terrible mindset? Hater of success of others

MadamVanessa:



I think he should Omit that Buhari from his name and only used Ahmed Bature. I find it so disturbing when I see rational humans bearing such a name only meant for dogs and dullàrds.

The name has been working out for him so far.

I'm impressed! Proud of him

We4all:
Lies.

Which parts are lies in her responses?

She is looking for online donations.

Nothing bad or unheard of if she needs help and looks for online donations, she's a hardworking widow. She wasn't begging for alms before now, nobody knew her before now. She didn't report to the school or police, she hasn't asked you for help yet. Why hating on her?

MadamExcellency:
And you believe her. This hardly happens, slap may not be the cause unless certified by medical extermination, this remain assumption.

If I give you one dirty slap, you will never hear sound with that ear for the rest of your life because your eardrum will be permanently damaged

Ishilove:
This woman failed her son abeg. I don't know if she is a weakling, or if it is just condition that has made so 'gentle'.
This kid was failed by those who should have protected him.

Sulele04:
You said she shouldn't have arrested the teacher though that it is too much.

Ishilove:
Yes, and I haven't changed my stance. Her sack is punishment enough

You are confused. Only you are having conflicting opinions on a single subject.

That's a struggling powerless widow. You saw the part where it was mentioned that her phone seized by the school on Tuesday and released on Thursday and the woman still tried not to implicate the management. That's what happens when someone is in vulnerable position. You can't understand

greatiyk4u:
Hahaha
So you think abi?

They almost passed that budget now. Then again, look at their shares with old method and new method, you will the great difference

MasterJayJay:
Nigeria that is not sending money to them nko, is Boko Haram and ISWAP not destroying the country with terrorism?

Whataboutism is a diversionary tactic

NobleStag007:
Which part of my comment said I don't understand how wildfire spreads? If you have nothing to say.. just shut up.

Read the trump tweet on this issue..his old tweet.. you'll understand my point better

I knew what Trump said to the gov about taking proactive measures. You were insinuating something else

greatiyk4u:
There was no subsidy allocation in the budget Buhari signed and left behind, yeah Tinubu can send for supplementary budget but NASS equally has powers to reject..... .

Firstly, He didn't send it even if NASS was going to reject it.
Secondly, it was his policy to remove it, NASS wouldn't have problem approving subsidy on petrol for the remaining six months of 2023.
Thirdly, has NASS ever rejected things like that or anything for that matter? Even tax reform that would affect all Northern states negatively almost sailed through

valarinz:
Used cars are bought and sold "AS IS"

There's no warranty for used cars, the onus is on you to carry out proper inspection before purchase

There's no way one can "intentionally hide a major fault" in a vehicle like you claimed, you either got carried away by the blings and bought out of excitement without inspection OR you went along with either an unqualified technician or incompetent one or both

Your intimidation tactics will most likely backfire, don't even bother

Moneyboyz:
I fixed it and the dealer paid for all the repairs. The car has sound engine nonetheless everything else is perfect.

That's fair in my opinion

valarinz:
Used cars are bought and sold "AS IS"

There's no warranty for used cars, the onus is on you to carry out proper inspection before purchase

You are making this one up on your own. You would ask them if there is any fault you should be aware of and if you notice it before so and so date, you would return it. Let it be on record. They would tell you to forget about it and move forward. But the buyers are always too eager and forget to take care of this aspect before parting with their money.

There's no way one can "intentionally hide a major fault" in a vehicle like you claimed, you either got carried away by the blings and bought out of excitement without inspection OR you went along with either an unqualified technician or incompetent one or both

Your intimidation tactics will most likely backfire, don't even bother

Of course, some faults wouldn't be noticed immediately most especially if it mended just for you to able to leave their premise with your scrap. Bottomline, buyers shouldn't be too eager to part with their money.
I have bought fairly use vehicles at least four times and that's has always been my method. Immediately they refused to assure me and they became angry or irritated, I knew it was a packaged gabbage and move on

proeast:
Sorry, you're the ignorant one. South West is not just the ritual capital of Nigeria but also the kidnapping capital of South.

After NW and NE, the highest number of kidnappings and consequent ransom payments occur in SW. Nobody who lives in Nigeria and is fully informed will argue these facts!

Can you see now why your life might be a total failure if care is not taken. The stats was about kidnapping and ransom payments, you're mentioning ritual. Are you delusional or something?

YouAreNobody:
lolzzzz....the delusion of the average yoruba man needs to be studied in higher institutions. Go and ask your brethren living in the villages what they're suffering. SW doesn't begin and end in Lagos

I'm in Osun state, tell me something new. The kidnappers that have been arrested in Lagos environment were your brothers and they have been weeded out. The few ones that happened outside Lagos state were carried mostly by other tribes other than Yorubas. And Amotekun made sure that they there was no place for them to hide in SW

Dpharmacist:
75% of Life’s Success Isn’t Taught in Nigerian Schools. This is Why You Need to Learn Beyond the Classroom

It is not taught anywhere

Trump's promise of hell fire in Gaza started early in Los Angeles, not bad

Bobloco:
Oh! This is what we Nigerians have now been reduced to.

It shall never be well with those who worked for, supported, encouraged and inflicted this calamitous T-Pain regime on Nigerians.

Infact, It's already not well with them.

We've warned you guys to stop making this kind of comments, it portray you as weak minded person. Who told you that your choice of presidential candidate wouldn't have been worse? Why cursing the people for exercising their right to vote most especially when candidates could promise the electorates one thing but start doing something else

Hear this mad man o

proeast:
What is 39 million naira compared to the billions being paid in the North West, North East and South West States??

South West? Go back to sleep. The few cases of kidnapping recorded in SW in the past were even masterminded by your brothers. 2024 cases were even infinitesimal if it occurred at all

Well, they are all millionaires, ransom payments from one millionaire to another shouldn't be a problem

Nazgul:
95% of people selling their cars is because it's faulty. They've repaired and repaired and are tired of repairing it so they'll just put it up for sale.

That's why I tell people to avoid Nigerian used cars cos na problem you de buy. They money you'll spend in fixing it would exceed the amount you spent in buying it.

Go to apapa those cars coming in from the ship, negotiate with a dealer, pay and carry your car home. You'll use it for up to 2 years before it starts giving you any major issue .

Two years? For a car that you're using privately? I doubt it except for the lack of maintenance

Berankis:
Is buying a car from a yahoo boy the new trend now? I hope someone will not buy an accursed vehicle. The end may not be good o....

Superstition. Lol
Yahoo boys will always get broke if money doesn't flow steadily and they will be selling off their properties to maintain until nothing is left to sell or hit it again

concho:
What’s wrong with these dealers?

Why can’t they be upfront with the owners and tell them that the car they’re trying to sell is scrap? Why is it so hard for them to be honest with the owners ? I don’t mind buying a car with a bad engine, but the problem arises when it’s sold at the price of one with a sound engine.

I remember when I wanted to sell my van. The first buyer who came, I told him to look for another van. The second buyer mentioned he had borrowed money and needed a van for hauling, but I still advised him to find a different one. Eventually, I sold it to someone who only needed it for body parts, and we’re still friends to this day.

They want to make maximum gain from it. So, to them, rip off is all fair game

Babatundehy:
Oh well, Nigeria or anywhere else, people rarely sell their cars because they are sick of it and want to get something new, used cars market is where you need a good and trusted mechanic, luck and prayers.
Some sellers will sincerely tell you what the problem is, many others will make God their witness stressing the car is perfect even when it is far from that.
Foreign used? A used car is a used car, cars start to wear the second they're driven off the lot, and like I said, these foreign used cars often have their own issues, we just tend to want to believe it is the jealous neighbour or wicked step mum that has looked at the car with evil eyes lol, or some unskilled mechanic did something.

Personally, I think you are trivialising this issue of sellers of Nigerian used cars by saying that foreign used cars (and their sellers) are in the same category. May be you have forgotten that many Nigerians don't even know what new cars/vehicles look like. Tokunbo is our common new motors in Nigeria because they the closest to new motors that majority of Nigerians could afford. The difference between the two is like difference between the ground and the space.
Less than 10% of tokunbos in Nigeria could have hidden issues while over 90% of Nigerian used could have hidden issues. What are you even saying? No be foreign used cars later becomes Nigerian used cars?

Moneyboyz:
Bought a 2017 Lexus Rx350with 58000 miles only to find out the engine block (aluminium part) is broken and they sealed it up with glue.

Also it's an accident car, has lots of sensor light on I didn't check well until I took it home.

What did you do after finding out?
You should have taken it back with the involvement of police and court threat since they intentionally hid all these major problems from you and presented the car as faultless

firstolalekan:
Dey play

Unless the car is in good condition and very neat. How much is tokunbo corolla 2003 or 07 now?

Brilliant007:
I step out of Lagos searching for a reliable camry 2004. I saw many dealers on Jiji and nairaland. I visited each of them with my reliable mechanic.
After checking several cars, we discovered that none of the Nigerian used cars is worth buying .
They always have one problem or the other. The most common is bad engines.

Many dealers even promised to give my mechanic 100k behind my back to convince me to buy this melon car.

That's the problem, there is no honesty in Nigerian market for fairly used Nigerian cars, they must hide the car's problem from the potential buyer like it is normal to do so.
In a decent society with correct moral compass, they would tell the potential buyers the problems such cars are having and give the prices accordingly. It will then up to the buyers to decide if they want go for it if they think they have a good bargain and can fix the problems.
But in Nigeria, a faulty car that should go for 1.5 million naira would be presented as faultless car or a car with minor faults with 3 million naira last price. Greedy bastardss and dishonest people everywhere

They don't know how to help society and you would still some mumus coming out to tell you that he doesn't owe anybody any help like Bill Gates owe Africa any help.