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blaise26abj:
I would sign the divorce paper in a flash ! Good riddance to bad rubbish ! That wife is a devil . He has to leave her as quickly as possible .
How can you divorce your husband because he has a different political view from yours ? It is the height of witchcraft.

Not when you had to deal with all what the man narrated above. You would be weak. It will take him many years to recover and balance again, not just the relationship but other aspects that he is concerned about.

lexy2014:
What of the action of divorce? Are there no consequences?

The wife already knew that the consequences of that divorce would overwhelm the husband and she went for it.

cococandy:
That’s how many of them vote against their interests. His parents are on disability and he’s voting for Trump just to “own the libs”. Now he’s got what he wanted. I hope he has money to support his parents when Trump cuts funding to whatever disability benefit they’re on.

Sometimes as a human with common sense, you just have to humble yourself and tradeoff when the consequence of not doing so is grievous. Stand by your decision and face the consequences, that's my motto.

GravenDos:
Hello Madam, Donald Trump's your President, deal with it 🤒

Trump is now the president, she knows that and I'm sure that she has accepted that. It is now the husband that will face the consequences of his "actions" . See how he is wailing

Zonefree:
The woman should go and die!

Lol. Only the husband knows what he's dealing with right now and how fvcked he is

Fineman2:
Trust me, actions have consequences and some people will go extreme to express their displeasure

He should have listened to his wife when it mattered most since it looks like he has so much to lose if he doesn't. It is called tradeoff

mytime24:
If deji is a PDP member

What is bad there 😔

Wanting to be secretary is not the issue but criticising Wike because he didn't give him the support he wanted is the information here. Like Wike is telling us the reason Deji is attacking him

chidiokay:
i guess you are not married nor in any long term commitment, if everyone should walk out of marriage the moment they don't feel love nobody will remain in marriage, everybody go don divorce
In every marriage there will be that time the love go just collapse like national grid, naa commitment, understanding and communication go just help una scale through

When it comes to marriage i see the whites as inferior and low thinkers, a life run solely on "feelings" can never have a direction

According to Op, there was no point in time he thought he loved her, from the past till now. He even said that she used pregnancy and threat to kill herself to force him into this marriage. And the Op feelings for her haven't changed positively till this hour. What else do you people want to hear from him? And if one kills the other tomorrow, all of you will still be asking question that why couldn't they divorce before it got to that stage.
As for me not being married or not in a long term commitment, my relationships experience is rich and interesting enough to write a story book . I follow my guts, I follow my heart, I don't allow pressure from anyone to dictate my decision.

And when soldiers start their own, you will see their brothers here wailing and crying

madridguy:
If you know what is good for you just go and apologize to your wife, mother-inlaw and the entire family.

If you know you cannot do their culture, why marry their daughter?

While you were sleeping with their daughter without protection, pouring your seed in her body what result are you expecting?

After that, did they put a gun on your head to pay and bride price and marry her?

I will suggest you don't make unnecessary enemies, just try and calm down and see what you could do.... Life na gently no be everything be gra gra my brother.

May be you didn't listen to him or you just didn't agree with him. He married her because of the emotional blackmail about the threat of committing suicide

Ginaz:
You should have respected her a bit, the outbursts are not needed in this critical time that her dad is dead. She needs you for comfort and peace , you can tell the family the extent you can assist financially without degrading her worth before her people.

You did wrong. Despite you don't love her , she's a human with feelings. I can't imagine being reminded how I'm not needed constantly by my husband, she's going through a lot.

Be kind or rather seek a divorce if you can't stand the marriage anymore.

He will eventually get what he is waiting for which is death

BlindAngel:
She hasn't seen her dad for more than 10 years and counting, he was In another state, the day of our traditional marriage (February) was when she and her biological sisters saw him last. He was seriously sick, since February until he gave up the ghost today. He was in town ever since they brought him to collect the bride price, seriously sick. Since February until date my wife and her sisters none went to see him, not even once, they claimed he abandoned them when they were young, that whenever they went to visit him he'd lock the protector and talk to them inside while they're standing outside. I repeat since February until date they haven't set their eyes on him despite the fact that he was seriously sick and in same town with them.

That aside whenever my wife is disturbing me and I reminded her that I'm a loner and loves being alone, she'd get furious and always tell me that I'd die a very slow, lonely and painful death. This words still ring a bell on my head, and thinking about how they totally abandoned and hates their dad because their mother hates him is another thing that'd make me take her threat seriously.

You don't. At least, not yet. You're still whining, when you are tired and ready, you will do something about it.

BlindAngel:
As I'm talking to you right now, they are saying all manners of words, that I disrespected them and the they won't pity me with the list they'd give me.

That aside, to be brutally honest with you, I didn't mean to disrespect them, I have tried all manner of ways to walk out of this marriage but I don't see that happening. Maybe this will be the deal breaker, I won't do any of what they mentioned, absolutely none. I believe it'd make them hate me and by God's grace I pray and I'm praying hard for them to talk about returning my bride price to me.

If you don't want that marriage, nothing should hold you back. Not even the threat of suicide. Life is too short to live a life of misery and unhappiness. Go find your happiness wherever you think or believe it is

otipoju:
It's okay. Let me let you into one truth today. 95% of men regret their marriage and wish they married someone else.

You have to take responsibility for your actions. Nobody forced you to sleep with her maybe you were tipsy when you did. But you got to own your actions.

She is the mother of your child and that is something that you can't change abd you have to ensure that the relationship is healthy. If not your child is gonna be dealing with some serious emotional baggage that will prevent him from amounting to anything meaningful in life.

I know you are angry, but you have to apologize to your wife for humiliating her like that in public. Try and make it up to her by doing stuff for the burial if you have the means

She is already a broken woman based on the damage that her father already dud to her, you don't have to do the same. She will just kill you and herself one day.

It is not her fault that she us not physically attractive and rubbing it in her face us killing her everyday and perhaps that is why she us wishing you a slow and painful death.

Don't think she cannot poison you one day. You are really pushing her to the limit.

Manage the situation better brotherly, for your own good. What is destroyed is hard to fix.

Even if she no dey physically attractive, that is not what you will tell a woman to discharge her...na you carry yourself ho meet am and in the spiritual courts she go win you hands down ooo.

Spiritual justice no be by who sabi pray pass ooo. All that one about her other sisters and their baby daddies will not count if she judge your matter.

Na case by case. You need to seriously appease her for your own good. If not it is guaranteed that you will be cut off slowly as she said...she is actually describing the pain you are giving her by your harsh and insensitive words...you are killing her slowly and painfully.

Manage this thing with wisdom of manhood. No be sey you dey fear.

You don't force people to remain in a loveless marriage, otherwise it will end in tragedy one day. He should man up and do what he wants before someone decide to murder him while sleeping or poison him.
This is why I like white people, they walk out of marriage the moment they don't feel that love anymore

Earthkumy:
You are totally careless

What did your wife has to do with all this?

You should have work way from the family

But stupidly acted so childish as to rubbish your wife

Anger lives in heart of fools

You still haven't got it. He doesn't see her as his wife, he probably never will

kevwemike:
Guy wat is wrong with U? Why are U talking like a child, U don't like the girl but Ur dick like her pussy to the extent U got her pregnant, and U are here saying that she force u into the marriage, u dey here urself?

People get each other pregnant and have kids and they don't end up marrying each other, from Nigeria to USA. Suicide threat is a bollock, dude should walk away any time he's ready. Na by force to remain in a loveless marriage? Mtcheeew!

The truth is that wat the family counted for U is the right thing to do as in-law , just try and do the needful is Ur in-law.

If he refuses to turn up or drop money, the children should allow their father's corpse to rot.

004gist:
Is a known criminals who is a threat to Nigeria security systems.

Well, as far as I remember, he was a well decorated officer. Let the accused defend himself, you don't know where he had been, what he had done before establishing Airpeace. You don't know how he made his money. It might his past catching up with him, it might be nothing after all

EshjayLee:
This people will not stop until they carried out their evil plans. Whenever any African is breaking boundaries, it turned a taboo for them.

Because of baby Airpeace airline, right? . There are far bigger airlines in Africa that had been around for a long time and their operations are not threatened by "this people". Let suspect defend himself. You can't claim to know the source of his wealth that made him venture into airline business

power44t:
Keep destroying your own you hear . which agency did Allen tole those money from? keep deceiving yourself na.

How can a criminal be your own? Because he established airline? Let him go and defend himself. And you would be among the people who are accusing Tinubu of being a criminal

Mrexcell:
You dey mind the american hypocrites? I was carefully reading through the story to see if he stole from anyone but couldn't see any. Once it comes to the US national interests u will see US institutions turning into lame ducks.

You wanted to read about how he defrauded American citizens from an updated news?
Why don't you go Google search if you need the full detail of his alleged financial crimes?

004gist:
We won't arrest him.
He has not in anyway harm anyone in Nigeria, was not a politician rather he has contributed massively to the development of an economy

All our politicians that steal and buys houses in USA we never hear pim from them

The Chicago drug lord that settled them for Chicago drugs related offence they didn't order for his arrest

I wished you said the same thing when USA government wanted Abba Kyari extradited to USA merely because of his association with Hussyppupi.

TheChameleon:
Maybe the criminal herdsmen met with armed herdsmen who wasted them

Actually, the report said that the armed herdsmen are the ones giving wotowoto to dem criminal kidnappers thereby providing some reliefs to the farmers in the area. Kudos to them

Not a bad discovery though

Emma09:
Na to reduce sugar intake. But come to think of it, which Nigerian food no contain Carbohydrate? Very few and ffood dey very expensive. Agbo Jedi intake too to suppress Sugar is not a bad idea. Lolzzzzz.

There various types of sugar. Carbohydrates (Polysaccharides) which you're talking about is not the problem unless one is already suffering from diabetes. Starchy foods are examples of Polysaccharides

These bandits are crazy people, worse than Boko Haram in my assessment

Buhari4dullard:
That Refinery was built with Nigeria's money

Stop lying to yourself, that refinery almost wrecked Dangote financially. That refinery turned his hair into grey at faster rate than what the process should have been normally .
I was at his cement factory during the construction, tens if not hundreds of his trucks loading cement everyday for years for the refinery alone!

Mumu idiotic man. NNPCL is a part owner and you were gladly and proudly lying to the whole world that the refined products of Dangote refinery was substandard!

His Highness Prince Mohammed bin Salman, Crown Prince of the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, Your Excellencies, Majesties and Highnesses, I will not talk about the historical and established rights of the Palestinians and the inevitability of adhering to them, or about the steadfastness of the Lebanese and Palestinian peoples and our urgent and immediate duty to support them, nor about the legitimacy of the resistance in both countries, and what it embodied in terms of honor, dignity and progress, and what it presented in terms of icons with its honorable leaders and brave fighters.

I will not talk about the Nazism of the Zionist occupiers, their crimes and their artificial entity, nor about the West’s transformation from a supporter of this entity and its crimes since its inception to a direct and declared partner in them, as this will not add anything to what the majority of Arabs and Muslims know and what many others in the world know today

As for our summit, a year ago we met and expressed our views, condemned and denounced, and for a year now the crimes have been ongoing. Are we meeting today to replicate the past and its events, or to change the course of the coming future and its prospects? Last year we stressed the cessation of aggression and the protection of the Palestinians, and the result of the year was tens of thousands of martyrs and millions of displaced persons in Palestine and Lebanon. In 2002, the Arabs put forward a peace initiative, but the response was more massacres against the Palestinians

In 1991, we decided as Arabs to enter the American game of goodwill by participating in the peace process in Madrid. Our peace was an incentive for their wars and a legalization for their settlement. This does not indicate a mistake in our orientations, but rather a deficiency in preparing the tools. Our tool is language and their tool is killing. We say and they do. We offer peace and we reap blood

The remainder of the same results requires keeping the same tools used, but changing those results, which is what we all seek, requires replacing the existing methods and mechanisms that have been tried repeatedly and are repeatedly ineffective. If we agree on the principles proposed, how do we transform them into application on ground?

To define its goals and the results we seek, to define the tools available to achieve it, to define the target group that will transform it from intentions to actions, from a plan to an achievement, and from a statement to reality. The goals may seem elementary to any of us when mentioning the rights that are being violated for the Palestinian people, but what is the value of these rights as a whole when the Palestinians do not possess their basis, which is the right to life?

What is the value of any right given anywhere in the world in any field, to the dead?

This means that while it is important to work to restore all legitimate rights, the priority now is to stop the massacres, to stop the genocide, to stop the ethnic cleansing. As for the tools, I believe that we have them, as a community, both popularly and officially, Arabs and Muslims, countries and peoples. What we need is the decision to use them if the entity refuses to respond to what was stated in our statement and agreed upon, which is expected, and to determine our options then... Do we get "angry" again? Do we condemn? Do we appeal to the international community? Or boycott? Is this the least we can do, or what? What is our executive plan?

Without that, we are inciting the continuation of the genocide and becoming indirect partners in it. We are not dealing with a state in the legal sense, but rather with a colonial entity outside the law.

President Bashar Assad's speech at the extraordinary Arab and Islamic summit today in Riyadh (part 2/2):

We are not dealing with a people in the civilized sense, but rather with herds of settlers who are closer to barbarism than to humanity

It is also incorrect to say that the problem lies in the current extremist government that has "lost its mind" and a people terrified by what happened on October 7th of last year. They all work with one ideological mind, a mind sick with bloodshed, sick with the illusion of superiority, afflicted with a split personality between hating Nazism on the surface and loving it as an organic part of it in reality.
Those are the targets of our meeting today and those are the problems. The problem determines the means, and the means are the basis of success. Here lies the essence of our meeting today, which I hope will be successful, and that we will succeed in making the right decisions, so that we are not like those who speak to the thief in the language of the law, to the criminal in the language of morality, and to the butcher in the language of humanity, and so that good intentions will not once again be a starting point and incentive for more death against the Palestinian and Lebanese peoples who have paid the price of good intentions and absent mechanisms over the decades... Peace be upon you

He's creating more problems

EmperorCaesar:

At least, she made history

No bigger reason to live than this


I used to think they have the tendency to age faster as well(Going by that rubbish they taught us in School about Twin Paradox)

What do they do over there during the day? Just sitting down Idle singing Psalms to Einstein, Tesla and Newton?


Kudos to these Brave guys!!!

Mumu talk. Do you know what she wants and how she would have preferred things to end for her? You don't know what she wants, so don't speak for her

criuze:
It was the PLO that rejected the two way settlement , hopes they reconcile and live side by side each other


And should stop inciting Isreal in order to elicit sympathy

Meanwhile Isreal is reserved with the rights to defend herself with anything available

When was that? A two states solution was just an opening to make way for Israel in the beginning, it was never their long term objective, don't deceive yourself

Good one from the Nigerian president. The world leaders are too docile for Israel's genocide, mass murders and ethnic cleansing. The rest of the world made it too comfortable for the Israel total destruction of Palestinians